Have you ever thought that you just don't have what it takes? Maybe you look around at other women who seemingly have it all together - they're consistent, they're motivated, they're confident and you think to yourself "I just don't get it. What do they have that I don't have?"
I have studied my most successful clients - women who once struggled to lose weight and create consistent healthy habits, who are now confidently maintaining those habits and keeping the weight off - and I've uncovered 12 characteristics they all have in common.
Twelve characteristics that are available to you too - TODAY. You can do this.
Get inspired to create habits that make you feel incredible in your own skin, to lose weight and confidently keep it off.
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We've all heard the phrase "age is only a number" and yet so many of us allow age to become an obstacle - just another thing that holds us back and keeps us from losing the weight we want to lose and creating the habits we want to create - habits that carry us into the life we want to be living in 15, 25, 40 years.
In this episode, I talk about what it really means to lose weight, get stronger and feel more confident as we age - and how we can make it our reality. Because, I for one, refuse to let age be a reason why I can't do something or why I don't feel good in my body.
I explore letting go of the restrictions we place on ourselves as we age - and three key ideas that continue to shape how I approach aging:
-Focusing on what you want as you age and building habits today that support the future version of you.
-Practicing a "having mentality" - appreciating the body and the life you have right now, using them to your advantage instead of waiting for things to change before you can change.
-Leading with curiosity above all else and seeing what you are truly capable of.
If you are ready to lose weight and feel healthier and more confident with age - let's talk. Schedule your free consultation today: https://calendly.com/wellnesswithabbeyh/freeconsultation
In this BONUS episode I invite you to re-think how you respond to feeling "behind."
I recently watched my son and his hockey team fight to come back in a game they were trailing 2-5. When they celebrated his teammate scoring a goal, bringing them to 3-5, I was shocked to hear a man cheering for the other team tell my son's team to stop celebrating. When I questioned his comment he said they "shouldn't celebrate when they are behind."
I couldn't disagree more. I think this is the most important time to celebrate. It's where we find energy to keep going. It's where we create motivation and momentum and more importantly, it's where we build belief in ourselves and what is possible - on the ice and in weight loss.
Listen to this special bonus message - and then go out and take that next step.
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Is the weight of mom guilt keeping you from creating healthier habits and losing weight for good? This week, we are diving into the real impact mom guilt has on us - and our kids. If you feel like you are giving and giving and giving and constantly falling to the bottom of the list and you never have time for yourself - this episode is for you.
I unpack why so many of us moms struggle with mom guilt and how feeling guilty (or avoiding the guilt!) is keeping us stuck in patterns and habits that don't serve us and keeps us from losing weight for good. But that stops here.
I share one simple motto that I live by as a mom and how it can change everything for you too. This is your permission to move through the guilt. To feel taken care of. To create the habits you want to create and lose the weight you want to lose - for good.
If you are ready to say no to the guilt and YES to your healthiest, most confident self, I want to invite you to work with me. Schedule your free consultation TODAY:
Are you feeling the weight of disappointment? In this episode, I explore how disappointment can easily turn into an all or nothing mindset and why it's one of the biggest obstacles we face in creating habits that last and losing weight for good. When we see disappointment as a failure, we spend time and energy spiraling in confusion, doubt and overwhelm. We indulge in the negative self talk of our inner mean girl that convinces us "I don't know" and "I don't get it." But when we think disappointment is out of our control, change also becomes out of our control.
I break down how we can take responsibility for the disappointment we feel and how when we do it can change everything. Tune in to discover how you can navigate feelings of disappointment in your journey, take responsibility and feel empowered to create habits that last, lose weight and confidently keep it off.
If you want to create healthier habits, lose weight and feel more confident in your body, let's talk. Schedule your free consultation today: https://calendly.com/wellnesswithabbeyh/freeconsultation
It's not the perfect plan or having just the right amount of time that helps you to achieve your goals - it's commitment. Commitment to showing up even when you don't feel like it, to face challenging days and not let them stop you, to knowing that you're choosing what's important over what's easy.
This week, I'm diving deep into the true meaning of commitment—not from a place of perfectionism or all-or-nothing thinking, but from showing up consistently for what matters most to you. I share a personal story of how a simple commitment to taking time for myself every day turned into a life-changing journey of self-care, strength, and resilience. We’ll talk about how to shift your mindset around commitment, let go of unrealistic expectations, and build a life that feels aligned, empowered, and sustainable. If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling short or struggling to stay consistent, this episode is for you.
I want to invite you to commit to yourself and your goals for the next six months. Join me in the Quiet Your Inner Mean Girl method where we'll transform your habits, your confidence, your weight and your life - SIMPLY. Schedule your free consultation to learn more:
This is the time of year that most people write off. It's when your inner mean girl gets loud with stories like "I'm too busy", "I don't have any time" and "I'll start in January" and while waiting and starting in January is always an option the real question is...why would you wait.
In this episode I explore the power of resetting and re-evaluating - especially this time of year. When everyone else is waiting, you could be creating motivation and momentum and when everyone starts in January, you could be three months ahead.
It's about gaining clarity, finding the desire, exploring possibility and giving yourself the opportunity to prove to yourself what you are capable of.
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Last month, I launched a challenge called 30 Days Proud, challenging myself and the women who chose to join me to do one thing, every day, for 30 Days that made them feel proud.
Today, I'm sharing my top 5 Lessons from 30 Days Proud.
These lessons have the ability to completely transform your journey, build motivation and momentum to create habits that last and lose weight for good.
Change can take time, but it can also happen in an instant - and these lessons are the greatest reminder of how quickly change really can happen.
Ready to create habits and lose weight simply - and in a way that works with your life? I want to invite you to come work with me. Schedule your free consultation and let's talk - about where you are, where you want to be and the simplest way to create the habits you want to create and lose the weight you want to lose. Schedule your consult today:
How often have you thought "I'm just not motivated" or "I don't have the motivation" only to feel disappointed and stuck in the same old patterns and habits and at the same weight that leaves you feeling uncomfortable in your own skin.
The most powerful motivation you will ever feel is an inside job. It starts with the words you speak to yourself, the decisions you make and what you choose to focus on all around you.
It doesn't require a lot of time or energy or a massive overhaul of your life. One simple shift in perspective may be all you need to create a ripple of motivation and inspiration that propels you forward - that replaces pressure with ease, guilt with trust and quiets your inner mean girl with confidence.
Today, I share a personal story of how I found inspiration in beauty and I created confidence in my habits, my decisions and my body through a simple shift in perspective.
If you are ready to lose weight for good, you have to join me in the Quiet Your Inner Mean Girl method. Your journey begins with a free consultation. Schedule yours today:
How many times have you told yourself "I don't feel like it" only to be met with frustration, guilt or disappointment on the other side? "I don't feel like it" is one of the most detrimental stories of your inner mean girl and yet it's so common.
In this week's episode we discuss how to identify when "I don't feel like it" is the best, most empowering decision and when it's keeping you stuck in the patterns you want to change. I share eight reasons why we tend to fall into the "I don't feel like it trap" and three questions you can ask yourself to make an empowered decision that builds your confidence and helps you to create habits that last and lose weight for good.
If you find yourself stuck in this “I don’t feel like it trap” this is your invitation. Schedule your free consultation, let’s discuss quieting your inner mean girl and creating a plan that works with your life and allows you to create habits that last and lose weight for good. Schedule yours today:
Fear is normal, but it may also be the thing that's sabotaging your weight loss. If you have ever feared failure. If you have ever thought to yourself "I don't know if I can do it, I can never stick with anything, what if it doesn't work?" this episode will be very enlightening.
I share a personal story about fear, how to acknowledge when fear is guiding you towards the best decision and how to recognize when it's keeping you stuck. Being fearless is unrealistic but this episode will help you to navigate fear with intention and courage to keep you moving towards your goals.
If you want to lose weight and confidently keep it off, you need to join me in the Quiet Your Inner Mean Girl method. Schedule your free consultation to learn more and receive your free blueprint to creating habits that feel easy to maintain and losing weight for good.
Have you ever thought that you needed more willpower or discipline in order to create healthier habits and lose the weight you want to lose? In this episode, I explore a powerful shift that has the ability to transform your entire journey from feeling overwhelming to feeling simple, doable and achievable.
When you shift from feeling proud then and there to feeling proud now you become the creator of motivation in your life. You build momentum and confidence. You connect with the small moments that drive big changes - and the consistency that has always felt hard starts to flow with ease. You'll hear the challenges that often keep us stuck and giving up too soon and the small shifts you can make to transform your habits, your confidence and what you believe is possible.
Listen in and if you haven't yet joined - join us in the 30 Days Proud challenge. It really is just the beginning. Join here:
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If you are ready to create the change of a lifetime, I want to invite you to come work with me. We'll create a plan that works with your life so you can create habits that feel easy to maintain and lose weight for good. Schedule your free consultation today: https://calendly.com/wellnesswithabbeyh/freeconsultation
Ready to feel healthier, more confident and PROUD of the progress you are making towards your goals? Join me for 30 Days Proud where you'll create motivation and momentum to reach your goals simply and in a way that works for you and your life...no matter how buys your life may be.
It's 30 days for feeling proud and it's just the beginning. We start tomorrow. Join the Facebook group today - it's where we will support each other and celebrate every step of the way.
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Have you ever found yourself saying "I was really good until..."
Life happened, things changed, the kids went back to school, activities started up again, schedules shifted - and all of the sudden the habits you've created and the progress you've made get thrown off track and it feels like you are starting all over again.
I want to help you to navigate life's transitions - without losing momentum - because it's not about doing it perfectly or without challenge, it's about doing it in a way that works with all seasons of your life.
This week, I'm talking about why transitions feel so hard, what's really happening in our brains during this time (and why your inner mean girl gets loud) and three simple things you can do to navigate transitions without losing momentum in your weight loss journey.
If you have ever felt like you "lose yourself" when life changes or you struggle to stay consistent when routines shift, this conversation will help ground you in confidence and with simple, doable steps to keep you going.
Ready to create habits that last and lose weight for good? I want to invite you to work with me. Schedule your free consultation to learn more:
Do you find yourself feeling frustrated that you don't have time for yourself? To create the habits you want to create and lose the weight you want to lose? Do you feel stuck in the never-ending cycle of starting only to stop and never being able to stick with anything? In this episode, I'm talking about the value of the time you have - no matter how busy your schedule is.
I talk about the ripple you create in your life when you believe the time you have is valuable and you use it in a way that is valuable to you vs. falling victim to your inner mean girl and the stories that it's not enough, it's not worth it and you never have the time. Those stories end today.
This simple shift has the power to create the habits, the weight loss, the confidence and the life you want if you allow it.
Are you ready to quiet your inner mean girl and create a plan that works WITH your life so you can lose weight for good? I want to invite you to learn more about how the Quiet Your Inner Mean Girl method can help you to reach your goals simply. Schedule your free consultation today:
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In this episode of the Quiet Your Inner Mean Girl podcast, we are uncovering some subtle unintentional "rules" that may be sabotaging your weight loss journey.
These unintentional beliefs often feel like the truth. They keep you stuck in an all or nothing cycle. They make your journey harder than it needs to be and often lead you to giving up.
You'll learn how to identify these "rules", the habits and the results they are creating in your life and how to rewrite them with awareness, purpose and intention that fuels your journey so you can create habits that feel easy to maintain and lose weight with confidence that it's lost for good.
If you have ever felt like you are doing everything "right" but still not getting the results you crave - this episode is for you.
Ready to lose weight for good - while living the life you love? Let's talk. Schedule your free consultation to learn more:
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I was coaching a client last week when she asked me what I thought was the difference between those that reach their goals and those that don't.
Without hesitation I said..."the willingness to keep going."
But I know this is easier said than done, so in this week's episode I'm breaking down what keeps us from continuing down the path to create the habits, build the confidence, lose the weight and live the life we want to be living and the three things I believe are key to building the willingness to keep going.
In this episode, you'll learn the...
- three biggest things that keep you stuck / cause you to give up
-thoughts and feelings that drive these things
-three things that build your willingness to keep going
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How do you speak to yourself when life is challenging you? How do you show up when you fall short of your own expectations? What do you believe about yourself when you feel the weight of frustration and disappointment?
Our lives our filled with both good and bad. Smooth roads and challenges. Days when we feel motivated and on top of the world and days when motivation is no where to be found in what feels like a deep river of misery.
This is the human experience. It's all things. But when your inner mean girl is loud - she takes the hard, the challenges, the disappointment and the frustration and convinces you that you can't do it.
This episode is about embracing your human experience, growing your capacity to handle the hard and having your own back through it all.
This is where your goals become inevitable, where you create habits that last and lose weight for good.
If you want to transform your habits and your life - and lose weight for the last time, I invite you to schedule a free consultation and learn more about working with me.
It seems like vacation and feeling good should go hand in hand, but when it comes to wanting to create healthier habits, lose weight and feel more confident in your body - vacation can often leave you feeling guilty, frustrated and believing that you have to start all over again.
In this week's episode, we're exploring how to vacation guilt free - and a simple shift you can make to feel just as good when you return home as you do while on vacation.
This shift allows you to create healthier habits and lose weight while living the life you love - because weight lost living the life you love is weight lost forever.
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Comparison isn't a bad thing. It's actually a very normal thing for us to do - to look around, see what others are going, notice what they look like - admire them.
But what you do with that comparison - how you use it matters.
In this episode you will discover how comparison is typically used and that creates and how you can shift your perspective on comparison to motivate and inspire you to see what's possible, what you are capable of and to create the change you want in your life.
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