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I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
Sarah Louise Leather
42 episodes
4 days ago
Sarah Louise Leather has been working with women for over 30 years and is passionate about helping them to live much better lives. For the past 15 years, she's explored her relationship with alcohol and the effects it has on women, especially in menopause and beyond. She talks about overthinking drinking, brain chemistry and the role of hormones. Sarah is on a transformational health journey and being free from hangovers (waking up clear-headed every day) is a massive part of this. Follow Sarah @ https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah/ ; DM her with any questions or comments.
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Sarah Louise Leather has been working with women for over 30 years and is passionate about helping them to live much better lives. For the past 15 years, she's explored her relationship with alcohol and the effects it has on women, especially in menopause and beyond. She talks about overthinking drinking, brain chemistry and the role of hormones. Sarah is on a transformational health journey and being free from hangovers (waking up clear-headed every day) is a massive part of this. Follow Sarah @ https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah/ ; DM her with any questions or comments.
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I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
042 Finding Freedom: A Conversation with Sober Coach Gillian

In this episode, I chat with Gillian Cockburn, a sober coach who’s been alcohol-free for over five years. Her story is such a powerful example of what’s possible when you decide to question your relationship with alcohol — and choose a different path.

Gillian stopped drinking on May 6th, 2020, after years of knowing something wasn’t quite right. She shared how she used to hide her drinking, even from those closest to her, and how she often felt empty and disconnected in her early 40s. Like so many of us, she was using alcohol to numb uncomfortable feelings and get through the day.

What really helped her turn things around was doing deep thought work and mindset coaching — learning to change the way she thought about herself, her emotions, and alcohol. That shift gave her the tools to maintain her sobriety and create a much more vibrant, peaceful life.

We also talked about how cultural and marketing influences have played such a big role in normalising drinking, especially for women. Gillian grew up in Scotland, where alcohol was part of almost every social gathering, and later found herself influenced by TV shows and media that glamorised wine as a symbol of sophistication or stress relief.

She also pointed out how marketing specifically targets women — positioning alcohol as “Mummy’s little helper” — and how that can make it even harder to step away from drinking in midlife, when so many women are already dealing with identity shifts, hormonal changes, and big life transitions.

One of my favourite parts of our conversation was around mindset shifts. Gillian talked about viewing alcohol as neutral — not good, not bad — and focusing instead on the thoughts and feelings that drive the desire to drink. Letting go of shame and judgement, she said, is what opens the door to true freedom.

When I asked what advice she’d give to someone in early sobriety, she offered some beautiful, simple wisdom:
✨ Pause and take a breath before you decide to drink.
✨ Make a conscious choice, rather than reacting automatically.
✨ And, most importantly, connect with others who get it — you don’t have to do this alone.

You can follow Gillian on Instagram at @GillianSoberCoach and visit her website at www.findingyoucoaching.co.uk for more of her work and resources.

Now’s the perfect time to get support inside the IQW Collective


You get the entire program plus 2 x 1:1 sessions for one low price to help you change your relationship with alcohol:

⁠https://iquitwine.com/⁠

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1 week ago
48 minutes 32 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
041 Why You Avoid Emotions & Drink

In this episode, I dive into a big one – why so many of us use alcohol to avoid or numb emotions. It could be anxiety, stress, worry, or even the “good” feelings like joy and excitement. For a while, wine might feel like it takes the edge off, but the relief never lasts – and the consequences can be heavy.

I share honestly about my own experience when I first stopped drinking for longer stretches. I found it really hard to have a clear, focused mind and thought something was wrong with me. What I eventually discovered is that it was actually a sign I needed to learn new ways to manage my emotions – and that’s where real freedom begins.

I talk about how important it is to develop a toolkit of healthy coping strategies rather than falling back on alcohol or other addictive habits. This is the key to breaking that frustrating stop–start cycle so many of us know all too well.

I also touch on the role of hormones – particularly during perimenopause and menopause – and how they can affect our relationship with alcohol. It’s such an important piece of the puzzle, and I encourage you to seek support from professionals who really understand this connection.

At the end of the episode, I give you a little sneak peek of what’s coming up next week, when I’ll be talking about the new alcohol labelling laws in Ireland and what they could mean for how we all think about drinking.

And, if you’re ready for support, I’d love to invite you to join me inside the IQW Collective – especially with Sober October just around the corner. It’s a safe, supportive space where you’ll find tools, resources, and community to help you finally break free from the cycle.


Check out the IQW Collective here:

https://iquitwine.com/iqwa/


Email me at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com if you'd like to explore private coaching.


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1 month ago
16 minutes 32 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
040 Not drinking on holiday & what to do instead

Struggle with drinking while on holiday? In this episode of I Quit Wine, I share my experience of protecting sobriety, explain emotional sobriety, and introduce the year-long I Quit Wine Collective for support beyond “just not drinking.”

Staying alcohol-free while on holiday can be so challenging.

Even after years of sobriety, I’ve had moments where those “innocent little thoughts” about having a drink sneak in, and before you know it, they can become really tempting. I share openly about my own experiences and why I’ve learned to be fiercely protective of my sobriety – not just from other people offering me a drink, but from my own mind trying to convince me that “just one” would be fine.

I also share something really exciting – the doors are now open for my brand-new I Quit Wine Collective. This is a year-long support community designed to help you get off the stop-start cycle with drinking and feel fully supported in your sobriety.


Inside, you’ll find daily check-ins, group coaching, somatic practices like breathwork, and the kind of encouragement we all need to stay consistent.

Another theme I dive into is emotional sobriety. For me, quitting wine was never just about not drinking – it’s about creating a truly incredible life after wine. I talk about how I blend both cognitive (top-down) and somatic (bottom-up) tools to work through the deeper reasons why we drank in the first place, and how this helps us flourish in every area of life.

I wrap up with an invitation for you to join me in the I Quit Wine Collective – because this isn’t just about giving up alcohol, it’s about co-creating a new, brighter chapter of your life.

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2 months ago
17 minutes 26 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
039 The Question to Ask Yourself That Changes Everything with Drinking

🎧 The Question to Ask Yourself That Changes Everything with Drinking

In this episode, I dive into a powerful question that changed everything for me in my sobriety journey—and how it might shift things for you too.

Here’s what we cover:

🌀 Understanding Grey Area Drinking (starts at 0:13)
I explain what “grey area drinking” actually is—the space between not drinking at all and full-blown alcohol dependency. If you’ve ever found yourself trying to take breaks, then starting again, you’re not alone.

💡 The Key Question That Helped Me Break the Cycle (starts at 2:42)
I share the simple but game-changing question I asked myself:
“Is this taking me further towards or away from feeling good, feeling well?”
This mindset shift was the beginning of real, lasting change.

🍷 The Truth About Alcohol’s So-Called Health Benefits (starts at 4:30)
We take a look at the outdated ideas around alcohol being “good for you,” and I unpack what the latest research says instead.

🧠 Challenging the Lies That Keep Us Drinking (starts at 7:59)
From “I need a drink to relax” to “I won’t enjoy the party without it,” I talk through the sneaky thoughts that keep us stuck—and how to let them drift on by without giving them power.

🌿 Reconnecting With Your Innate Well-Being (starts at 10:00)
You were born with a natural sense of well-being, and it's still there—even if alcohol has clouded it. I share how you can start to reconnect with that deeper joy and clarity.

If this episode resonated and you're ready to explore a life with more energy, peace and joy—without alcohol—I’d love to support you.

👉 Book a free connect call with me here
or
📲 Send me a DM on Instagram: @iquitwine_withsarah

You don’t have to figure it all out on your own—support is here when you're ready. 💛


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3 months ago
11 minutes 34 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
038 Doing Big Things Without Alcohol

Episode 038: Doing Big Things Without Alcohol

In this episode of I Quit Wine, I’m sharing all about a huge personal milestone—my son’s wedding—and how I navigated the entire multi-day celebration completely alcohol-free.

Yes, three days of events (pre-wedding, the big day, and post-wedding celebrations), surrounded by champagne toasts and clinking wine glasses—and I didn’t drink a drop. And the best part? I had a brilliant time. I danced, I laughed, I connected, and I woke up feeling fresh every morning (unlike some others, bless them!).

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

💃 My personal experience

  • How I stayed sober at such a big event, and the tiny wobble I had—and how I moved through it.

  • What helped me the most, including great alcohol-free drinks (yes, there was AF wine, beer, and cocktails!).

  • One little hiccup—my non-alcoholic wine got switched for the real thing by mistake. I’ll tell you what happened and how I handled it.

🌟 The benefits of staying alcohol-free at events

  • Waking up clear-headed and energised

  • Feeling confident and present (no second-guessing anything I said or did!)

  • Fully enjoying the dancing and celebration without any fuzzy moments

🥂 Why inclusivity for non-drinkers matters

  • A big shout-out to events that make non-drinkers feel just as welcome

  • Why just offering water isn’t enough

  • The power of choice when it comes to drinks—and how it actually encourages more people to skip the booze

🛠 My top tips for navigating events alcohol-free

  • What to plan ahead (spoiler: know your drinks, your answers, and your exits!)

  • Why focusing on the joy and connection makes such a difference

  • How to feel empowered, even when you’re the only one not drinking

🎉 Exciting news!
I’m launching a brand new 90-day support program called the IQW Collective. It brings together the best bits of my previous programs (like the IQW Academy and IQW Freedom Formula) and offers both group and one-to-one support.

If you’re ready to quit or take a break from alcohol—or if you just want to feel more confident at events without relying on wine—this could be just the thing for you.

Want early access or to find out more?
Email me at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com and I’ll send you the details before the official launch (which I’ll talk more about in the next episode).

Thanks for listening. If you’re facing your own big event and wondering how to handle it without wine, know that you can do it—and it can be even better than you imagined.


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5 months ago
19 minutes 23 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
037 How Sally Quit Wine & Her Number 1 Tip

In this episode, I’m joined by the lovely Sally German, a coach who shares her inspiring journey of quitting alcohol and how journaling became a powerful part of her recovery and personal growth.

Sally’s story is incredibly relatable—like so many women, her drinking was woven into her social life, career, and stress management. But after years of questioning her relationship with alcohol, trying to moderate, and experiencing the emotional toll it took, she made the brave decision to quit for good.

We also dive deep into one of my favourite tools for sobriety and self-discovery: journaling. If you’ve ever felt a bit weird writing things down or didn’t know where to start, this conversation will give you the nudge you need.

✨ What We Talked About:

Sally’s Journey

  • First drink at 10 or 11—can you believe it?

  • Drinking quickly became the norm in her late teens and twenties

  • She tried all the moderation tricks (dry months, training for a marathon) before finally saying goodbye to alcohol

  • It took around 10 years from her first “maybe I should stop” moment to full sobriety

The Challenges of Quitting

  • Societal conditioning and the fear of missing out are real

  • Friends often didn’t understand her choice, which made things even tougher

  • Sally shares how hard it was to imagine social life or travel without alcohol—but also how freeing it’s been since quitting

Journaling for Sobriety & Growth

  • Journaling started as something awkward for Sally… and me too, to be honest!

  • Now it’s a daily essential for both of us

  • It’s not just about writing—it’s a space for emotional release, pattern spotting, and serious self-awareness

Tips for Starting a Journaling Practice

  • Keep it simple: start with “Right now I feel…” or “Today I’m feeling…”

  • 5 minutes is plenty to begin with

  • Try it in the morning with your coffee or at night to wind down

  • Push through the initial discomfort—it gets easier, and the insights are so worth it

💬 Ready to Give Journaling a Go? Start small, stay curious, and be kind to yourself. It doesn’t need to be perfect—it just needs to be honest.

You can connect with Sally German Coaching over on Instagram for more journaling inspo and support.

And who knows? I might have Sally back soon to dive even deeper into this gorgeous practice!

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or come hang out with me on Instagram @the_sarah_leather. I’d love to hear your thoughts.


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6 months ago
38 minutes 32 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
036 Your Questions Answered: How Hard is it to Stopping Drinking? Can I Reset my Drinking?

In this episode of I Quit Wine, I’m answering some of the biggest questions about quitting alcohol—how hard it really is, what to expect in early sobriety, and whether you can ever “reset” your drinking habits.

I’ll also share insights from my own journey, what finally worked for me after years of trying, and why addressing the root causes of alcohol dependence is so important.

✅ Early sobriety is challenging, but it gets easier with the right support and daily practices.
✅ Alcohol cravings aren’t just triggered by stress—happy moments can also lead to urges.
✅ There’s no such thing as “resetting” drinking habits—quitting completely is often necessary.
✅ Long-term sobriety isn’t just about avoiding alcohol; it’s about healing the deeper reasons we drink.


🔹 The Challenge of Early Sobriety

  • The first 30 days can be tough, but they’re also crucial.
  • Around 80-100 days, something shifts, and sobriety starts to feel easier.
  • Daily practices are key—willpower alone won’t keep you sober.
  • How my Freedom Formula helps create a sustainable alcohol-free life.

🔹 Why Triggers for Alcohol Go Beyond Stress

  • Cravings don’t just come from bad days—good days can trigger them too.
  • Our beliefs about worthiness and happiness can play a huge role in drinking.
  • Alcohol is often used to cope with both struggles and celebrations.
  • The nervous system’s role in processing emotions (and why it matters in sobriety).


🔹 The Myth of “Resetting” Drinking Habits

  • There’s no such thing as a fresh start with drinking.
  • The “downward-facing escalator” analogy—why every relapse brings you back to the same spot.
  • The importance of addressing the root causes behind drinking.
  • My personal experience of multiple attempts before finally stopping for good.


🔹 Why Professional Support Makes a Difference

  • Trying to quit alone can be harder than it needs to be.
  • My ICW Freedom Formula helps women quit drinking in a way that actually lasts.
  • I use trauma-informed coaching, somatic work, and emotional sobriety coaching techniques alongside Root Cause Therapy.
  • Trying to quit alone can be harder than it needs to be.

💌 Need support? I’m here to help!




📧 Email me: iqwwithsarah@gmail.com


📲 DM me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah_/


💬 Thinking about quitting? Let’s chat—book a call with me to talk about your next steps:

https://calendly.com/iqwwithsarah/connect-with-sarah


⚠️ Medical Disclaimer: If you’re a heavy daily drinker, please consult a healthcare professional before quitting abruptly.


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8 months ago
16 minutes 56 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
035 Finding Joy Beyond the Glass: Relearning Happiness Without Wine

I Quit Wine Podcast - Episode 035
Finding Joy Beyond the Glass: Relearning Happiness Without Wine

Episode Summary:
In this episode, I discuss the challenges of quitting alcohol and discovering true joy in life without wine, particularly for women in midlife and menopause. Many women struggle to imagine a fulfilling life without alcohol, viewing it as their "best friend" and main source of joy. However, breaking free from this dependence opens the door to a richer, more meaningful life—though it takes time, reflection, and support.

Key Topics Covered:
✔️ The emotional and psychological ties to alcohol and why it feels like a “best friend”
✔️ Overcoming the fear of life without alcohol and learning to find joy in new ways
✔️ How self-worth, productivity, and busyness can contribute to alcohol dependence
✔️ Personal story: A 3-month camper van trip that highlighted lifestyle differences and the importance of stillness
✔️ The role of hormones in midlife (decreasing estrogen & oxytocin) and their impact on self-reflection and purpose
✔️ The rise in alcohol consumption among Gen X and Boomer women compared to younger generations
✔️ The unique challenges midlife women face—caring for aging parents, raising teenagers, and experiencing perimenopause
✔️ The importance of self-compassion, curiosity, and patience in exploring life without alcohol
✔️ Practical steps for rediscovering joy through non-drinking activities like coloring, walking, and beach visits
✔️ The role of support, self-reflection, and addressing subconscious patterns in quitting alcohol
✔️ My experience with Root Cause Therapy and how it helped uncover underlying worthiness issues

Resources & Support:
🎥 Free guide & video training: Assess your relationship with alcohol
📩 Email me at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com to request the guide
📲 Message me on Instagram @iquitwine_withsarah for more support
💬 One-on-one coaching is available to explore the root cause of your drinking, your unique challenges and create a plan for an alcohol-free life. Email 'coaching' to iqwwithsarah@gmail.com

Call to Action:
✨ Reflect on your personal relationship with alcohol and where you find joy outside of drinking
✨ Consider reaching out for support, whether through the free guide, a conversation, or one-on-one coaching
✨ Explore new activities and hobbies that bring you fulfillment without alcohol
✨ Be kind and patient with yourself—change takes time, but a better life is waiting on the other side

Thank you for listening! If you found this episode helpful, please share it with a friend who might need it.

Don’t forget to follow the podcast for more insights and encouragement on your alcohol-free journey. 💜


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8 months ago
15 minutes 48 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
034 How you do alcohol is how you do everything (& why this is wonderful news)

In this episode, I explore my relationship to alcohol and how this is playing out in other areas of my life.

How you do alcohol is how you do everything is actually excellent news as it will teach you how to have a much better life.


I share how a recent detox from sugar has reminded me about dopamine sensitivity and how many of us will react.


Join me in the IQW Freedom Formula to learn to exact steps to having a much better life without wine:


https://iquitwine.com/iqwff/

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9 months ago
18 minutes 7 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
033 People lie about how much they drink (& why it doesn't matter)

Sarah discusses how people often underreport their alcohol consumption, with the common belief that individuals drink at least double what they admit to. She reflects on her experiences as a student nurse seeing patients with severe alcohol-related health issues.


Sarah shares how her views have evolved, noting that the focus should be on how alcohol makes someone feel rather than just the quantity consumed. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's personal relationship with alcohol, especially for "gray area drinkers" who may experience negative impacts from relatively moderate consumption.|


Sarah encourages the listener to reflect on how their drinking makes them feel, rather than just the amount. She shares examples of women in her programs who struggled with the impacts of even a small amount of alcohol. She invites the listener to explore her "I Quit Wine Freedom Formula" program to address their relationship with alcohol.

https://iquitwine.com/iqwff/

Sarah invites the listener to follow her on Instagram, send her a message, and share any insights from listening to her podcast episodes. She emphasizes her approachability and desire to engage with her audience.

https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah_/


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10 months ago
8 minutes 28 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
032 But I love the taste of wine!

Episode Title: But I Love the Taste of Wine

Host: Sarah Leather

Episode Summary: In today’s episode of I Quit Wine, Sarah dives into a common challenge for people quitting alcohol: “But I love the taste of wine!” Sarah shares her personal story of once loving the taste of wine with certain meals, but realizing that it's not just the taste she was craving. It's the feeling that alcohol provides after those first few glasses, not the taste itself. She explains how our brains have been conditioned to associate certain feelings with the consumption of alcohol, and offers a perspective shift that helps break free from that mindset.


Sarah also touches on the role alcohol has played historically in nursing homes and hospitals and how alcohol was used for various purposes in medical settings. She reflects on her own experiences, her changing relationship with alcohol, and how she now feels indifferent or even repulsed by it.


Sarah encourages listeners to observe their thoughts about alcohol and the stories they've told themselves, like "I drink for the taste," and gently challenges these beliefs. She shares how emotional sobriety is about shifting perspectives and seeing the truth about what alcohol has taken from your life.


Finally, Sarah highlights the importance of building new, healthier habits and mindsets, while encouraging listeners to explore her IQW Freedom Formula for deeper support.

Key Takeaways:

  • We often convince ourselves we drink for the taste, but it’s really the feeling that follows that we crave.
  • Alcohol doesn’t taste good on its own—our associations with it have been built over time.
  • The journey to emotional sobriety involves breaking down long-held beliefs and building new ones that support a healthier, happier life.
  • Sarah shares personal stories, from her teenage drinking years to her now peaceful, alcohol-free life, where the smell of wine no longer tempts her.
  • The I Quit Wine Freedom Formula is a supportive resource for those seeking to quit alcohol.

Mentioned in This Episode:

  • I Quit Wine Freedom Formula – A self-paced program to help you transform your relationship with alcohol. Visit iquitwine.com/iqwff for more information.
  • One-on-one coaching sessions are available! Sarah is offering deep-dive coaching to help you create a clear plan for quitting alcohol. Book your session via the link in the show notes here:

I have a new offering: 75-minute one-on-one coaching sessions for personalized guidance. It includes the IQW Freedom Formula (if you've already purchased it, you will get a 30-minute follow-up session). You can ⁠see it here⁠:

https://bit.ly/IQW75minuteFFbonus


Connect with Sarah:

  • Instagram: @iquitwine_sarah
  • Website: iquitwine.com

Call to Action: If this episode resonated with you, please leave a review or rating! It helps other people find the podcast and makes a big difference. Sarah would love to hear your thoughts—send her a DM on Instagram to share your story!

Podcast Links:

  • I Quit Wine Freedom Formula
  • Book a One-on-One Coaching Session






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1 year ago
17 minutes 50 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
031 The Joy of Simplicity & Introducing the Freedom Formula

In this episode of the I Quit Wine podcast I discuss the importance of simplicity in quitting alcohol and introduce a new program for alcohol-free living.

  • Simplicity and constraint can significantly ease the decision-making process when quitting alcohol

  • I have created the "IQW Freedom Formula," a comprehensive 30-day program to help women quit drinking

  • The program offers tools for managing cravings, emotional sobriety, and addressing underlying reasons for drinking

  • I emphasize the ongoing nature of emotional sobriety and the importance of continual self-work

  • Simplicity is one of my top values, along with spaciousness and freedom

  • Constraint concept: fewer choices lead to more ease and simplicity

  • Analogy: Low-frills supermarkets (e.g., Lidl, Aldi) offer less choice, reducing decision fatigue

  • Quitting alcohol eliminates complex decision-making around drinking, reducing mental burden

  • Example: My weekend alone - only one alcohol-free beer consumed, contrasting with past behavior

  • Includes first 3 modules immediately, with others released over time

  • Features a private podcast for deeper, more honest discussions

  • Covers mindset processes, thought management, and creating desired results

  • Priced at a "ridiculous" one-time fee, with potential price increases in the future

  • Tools for managing cravings

  • Strategies for both good and challenging times

  • Information on brain chemistry, nutrition, and environmental factors

  • Naturopathic insights from Sarah's 25 years of practice

  • Guidance on achieving emotional sobriety

  • Techniques for managing the "voice" that encourages drinking

  • Distinction between stopping drinking and achieving emotional sobriety

  • Emphasis on the process nature of recovery - cannot be rushed or fast-tracked

  • Importance of continual self-work and gradual improvement

  • Strategies for managing the ego or "voice" that undermines sobriety efforts

  • Interested listeners can access the IQW Freedom Formula at iQuitWine.com/IQFF

  • Follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah_/ for updates and connection

  • Listeners are encouraged to email me at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com with questions or stories

  • Please leave a review or rating for the I Quit Wine podcast - it will make me so happy!








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1 year ago
21 minutes 45 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
030 Birthdays & Overthinking Drinking


  • Sarah reflects on her 59th birthday, contrasting youthful drinking experiences with mature overthinking about alcohol

  • Drinking habits often evolve from social fun to problematic coping mechanisms, leading to overthinking and health issues

  • Sarah is developing the "IQW Freedom Formula" to help women end overthinking drinking and improve their lives


  • Alcohol-free celebrations, like birthdays, are presented as more enjoyable and fulfilling


  • Sarah shares her journey from carefree teenage drinking to problematic adult consumption


  • Initial drinking experiences: relaxation, confidence boost, social connection


  • Evolution to "grey area drinking" in 30s-40s: habit formation, stress relief, emotional regulation


  • Overthinking phase: constant negotiation, guilt, attempts to moderate

  • Liver health concerns increase with age and quantity consumed


  • Hormonal changes (perimenopause, menopause) reduce alcohol tolerance

  • Neurochemical effects worsen in 40s-50s


  • Sleep disruption: difficulty achieving deep sleep, leading to more overthinking


  • Not necessarily about quantity, but mental burden and health effects


  • Can last for years (18 years in Sarah's case)

  • Stopping and starting attempts common

  • Affects quality of life even when consumption is relatively low


  • Aims to end overthinking drinking and improve overall life quality

  • Holistic approach: brain rewiring, nutrition, sleep, exercise, coaching, therapy


  • Includes trauma-informed and somatic practices


  • Daily practices to manage cravings


  • Promises better sleep and reduced morning anxiety


  • Sarah celebrates her 15th alcohol-free birthday


  • Reports increased enjoyment of food, company, and overall experience


  • Highlights ability to drive home safely after celebrations

  • Follow Sarah on Instagram @iquitwine_withsarah_ for updates


  • DM or email Sarah with the word "freedom" for early access to the IQW Freedom Formula


  • Watch for the launch of the IQW Freedom Formula to End Overthinking Your Drinking program


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1 year ago
16 minutes 23 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
029 Navigating weddings without wine!

In this episode, I share insights on navigating social events, particularly weddings, without alcohol.


  • Planning ahead is crucial for successfully attending alcohol-free events, especially regarding drink choices and potential social pressures


  • Non-alcoholic options are becoming more prevalent, with alcohol-free beer sales up nearly 20% in Ireland


  • Many people report enjoying events more without alcohol, particularly appreciating the hangover-free mornings


  • Younger generations (18-25) are drinking 25-35% less, indicating a cultural shift towards reduced alcohol consumption

I also speak about my recent personal experiences with being alcohol-free at weddings plus:

  • Challenges of socializing without alcohol
  • Importance of non-alcoholic drink options
  • Strategies for navigating alcohol-free events
  • Shifting cultural attitudes towards alcohol
  • Personal reflections on alcohol-free journey

Next Steps:

  • Follow me on Instagram:
  • @iquitwine_with_sarah for more content and engagement
  • Check iQuitWine.com/iQWA for additional resources
  • Consider booking single paid deep dive session with me (contact via Instagram DM or email iqwwithSarah@gmail.com)
  • Stay tuned for future podcast episodes on navigating alcohol-free holidays
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1 year ago
17 minutes 22 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
028 When it gets so effing hard!

Welcome back to the show. I have an update (more like pupdate!) & share how to manage when everything feels so freaking hard.


Take a listen and I'd love to hear your thoughts. You can share a review on your podcast app and tell me what you think!


The doors will soon be opening for the upgraded version of the IQW Academy, called IQW Collective. So cool!


It will include the 90-day program from IQW Academy plus a private podcast just for your ears and much more


You can send me an email at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com or DM me at https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah/ and I'll let you know as soon as it's ready.

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1 year ago
15 minutes 34 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
027 There's something about Mary Wall! Be inspired by her amazing journey.

Mary Wall joined IQW Academy soon after it began & is also a brilliant coaching colleague.

She shares such an inspiring story about her journey with alcohol and her 'life after wine'.


Take a listen and I'd love to hear your thoughts. You can share a review on your podcast app and tell me what you think!


The doors are currently open for the IQW Academy, you can see the current special offer at IQuitWine.com/iqwa

You will also get the brand new course called IQW21 which will give you an incredible boost over 21 days.


If you're not sure if a group is the right support you need right now and want to explore working 1:1 together, I'm delighted to be offering 3 mini-sessions this week.

In the 30-minute session, we will explore what's the cause of your over-drinking and create a plan for a much better relationship with alcohol.

You can send me an email at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com or DM me at https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah/ and I'll give you the link to book your session.

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2 years ago
44 minutes 22 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
026 Are alcohol-free drinks a treat or a trigger for you?

In this episode of the I Quit Wine podcast I speak about what to drink when you're not drinking alcohol.


I know I love a grown-up drink in a grown-up glass. But I also find that at certain times, alcohol-free drinks can leave me wanting more.


Take a listen and I'd love to hear your thoughts. You can share a review on your podcast app and tell me what you think!


The doors are currently open for the IQW Academy, you can see the current special offer at IQuitWine.com/iqwa

You will also get the brand new course called IQW21 which will give you an incredible boost over 21 days.


If you're not sure if a group is the right support you need right now and want to explore working 1:1 together, I'm delighted to be offering 3 mini-sessions this week.

In the 30-minute session, we will explore what's the cause of your over-drinking and create a plan for a much better relationship with alcohol.

You can send me an email at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com or DM me at https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah/ and I'll give you the link to book your session.


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2 years ago
13 minutes 1 second

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
025 This one thing has changed everything with quitting wine

Hello lovely!

I love sharing about all things alcohol freedom & there's one part that rocks my world.

That is having daily non-negotiables.


Once you stop negotiating with yourself, everything changes. For me, it's deleting the thought 'just one more time' or 'just while I'm in France' from my mind.


Because it's never 'just once more'.


In this episode, I share with you how to stop the stop/start cycle with daily non-negotiables.


Daily non-negotiables are the backbone of the IQW Academy. It's so good & nourishing!


'It’s a really lovely group. I’ve been part of it for a while and love it. I would highly recommend it.'


The price of IQW Academy is rising on the 1st of next month. Join this 90-day program now & stay for up to 12 months.

⁠Join now to enjoy the huge savings discount.⁠


https://iquitwine.com/iqwa    


I can't wait to support you.   If you have questions, pop me an email at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com  

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2 years ago
20 minutes 57 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
024 You Were Made For More Than This

In this episode, I speak about the effect that drinking has on our minds and how you were made for more.

I share this amazing quote from The War of Art:

“Most of us have two lives. The life we live, and the unlived life within us. Between the two stands Resistance.”
― Steven Pressfield


If you are ready to overcome the resistance, IQW Academy is a sacred safe place to explore your relationship with wine.  

‘Hi Sarah, I want to share my deep gratitude with you. I joined your academy last week out of desperation. I’ve been stopping & starting drinking for the last 5 years and nothing has worked.

I thought that there was something wrong with me.

I read all the quit-lit books & listened to lots of podcasts.

A few weeks ago I stumbled across your podcast & knew you were the one to help me overcome this problem. Most people don’t get it. They think I’m fine & should just keep trying to moderate.

But I always knew there was more to life than constantly thinking about when & how much I would drink. You get it. I think it’s your mix of personal and professional experience that makes you different from all the others. Your academy feels like home. I was missing the connection you provide. It feels safe to be there and be on this journey with you. The other women all get it too. I love how it doesn’t matter how much we drank or how long we’ve stopped (or still trying to stop for good), your program gives us what we need for our version of success.

Thank you.’

The price of IQW Academy is rising on the 1st of next month. Join this 90-day program now & stay for up to 12 months.

⁠Join now to enjoy the huge savings discount.⁠

⁠Join here⁠ at the lowest price it will ever be:

https://iquitwine.com/iqwa    

I can't wait to support you.   If you have questions, pop me an email at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com  


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2 years ago
20 minutes 26 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
023 Her best months in business have happened after she stopped drinking

In this episode, I speak with my client Aneta Idczak about her journey to having a much better life after wine.
If you're someone who thinks that you don't drink enough for it to be a problem, then you need to hear this story.
You don't need to have a 'rock bottom' to stop drinking. It isn't about how much you drink but how it makes you feel.
Aneta Idczak is Trauma-informed Somatic Coach and Yoga Teacher, Trainer and Mentor.  She specialises in training other practitioners in trauma-informed somatic approach in their work and business.
http://www.anetai.co.uk/
As I mentioned during this episode, IQW Academy is open. What a loving gift this would be to yourself!!      
You can hop in now and start getting the support, inspiration, motivation & information you need to stop drinking, stay stopped and have a much better relationship with alcohol (& yourself!).  
IQW Academy is a sacred safe place to explore your relationship with wine.  


‘Hi Sarah, I want to share my deep gratitude with you. I joined your academy last week out of desperation.
I’ve been stopping & starting drinking for the last 5 years and nothing has worked.
I thought that there was something wrong with me.
I read all the quit-lit books & listened to lots of podcasts.
A few weeks ago I stumbled across your podcast & knew you were the one to help me overcome this problem. Most people don’t get it. They think I’m fine & should just keep trying to moderate.
But I always knew there was more to life than constantly thinking about when & how much I would drink.
You get it. I think it’s your mix of personal and professional experience that makes you different from all the others.
Your academy feels like home. I was missing the connection you provide. It feels safe to be there and be on this journey with you. The other women all get it too.
I love how it doesn’t matter how much we drank or how long we’ve stopped (or still trying to stop for good), your program gives us what we need for our version of success.
Thank you.’
The price of IQW Academy is rising on the 1st of next month.
Join this 90-day program now & stay for up to 12 months.

Join now to enjoy the huge savings discount.

Join here at the lowest price it will ever be:

https://iquitwine.com/iqwa    
I can't wait to support you.  
If you have questions, pop me an email at iqwwithsarah@gmail.com  

If you have a friend who needs this, please share the special link with them:

https://iquitwine.com/iqwa

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2 years ago
48 minutes 38 seconds

I Quit Wine - how to stop drinking and have a much better life
Sarah Louise Leather has been working with women for over 30 years and is passionate about helping them to live much better lives. For the past 15 years, she's explored her relationship with alcohol and the effects it has on women, especially in menopause and beyond. She talks about overthinking drinking, brain chemistry and the role of hormones. Sarah is on a transformational health journey and being free from hangovers (waking up clear-headed every day) is a massive part of this. Follow Sarah @ https://www.instagram.com/iquitwine_withsarah/ ; DM her with any questions or comments.