You’ve been told to fix your metabolism with diet and exercise — but if that worked, every woman over 50 would already feel lean, strong, and energized.
In this episode of The After-50 Body Freedom Project, psychotherapist and body-freedom coach Kaylee Murphy, LICSW unpacks the truth about why “trying harder” backfires — and how seven hours of sleep can shift your hormones, calm your cortisol, and finally wake up your metabolism.
You’ll learn:
• How sleep deprivation drives fat storage and sugar cravings
• Why stress hormones block fat-burning (even with perfect nutrition)
• The “7-Hour Reset” that helps your body feel safe enough to change
This isn’t another “sleep hygiene” pep talk — it’s real psychology and science for women who’ve outgrown diet culture.
Listen now and remember: you’re only one good night’s sleep away from waking up your metabolism.
The advice to “just get back on track” sounds harmless… until it keeps your body stuck in the same exhausting cycle.
In this episode, psychotherapist and body-freedom coach Kaylee Murphy unpacks why this popular mantra backfires for women over 50—and what to do instead.
You’ll learn how stress, hormones, and old mindset patterns block your results—and how to finally create lasting change by finding your Body Freedom Zone.
If you’ve been trying to get your motivation back but feel more drained than ever, this one’s for you.
Everything you’ve been told about losing fat after 50 is wrong — and it’s not your fault.
In this first episode of The After 50 Body Freedom Project, Kaylee Murphy, psychotherapist and body-freedom coach, explains why “eating less and exercising more” stops working after menopause — and what your body is actually trying to tell you.
Learn how to reframe your relationship with effort, understand your metabolism’s stress response, and discover the real secret to creating results that last.
💛 Connect with Kaylee on Instagram: @kayleemurphylicsw
Most women over 50 have been told the same story: “Lose the weight first, then you can focus on strength, health, and longevity.”
But here’s the truth bomb: chasing fat loss first can actually make you age faster.
In this episode of Becoming a Longevity Badass, I share:
Why dieting without strength training accelerates muscle loss (sarcopenia)
How endless fat loss attempts wreck your metabolism, hormones, and confidence
The personal wake-up call that changed my approach for good
The exact habits that build energy, muscle, and momentum after 50
You’ll walk away with a clear shift: stop chasing less—start building more.
👉 Want to put this into practice? Join the waitlist for my 30-Day Longevity Lifestyle Challenge: Click Here
Because strong—not skinny—is what gets you free.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Will this ever get easier?”—this episode is for you.
We’re flipping the script on midlife health with a powerful mindset reframe: what if your future self could speak to you now?
In this episode, we explore how to stay consistent, rebuild trust with your metabolism, and boost energy in your 50s and beyond—without crash diets or burnout.
You can download this free PDF to help you write a letter from your future self (the one who’s strong, free, and full of energy). This is your invitation to pause, reflect, and reconnect with your why.
Because the path to a stronger metabolism starts with how you see yourself—and who you’re becoming 💛
Are you skipping breakfast, eating “light,” or obsessing over calories—but still feeling stuck, sluggish, and frustrated with your metabolism?
You’re not alone—and you’re not doing it wrong.
In this episode, Kaylee shares 3 simple but powerful nutrition shifts that helped her boost energy, reduce cravings, and finally feel like her body was working with her again after 50.
💥 You’ll hear:
– The most common eating mistake that’s keeping your metabolism in “low power mode”
– The truth about volume foods (and why they’re not enough)
– A real client story that shows how switching to real food can change everything—fast
This isn’t about dieting or discipline. It’s about giving your metabolism what it needs to thrive.
And spoiler alert: food is only one piece of the puzzle.
You’ll also learn how sleep, strength training, and recovery play a role in your midlife metabolic health.
🎧 Hit play—and if it resonates, share it with a friend who’s ready to ditch the restriction and reclaim her strength.
What if the reason your metabolism feels stuck… isn’t your age, your hormones, or your willpower?
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the three shifts that finally got my menopausal metabolism working again—after years of restrictive dieting, belly fat frustration, and feeling like I was doing everything “right” with nothing to show for it.
I share what finally clicked after 50, and how I moved from:
Exhaustion to energy
Muscle loss to strength gains
Tracking everything… to trusting my body again
This isn’t a quick-fix plan or another food rule. It’s about learning how to fuel, move, and recover in a way that supports your midlife metabolism—without dieting or overdoing it.
I’ll also share a vulnerable moment I haven’t talked about in a while:
👉 The day a stranger asked me if I was pregnant at 52—and how that moment became the catalyst for everything I teach today.
If you’re a woman in midlife who feels like your body isn’t responding anymore, this is the episode for you.
Let’s get your metabolism working with you—not against you.
Most women over 50 are told that their metabolism is slowing down because of age or menopause. But here’s the truth:
💪Muscle is your metabolism.
In this episode, I share:
The science behind why muscle is your metabolic engine
How fat-loss-first strategies backfire in midlife
The real reason cardio and calorie-cutting keep you stuck
A powerful personal story from my own strength training journey
💪 Whether you’re starting from scratch or getting back on track, this reframe could change everything.
👉 Want a simple place to begin? Grab my free Strong Start Routine—a beginner-friendly plan to help you build strength, energy, and momentum:
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And if no one told you today:
You’re not behind.
You’re not broken.
You’re building something powerful—and it starts with muscle.
If you’ve been stuck in the “belly fat battle” for years—cutting calories, skipping meals, or chasing the next quick fix—this episode is for you.
Today, we’re breaking down:
💥 Why the fat-loss strategies that worked in your 30s don’t work now
🧠 The science behind midlife muscle loss (and what it means for your metabolism)
💪 The real reason strength—not shrinkage—is the key to lasting results
I’ll walk you through the fat loss fixation loop so many women over 50 are stuck in—and show you the mindset + method that helped me shift from frustration to strength.
Spoiler: It’s not about eating less. It’s about building more.
🎁 Grab the free Strong Start Routine
Your beginner-friendly strength training guide for women over 50:👉 Click here to get the free Strong Start Routine
💛 Want more support?
Come join my Strong Start Circle or find me on Instagram.
If you’ve been trying to lose belly fat after 50 and it feels like nothing is working—this episode is for you.
Today we’re unpacking why the pursuit of fat loss might be the very thing holding you back. I’ll walk you through a powerful reframe that could shift everything—and invite you to stop shrinking and start strengthening.
Because your body isn’t broken.
You’re not lazy or undisciplined.
You’ve just been taught to focus on the wrong thing.
This isn’t a quick-fix conversation. It’s a deeper invitation to build the kind of strength that frees you—from perfectionism, pressure, and patterns that no longer serve.
Whether you're restarting, just getting going, or lifting for the first time—you’ll leave this episode with a new way forward.
P.S. Grab your free Strong Start guide here and start building muscle to reset metabolism, boost strength and live longer.
I was walking 10,000 steps a day.
Eating healthy.
Tracking everything.
Skipping breakfast.
And still… I felt puffy, tired, and stuck.
In this short episode, I’m sharing the trap I didn’t even know I was in—what I now call the Metabolism Backfire Loop™—and how I finally broke free.
You’ll hear:
✔️ Why more cardio and fewer calories can backfire after 50
✔️ The 3 things your body actually needs to release belly fat and feel better
✔️ What most women over 50 are missing (and how to fix it)
If you’ve been doing everything “right” and still not seeing results—this one’s for you.
👉 Grab the free Strong Start Guide I mention in the episode:
Let’s get you out of the loop and into your strongest, most energized self yet.
If you’ve been working out consistently but still feel like your belly won’t budge, your metabolism is sluggish, or your strength has stalled—it might not be your hormones or your age.
It might be your exercise routine.
In this episode, I’m sharing what happens when women over 50 keep doing the same workouts on repeat—and why that can actually stall your progress.
You’ll learn:
What your 2.0 body actually needs after menopause
Why more cardio or skipping meals might be working against you
The 3 things that helped Linda (62) finally start seeing results—without more effort or more time
This episode is especially for you if you’ve been doing “everything right”... and still feel stuck.
💛 Want a beginner-friendly strength routine that actually works for your body after 50?
Download the Strong Start mini-program here.
Just 5 simple moves, no gym required.
In this episode, I’m sharing the shift I made after 60 that completely changed my energy, confidence, and body composition—and no, it wasn’t another restrictive diet.
After years of trying to do everything “right,” I finally found a rhythm that felt nourishing instead of punishing. I’ll walk you through what I changed, what scared me the most , and what actually worked.
Whether your journey starts with food, strength, sleep, or mindset—this episode will help you find a starting point that feels doable, supportive, and real.
💛 Ready to take your first strong step?
Grab my free beginner strength guide: Strong Start
➡️ https://become-a-longevity-badass.kit.com/be48f75a7d
You’ve been told that belly fat is about the willpower to work harder.
But after 50? It’s really about hormones.
In this quick episode, I’ll break down why your metabolism feels like it’s working against you—and what to do instead.
We’ll talk about:
The real reason belly fat increases after 50
Why traditional weight loss methods backfire
And how to start shifting into fat-burning mode (without dieting or over-exercising)
🎁 Want the free guide I mentioned?
Grab Hello Hormones, Bye-Bye Belly Fat here
💛 You’re not broken. You’re just in the wrong system.
Let’s change that.
You’re clean eating. You’re walking daily. Maybe even lifting weights.
And yet—your belly fat won’t budge.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason your body feels stuck—especially after 50. Spoiler: it’s not your willpower. It’s the state your body is in while you’re trying to change it.
I’ll walk you through my signature framework, the Mindful Metabolism Matrix™, and show you how outdated fat loss advice, hidden stress, and hormone shifts could be keeping your metabolism stuck—even if you’re doing everything “right.”
We’ll explore the 4 Metabolism States that might be keeping you stuck…
And the one zone where fat loss + lean muscle + nervous system regulation finally meet.
✨ Download the free Mindful Metabolism Matrix™ Guide here
You don’t need to do more.
You need to do different.
And you’re ready for this.
Feel like you’re doing everything “right”—eating clean, working out, tracking steps—but your belly fat still won’t budge?
You’re not failing. You’re stuck in what I call the Belly Fat Fixation Loop.
In this episode, I break down the science behind why fat around your midsection becomes more stubborn after 50—and what actually works instead.
We’ll walk through the 4 key shifts that help you break the loop:
💪 Lift heavy
🌿 Fuel to build
☁️ Recover like it matters
🌌 Reframe the goal
Let’s go, Longevity Badass. 💛
🎁 Free Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
👉 Download the Belly Fat Fixation Loop Guide
Break the cycle of overworking and restriction—and finally understand how to support your metabolism after 50.
You’ve been told that getting toned means eating less, doing more cardio, and chasing the burn…
But what if all that effort is keeping you stuck?
In this episode of Becoming a Longevity Badass, we’re unpacking the truth about what “tone” really takes—and why the old advice doesn’t work anymore.
We’ll cover:
💥 Why more cardio + fewer calories = stalled progress
🏋️♀️ The role of strength training (and how to start without burning out)
🔥 The Tone Trap that keeps women over 50 stuck in a cycle of exhaustion
💛 What to do instead—so you can feel strong, energized, and see real change
This episode is short and sweet but packs a punch when real talk meets tough love—with a big dose of clarity and encouragement. Let’s bust the myths and rebuild your strength—on your terms.
📥 Grab the free Tone Trap Fix PDF here
Learn what really creates tone after 50—plus get a strength plan and checklist you can start using today: Grab Your Copy Of The Tone Trap Fix Here
If you’re over 50 and feel like your belly fat is running the show… you’re not alone. And you're definitely not crazy.
In this episode of Becoming a Longevity Badass, I’m sharing the real reason belly fat becomes such a frustrating, emotional, all-consuming issue for women in midlife—and why the things you’re doing to fix it might actually be making it worse. 😩
We’ll talk about:🔁 The Belly Fat Fixation Loop (and how to break it)
🚫 Why the obsession with shrinking your belly is stealing your progress
💥 The #1 shift that helped me finally get leaner, stronger, and stop the cycle for good
This episode is a mix of personal truth and tough love—and if you’ve been stuck in the loop, it’s going to hit home. Let’s break the cycle together.
For decades, women have been told that eating less is the key to weight loss, health, and feeling better. 🙄 But here’s the truth: That advice is outdated, misleading, and might actually be making things WORSE.
In this episode, we’re breaking down:
✅ Why “Eat Less, Move More” is a broken strategy for women over 50
✅ How eating too little actually SLOWS your metabolism & leads to muscle loss
✅ The truth about Ozempic & weight loss drugs—what they don’t tell you
✅ What to do instead to build strength, energy, and longevity (without starving yourself!)
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the diet cycle, exhausted from counting calories, or frustrated that nothing seems to work long-term—this episode is for you. Hit play and let’s set the record straight. 🎧🔥
"Aging is just a slow decline, right?" WRONG. 🙅♀️
We’ve been told that getting older means getting weaker, slower, and losing our independence—but what if that’s complete BS? What if you have WAY more control over how you age than you’ve been led to believe?
In this episode of Becoming a Longevity Badass, we’re busting the biggest aging myth out there and diving into what actually determines how well you age. (Spoiler: It’s NOT just your genetics!)
You’ll learn:
✅ The truth about why some people stay sharp, mobile, and thriving into their 90s+
✅ What Blue Zone cultures can teach us about longevity (and how to apply it NOW)
✅ Why strength training, whole foods, and sleep are the ultimate anti-aging tools
✅ The one mindset shift that will change how you approach aging—forever
Aging isn’t a sentence. It’s a choice. And it’s NEVER too late to take control of your health, strength, and future. So, what’s one small change you’re making today?
💪 Press play & let’s rewrite the aging story together!