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The Self You Seek
Dr. Brendan
20 episodes
3 days ago
The Self You Seek is your companion in discovering the deeper layers of who you are and aligning your life with your true passions. Dr. Brendan, a psychiatrist, medical doctor, and health entrepreneur with a holistic approach to mental health, explores self-actualisation, mental flourishing, and personal empowerment through reflections and insightful interviews with thought leaders. Brendan uncovers transformative stories and shares practical, science-backed steps to help you elevate your mind, body, and soul, guiding you toward living your most authentic, fulfilled life.
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The Self You Seek is your companion in discovering the deeper layers of who you are and aligning your life with your true passions. Dr. Brendan, a psychiatrist, medical doctor, and health entrepreneur with a holistic approach to mental health, explores self-actualisation, mental flourishing, and personal empowerment through reflections and insightful interviews with thought leaders. Brendan uncovers transformative stories and shares practical, science-backed steps to help you elevate your mind, body, and soul, guiding you toward living your most authentic, fulfilled life.
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The Self You Seek
Ben Goresky - aka Evolving Man - On Masculinity, Relationships, and Achieving Your Dreams

In this episode of 'The Self You Seek,' host Dr Brendan engages in a profound conversation with Ben Goresky, a men's leadership coach, addiction counselor, and co-director of ARKA Brotherhood. They explore the unique benefits of men's groups, the powerful impact of men sharing their struggles, and the transformative experiences that arise from feeling truly seen by other men. Ben discusses handling suicidal ideation within men's groups, the importance of leaning into shared pain, and the necessity of communal support in saving lives.


They delve into the roles of masculinity and femininity, and how men's groups can push individuals towards achieving their dreams and living authentically. The dialogue highlights the relevance of men's circles for women, the importance of having various support systems, and personal anecdotes on finding the 'self you seek.' Topics also include addiction, particularly in relation to phone use, and strategies for maintaining a healthy balance. Ben concludes by sharing his journey in personal growth and leaving listeners with the importance of finding a trusted environment to nurture and grow into one's true self.


00:00 Introduction to Men's Groups and Their Impact

01:20 Meet Ben Goresky: Men's Leadership Coach

02:24 Personal Journeys and Relationship Programs

03:27 The Power of Men's Groups and Brotherhood

07:32 Healing Through Shared Struggles

15:54 Masculine and Feminine Dynamics

21:04 Addressing Suicidal Ideation in Men's Groups

33:13 Achieving Dreams Through Brotherhood

38:52 The Power of Accountability in Men's Groups

39:26 The Impact of Peer Support on Personal Growth

39:56 The Role of Men's Groups in Building Confidence

41:13 The Importance of Vulnerability and Honesty

42:29 Long-Term Commitment and Breakthroughs in Men's Groups

45:17 Why Women Should Care About Men's Groups

46:14 The Benefits of Women's Circles

01:00:56 The Challenge of Phone Addiction

01:08:59 Personal Growth and Finding the Self You Seek


Connect With Us


Guest Links:

Instagram: instagram.com/evolvingman

Website: evolvingman.com

Relationship course: evolvingman.com/conscious-relationship-council

Addiction circle: evolvingman.com/freedom-from-addiction

Brotherhood: arkabrotherhood.com


Host Links:

Instagram: instagram.com/itsdrbrendan

YouTube: youtube.com/@TheSelfYouSeek

Email: theselfyouseek@gmail.com


Additional Invitation: Ben’s relationship course starts in March. Register now to join!

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9 months ago
1 hour 14 minutes 50 seconds

The Self You Seek
Exploring the Subconscious, Energetic Healing and Manifesting with Dr Manish Plaha (Ep 19)

In this episode of 'The Self You Seek,' Dr. Brendan sits down with Dr. Manish Plaha, a medical doctor whose passion lies in holistic wellbeing and meditation. The discussion covers Dr. Plaha's journey into holistic practices, the science behind the human energy field, and ways to harmonize it for optimal mental, physical, and emotional health. Dr. Plaha shares personal experiences and actionable practices for embodying well-being, including mindful meditation and emotional processing. 


He discusses the transformational impact of recognizing and reprogramming subconscious beliefs that shape reality. The episode also touches on the balance between traditional medicine and alternative holistic approaches, and the importance of intuitive living. The conversation concludes with insights on fostering meaningful relationships, personal anecdotes about Dr. Plaha's manifestation journey, and an invitation to a group program focused on subconscious reprogramming through meditation and breath-work.


00:00 Introduction and Manifestation

01:58 Welcome to the Self You Seek

02:02 Meet Dr. Manish Plaha

02:59 Understanding the Human Energy Field

04:23 The Power of Mindfulness and Meditation

06:43 Scientific Evidence of Energy Fields

12:09 Transforming Beliefs and Reality

18:38 Addiction to Thought Patterns

28:39 Emotional Processing and Embodiment

41:39 Manifesting Love and Relationships

47:50 Holistic Health vs. Traditional Medicine

56:48 Spiritual Influences and Final Thoughts


YouTube Episode - https://youtu.be/fpntSQxqM58

Dr Manish’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.manish.plaha

Dr Brendan's Instagram - https://instagram.com/itsdrbrendan

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com


SOURCES:
McCraty, R., Atkinson, M., & Bradley, R. T. (2004). Electrophysiological Evidence of Intuition: Part 1. The Surprising Role of the Heart. Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, 10(1), 133–143. https://doi.org/10.1089/107555304322849057

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10 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes 26 seconds

The Self You Seek
Neurofeedback with Dr Moshe Perl | Evidence, Uses and The Future (Ep 18)

In this episode of The Self You Seek, Dr. Moshe Perl, a clinical psychologist with extensive experience in neurofeedback, shares insights into the use and benefits of EEG-based brainwave therapy. Dr. Perl discusses his background, including his work with ADHD, PTSD, chronic pain, and developmental trauma. 


The episode delves into the history and development of neurofeedback, the mechanisms behind how brainwaves influence behavior and cognition, and the promising future of this therapy in treating various neurological and psychological conditions. Through anecdotes, research findings, and expert perspectives, Dr. Perl illustrates how neurofeedback can be a powerful tool in enhancing mental health and cognitive performance.


00:00 Introduction to Dr. Moshe Perl and Neurofeedback


01:16 Personal Experience with Neurofeedback


02:11 Understanding Neurofeedback and Biofeedback


04:28 Applications of Neurofeedback


06:08 Evidence and Research on Neurofeedback


09:15 Neurofeedback for Trauma and Brain Injuries


14:31 Peak Performance and Neurofeedback


18:12 Brain Waves and Their Functions


26:32 EEG Interpretation and Medication


38:13 Potential Risks and Safety of Neurofeedback


40:20 Understanding Neurofeedback Side Effects


41:58 Mechanics of Neurofeedback Sessions


46:26 The Brain's Remarkable Adaptability


51:39 History and Development of Neurofeedback


55:22 Personal Journey into Neurofeedback


58:52 Future of Neurofeedback and Developmental Trauma


01:06:31 Neurofeedback and Spiritual Practice


01:10:16 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


YouTube Episode - (add link after scheduling on YT)

Dr Moshe Perl’s website - http://neurotherapy.com.au

Dr Brendan's Instagram - https://instagram.com/itsdrbrendan

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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11 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes 24 seconds

The Self You Seek
Mental Health and Life Optimisation: Definitions, Explorations and Strategies to 'Enhance' Your Life (Ep 17)

In this solo episode of the Self You Seek podcast, Brendan delves into the nuanced differences and similarities between mental health and life optimization. Inspired by a recent article on 'Cosmetic Psychiatry', the discussion challenges the superficial approach to mental health enhancements, advocating for a more profound perspective.

The episode covers the definition of mental health, its broader implications beyond mere functionality, and the evolving understanding of mental illnesses. It also explores the concept of life optimization, emphasizing personal growth, fulfillment, and the pursuit of one’s highest potential. 

Brendan shares personal experiences, the importance of spirituality, and introduces strategies such as Maslow's hierarchy of needs, resilience, openness, and community connections. The episode concludes by encouraging listeners to reflect on their own mental health and optimization goals, highlighting the significance of gratitude and personal empowerment.


00:00 Introduction: Embrace the Unknown

01:53 Welcome to The Self You Seek

01:59 Mental Health vs. Life Optimization

02:15 Exploring Cosmetic Psychiatry

03:36 Defining Mental Health

05:55 The Evolution of Mental Illness

08:29 Understanding Life Optimization

10:29 Personal Growth and Fulfillment

12:56 Spirituality and Meaning

17:25 Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

25:02 Building Resilience and Adaptability

27:54 Final Thoughts and Call to Action


YouTube Episode - https://youtu.be/Sqq3uTh5Ix4

Dr Brendan's Instagram - https://instagram.com/itsdrbrendan

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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11 months ago
31 minutes 52 seconds

The Self You Seek
Laura Dowling, aka The Fabulous Pharmacist, on Breaking Taboos in Women’s Health and Wellness (Ep 16)

In this episode of 'The Self You Seek,' guest Laura Dowling, also known as the Fabulous Pharmacist, discusses her journey from being a traditional pharmacist to becoming a vocal advocate for women's health and preventative care. Laura shares her experiences in the healthcare system, highlighting the lack of focus on preventative medicine and the impact of the WHI study on HRT prescriptions.


She talks about her passion for medicinal herbs and the development of her supplement line, Menoperi Shrooms, designed to support women going through menopause and perimenopause. The conversation delves into the importance of reducing shame around women's health, the benefits of education and open discussions, and the need for research and better resources in menopause care. Laura also touches on broader topics including the ethical implications of the supplement industry, the benefits of yoga, and the need to shift societal attitudes towards women's health and wellness.


00:00 Introduction to Women's Health Issues


02:02 Meet Laura Dowling: The Fabulous Pharmacist


02:34 Laura's Journey in Pharmacy


03:33 The Impact of HRT Studies


05:05 Exploring Alternative Medicines


07:22 Rise of Laura's Online Presence


08:53 COVID-19 and Women's Health


15:11 Challenges in Women's Health Education


21:49 The Need for Menopause Research


23:25 Drug Shortages and Patents


23:49 Understanding Women's Anatomy


24:45 Promoting Body Positivity


26:35 Viva La Vulva Show


27:25 Addressing Sexual Abuse and Trauma


32:23 Men's Role in Women's Health


37:51 Importance of Exercise and Self-Care


39:44 Spirituality and Yoga


45:37 Final Thoughts and Advice


YouTube Episode - https://youtu.be/nYQ6NouvyM0

Laura’s Instagram https://instagram.com/fabulouspharmacist

The Laura Dowling Experience Podcast - available anywhere you get your podcasts - www.fabuwellness.com & @fabulouspharmacist

Dr Brendan's Instagram - https://instagram.com/itsdrbrendan

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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1 year ago
47 minutes 59 seconds

The Self You Seek
Science and Spirituality with Dr Kieran Fox (Ep 15)

In this episode, host Dr Brendan and guest neuroscientist Dr Kieran Fox explore the intersections of Albert Einstein's spirituality and scientific thought through the lens of Fox's book, 'I am a part of infinity.' The conversation weaves through Einstein's pacifism, his admiration for Gandhi, and the merging of science with spiritual principles like monism and non-dualism. Discussions touch on the complexities of cosmology, the human mind, and the universe, discussing the universality of laws, and the potential of meditation to tap into subconscious energies.

The dialogue further explores the relationship between physical beings and the universe, including channeling knowledge and the balance between personal truths and empirical knowledge. Moreover, the episode delves into the burgeoning field of psychedelics research, highlighting the potential for mental health treatments and the societal impacts observed from the psychedelic sixties. Ultimately, the episode underscores a holistic approach to understanding the universe and advocates for integrating empirical science with spiritual practices for profound self-realization.


00:58 Kieran Fox's Book Journey


01:45 Exploring Einstein's Spirituality


03:21 Quantum Questions and Spirituality


06:42 Ethics and Nonviolence


09:07 Kieran's Spiritual Journey


13:05 Science and Spirituality


17:28 Pantheism and the Order of Nature


25:25 Meditation and the Subconscious


27:39 Exploring the Source of Mystical Experiences


28:08 The Concept of Internal Mystical Experiences


29:52 Channeling and Flow States in Creativity


31:24 The Importance of Actions Over Beliefs


33:34 Science and Spirituality: A Necessary Balance


36:46 The Universal Nature of Spiritual Experiences


42:40 The Role of Psychedelics in Psychiatry


46:10 The Future of Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy


52:37 Reflections on the Intersection of Science and Spirituality


55:10 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


YouTube Episode - https://youtu.be/CUV7R14CJW0

Kieran’s Website - http://www.kieranfox.net/

Kieran’s Book - https://a.co/d/ackyTqY 

Dr Brendan's Instagram - ⁠https://instagram.com/itsdrbrendan

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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1 year ago
57 minutes 38 seconds

The Self You Seek
ADHD Uncovered: A Psychiatrist's Perspective (Ep 14)

In this solo episode of 'The Self You Seek,' Dr Brendan (a psychiatrist) explores the complexities of ADHD. The episode discusses medication and non-medication treatments, the importance of individualised assessments, and personal stories highlighting the impact of proper diagnoses. 


The psychiatrist emphasises ADHD's multifactorial nature, touching on genetic and environmental factors, and highlights the need for a balanced approach to treatment. The speaker also delves into diagnostic criteria, comorbidities, and the increasing rates of ADHD diagnoses across different age groups.


00:00 Life-Changing ADHD Treatment


01:59 Introduction to the Solo Episode


02:18 Understanding ADHD: A Hot Topic


03:28 Complexity and Diagnosis of ADHD


04:49 Real-Life ADHD Stories


06:57 Diagnostic Criteria for ADHD


13:39 Normal Variance and ADHD Symptoms


15:04 Causes and Risk Factors of ADHD


18:17 Increasing ADHD Diagnoses


22:59 Pharmacological and Non-Pharmacological Treatments


28:57 Lifestyle Factors in ADHD Management


31:04 Summary and Conclusion


YouTube Episode - https://youtu.be/OqqeuSzpomQ

Dr Brendan's Instagram - ⁠https://instagram.com/itsdrbrendan

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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1 year ago
34 minutes 12 seconds

The Self You Seek
Exploring Breathwork and Masculinity with Anthony Ball (Ep 13)

In this episode, Dr Brendan welcomes Anthony Ball, a breathwork facilitator, men's work facilitator, and entrepreneur originally from the UK. Anthony shares his journey into breathwork, which began after a significant emotional breakup and was inspired by Wim Hof. He discusses how breathwork has been a therapeutic outlet for him to process deep emotions and explains the different styles of breathwork, including pranayama, rebirthing, and holotropic breathing. 


Anthony also delves into his involvement with men's groups, particularly the Arka Brotherhood, and explains the benefits of men coming together to heal the masculine, set boundaries, and find balance in their lives. The episode also touches on the roles of anger, the importance of safe containers for emotional expression, and the different types of breathwork and their applications.


01:58 Discovering Breathwork


04:08 Transition to Breathwork Business


04:50 Exploring Masculinity and Emotions


06:43 Understanding Breathwork Theory


12:16 Different Types of Breathwork


17:22 Holotropic vs. Rebirthing Breathwork


21:05 Wim Hof and Extreme Practices


24:21 Managing Emotional Releases


26:52 Managing Emotions and Anger


28:24 Breathwork and Anger Management Techniques


29:40 The Role of Men's Groups in Emotional Processing


34:17 Personal Experiences with Anger and Growth


35:04 Introduction to Men's Work and Brotherhood


37:59 The Structure and Purpose of Men's Groups


41:31 Benefits and Misconceptions of Men's Groups


53:41 Final Thoughts and How to Get Involved


YouTube Episode - https://youtu.be/kzJoSCbupYQ 

Anthony Ball’s Website - https://www.letsgetlostbali.com/

Anthony Ball’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/letsgetlost.ubud

Dr Brendan's Instagram - ⁠https://instagram.com/psychiatry4soul⁠

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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1 year ago
51 minutes 43 seconds

The Self You Seek
Living the Dream: How to Redesign Your Life with Michael Henri (Ep 12)

In this episode of 'The Self You Seek,' host Dr Brendan welcomes Canadian physio entrepreneur Michael Henri. Together, they explore Michael's transition from a traditional career in physiotherapy to a life of entrepreneurship and freedom in Bali. 


Inspired by Tim Ferriss's '4-Hour Workweek,' Michael shares his story of travel, personal growth, and the practical steps he took to design his ideal life. From embracing the mindset necessary for such a transformation to navigating the challenges and opportunities of living as an expat during a global pandemic, this episode offers valuable insights for anyone looking to break free from conventional lifestyles and create a life by design.


01:12 Michael's Journey to Life by Design


01:53 Early Career and Inspirations


04:37 Transition to Entrepreneurship


07:53 Building a Flexible Lifestyle


11:54 Planning for a New Life


19:43 Taking the Leap: Preparing for Travel


28:22 Facing the Unknown: Embracing Change


28:34 Conflicting Advice: Side Hustles vs. Full Commitment


29:56 Cutting Ties: Letting Go of Safety Nets


33:50 The Journey Begins: From Vietnam to Bali


34:42 Settling in Bali: Overcoming Challenges


38:23 Taking Risks: The Entrepreneurial Mindset


42:58 Living in Bali: Cultural Adaptation and Expectations


49:06 Building a Life by Design: Final Thoughts


YouTube Episode - https://youtu.be/y9MePHD8nQI

Michael Henri’s Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt⁠

Dr Brendan's Instagram - ⁠https://instagram.com/psychiatry4soul⁠

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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1 year ago
52 minutes 48 seconds

The Self You Seek
Surviving to Thriving with Psychologist Zahra Ciardi (Ep 11)

In this episode of 'The Self You Seek,' Brendan welcomes Zahra Ciardi, a psychologist who shares her incredible life story and professional journey.


Zahra discusses her background as a refugee from Kuwait and the personal struggles she faced growing up in different countries.


She also delves into her experiences with mental health issues and the various therapeutic approaches that have helped her overcome them, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).


The conversation touches on the challenges and rewards of the therapeutic profession, the importance of holistic approaches, and the emerging model of intensive therapy.


Zahra's insights and personal anecdotes offer a compelling narrative of resilience, growth, and the quest for self-improvement.


00:14 Memories from Headspace


02:09 Zahra's Background and Early Life


03:52 Journey to Australia


07:08 Challenges in Australia


11:07 Therapeutic Journey and Mental Health


30:10 Understanding Maladaptive Behaviors


31:27 The Role of Therapy in Personal Growth


32:03 The Psychology Community and Self-Disclosure


33:07 Challenges in the Mental Health Profession


37:29 Exploring Intensive Therapy Models


46:09 The Power of EMDR Therapy


55:23 The Cost and Accessibility of Therapy


57:32 Final Thoughts and Gratitude


Zahra’s Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/zahra_ciardi⁠

Zahra’s Website - ⁠https://www.zahraciardi.com/⁠

Dr Brendan's Instagram - ⁠https://instagram.com/psychiatry4soul⁠

The Self You Seek email - ⁠theselfyouseek@gmail.com⁠

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1 year ago
1 hour 1 minute 45 seconds

The Self You Seek
From Head to Heart: Rachel Zitin on Somatic Therapy and Embodiment (Ep 10)

In this episode of The Self You Seek Podcast, host Dr Brendan and guest Rachel Zitin delve into the realms of somatic therapy and embodiment coaching. Broadcasting from the scenic Tuscan countryside, Rachel shares her unique journey from the U.S. to Italy, exploring how an early interest in yoga led her to a deeper understanding of body awareness. She recounts her experiences navigating disembodiment and embracing self-awareness through practices that prioritize mind-body connections.


The conversation offers insights into her methodologies, the importance of slow, mindful therapeutic processes, and the role of cultural influences in how we interact with our bodies. This episode highlights the beauty of integrating physical sensations with mental health practices to achieve a holistic sense of well-being.

01:46 Introducing Rachel Zitin: Somatic Therapist and Embodiment Coach

02:22 The Journey into Somatic Therapy and Embodiment

04:44 Understanding Proprioception and Body Awareness

08:29 The Italian Influence on Embodiment

12:50 The Impact of Upbringing on Disembodiment

19:20 Balancing Embodiment and Dissociation

25:14 The Importance of Mind-Body Connection

32:05 What to Expect from Somatic Therapy

34:11 Exploring the Client's Present State

34:42 The Role of Empathy and Professional Boundaries

35:29 Somatic Therapy Techniques

36:04 Building Trust and Safety in Therapy

37:17 The Importance of Slow Progress in Coaching

43:17 Online vs. In-Person Coaching

45:26 The Role of Touch in Therapy

48:19 Understanding the Limits of Somatic Coaching

56:18 Personal Stories and Reflections

01:04:39 Final Thoughts and Contact Information


Rachel Zitin's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rachelzitin

Dr Brendan's Instagram - https://instagram.com/psychiatry4soul

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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1 year ago
1 hour 6 minutes 54 seconds

The Self You Seek
The Transformational Power of Yoga Therapy with Vijeth Kumar (Ep 9)

In this episode of The Self You Seek Podcast, we dive deep into the world of yoga and self-exploration with Vijeth Kumar, a seasoned yoga practitioner and therapist.


The interview begins with a meditation (played in the appendix), setting a serene tone for the discussions that follow. Vijeth shares his inspiring journey, growing up in a yoga-conscious family and the influential teachings he encountered at an ashram near Mysore.


Throughout the conversation, they touch upon the essence of devotion, the importance of humility, and the pursuit of self-realisation through yogic practices.


The dialogue covers practical advice for incorporating mindfulness and meditation into daily life, restoring balance, and living authentically.


Concluding with discussions on the holistic benefits of yoga therapy, this episode is a profound exploration of finding inner peace and potential.

00:00 Introduction and Meditation

01:42 Vijeth's Yoga Journey

03:00 Childhood and Early Influences

04:14 Understanding Devotion

05:41 The Importance of Humility

10:42 Meditation and Mindfulness

17:37 Creating Space for Self-Discovery

24:26 Exploring the Layers of Being

26:41 The Role of Emotions in Life

31:34 Understanding Yoga Therapy

35:48 The Importance of Holistic Healing

39:28 The Path of Realization in Yoga

45:54 The Power of Meditation and Gratitude


Vijeth Kumar's Instagram - https://instagram.com/vijethyoga

Dr Brendan's Instagram - https://instagram.com/psychiatry4soul

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com

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1 year ago
54 minutes 36 seconds

The Self You Seek
The Power of Acceptance: Path to Peace (Ep 8)

In this episode of the 'Self You Seek' podcast, hosts Brendan and Richard discuss the final topic of their first series, 'Recipes for Change': acceptance. They explore how acceptance shifts the focus from constant striving to finding peace in the present moment.


The conversation delves into personal reflections, the importance of self-exploration, the practice of mindfulness and gratitude, and the distinction between acceptance and resignation. The hosts emphasize the profound impact of accepting life as it is, and offer practical advice on how to integrate this mindset into daily life for greater fulfillment and peace of mind.

04:04 The Concept of Acceptance

14:33 Practical Applications of Acceptance

22:01 Acceptance in Personal Growth

25:02 Benefits of Acceptance

26:16 The Power of Authenticity

27:09 Embracing the Present Moment

27:40 The Downsides of Acceptance

28:11 Balancing Acceptance and Change

29:10 The Myth of Perfect Relationships

32:16 Practicing Acceptance: Tips and Techniques

32:32 The Role of Meditation and Mindfulness

35:53 The Importance of Self-Exploration

38:45 Gratitude Practices

43:31 Temporary Acceptance Period

46:08 Overcoming Self-Judgment

48:19 Acceptance vs. Resignation

49:24 Final Thoughts and Farewell


Richard’s Instagram - ⁠https://instagram.com/richardbrownecounsellor

Dr Brendan's Instagram - https://instagram.com/psychiatry4soul

The Self You Seek email - theselfyouseek@gmail.com


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1 year ago
51 minutes 42 seconds

The Self You Seek
Exploring the World of Talk Therapies: Insights, Benefits, and Personal Stories (Ep 7)

Have you ever been curious to try therapy but weren't quite sure where to start or what to expect? Or just want to know more about the world of therapy?


In this episode of the 'Recipes for Change' series in the Self You Seek podcast, Dr Brendan and Richard explore the different types of talk therapies, their effectiveness, and how to find the right therapist. The episode covers Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, and attachment-based therapy, highlighting their unique approaches and benefits.


Dr Brendan and Richard share personal anecdotes, discuss the therapeutic alliance's importance, and stress the significance of therapists' ethical responsibilities. This comprehensive discussion offers listeners valuable insights into the world of therapy and encourages them to seek the help they need. 00:00 Introduction to Talk Therapies

03:07 Defining Talk Therapies

04:59 The Importance of Therapeutic Alliance

05:47 Finding the Right Therapist

09:42 The Cost and Accessibility of Therapy

11:49 Psychological Mindedness and Therapy

14:09 Therapy's Impact on Personal Growth

23:53 Therapy for Relationship Issues

30:47 Therapy for Mental Health Conditions

33:26 Personal Experiences with Therapy

35:53 Long-Term Therapy Benefits

36:25 Reparenting and Parental Reflections

37:58 The Power of Therapeutic Space

39:09 Unspoken Trauma and Therapy

44:20 Pros and Cons of Therapy

45:46 Finding the Right Therapist

48:02 Types of Therapy Explained

59:34 Seeking Therapy: Practical Tips

01:02:56 Final Thoughts on Therapy


Richard’s Instagram - ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/richardbrownecounsello⁠r

Dr Brendan's Instagram - ⁠https://instagram.com/psychiatry4soul⁠

The Self You Seek email - ⁠theselfyouseek@gmail.com⁠

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1 year ago
1 hour 6 minutes 31 seconds

The Self You Seek
Understanding Psychedelics with Marcos Forti: Integration, Support, and Emotional Well-Being for Personal Growth (Ep 6)

Summary: Dr. Brendan Daugherty hosts the 'The Self You Seek' podcast, focusing on self-action realization and well-being. In this episode, Marcos Forti, a Psychedelic Assisted Mentor, discusses the transformative potential of psychedelics, emphasizing responsible use, ego understanding, and integration for growth and healing.

 

Topics discussed:

1. Psychedelics and Transformation

  • Marcos shares insights on how psychedelics can access the unconscious mind and rewire negative patterns.
  • Emphasis on understanding the ego and approaching psychedelics responsibly.
  • Personal journey using psychedelics to address physical pain and trauma, highlighting the role of ego in shaping experiences and behaviours.

 

2. Preparation and Integration

  • Importance of preparing mentally, physically, and setting intentions before consuming psychedelics.
  • Need for professional guides experienced in psychedelics and psychotherapy.
  • Highlighting the significance of post-experience integration for healing and growth.

 

3. Role of Integration and Support

  • Importance of group calls, integration sessions, and guidance in psychedelic therapy.
  • Mention of methods like yoga, coaching, and breathwork for support.
  • Trials incorporating integration periods for positive results, especially in treating conditions like treatment-resistant depression. 

4. Emotions, Health, and Disease

  • Discussion on suppressed emotions impacting health, anecdotal evidence of emotional healing leading to disease remission.
  • Importance of addressing emotional well-being alongside medical treatment for conditions like cancer.
  • Role of self-love, movement, and emotional awareness in maintaining overall health.

 

5. Responsible Use and Integration

  • Responsible use of substances like cannabis, importance of integration sessions, and releasing suppressed emotions.
  • Society's negative connotations around expressing emotions and the need for proper integration for transformation.

 

6. Challenges and Benefits of Psychedelics

  •  Legal status of psychedelics in different countries, benefits and cautions of microdosing, and societal conditioning around emotions.
  • Importance of mindfulness, legal practices, and proper support for safe exploration of psychedelics.

 

7.  Self-Discovery and Happiness

  • Overcoming societal conditioning and ego resistance for self-discovery and happiness.
  • Negotiating with the ego for increased happiness and self-love, leading to a healthier lifestyle.
  •  Using tools like psychedelics, psychotherapy, and yoga for personal growth and development.


Timestamps:

01:08  Exploring the Transformative Power of Psychedelics with Marcos Forti

11:08  Navigating Psychedelics: Understanding Ego, Integration, and Transformative Experiences

16:09  Key Steps for Safe and Effective Psychedelic Consumption and Integration

26:09  The Importance of Integration and Support in Psychedelic Therapy

27:39  Exploring the Connection Between Emotions, Health, and Disease Prevention

34:31  Exploring the World of Psychedelics: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Creativity

39:24  The Importance of Integration Sessions for Consciousness Expansion and Emotional Release

43:01  Exploring the Power of Psychedelics and Ancestral Emotions

50:43  Navigating the Legal and Personal Aspects of Psychedelic Experiences

58:25  Challenges and Reflections on Psychedelics, Pharmaceuticals, and Self-Discovery

01:06:23  Conversations with Ego: A Journey to Self-Love and Happiness

01:09:25  Negotiating with the Ego: A Journey to Self-Understanding and Fulfillment

 

References:

The Self You Seek podcast by Dr. Brendan Daugherty

Marcos Forti, Psychedelic Assisted Mentor

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1 year ago
1 hour 14 minutes 5 seconds

The Self You Seek
Psychedelics and Plant-Based Medicine | microdosing, macrodosing, contextualising mental health usage, history, legal & ethical considerations, responsible use, balancing curiosity with caution (Ep 5)

In this episode of The Self You Seek, Dr Brendan and Richard discuss psychedelics and plant-based medicine. They cover various aspects such as the history, types, risks, and benefits of these substances. The conversation delves into the potential uses for mental health treatment and personal development, as well as the importance of responsible and safe practices when considering psychedelics.


Topics discussed:

  • Introduction to psychedelics and plant-based medicine
  • Contextualising the field of psychedelics
  • Various types of psychedelics and their effects
  • Micro-dosing and its trend in Silicon Valley
  • Cultural and historical perspectives on psychedelics
  • Legal and ethical considerations
  • Risks associated with psychedelics
  • Responsible use principles: the 6 S's
  • Balancing curiosity with caution in exploring psychedelics
  • The evolving landscape of medicine and therapy

Time stamps:

00:02  Exploring Psychedelics and Plant Based Medicine
03:07  Exploring the History and Resurgence of Psychedelics: A Journey into Altered States of Consciousness
13:07  Exploring the Potential of Psychedelic Medicine for Mental Health and Personal Development
23:07  Exploring Psychedelics: From Microdosing to Hero's Dose
32:00  Exploring the Controversial Topic of Ayahuasca and its Impact on Mental Health
42:00  Exploring the Ethics of Recommending Psychedelics in the Medical Field
43:17  Exploring the Pros and Cons of Psychedelics: A Comprehensive Overview
47:15  Navigating Legal Risks and Societal Stigmas of Psychedelic Substance Use
50:30  The 6 S's: Principles for Responsible Psychedelic Use and Integration
55:32  Exploring the Evolving Landscape of Psychedelics and Medicine
59:36  Exploring the World of Therapy


References:

  • The Psychedelic Explorer's Guide by Dr. James Fadiman
  • Microdosing Institute
  • The Third Wave
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1 year ago
1 hour 47 seconds

The Self You Seek
Byron de Marsé's story of intuition and incremental change | from Oklahoma Ranch kid to Bali-based renowned yoga teacher (Ep 4)

In this episode of The Self You Seek podcast, host Dr Brendan is joined by renowned yoga teacher Byron de Marsé from Bali. Based on the topic of incremental change, the conversation explores Byron's journey from growing up on a cattle ranch in Oklahoma to becoming a yoga teacher in Bali, emphasizing the power of curiosity, self-discovery, and manifestation in shaping one's path in life.

Topics discussed:

  1. Byron's Journey and Background

    • Growing up on a cattle ranch in Ada, Oklahoma.
    • Transition to Los Angeles and unexpected journey into yoga teaching.
    • Reflecting on conservative upbringing, exposure to new ideas, and embracing change.
  2. Self-Discovery through Yoga

    • Receptivity as a child leading to yoga practice.
    • Impact of mentors and raising consciousness through yoga.
    • Confidence and mindset shift towards exploring new opportunities.
  3. Law of Attraction and Manifestation

    • Power of words and thoughts in manifesting desires.
    • Balancing positive, negative, and neutral energies for conscious manifestation.
    • Focusing on emotions and gratitude in effective manifestation.
  4. Manifestation Beyond Material Desires

    • Importance of emotional fulfillment over superficial goals.
    • Exploring true desires for power and security.
    • Consequences of misusing wealth and disconnect from actual truth.
  5. Professional Growth and Challenges

    • Importance of mentors, intuition, and discerning genuine opportunities.
    • Navigating through challenges in the yoga industry with authenticity and sincerity.
    • Balancing success and authenticity in career growth.
    • Embracing incremental change, following intuition, and inspirational growth in the yoga industry.

Key takeaways and lessons:

  • Curiosity, openness, and self-discovery are powerful tools in shaping one's life journey.
  • Manifestation requires a balance of positive, negative, and neutral energies, focusing on emotions and gratitude.
  • Balancing success and authenticity is essential in navigating the challenges of career growth.
  • Incremental change, following intuition, and staying open to opportunities lead to positive growth and success in the yoga industry.


00:01  Unveiling the Journey of a Yoga Teacher from Oklahoma to Bali
03:23  From a Cattle Ranch to Yoga Teaching: A Journey of Open-Mindedness and Curiosity
13:23  Journey of Self-Discovery Through Yoga Experience and Curiosity
23:23  From Intuition to Reality TV: A Journey of Signs and Symbolism
32:44  Unveiling the Law of Attraction: A Yogic Journey
39:05  Mastering Manifestation: The Power of Words and Intentions
42:12  Unveiling the Art of Manifestation and the Law of Attraction
52:12  Unveiling the Truth Behind Manifestation and Emotional Fulfillment
53:28  From Power Yoga in Los Angeles to Yoga Barn in Bali: A Journey of Transformation and Resilience
01:01:37  Navigating the Impact of Mentors and Intuition in Career Growth
01:05:37  Navigating Challenges and Opportunities in the Yoga Industry
01:08:43  Discover Where to Find Inspirational Yoga Classes and Content Online
01:11:46  Embracing Incremental Changes for Personal Growth


References

Yoga Barn Bali

@byronyoga

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1 year ago
1 hour 13 minutes 48 seconds

The Self You Seek
Incremental Change | Unlocking Your Potential, Value of Incremental Change, Overcoming Mental Paralysis, The 'Eat That Frog' Method, Unleashing Hidden Potential (Ep 3)

Dr. Brendan Daugherty and co-host Richard Browne explore the concept of incremental change in the Self You Seek podcast. They discuss the power of persistent small adjustments over time, the challenges and benefits of incremental change, and the importance of embracing small steps towards personal growth and development. Key takeaways and lessons: - Incremental change involves making small adjustments over time for significant outcomes. - Embracing small steps towards personal growth and development is crucial. - Balancing financial stability with personal fulfillment requires patience and common sense. - Overcoming mental barriers and taking immediate actions can lead to positive changes. - Incorporating fun activities, gamification, self-care, and big goals are essential for personal growth. 00:02  Unlock Your Full Potential with Incremental Change
03:49  Embracing Incremental Change for Personal Growth and Development
08:02  Understanding Different Perspectives
11:30  Unlocking the Power of Incremental Change: Navigating Golden Handcuffs and Redefining the Good Life
17:21  The Power of Incremental Change: From Couch to 5k to Front Yard Ultra Marathon
25:33  The Journey of Incremental Change and Self-Improvement Through Running and Education
31:27  The Power of Incremental Changes for Personal Growth and Sustainability
39:27  Taking Action Towards Change
42:54  Overcoming Barriers to Change and the Power of Small Actions
49:40  How to Make Life More Enjoyable: The Power of Fun and Gamification
53:29  Boost Your Productivity with 'Eat That Frog' Strategy and Self-Care Practices
57:57  The Power of Making a Detailed Plan to Achieve Your Goals
01:04:13  Breaking Free a story of the Elephant


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1 year ago
1 hour 6 minutes 50 seconds

The Self You Seek
A Radical Transformation: From Tech Companies to Meditation Leader - Leah’s Journey (Ep 2)

In this episode of the Self You Seek podcast, host Dr. Brendan interviews Leah Santa Cruz, a meditation teacher, speaker, and coach for the Balance app. Leah shares her journey from a challenging childhood to finding her path in meditation and teaching. She discusses radical change, personal growth, and the challenges she faces as a mother, wife, and professional. Leah emphasizes the importance of self-exploration, facing fears, and embracing imperfections on the journey to personal fulfilment. Topics discussed: - Leah's journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a meditation teacher in Bali - The impact of family struggles and personal suffering on Leah's interest in psychology and meditation - Leah's transition from a career in tech to meditation, following a divorce and a period of self-discovery - The role of meditation in helping Leah listen to her deeper self and make significant life changes - Challenges faced by Leah as a mother, wife, and professional, and the importance of self-reflection and emotional regulation - Unexpected realizations and future challenges as Leah navigates personal growth and explores new creative avenues Here are key takeaways and lessons: - Embracing change and facing fears can lead to personal growth and fulfillment. - Meditation is a powerful tool for self-exploration, healing, and emotional regulation. - Balancing personal and professional challenges requires self-awareness, compassion, and the courage to make difficult decisions. - Accepting imperfections, embracing impermanence, and listening to the heart's desires are essential for personal growth and well-being. - Finding ways to express creativity and follow unexpected paths can lead to new opportunities for growth and self-discovery.

Timestamps

⁠00:03⁠  Unveiling the Journey of Self-Discovery with Leah Santa Cruz in Bali

⁠03:51⁠  Transforming Burnout to Passion Through Yoga and Meditation

⁠07:55⁠  From Corporate Job to Meditation Leader: A Journey of Radical Change and Self-Discovery⁠

23:04⁠  Navigating Desires and Fears through Meditation

⁠27:10⁠  Exploring Meditation: Embracing All Aspects of Self for Healing

⁠34:10⁠  Embracing the Full Human Experience Through Meditation and Healing

⁠42:33⁠  Navigating the Personal Challenges of Parenting and Self-Doubt

⁠45:44⁠  Navigating Relationships, Work, and Self-Discovery: Insights from a Meditation Teacher⁠

52:52⁠  From Still Meditation Teacher to Noisy Music Dance Person: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Courage

References: - Leah Santa Cruz's website: [leahsantacruz.com] - Balance app: Available on the App Store and Google Play Store - "Well Balanced" podcast: Listen to Leah Santa Cruz's show on various podcast platforms.





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1 year ago
57 minutes 32 seconds

The Self You Seek
Radical Change | Catalysts for Change, Potential Regrets, Visualising the Life You Want, Incremental Changes, Trusting Your Intuition (Ep 1)

Summary: In the first episode of "The Self You Seek," hosted by Doctor Brendan Daugherty, a psychiatrist, and featuring his friend and colleague, Richard Browne, a therapist, the duo delves into the topic of radical change. They discuss the different types of radical change, share personal stories of radical change, and provide practical insights into embracing and navigating radical change. Topics discussed: - Introduction to the podcast and the first series called "Recipes for Change"

- Different types of radical change, including rock bottom moments, long overdue radical change, and near-death experiences

- Richard's personal radical change decision to quit drinking alcohol

- Brendan's personal radical change story of transitioning from a psychiatrist in Sydney to a coach, psychiatrist, and fitness fanatic in Bali

- Benefits and cons of radical change

- Practical ways to approach radical change Key takeaways and lessons: - Radical change can be sparked by rock bottom moments, accumulated feelings of needed change, or near-death experiences, and it often requires courage and introspection. - Brendan's story exemplifies the transformative power of radical change, demonstrating that it's a journey with ups and downs, not a linear process. - When considering radical change, reflecting on potential regrets, connecting with inspirational individuals, and embracing incremental changes can build confidence and momentum. - Deep self-inquiry, trusting intuition, using Parkinson's Law and creating a sense of urgency through accountability and intentional planning are essential steps to embrace radical change.

- The podcast aims to demystify radical change and provide a balanced, realistic perspective on navigating life-altering transformations.


Timestamps

00:02  Unlock Your Potential: Exploring Radical Change, Psychedelic Medicine, and More with Dr. Brendan Daugherty
03:32  Exploring Men's Health (and Woman's health!) and Self-Actualization with Richard and Brendan
06:41  The Power of Radical Change: A Journey of Courage and Transformation
23:10  The Pros and Cons of Radical Change and How to Approach It
29:19  Embracing Radical Change: Practical Steps and Motivational Strategies
38:38  Radical Change: Making It Happen with Accountability and Support
41:49  Join the Self You Seek Podcast Channel for the rest of the Recipes for Change series

References: - "The Self You Seek" channel YouTube @TSYS - Dr Brendan Daugherty @itsdrbrendan - Richard Brown, therapist @richardbrownecounsellor

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1 year ago
42 minutes 53 seconds

The Self You Seek
The Self You Seek is your companion in discovering the deeper layers of who you are and aligning your life with your true passions. Dr. Brendan, a psychiatrist, medical doctor, and health entrepreneur with a holistic approach to mental health, explores self-actualisation, mental flourishing, and personal empowerment through reflections and insightful interviews with thought leaders. Brendan uncovers transformative stories and shares practical, science-backed steps to help you elevate your mind, body, and soul, guiding you toward living your most authentic, fulfilled life.