Pain is part of life; extra suffering is often a story we add. The first sentence is the fact—boring, security-camera neutral. The second sentence is our swift conclusion: “This means I’m behind…they don’t respect me…I always mess this up.” That add-on thought spikes emotion and narrows options. In this episode, you’ll learn to separate fact from story in the moment, try on gentler alternatives, and choose actions that create relief instead of residue. Five minutes of “second-sentence” awareness can return hours of energy to your day.
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You push through the launch, the big meeting, the recital—and then comes the strange, heavy quiet. Instead of relief, your body serves up flatness, irritability, or a fog you can’t shake. Nothing’s wrong with you; that’s your nervous system landing.
This episode names the “post-push crash,” explains why stillness can feel unsafe after a sprint, and gives you short, compassionate practices to help your system downshift without turning recovery into another performance metric. You’ll leave with a 3-minute re-entry plan you can use after any big effort.
You’ll Learn:
Why the “letdown effect” happens (and how to stop making it mean you’re failing)
A two-minute body check-in that reduces spirals without fixing or numbing
A 3-step “Name → Normalize → Nurture” script for fast, kind self-regulation
How to design micro-rest that actually restores (presence over productivity)
One practical swap this week to land softer after your next push
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If you’ve ever caught yourself silently grading a partner, colleague, or co-parent on how well they follow your unwritten rules, you’re not alone. We call it “the manual”—that invisible rulebook that promises safety but delivers resentment and exhaustion. In this episode, we unpack why high-achievers default to managing other people’s behavior, how that erodes trust (and your energy), and what it looks like to lead with clean boundaries instead. You’ll practice shifting from policing to self-ownership, so you can say less, do less, and mean more—without abandoning your standards or your self-respect.
You’ll learn:
How to spot your hidden “manual” and the telltale signs it’s running the show
A simple boundary formula that centers your behavior, not their compliance
The difference between care, control, and coercion—and why it matters for intimacy and leadershipA quick self-coaching loop to interrupt people-pleasing and over-explaining in real time
One tiny experiment to trade perfection for consistency this week
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In this episode, Amanda turns a big idea into an easy mental game: your thought creates your result. We walk through three everyday moments, hosting with bounce‑house balls and mysterious house piles, over‑prepping for a client, and late‑night wheat thins, and practice flipping the default story to its literal opposite (with three pieces of evidence for your brain) for a quick 10% shift in mindset and results that add up over time
You’ll learn:
How to separate facts from your brain’s story in under 10 seconds
Why your brain thinks the fact causes your feelings (threat scan, gold stars, identity)
The powerful self-coaching model in real life—no jargon
The literal‑opposite trick (not affirmations) + how to gather three pieces of evidence to rewire your brain
An easy action step so you that you can use it this week and make your life feel easier
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Today’s episode is about that strange paradox we all feel at some point: wanting time to slow down and speed up all at once. This morning, as I dropped off my youngest for her very first day of kindergarten, I felt both: the grief of how quickly she’s growing and the longing for six months from now when life in California feels more settled. If you’ve ever wanted to savor the moment and rush to the next chapter at the same time, this episode is for you.
What You Will Learn
Why it makes perfect sense to want time to both slow down and speed up.
How grief and impatience are signals, not problems, and what they’re really telling you.
What neuroscience and cognitive dissonance reveal about our relationship with time.
How to shift from arguing with time to partnering with it, using small, believable mindset shifts.
Two practical ways to honor what matters: by savoring what’s here and taking one step toward what’s next.
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Most women are trying to move through their mornings and evenings with the same expectations, the same mindset, and the same energy, and it’s exhausting. Your body, brain, and emotional capacity are different at the start and end of the day. And you already know how to respond to that difference—for your kids.
In this episode, we look at how your natural parenting instincts, structure and focus in the morning, softness and presence at night, can become a mirror for how to care for yourself. You’ll learn why your nervous system shifts the way it does, how your thoughts follow the same pattern each day, and what it might mean to bring yourself into rhythm with your real life. Not the perfect routine. The one you’re already living.
What You Will Learn
Why your brain and body shift so dramatically from morning to night
What cortisol, decision fatigue, and emotional processing have to do with it
How your parenting instincts can mirror what you need for yourself
Why your morning thoughts feel urgent and your evening thoughts feel heavy
A few simple practices to match the rhythm you’re already living
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When you were deep in people-pleasing and perfectionism, the urge was to control. You controlled your tone, your timing, your calendar, your image. You got good at managing how others experienced you. And for a while, it worked. But once you stop performing and start telling the truth, a new urge can show up, the urge to escape. Not because your life is falling apart, but because it was built around a version of you who no longer exists.
This episode is about what happens after the unlearning. When you’re no longer shape-shifting to stay safe, but you still feel trapped inside the choices you made from that old version of you. It’s the part no one talks about: when freedom doesn’t feel freeing yet. We’ll talk about how to recognize the trap, how to understand the urge to escape, and how to stay with yourself long enough to let something new emerge. Not through fixing or burning it all down, but through honesty, presence, and slow return.
What You Will Learn
Why the urge to escape often shows up after you stop controlling everything.
How people-pleasing and perfectionism can shape your entire life, not just your behavior.
What makes this phase feel disorienting, even when nothing is “wrong.”
How to stay with the urge to escape without burning it all down.
Why naming what no longer fits is more powerful than fixing it.
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You cleared the calendar. You created white space on purpose, but now your brain is filling that space with worry, busywork, or impulse clicks, and you’re wondering why rest feels so weird.
In this episode, I share what’s really going on when we feel restless in the quiet, why your brain instinctively reaches for drama, perfectionism, or dopamine and what you can offer it instead. We’ll talk about the neuroscience behind this “vacuum effect,” the kinds of low-pressure focus that actually help, and one of my favorite mindset tools for building direction without sliding back into hustle.
What You Will Learn
Why your brain doesn’t always interpret white space as peace and what it does instead
The science behind your brain’s default behavior when there’s nothing to solve
How to spot the difference between real presence and reactivity disguised as productivity
What a “gentle chew toy” is and how it can help you refocus without forcing structure
Why direction (not discipline) is often the most effective form of support
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If you're tired of using pressure and guilt to drive your goals, this episode is for you. I'm sharing a simple mindset shift, one that helped me go from “I should” to “what if I already was,” and how it completely changed the way I relate to my goals. We’ll talk about why “should” goals feel heavy, how “what if” identities create momentum, and how you can use this tool today to feel more aligned, playful, and in motion.
What You Will Learn
Why “I should” goals create pressure and what to try instead.
How to use “what if” questions to reframe your goals with ease.
The brain science behind why imagined identity creates real change.
How to shift your mindset without forcing belief or motivation.
A simple way to move toward the version of you you actually want to become.
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This episode starts with a return you’ve been avoiding and ends with a different way of seeing yourself. We’re exploring why small tasks feel emotionally loaded, what your brain is really doing when you procrastinate, and how the patterns you reinforce in the little moments shape how you show up in the big ones. No hacks. No pressure. Just a different way to respond to the part of you that wants to avoid.
What You Will Learn
Why tasks like returns trigger unexpected emotional resistance (it’s not about the task)
How shame, guilt, or dread quietly fuel procrastination—even on things that “should be simple”
The connection between small avoidance and your bigger identity patterns
How to name the emotion under the delay—and relate to it differently
A way to move forward that doesn’t require a breakthrough, just a different kind of self-leadership
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You are not one version of yourself. You’re a whole cast of characters, each one with her own wisdom, energy, and role to play.
In this episode, we explore the power of naming your mom archetypes and choosing, on purpose, who leads throughout your day. From Efficient Household Manager to Netflix Scrunchie Mom, from Emotionally Patient Mom to Dancing Mom, every part of you matters. And when you let them take turns instead of fighting for control, everything softens.
What You Will Learn
How naming your everyday “mom modes” can help reduce mental overwhelm
Why switching roles isn’t the problem, it’s doing it unconsciously that drains us
The difference between choosing who leads vs. trying to be everything at once
A simple three-step practice for shifting into the energy you actually need
Why honoring your full cast of selves brings more presence, creativity, and ease
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You can’t prioritize everything at once, and that’s not a failure, it’s life.
In this episode, I share a practical tool for letting go of guilt when life feels stretched too thin. Inspired by a simple triangle framework, high-quality, efficient, and affordable, we explore how choosing two priorities often means letting the third take a backseat for now.
Whether you’re feeling stuck around meals, marriage, movement, or just trying to do it all, this reframe can help you make peace with your tradeoffs and move forward with more clarity and grace.
What You Will Learn
A simple but powerful framework to help you release guilt around subconsciously trying to do everything well, fast, and affordably
Why high-achieving women often feel like they’re failing, even when they’re doing everything right
How to identify your two current priorities and name what’s taking a backseat
Real-life examples of how this triangle shows up in meals, marriage, and movement
How to use this lens to make fast, grace-filled decisions without shame
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This episode is about one of those nights. The kind where something small, like a missing safe food at dinner, turns into something big. The kind where you and your partner have the same argument you’ve had a dozen times, and afterward, you don’t like how you showed up.
I take you inside a real-life moment where my thoughts led me into anxiety, anger, and shame and how I’m working through it now using the self-coaching tools I teach. Not to shame myself. Not to pretend it didn’t happen. But to understand it, learn from it, and soften my return to connection.
This isn’t an episode about being right. It’s about what happens when we’re human and how we come back to ourselves and our people after that.
What You Will Learn
How one unspoken thought can quietly drive anxiety, reactivity, and shutdown
The specific difference between showing up as a partner vs. prosecuting your partner
What the self-coaching Model looks like in real life, not just in theory
How to shift from shame to self-compassion—without bypassing accountability
Why "repair" is more powerful than perfection, and how to start practicing it
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Have you ever reached the end of something big—hosting, moving, launching, caregiving—and instead of feeling relief or joy, you feel... foggy? Flat? Off?
That’s not failure. It’s not brokenness. It’s called the letdown effect, and it’s a real, biologically-rooted phase where your nervous system finally catches up after being in go-mode.
In this episode, I share two very personal moments where this hit me hard, once after a simple playdate, and once after six months of robotically getting my family settled post-move. We’ll talk about why rest can feel so unfamiliar, what’s really happening underneath that resistance to joy, and how to meet it all with more self-trust and less judgment.
What the “letdown effect” is and why it feels so uncomfortable
Why joy or rest can feel unsafe after high-stress seasons
How to recognize the crash in yourself and in your kids
The thought patterns that keep us stuck in momentum
Practical ways to support your nervous system during recovery
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Caring is beautiful...until it becomes a unsustainable. When you tie your worth to outcomes, over-function to prove your value, or spin in fear of being misunderstood, you end up exhausted.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to care differently. Not less because you’re disengaged, but less because you’re done outsourcing your peace to things you can’t control.
We’ll explore the identity shift that happens when you stop managing perceptions and start leading from clarity, not fear. You’ll walk away with practical ways to take back your emotional power, one imperfect, intentional action at a time.
The subtle line between care and control and how to know when you’ve crossed it
Why loosening your emotional grip on outcomes doesn’t mean you’re disengaged
How high-achieving women often confuse over-caring with effectiveness (and what to do instead)
Four strategies to protect your energy while still showing up with heart and integrity
Four simple ways to practice aligned care without over-functioning or over-apologizing
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You’ve done everything right. The career. The family. The checked boxes. But you still feel… unfulfilled. A little numb. Like something’s missing, and you can’t name what.
In this episode, we explore what happens when high-achieving women realize they never really learned how to want, they only learned how to please.
We’ll unpack why this happens, how it shows up, and what it looks like to gently reconnect with your desire, without guilt, without proof, and without needing to justify it.
What You Will Learn:
Why high-achieving women often feel unfulfilled, even when life looks “good” on paper
How early conditioning around approval and performance disconnects us from authentic desire
The subtle ways perfectionism and people-pleasing show up in everyday decisions
Four practical strategies to gently rebuild your relationship with wanting, without guilt or justification
How to begin honoring your preferences in low-stakes moments to restore self-trust
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Feeling bored? Whether it’s during a long meeting, another round of pretend play, or a whole season of life that feels a little flat—this episode is for you.
We’re unpacking the belief that “I shouldn’t be bored” and exploring why it feels so hard to just be still. You’ll learn how boredom is often not the problem, but what we make it mean—and how allowing it (instead of fixing it) can actually be one of the most useful emotional skills you can build.
We’ll also talk about why our fast-paced lives make boredom feel like a crisis, and what it really means when you’re craving constant stimulation.
Why we’re conditioned to believe boredom is a problem and how to spot that conditioning in yourself
What buffering is, why we do it, and how it sneaks into your day without you realizing it
How to allow boredom without guilt or urgency, and why that’s an emotional strength
How to notice the thoughts that add shame and pressure to an otherwise neutral moment
What to do when you’re craving action or change—but might actually need rest and stillness
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Do you ever look in the mirror and wonder, “Where did the old me go?” In this episode we unpack the brain-and-hormone remodel that’s quietly reshaping ambitious moms—and prove it means you’re upgrading, not unraveling.
You’ll learn a neuroscience-backed pause-and-label trick, craft a bridge thought that melts “I’m losing myself,” and run a one-sticky-note experiment that turns everyday moments into solid evidence of your evolving strengths.
By the end you’ll walk away with a calmer mind, concrete proof you’re still every bit as capable (just calibrated for a new season), and a clear micro-action plan you can start today.
What You Will Learn:
How to spot the “identity-shift” fog and understand the hormone-plus-brain science behind it (nothing’s wrong with you!).
Pause and label sneaky thoughts like “I’m losing myself” so they lose their power.
Channel each body-breadcrumb—tight chest, snack-bin obsession, spreadsheet boredom—as data for building your new identity, rather than treating them like emergencies.
Run the C-T-F-A-R + bridge-thought combo to rewire unhelpful stories into kinder, truer ones.
Test one tiny action a day to gather real-world proof that the new you is already emerging.
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In this episode, we aim at the belief “I have to do it myself.” You’ll see why a brain that can juggle only four things starts to melt down when you add “just one more,” learn a simple thought-to-result model that shows exactly where the stress begins and what it creates, and test a small delegation challenge that frees up real time…without lowering your standards.
If you’ve ever signed school forms at midnight and still woken up to chaos, this episode offers a new way forward, one shared task…and one calmer morning…at a time.
What You Will Learn:
Identify the “I-have-to-do-it-myself” loop using the self-coaching model, and then watch the same pattern pop up at work, at home, and everywhere in between.
Understand why working memory tops out at four items and how delegating protects your mental bandwidth.
Practice letting “lived-in” mess stay visible so your nervous system learns that not every untidy moment is an emergency.
Swap an unintentional self-coaching model for an intentional one with a single bridge thought, then track real-world proof in an evidence log.
Run a 24-hour delegation experiment that can win back almost two hours a week and teach your brain that collaboration really works.
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If a friend’s promotion post has ever sent you down a doom-scroll rabbit hole of job tabs and self-doubt, this episode is your antidote. In just half an hour we’ll catch the “I’m behind” thought at the source, drain the panic in ninety seconds, and reframe every twist in your résumé as intentional training for what’s next.
You’ll leave with a fresh belief that actually feels true, a delight-driven vision for the year ahead, and a micro-action you can take before the school-pick-up alarm goes off. Let’s turn comparison into clarity—one practical move at a time.
What You Will Learn
How to spot the exact millisecond comparison hijacks your brain and install a quick “pop-up blocker” before it spirals.
A 90-second, science-backed reset you can run while the microwave hums, turning urgency into usable information.
A simple test that separates the photograph of your career (hard data) from the anxious caption “I’m behind.”
A step-by-step way to translate zig-zag experience into a clear value story so that your résumé reads adaptable, not late.
One five-minute action ritual that builds daily momentum (and proof) without adding another thing to your to-do list.
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