Learn how to reverse stress with this simple practice. In order for this to work, It's best you understand why it works. What is stress? Why does this tool help to decrease stress? We answer these questions in this short video. Men, I would love to invite you to attend my free 60 minute webinar on exactly HOW you can go about this reprogramming. It changed my life, and has helped me assist this change in many other men. 2pm Sunday, 25 June, NZST. Register for free - click HERE Invest 4% of one day this year to create lasting change in how you feel, think, and act. If you’re ready to master anxiety in a holistic, and science-focused way, I would love to give you a free 30-minute consultation. We will uncover the true cause of your anxiety, and I will lay out what’s required to reprogram. Click HERE
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Anxiety is a fear based emotion. When the patterns that trigger the reaction of anxiety are stimulated from a situation, learning how to reprogram the experience into a safe one will eventually result in peace.
Men, I would love to invite you to attend my free 60 minute webinar on exactly HOW you can go about this reprogramming. It changed my life, and has helped me assist this change in many other men. 2pm Sunday, 25 June, NZST.
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From facing her own struggles with anxiety and perfectionism, Nebraska Psychologist Dr. Hayden Finch has studied and researched a natural based approach to overcoming these issues. She has become a specialist around the psychology of procrastination, and works closely with high functioning anxiety as well.
In this BITES episode Dr. Finch unpacks anxiety in to very digestible parts and gives a simplified understanding to the often over complicated topic. She even adds in strategies that you can use to navigate your own anxieties.
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Dr. Nicole LePera also known as The Holistic Psychologist (@the.holistic.psychologist) is a deeply experienced and renowned player in the mental health scene. She is a published author and has amassed a huge Instagram following over the last few years because of her scientific, truthful and digestible content around mental illness and trauma. I had the privilege of having a conversation with her a few years ago for the podcast and that episode was filled with absolute gems of information! So, I've decided to repost part of that conversation into a shorter BITESIZED episode. If you are interested in hearing the full episode with Nicole, just search "Pocket Coach Nicole LePera" on any of your podcast platforms.
In this BITES episode we speak about some tips Nicole finds fundamental in improving your mental being.
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Alongside painful experiences, memory is created. That memory is used as data to prevent future painful scenarios. Normally, this is just an engrained reaction. However, when the memory is painful enough, this can be labeled as trauma. Trauma leads to triggering reactions in our life today based on an experience of the past.
I was recently in a car crash in Kenya. I explain how this occurred, the trauma I accrued from the experience, and how I have already processed the trauma of being a passenger in a moving vehicle. I have used this method countless times for my own trauma, as well as my clients’ trauma. May it serve you well.
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Jermaine is a former founder with experience in education tech, mar-tech, creative agency, and CPG (toys) industries. He took a sabbatical from the business world and served as finance deputy to the former California State Treasurer's gubernatorial campaign. Alongside his multiple business endeavors, he has ongoing pressure coming from multiple directions that he’s constantly dealing with, and I’m increasingly impressed by how he does it, whilst maintaining such high output in a clear minded way.
Jermaine shares what he does and what he focuses on in order to prevent himself from falling victim to the pressure and expectations that are continuously put onto him by others.
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A mind-blowing episode on the recent science that many scientists in the 90’s or early 2000’s would have scoffed at on building self-esteem and confidence in a way that’s sustainable. Thought-provoking indeed.
Tobias is an online coach who helps people transform their health & physique. He is also a published scientist, with his research focusing on how to overcome self-defeating behaviour. Tobias studied Neuroscience at the University of New South Wales, graduating with First Class Honours.
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KEY STUDIES MENTIONED:
Lovingkindness is a better alternative to comparing yourself to others:
Gentile, D. A., Sweet, D. M., & He, L. (2019). Caring for Others Cares for the Self.
Successful individuals tend to experience fewer temptations:
Milyavskaya, M., & Inzlicht, M. (2017). What’s So Great About Self-Control?
Individuals high in self-control pursue want-to goals rather than have-to goals:
Inzlicht, M., & Friese, M. (2020). Willpower Is Overrated.
Forecasting obstacles improves goal achievement:
Oettingen, G. (2012). Future thought and behaviour change.
Getting clear on your values can boost self-control:
Schmeichel, B. J., & Vohs, K. (2009). Self-affirmation and self-control.
Building discipline is a very abstract idea, and often misunderstood for grit. Discipline is not grit (as Tobias alludes to). He shares a follow-on framework that can be used (backed by science) to help us build the disciplinary muscle so that we can gain more control over our life in a healthy way that adds wellbeing, rather than taking it away.
Tobias is an online coach who helps people transform their health & physique. He is also a published scientist, with his research focusing on how to overcome self-defeating behaviour. Tobias studied Neuroscience at the University of New South Wales, graduating with First Class Honours.
Follow Tobias on Instagram @tobiasjohnson_
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KEY STUDIES MENTIONED:
Lovingkindness is a better alternative to comparing yourself to others:
Gentile, D. A., Sweet, D. M., & He, L. (2019). Caring for Others Cares for the Self.
Successful individuals tend to experience fewer temptations:
Milyavskaya, M., & Inzlicht, M. (2017). What’s So Great About Self-Control?
Individuals high in self-control pursue want-to goals rather than have-to goals:
Inzlicht, M., & Friese, M. (2020). Willpower Is Overrated.
Forecasting obstacles improves goal achievement:
Oettingen, G. (2012). Future thought and behaviour change.
Getting clear on your values can boost self-control:
Schmeichel, B. J., & Vohs, K. (2009). Self-affirmation and self-control.
This often-not-talked-about key was enlightening for me. It’s helped me see discipline in a completely different light that I feel will be life changing for many of you who take action on the brilliant notes Tobias shares. A lot of us (including myself) had it all wrong.
Tobias is an online coach who helps people transform their health & physique. He is also a published scientist, with his research focusing on how to overcome self-defeating behaviour. Tobias studied Neuroscience at the University of New South Wales, graduating with First Class Honours.
Follow Tobias on Instagram @tobiasjohnson_
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KEY STUDIES MENTIONED:
Lovingkindness is a better alternative to comparing yourself to others:
Gentile, D. A., Sweet, D. M., & He, L. (2019). Caring for Others Cares for the Self.
Successful individuals tend to experience fewer temptations:
Milyavskaya, M., & Inzlicht, M. (2017). What’s So Great About Self-Control?
Individuals high in self-control pursue want-to goals rather than have-to goals:
Inzlicht, M., & Friese, M. (2020). Willpower Is Overrated.
Forecasting obstacles improves goal achievement:
Oettingen, G. (2012). Future thought and behaviour change.
Getting clear on your values can boost self-control:
Schmeichel, B. J., & Vohs, K. (2009). Self-affirmation and self-control.
I had the amazing opportunity to Interview Clinical Psychologist Doctor Stephanie Carinia who specializes in various forms of therapy ranging from CBT + EMDR to Schema + Psychodynamic therapies. We did a Live Q&A on Instagram, and we had some incredible questions come through that I’m sure many will relate to. She provided fantastic insights on many topics that are important aspects of developing more peace and harmony in one’s life. Tune into this thought provoking and healing episode for some incredible insights and practical steps one can take.
Dr. Stephanie Carinia
https://www.psychologiststephanie.com/
https://www.instagram.com/psychologiststephanie/
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Clinical Psychologist Doctor Stephanie Carinia who specializes in various forms of therapy ranging from CBT + EMDR to Schema + Psychodynamic therapies touches on an important topic, codependency and narcissism. Both of these being opposite ends of the spectrum of inner stability, Dr. Stephanie shares steps to build this inner stability, and to start the healing journey from these tendencies within ourselves, and also how one can start taking action when these tendencies are identified in our loving relationships.
Dr. Stephanie Carinia
https://www.psychologiststephanie.com/
https://www.instagram.com/psychologiststephanie/
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Clinical Psychologist Doctor Stephanie Carinia who specialises in various forms of therapy ranging from CBT + EMDR to Schema + Psychodynamic therapies touches on an important topic, the inner child. She talks about how one can self parent themselves into healing from inner child wounds, and she discusses how these wounds affect us today.
Dr. Stephanie Carinia
https://www.psychologiststephanie.com/
https://www.instagram.com/psychologiststephanie/
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These steps improved the quality of my sleep to a degree where I could sleep less, AND have an improved mental and emotional wellbeing + clarity from greater rejuvenation. Implement these 3 science-based steps (with supporting evidence) to improve the quality of your sleep in ways that you probably have never heard of, yet are more positively impactful than long term sleeping pills or melatonin use.
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Why I abused steroids, and what I learnt from the experience. We talk about how it triggered my major depression, the abuse sent me into a huge energy lull complete with brain fog and many other health problems (including impotence). I also speak about the steps I took to recover from the health problems and my ill mentality at the time. It’s my hope that others don’t have to go through this like I did.
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I was meditating last night, and recognised a strong unpleasant feeling. It lasted for a few moments and then passed. It triggered a memory of how I used to spiral into depression if strong unpleasant emotions were noticed. My life has changed drastically in a positive way. I share some things that have led to these changes.
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After trying various forms of therapy and healing modalities, I finally found vipassana meditation. This, more than anything, helped me heal my deepest wounds and trauma. I have come to understand the lack of necessity for any specific modality (even meditation). I also delve into the neuroscience of trauma as to why, so long as the neurons associated with the trauma are rewired in a positive way, how this happens is not important.
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Let’s break this falsely believed segregation between extroversion and introversion. I grew up introverted. I then learnt how to be extroverted. At different stages of my life I was attached to needing my own space, or needing others. I have now learnt how to be non-dependent on either. This episode is about the steps I’ve taken to out train these boxes we call introverted and extroverted.
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I had peace backwards for most of my life. Understand this one thing about peace, then implement it into your life, and I strongly believe your life will be different forever. This understanding around peace and suffering changed my life, may it change yours, too.
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During time in my life when my self-esteem was still quite low. I got so sick of the lack of confidence I had, that I set an intention for the year of 2017 to meet 2 new people every day. As a naturally introverted person, this was a massive challenge. It did however grow me into what many would call extroverted over the course of that year. I speak about the steps I took and the lessons I learnt over that time.
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Used properly, this tool can cushion fears and quell anxiety. Take this tool seriously, and practice it a few times over. You will find that with the right amount of time and intention, the thing you feel anxious about will no longer bother you anywhere near as much as it does right now. Enjoy.
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