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Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
Charlotte and Jonathan
235 episodes
2 hours ago
Join the award-winning Wellness Theory Podcast to learn how to eliminate stress, feel in control of your emotions, and build a healthy life that lasts. Hosted by Co-Founders and Master Coaches, Jonathan Mills and Charlotte Stebbing-Mills, you'll discover the most effective natural ways to optimise wellness. Tune in for inspiring guest interviews and practical tips on how to let go of unhealthy stress and make a difference in your life and the world. Be well, mean well, make a difference that lasts and join the Wellness Theory movement today.
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Join the award-winning Wellness Theory Podcast to learn how to eliminate stress, feel in control of your emotions, and build a healthy life that lasts. Hosted by Co-Founders and Master Coaches, Jonathan Mills and Charlotte Stebbing-Mills, you'll discover the most effective natural ways to optimise wellness. Tune in for inspiring guest interviews and practical tips on how to let go of unhealthy stress and make a difference in your life and the world. Be well, mean well, make a difference that lasts and join the Wellness Theory movement today.
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Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#232 Surviving Beyond Stress & Domestic Violence Anna Marie Lopes

Ready to stop stress from draining you? Take the Scorecard and learn how to turn pressure into performance, and performance into meaningful impact 👉 https://bit.ly/3I4iPRC


Survival isn’t the same as living.


In this powerful episode, Anna Marie Lopes—domestic violence survivor and founder of Brave + Free—shares her journey of moving beyond stress, fear, and silence to reclaim her life. With raw honesty, Anna reveals the hidden patterns of trauma, the toll of toxic dynamics, and the strength it takes to rebuild.


Her story is one of scars turned into strength, and survival transformed into leadership. Today, she empowers others through Brave + Free, a safe haven for survivors, challenging stigma and building community.


If you’ve faced trauma, isolation, or wondered how to find your way back to self, Anna’s story offers hope and a reminder: you are not alone.


About Anna Marie Lopes:

Anna is a domestic violence survivor, advocate, and winner of Mental Health Hero of the Year. Through Brave + Free, she creates a safe space for survivors to heal and thrive, while challenging the stereotypes that silence them.


✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How survival mode impacts stress and wellbeing

  • Why toxic dynamics are hard to escape

  • The role of isolation and community in healing

  • What it takes to rebuild identity and trust

  • How giving back can become a route to healing


Time Stamps:

00:00-02:13 Meet Anna Marie Lopez

02:14 - 05:20 Surviving as a way of life

05:24 - 06:18  Enduring Stress and 

06:18 - 08:50 Going Beyond Stress 

08:51 - 09:59 Finding Your Baseline

10:00 - 11:56 When Stress & Trauma Overspills

11:56 - 12:08 Finding Safety in Stress

12:09 - 15:32 Patterns, Trust, Domestic Violence

15:32 - 17:57 Navigating Toxic Dynamics 

17:58 - 24:00 Isolation, Speaking Up & Finding Community 

24:01 -34:00  Escaping for Safety

34:00 - 39:20 The Journey Back to Self

39:20 - 46:30 Giving Back as a Route to Healing

46:30 What’s next for brave and free


This episode proves that healing is possible—and that freedom after trauma is not only possible but powerful.


Be sure to follow Anna’s work here:

https://www.instagram.com/iambraveandfree/ 

https://braveandfree.co/trauma-coaching 

Free Gift: Rediscovering Yourself After Abuse Workbook: https://braveandfree.co/rediscoveringyourself


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3 hours ago
53 minutes 29 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#234 Reimagining Stress for the Next Gen | Maimuna Rashid

Your impact matters—but not at the cost of your wellbeing. The Scorecard shows you how to optimise stress so you can achieve more without burning out 👉https://bit.ly/4gdCF9Q

The youth are under more pressure than ever. But what if stress could be reimagined—not as a burden, but as a foundation for purpose and resilience?


In this episode, Maimuna Rashid—Forbes 30 Under 30 changemaker and co-founder of Pupilar—shares how she’s building the UAE’s first skill-based career community while navigating the realities of stress, generational shifts, and bold leadership at just 20 years old.


From what’s really stressing youth today, to how technology is shaping wellbeing, to the role of faith, values, and purpose, Maimuna opens up about the challenges—and the opportunities—facing the next generation.


If you’ve ever wondered how to better support young people, connect across generations, or reimagine the future of work and wellbeing, this conversation will leave you inspired.


About Maimuna Rashid: Maimuna is a youth strategist, creative director, and Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree. As co-founder of Pupilar, she connects 70,000+ young people each month to real-world opportunities, proving that purpose-driven ecosystems can rewrite the future of work and wellbeing.


✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • What’s really stressing the next generation

  • Why stress compounds—and how to address it

  • The role of tech in shaping youth wellbeing

  • How faith, values, and community build resilience

  • Why purpose-driven ecosystems matter

  • How leaders can support youth mental health


This episode reminds us: youth stress is real. But with the right systems, support, and vision, it can be reimagined for growth, resilience, and purpose.


Time Stamps

00:00-03:28 Meet Maimuna Rashid

03:28 - 07:40 Balancing Multi-Generations

07:40 - 08:50  Generational Shifts 

8:50 -12:40 Reconnecting with Younger Generations

12:40 - 18:30 What’s stressing the youth out

18:30 - 19:37 Stress Performance Pyramid 

19:38 - 24:40 How Tech is Shaping Wellbeing of the Youth

24:40 -  Maimuna’s way to deal with stress

28:25-29:55 - Stress Compounding

29:56 - 34:28 How can we support the youth stress and mental health better

34:29 - 35:09 Well-Working Ecosystems

35:10- 36:15 Surrounding yourself with the right people

36:16-37:02 Long Term Thinking

37:03 - 40:39 Importance of Connection and Community 

40:40 -41:23 The Role of Faith in Stress, Values and Healing

41:24 - 48:54 Purpose Driven Missions and Businesses

48:54 - Final Thoughts 


Be sure to follow Maimuna’s work here:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/maimuna-rashid/

https://pupilar.ae/about-us/


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1 week ago
53 minutes 48 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#233 Rewriting Money for Future Generations | Ben Bolger

High performers aren’t immune to stress—they’re masters at transforming it. Take the Scorecard to find your edge: resilience, focus, and impact that last 👉https://bit.ly/4g5Nevw


Most people learn about money too late. After the debt piles up. After the stress sets in. After the regrets.


In this powerful episode, Ben Bolger—former professional rugby player, financial planner, and co-founder of Squirrel Education—shares how he’s reshaping the way young people think about money. From tackling financial stress early to making money management instinctive, Ben shows how financial literacy can transform not just bank accounts—but confidence, wellbeing, and impact.


If you’ve ever felt stressed about money or wished you’d learned sooner, this conversation will shift how you see financial habits, resilience, and the link between money and mental health.


About Ben Bolger: Ben is the co-founder of Squirrel Education, an award-winning platform reaching tens of thousands of students weekly. With a background in professional sport and behavioural finance, Ben is on a mission to rewire how money is taught—making financial literacy a foundation for confidence, performance, and long-term wellbeing.


✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why money stress starts earlier than we think

  • The parental gap in teaching kids about finance

  • Tips for reducing financial stress in everyday life

  • Why early education changes future wellbeing

  • How money confidence fuels performance and resilience

  • Why “action beats everything” when it comes to change


Time Stamps

00:11-16:32 Meet Ben Bolger

16:32-17:00 Why Squirrel Education

17:00-19:32 Engaged Education, Early Intervention

19:33-20:54 Parental Kid Finance Gap

20:55-21:22 The Worlds Waking Up

21:51 -25:34  Tips for Financial Stress 

25:39 - 27:03 Why not make the rich richer? Why the future of kids.

27:10 - 29:50 Bens vision - Impact on wider society 

29:58 - 31:33 Financial happiness

31:33 - 32:55 Ben’s personal experience with money

32:55 -35:54  Personal Development as force for good

35:54 - 37:15 Fulfilment 

37:15 - 42:39 Staying Balanced and Not Burning Out

42:40 - 47:34 Action Beats Everything

47:35 - 45:22 Moral Ambition

45:22 - 46:24 Wrap Up

46:24 - 47:23 Meals on Me (Sponsor)


Money stress isn’t inevitable—when we rewire how we learn, we rewire how we live.


Be sure to follow Ben’s work here:

www.squirreledu.co

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-bolger/


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2 weeks ago
47 minutes 58 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#231 Absorbing Pressure and Living With Insecurity | Marco Pierre White

High performers aren’t immune to stress—they’re masters at transforming it. Take the Scorecard to find your edge: resilience, focus, and impact that last 👉https://bit.ly/4m4BGtQ


What if the success everyone admires is built on insecurity?


In this powerful episode, Marco Pierre White—the youngest chef ever to earn three Michelin stars—shares the hidden reality behind fame, perfection, and absorbing pressure in the kitchen. From making Gordon Ramsay cry to redefining his own path, Marco reveals how insecurity drove his pursuit of excellence—and how it almost consumed him.


If you’ve ever carried pressure on your shoulders or hidden behind achievement, Marco’s reflections will challenge how you see success, stress, and authenticity.


About Marco Pierre White:

Marco is a world-renowned chef, restaurateur, and culinary icon who redefined what it means to succeed under pressure. But behind the accolades was a man wrestling with insecurity, pressure, and the weight of expectation. Today, he’s a teacher, mentor, and storyteller—sharing lessons in resilience, authenticity, and walking away when the cost is too high.


✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why absorbing pressure always comes at a cost

  • How insecurity can fuel success—and burnout

  • The truth behind making Gordon Ramsay cry

  • Why fulfilment goes beyond Michelin stars

  • How emotional maturity transforms life and leadership

  • Why authenticity matters more than perfection


Timestamps:

00:00-01:42 Meet Marco-Pierre White

01:44-03:33 First Impressions of Dubai

03:34-06:24 Absorbing Pressure

06:25-08:54 Making Gordon Ramsey Cry: It was a Choice

08:55-14:34 Insecurity, Fear of Failure to Drive a Positive Future

14:35-21:44 Realising Dreams and Fulfillment Beyond Michelin Stars

21:45-26:30 Emotional Maturity, Nature, Struggle

26:31-30:04 Giving Back through Teaching and Storytelling

30:05-32:23 The Power of Authenticity 

32:24- Advice for Taking a New Path

33:16-34:17 Meals on Me Sponsor


This episode is a reminder: success without self-awareness is fragile—and the weight of pressure can break even the strongest, unless we learn to face the insecurity beneath it.

Be sure to follow Marco here:

https://www.instagram.com/marcopierrewhit


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4 weeks ago
34 minutes 16 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#230 The Dark Side of Success with Spencer Lodge

Don’t wait until burnout forces you to slow down. Take the Scorecard to discover how to sustain high performance while protecting your health and happiness 👉 https://bit.ly/3V4h6yLSuccess isn’t always what it seems. Behind the drive, the numbers, and the highlight reels—many high achievers quietly struggle with burnout and depression.In this eye-opening episode, Spencer Lodge—entrepreneur, podcaster, and advocate against human trafficking—opens up about the depression that came with chasing success. From self-sabotage to gratitude, from emptiness to impact, Spencer shares how he transformed pain into purpose.If you’ve ever wondered why success doesn’t feel like enough—or faced the silent weight of depression—this conversation offers hope, clarity, and a path forward.About Spencer Lodge: Spencer is a globally recognised sales leader, multi-million-dollar business builder, and host of the chart-topping Spencer Lodge Unscripted podcast. After experiencing depression from burnout and ambition, he now uses his platform to fight human trafficking, raise awareness, and amplify voices for good—while interviewing world-shakers like Tony Robbins, Mo Gawdat, and Steven Bartlett.✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:• Why success can trigger burnout and depression• How self-sabotage shows up in high achievers• Why exposure and gratitude are antidotes to emptiness• How stress, performance, and impact can work in parallel• Why documenting heroes is a powerful force for goodChapters:2:40 - 04:06 What Matters to Spencer4:06 - 14: 20 Darkside of Chasing Success15:00- 16:15 Self-Sabotage 16:23 - 20:37 Filling the Void through Exposure20:38 - 24:07 The importance of Exposure & Giving 24:08 - 34:31 Using Gratitude as Fuel to Serve34:32 - 35:08 Stress, Performance, Impact work in Parallel35:08 - 43:28 Documenting Heroes as a Force for Good43:28 - How to Be a Force for GoodThis episode is a reminder that depression isn’t weakness—it’s a signal for change. And when answered, it can lead to purpose far greater than profit.Be sure to follow Spencer here:https://www.linkedin.com/in/spencerlodge/https://www.youtube.com/@SpencerLodgeTVhttps://www.instagram.com/spencer.lodge/

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1 month ago
52 minutes 32 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#229 The Cost of Becoming a Changemaker | Sarah Brooks

Your impact matters—but not at the cost of your wellbeing. The Scorecard shows you how to optimise stress so you can achieve more without burning out 👉 https://bit.ly/42hK3Ls


Everyone celebrates changemakers. Few talk about the cost of becoming one.


In this episode, Sarah Brook—CEO and founder of The Sparkle Foundation, ESG consultant, and TEDx speaker—shares the raw reality of turning survival into service. From illness, trauma, and overwhelming stress to building a global nonprofit, Sarah reveals what it truly takes to step into changemaker leadership.


If you’ve ever dreamed of making a difference but wondered what it demands, this conversation will give you honesty, hope, and practical insights.


About Sarah Brook: Sarah is a psychologist, award-winning charity leader, and one of the UK’s top nonprofit CEOs. She founded The Sparkle Foundation, bringing health, education, and empowerment to vulnerable communities in Malawi and beyond. Her story is proof that resilience can fuel change—and that anyone can step into the role of changemaker.


✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The real cost of becoming a changemaker

  • Why stress and survival can spark leadership

  • The lessons from building a movement under pressure

  • How to balance suffering, service, and wellbeing

  • Why you don’t need all the answers to make a difference

  • How to turn challenge into contribution


This episode reminds us: the cost of becoming a changemaker is real—but so are the rewards.


​​Get involved with Sparkle Foundation Here: https://www.thesparklefoundation.org/


Timestamps

00:00-02:45 Meet Sarah Brooks

02:46-04:36 The Life Changing Moment

04:37-07:50 The Choice to Lead 

07:51-12:33 The Cost of Building a Movement

12:34-13:43 You Don’t Need All The Answers

13:44-20:24 Everyone Can Make a Difference

20:25-26:52 Reality of Navigating Challenges

26:53-29:26 The Power of Faith, Trust, Knowing

29:27-32:32 Belonging and Identity 

32:33-35:03 Pausing Time, Prioritising Health, Parenting

35:04-37:33 Become a Changemaker 

37:34-39:20 Impact Beyond What We See

39:20-44:42 Fulfilment and Success

44:43-46:20 Balancing Suffering, Service and Wellbeing

46:21-48:26 Dreams Come Back Around

48:27-52:18 Courage, Bravery and Resilience

52:19- 52:48 Final Thoughts

52:49-53:49 Meals on Me Sponsor



Be sure to follow Sarah here:

https://www.thesparklefoundation.org/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahebrook/


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1 month ago
53 minutes 45 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#228 Leverage Pressure To Fuel Global Impact| Sebastian Bates

Ready to stop stress from draining you? Take the Scorecard and learn how to turn pressure into performance, and performance into meaningful impact  👉 https://bit.ly/4n90KRs


What if pressure wasn’t something to escape—but to embrace?


In this powerful episode, Sebastian Bates—entrepreneur, athlete, and founder of The Warrior Academy and The Bates Foundation—shares how pressure shaped his path from the martial arts mats to building global organisations that change lives.


From scaling businesses with purpose to defending futures for children in Kenya, Sebastian reveals how stress, discipline, and courage can transform not just individuals—but entire systems.


If you’ve ever felt stuck in a plateau, pushed by pressure, or questioned how to turn ambition into real impact, this conversation will inspire and challenge you.


About Sebastian Bates: Sebastian is a former professional athlete and the founder of The Warrior Academy, empowering young people with confidence, concentration, and conduct. Through The Bates Foundation, he’s breaking cycles of poverty and defending futures for children in Kenya and beyond. His story combines high performance with radical responsibility, showing how courage can ripple out into communities worldwide.


✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How to leverage stress and pressure for growth

  • Why self-awareness fuels breakthroughs and resilience

  • The power of prioritising what truly matters

  • How courage is contagious in leadership and life

  • Why solving systemic issues requires presence and purpose

  • The magic martial arts brings to mindset and discipline

Get involved with The Bates Foundation here: https://batesfoundation.scoreapp.com/


Time Stamps:

00:00-03:49 Meet Sebastian Bates

03:50-07:08 Leveraging Stress and Pressure

07:09-09:14 Self Awareness & Personal Development

09:15-12:40 How to Breakthrough Plateaus

12:41-16:32 The Power of Prioritising 

16:33-17:02 Confidence, Concentration, Conduct

17:02-28:00 The Bates Foundation making a Global Impact

28:01-33:00 Purpose Energy

33:00-38:50 Courage is Contagious

38:50-46:14 Solving Systemic Issues

46:15-49:41 Transparency of Philanthropy

49:42-54:04 Magic in Martial Arts 

54:05-56:59 A Journey of Impact & Adventure

57:00-58:00 Meals on Me Sponsor


This isn’t just about winning. It’s about transforming pressure into purpose—and creating a ripple effect of impact.


Check out more conversations we’d had with Seb:


What’s Your Moonshot? Building Character, Impact & Legacy with Sebastian Bates: https://youtu.be/jkzflO9xLaI?si=M1rgYjrFqjr7XGyH


Be sure to follow Seb here:

https://batesfoundation.scoreapp.com/

https://www.instagram.com/seb.bates/

https://www.instagram.com/thebatesfoundation.official

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sebastian-bates-4b70412b



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1 month ago
58 minutes

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#227 4 Secret Truths About Making a Difference in the World

Make a Difference Here: https://batesfoundationcommunity.scoreapp.com/What if the missing piece in your wellbeing wasn’t more self-care, but in giving back?In this life-changing trip from the slums and shelters of Kenya, I witnessed something extraordinary. The Bates Foundation isn’t just changing lives, it’s revealing the powerful truth about purpose, contribution, and emotional resilience.If you’ve ever felt burnt out, overwhelmed, or wondered how to make a difference in the world… this is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.💥 This is about more than charity. It’s about a well-being revolution, starting with the simple act of service.

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3 months ago
34 minutes 35 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#226 FELT DISCONNECTED OR LONELY IN THE LAST 30 DAYS - WATCH THIS!

Ever feel like your own mind is your biggest bully? Negative thoughts are a common struggle, especially for high achievers. In fact, the average person has over 6,000 thoughts per day—80% of which are negative (National Science Foundation). For high performers, these thoughts can feel louder, faster, and more brutal. But here’s the good news: You can shift your relationship with your thoughts.🔍 What You’ll Learn:- Why fighting your negative thoughts makes everything worse- How to shift from being led by your thoughts to leading them with compassion- The 3-part Inner T.E.D. Talk framework to reframe your inner dialogue- Real-life example of how a simple mindset shift saved me from burnout (and how it can help you too!)- Actionable steps to stop overthinking and stop the cycle of self-doubt💡 Key Takeaway: 🧠 “You are not your thoughts. You are the thinker.” Learn how high performers lead their thoughts, not the other way around.🎯 Perfect for you if you’ve ever asked:“Why do I feel like I’m never doing enough?”“How do I stop my mind from spiraling into self-criticism?”“What if my thoughts aren’t as true as I believe?”“How do I break free from overthinking and negative thinking patterns?”✅ TAKE ACTION:Try the Inner T.E.D. Talk Framework for a healthier mindsetComplete the High Achiever Scorecard to uncover hidden patterns in your thinking and get personalized insights: https://www.thewellnesstheory.com/stress-less-scorecardComment below: “What recurring thought do I need to challenge today?”Subscribe for more actionable tools to reclaim control over your thoughts and energy.Timestamps00:00 Intro02:05 Thoughts are just thoughts04:11 The big mistake05:31 The inner TED talk07:19 Take our scorecard07:31 Conclusion❤️ 🎁 10% off Meal Delivery - Use Code: WTMOMOfficial Podcast Sponsor: https://hellomealsonme.com/wellness-theory

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3 months ago
8 minutes 2 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#225 FELT DISCONNECTED OR LONELY IN THE LAST 30 DAYS

Ever been surrounded by people, but felt painfully alone? It’s more common than you think. Loneliness isn’t just emotional—it’s biological. It triggers the same brain systems as physical pain. If you’ve been feeling disconnected lately, it’s not your fault. Your nervous system is simply trying to protect you.📚 Research shows: Chronic loneliness increases the risk of early death by 26% (Holt-Lunstad et al., Brigham Young University, 2015). 💡 Disconnection isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s a signal that your inner game needs attention.🔍 What You’ll Learn:- Why loneliness feels like physical pain—and how to process it- The surprising wisdom in your feelings of disconnection- How disconnection starts from within—and what to do about it- Real-life examples of high achievers battling loneliness (Emma Watson’s breakthrough)- Steps to reconnect with your true self and heal emotional isolation🎯 Perfect for you if you’ve ever asked:“Why do I feel alone, even when I’m surrounded by people?”“How do I stop checking out and start truly showing up?”“Why am I disconnected from my own emotions and needs?”“How do I start building real, fulfilling connections again?”✨ Whether you’re drowning in texts and notifications, but feel isolated at your core—this episode will guide you back to meaningful connection.🧠 Featuring: the powerful Emotion ID Process, steps to recalibrate your nervous system, and journal prompts to reconnect with your truest self.✅ TAKE ACTION:Try the Emotion ID Process for real emotional healing: https://youtu.be/kGf0fpbyHNQComplete the Stress & Performance Scorecard (2-minute tool to identify what’s draining your energy): https://www.thewellnesstheory.com/stress-less-scorecardComment below: “What does connection mean to me right now?”Subscribe for more tools to reconnect, re-align, and heal from burnout.Video Recommendations:MORE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS THAN POSITIVE? DO THIS!https://youtu.be/waJ0D1YdiBoTimestamps00:00 Intro00:42 Meals on me01:43 You’re a high achiever02:04 The big mistake02:37 The big idea04:08 Name the feeling04:39 Tend to your nervous system05:08 How can i reconnect with myself06:33 Take one aligned action06:52 Conclusion🎁 10% off Meal Delivery - Use Code: WTMOM❤️ Official Podcast Sponsor: https://hellomealsonme.com/wellness-theory

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3 months ago
8 minutes 31 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#224 7 STEPS TO SAFELY NAVIGATE YOUR EMOTIONS

Are emotions hitting you like a truck out of nowhere? Are they overwhelming you, but you keep holding it together just enough to function?👉 You’re not alone. 80% of high achievers report struggling to manage their emotions and feeling extremely overwhelmed.In this episode, we dive into the neuroscience behind emotional suppression and why high performers often carry unresolved emotions in tailored suits. Plus, we reveal how avoiding emotions actually fuels stress, poor focus, and burnout.💡 Research shows emotional suppression leads to increased stress and burnout (APA Journal of Psychosomatic Research, 2019). 💡 Emotional strength doesn’t come from pushing through; it comes from processing. 💡 If you don’t feel it, you can’t heal it.🔍 What You’ll Learn:- Why emotions are energy—and why they don’t just go away- The link between emotional overwhelm and high-performance stress- The common mistake high achievers make: believing emotions are the problem- How to process emotions with the 7-step Emotion ID Process- Techniques for healing emotional overload without burning out🎯 Perfect for you if you’ve ever asked:“Why do I feel overwhelmed even when I’m succeeding?”“How do I manage my emotions without losing control?”“Why do my feelings keep hijacking my performance?”“How can I stop avoiding emotions and start healing them?”✨ Whether you’re fighting back tears in your car or bottling up stress behind a successful exterior, this episode is a must-watch.🧠 Featuring: actionable tools, the Emotion ID Process, and science-backed techniques for processing emotions so they no longer control you.✅ TAKE ACTION:Try the Emotion ID Process to finally break free from emotional overwhelm.Take the free Stress & Performance Scorecard (2 minutes, deep insights): https://www.thewellnesstheory.com/stress-less-scorecardTimestamps00:00 Intro00:32 Unresolved emotions01:15 Meals on me02:14 The big mistake02:47 The big idea03:14 The emotional ID steps03:32 Identify the emotion 03:53 Feel where it is in your body04:06 Name it aloud04:39 Make the sound of the emotion05:12 Sit with this feeling05:59 Say thankyou07:25 Let go using a breathing exercise08:11 conclusionComment below: “How do you process your emotions?”Subscribe for more tools to heal stress, master emotions, and perform with clarity.🎁 10% off Meal Delivery - Use Code: WTMOM❤️ Official Podcast Sponsor: https://hellomealsonme.com/wellness-theory

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3 months ago
9 minutes 23 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#223 WHY YOU KEEP REPEATING THE SAME PATTERNS ( EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW BETTER )

You’re smart. Driven. Capable. So why do you keep repeating the same patterns that drain your energy, hurt your relationships, and steal your peace?👉 You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re just stuck in a loop—one that even success can’t fix.In this episode, we expose why high performers sabotage their own success, and how stress, outdated beliefs, and subconscious patterns silently run the show.💡 95% of your thoughts are repetitive—and most are negative. (National Science Foundation) 💡 You can’t “out-discipline” a pattern wired for survival. 💡 Real transformation starts with perception—not productivity hacks.🔍 What You’ll Learn:- The Reality Loop: why your inner world keeps recreating burnout- Why pushing harder makes sabotage feel productive- The link between performance pressure and emotional exhaustion- How to shift from high-functioning stress to high-alignment clarity- Journal prompts that help rewire your beliefs in real-time🎯 Perfect for you if you’ve ever asked:“Why do I feel stuck even when I’m succeeding?”“Why can’t I slow down without guilt?”“Why do I keep repeating patterns that don’t serve me?”“How do I stop self-sabotage without losing my edge?”✨ Whether you’re overcommitted, emotionally on edge, or quietly burning out behind the scenes—this episode is your wake-up call.🧠 Featuring: celebrity insights (yes, Adele’s story!), journal prompts, real-life examples, and a mindset-shifting visual model to help you interrupt the loop—and perform from alignment.Timestamps00:00 Intro01:21 You’re a high performer02:11 The biggest mistake04:57 Meals on me05:57 The reality loop12:53 Catch the loop13:18 Conclusion🎁 10% off Meal Delivery - Use Code: WTMOM❤️ Official Podcast Sponsor: https://hellomealsonme.com/wellness-theory

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4 months ago
14 minutes 32 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#222 THE SUCCESS PARADOX WHY HIGH ACHIEVERS STAY STRESSED

You’re successful on paper—but still feel off inside? You’re not alone.This video breaks down The Success Paradox—why high achievers often live in chronic stress, even when they’re “winning” at life.🎯 You’ll learn:- Why burnout isn’t about doing too much—but doing too much of the wrong things- The real reason high performers stay overwhelmed and unfulfilled- How to spot misalignment between your outer success and inner truth- The 3 levels of the Inner Game (and how stress shows up in each)- What Beyoncé’s pivot teaches us about realignment and sustainable performance🧠 You don’t need more time. You need more truth.This is your permission to stop pushing and start realigning.💬 Comment below: What area of your life looks “fine” on the outside—but feels misaligned on the inside?🔥 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this with a fellow high performer who needs a reset. Let’s make high performance sustainable—and aligned.Chapters00:00 Intro Topic00:52 What happens when you work hard at the wrong time01:03 Success Paradox02:23 The BIG MISTAKE08:55 So the first thing is to look at the life levels09:57 Conclusion🎁 10% off Meal Delivery - Use Code: WTMOM❤️ Official Podcast Sponsor: https://hellomealsonme.com/wellness-theory

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4 months ago
11 minutes 28 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#221 8 Ways High Achievers Recover & Optimize Stress for Success

You push hard. You perform well. But you’re still exhausted.Before you call it burnout, ask yourself: Are you recovering properly?✅ It’s not about having less stress—it’s about recovering better.In this episode, we uncover the 8 essential recovery pillars every high performer needs to stay energized, mentally clear, and emotionally resilient—without burning out.🔑 You’ll Learn:- Why rest ≠ recovery- How to optimize sleep, nutrition, and hydration- The role of breathwork in stress regulation- How movement, emotional regulation, and quality thinking restore energy- How micro-actions and energy awareness prevent emotional exhaustionThese tools are science-backed, used by elite performers, and easy to start today.⏰ Chapters:00:00 – Intro00:56 – Stress isn’t going anywhere02:49 – Sleep03:38 – Hydration & Nutrition05:09 – Breath: The CEO of your body06:22 – Emotions07:27 – Movement08:31 - Quality of Thinking10:17 – Micro Actions11:16 – Energy Awareness12:25 – Conclusion🧠 Related Videos (Watch These Next):Why Sleep Has The Highest ROI When it Comes to Wellnesshttps://youtu.be/Q06eGHrmIS4?si=MJFfmqsniA-0dHd6MEALS ON ME - Unlock Vibrant Energy: The Truth About Balanced Nutrition & Hydrationhttps://youtu.be/nAMP0r4xmvA?si=zmivq-woapWeFYRpMaster Your Emotions: 4 Steps to Better Emotional Healthhttps://youtu.be/GGCS0xGluMI?si=EkidkDe7pLgbUzZp5 Minutes of Breathwork Meditation Will Change Your Life... Here's Howhttps://youtu.be/mEpYvBIY0GE?si=Tr51LXOZkYRMp3nWIt's Time to Move it... Move it!https://youtu.be/5JSMwZeQj3E?si=fOorgYStsoxVeJlFHow to Upgrade Your Thinking in 3 Easy Stepshttps://youtu.be/quQVAKu2QLE?si=ZIM5fuI1gxYwMZ6RMaster Action & Overcome Procrastination: Key Steps to Lasting Changehttps://youtu.be/NeinfeVEQXo?si=Xo5rGvyvqg2zHQDeHow to Increase Energy Levels in 3 Easy Stepshttps://youtu.be/fzwkWkeRe4o?si=tOqexnFQaYQhTLszMagic 8 Wellness Journal - https://www.amazon.com/Magic-8-Wellness-Journal/dp/B08QS14K6Q🎁 10% off Meal Delivery - Use Code: WTMOM❤️ Official Podcast Sponsor: https://hellomealsonme.com/wellness-theory

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4 months ago
14 minutes 27 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#220 The 12 HIDDEN CAUSES of Burnout in High Achievers

You’re achieving, performing, checking all the boxes...So why are you still running on empty?In this episode, we reveal the 12 hidden emotional and psychological causes of burnout in high achievers—factors most productivity hacks completely ignore.💡 Burnout isn’t just about overworking—it’s about the invisible weight you're carrying inside. 💡 The real energy drain often comes from unresolved emotions, identity-based pressure, and deep unmet needs. 💡 After working with hundreds of high performers, one thing is clear: the root cause of burnout lives beneath the surface.🔍 What You’ll Learn:- The subconscious emotional triggers behind exhaustion- Why high performers burn out despite external success- How to identify and heal your unique psychological energy leaks- The connection between attachment wounds, inner child work, and burnout- A clear, evidence-based path toward emotional burnout recoveryThis is for high achievers who are tired of surface-level advice and ready for real, lasting energy alignment.
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4 months ago
20 minutes 21 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#219 The Real Reason you’re Tired & Unfulfilled the Truth

You’re crushing goals and hitting milestones— So why does life still feel exhausting, empty, or unfulfilling?

👉 You’re not broken. You’re just running on the wrong fuel.In this episode, we reveal the real reason high achievers feel tired and unfulfilled—and it’s not just about overwork. It’s about unmet psychological needs that drain your energy, kill your joy, and lead to emotional burnout.

💡 89% of high performers report waking up tired—even after a full night's sleep. 💡 76% of employees experience burnout when their core psychological needs aren’t met (McKinsey, 2022). 💡 And 100% of us need more than external success to feel truly fulfilled.🔍 What You’ll Learn:- The 6 psychological needs that fuel lasting energy and fulfillment- The hidden reason why success feels empty- How to stop coping and start aligning- Small shifts that prevent burnout in high achievers- How to reconnect with your emotional clarity🎯 Perfect for you if you’ve ever asked:- Why am I tired even when I’m doing everything “right”?- Why doesn’t success feel as good as I expected?- How do I balance ambition with emotional well-being?Could burnout actually be a signal, not a flaw?✨ Whether you’re feeling off, overwhelmed, or just tired of the grind—this is your wake-up call.🧠 Featuring: journal prompts, real-world insights, and a mindset-shifting framework you can start using today.⏱️ Chapters: 00:00 Intro Topic 01:01 Stress is not the enemy 01:45 6 core psychological needs 02:59 Walkthrough 15:44 Conclusion🔔 Subscribe for more on emotional clarity, burnout-proof habits, and sustainable high performance.🎁 10% off Meal Delivery - Use Code: WTMOM❤️ Official Podcast Sponsor: https://hellomealsonme.com/wellness-theory

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5 months ago
17 minutes 8 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
# 218 MISMATCHED VALUE SYSTEM AS A CAUSE OF BURNOUT

Ever feel drained, unmotivated, or stuck—even when life seems “fine” on the surface?

The reason might not be stress or burnout. It could be something deeper: a misalignment between your values and the way you’re living.

🚨 When your actions don’t match your core beliefs, tension builds.

🚨 Misalignment can cause stress, anxiety, and a constant feeling of dissatisfaction.

🚨 The longer you ignore it, the harder it is to feel truly fulfilled.If you’ve ever felt like you’re forcing yourself down a path that doesn’t feel right, this video is for you.


💭 How can you tell if you’re living out of alignment?

💭 What happens when you suppress your core values?

💭 Are your choices leading you toward fulfillment—or further away?

💭 How can you start realigning with what truly matters?Once you see the disconnect, you can start making real changes.


🛑 Don’t ignore that inner feeling—watch now!

🔔 Subscribe for more insights on self-awareness, purpose, and personal growth.


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5 months ago
9 minutes 16 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#217 STOP STRESS BEFORE IT WRECKS YOUR MIND AND BODY!

Stress doesn’t hit all at once—it builds, layer by layer, until you feel drained, anxious, and stuck. The real danger? Most people don’t even realize it’s happening until it’s too late.

🔥 77% of people say stress affects their physical health.

🔥 Chronic stress weakens your immune system and accelerates aging.

🔥 Ignoring small stressors today can lead to burnout tomorrow.

Ever feel like you’re constantly on edge, even when nothing major is happening? That’s stress compounding. The more it builds up, the harder it is to shake off.

💭 Why does stress seem never-ending?

💭 How does your brain trap you in a stress loop?

💭 Are your daily habits secretly making stress worse?

💭 What’s the fastest way to break free from stress overload?


The truth may surprise you—but once you see it, you can change it.

🛑 Don’t let another day pass without taking control. Watch now!

🔔 Subscribe for more insights on stress management, self-care, and mental clarity.



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5 months ago
8 minutes 24 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#216 DO THIS TO RECOVER FROM BURNOUT ( MOST PEOPLE WON'T! )

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by your emotions, easily triggered, or stuck in negative thought patterns? You're not alone.

Understanding and managing your emotions is a game-changer for mental well-being and personal growth.

💡 Studies show that self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence and success.

💡 People with strong self-regulation skills experience less stress and greater resilience.

💡 Mastering your emotions can improve relationships, decision-making, and overall happiness.

If you’ve ever struggled with emotional control or wondered why certain situations get the best of you, this video will shift your perspective on self-awareness and emotional regulation.

Ever feel like your emotions are running the show?

Why do some people stay calm under pressure while others react impulsively?

What’s really happening in your brain when emotions take over?

Could self-awareness be the key to breaking free from negative cycles?


The answers may surprise you. And once you understand them, everything changes.

🛑 Watch before another emotional reaction controls your day.

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5 months ago
14 minutes 31 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
#215 The Impact of Digital Overload on Wellbeing

The Impact of Digital Overload on Wellbeing


Why Your Digital Habits Are Draining You (And How to Fix It)

Do you ever feel mentally drained, distracted, or stuck in a cycle of endless scrolling? You're not alone. Tech is designed to keep us hooked—but at what cost?


💡 Studies show excessive screen time leads to stress, anxiety, and burnout💡 The average person spends 8+ hours online daily—more than they sleep💡 80% of people say their digital habits are harming their mental well-being


If you’ve ever felt like your phone is controlling you instead of the other way around, this video will change the way you see technology forever.


Ever feel like your focus is slipping away?

  • What’s really happening to your brain every time you check your phone?

  • Why does it feel impossible to concentrate—even on things you love?

  • Could your digital habits be silently draining your energy more than you think?


The answers may shock you. And once you see it, you can’t unsee it.


🛑 Watch before your screen time steals another hour from your life.


🔔 Subscribe for more insights on mental clarity, focus, and digital well-being!


Chapters:

00:00 Intro Topic

00:01:04 Biggest Culprit of Our Wellbeing

00:01:57 Why This Matters?

00:03:47 Brain-Body Analogy

00:04:34 The Digital Overload Problem

00:05:12 How to Take Back Control?

00:11:54 The Way Forward

00:20:07 What Can Organisations Do?

00:21:51 Water Tank Analogy

00:22:47 Recap

00:23:12 Challenge for You

00:23:22 Final Thoughts

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6 months ago
23 minutes 48 seconds

Stress Relief in Your Pocket with The Wellness Theory
Join the award-winning Wellness Theory Podcast to learn how to eliminate stress, feel in control of your emotions, and build a healthy life that lasts. Hosted by Co-Founders and Master Coaches, Jonathan Mills and Charlotte Stebbing-Mills, you'll discover the most effective natural ways to optimise wellness. Tune in for inspiring guest interviews and practical tips on how to let go of unhealthy stress and make a difference in your life and the world. Be well, mean well, make a difference that lasts and join the Wellness Theory movement today.