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Your ADHD Besties
Grace Koelma & Tara Breuso
61 episodes
2 months ago
Hiiii besties! Today on the podcast we are discussing ADHD and social media/phone addiction. We share our theory as to why ADHDers often find their communities online, why we get stuck in dopamine DOOM SCROLL loops. We talk about how we are attempting to create digital boundaries for ourselves (while still being kind to our ADHD brains) and what might help us to get a bit more of our time back from Marky Mark Zuck and his sneaky ways. 🫠 Ireggy Seggy (tiiiimeeee): We almost reignite top s...
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Hiiii besties! Today on the podcast we are discussing ADHD and social media/phone addiction. We share our theory as to why ADHDers often find their communities online, why we get stuck in dopamine DOOM SCROLL loops. We talk about how we are attempting to create digital boundaries for ourselves (while still being kind to our ADHD brains) and what might help us to get a bit more of our time back from Marky Mark Zuck and his sneaky ways. 🫠 Ireggy Seggy (tiiiimeeee): We almost reignite top s...
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Mental Health
Education,
Society & Culture,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness,
Relationships
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Your ADHD Besties
53. ADHD & social media addiction: Why it FEELS IMPOSSIBLE to stop doomscrolling
Hiiii besties! Today on the podcast we are discussing ADHD and social media/phone addiction. We share our theory as to why ADHDers often find their communities online, why we get stuck in dopamine DOOM SCROLL loops. We talk about how we are attempting to create digital boundaries for ourselves (while still being kind to our ADHD brains) and what might help us to get a bit more of our time back from Marky Mark Zuck and his sneaky ways. 🫠 Ireggy Seggy (tiiiimeeee): We almost reignite top s...
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2 months ago
1 hour 27 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
52. Social anxiety? How to STOP spiralling & communicate your ADHD needs 🤐
After 3 months off, we’re BACK bestie babes - and WE MISSED YOU!!!! And for the first time ever, you can watch Your ADHD Besties on YOUTUBE! You guys asked, so we finally obliged. 💜 (we’re not nervous, YOU are 🫣) This week on the pod we discuss a bombardment of things... what we've been up to on our break, Grace’s official AuDHD diagnosis, as well as how we manage meltdowns in social situations, the internal stress dialogue and lack of emotional regulation that comes with being a ...
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3 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
WE'VE MISSED YOUUU 😭 (back on August 14th!!)
We're back (SOON!) bestie babes! We're just quickly popping into your feed to remind you that the PODCAST WILL BE BACK on the 14th of August!! AND to update on some CUTE things 👀 we've been working on while we've been on a break... 🥑 Get our brand new ADHD Snack Hacker HERE 🌈 Join our Patreon live calls and get extra weekly 'More ADHD Besties' episodes! LOVE YOUUUUU 4EVZ G & T xxx ---------------------------- 🦋 WANT MORE ADHD BESTIES? JOIN OUR PATRE0N COMMUNITY for subscriber-only ...
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3 months ago
6 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
51. The ADHD achievement hangover 🎉😵 when the celebration doesn’t hit like it should
Hello, stunning tiny little ND brains! 🫠✨ This week we are getting raw and realz 👀 (yes, even more than usual)! We discuss burn out, Tara had a great LUHK-SA and Grace has been the mayor of phlegmville while turning 36 "yay!" *said phlegmilly* This is the last ep of Season 1 before we're on a much-needed break until August, but JOIN US OVER ON PATREON, where we'll be dropping weekly eps on a Monday. 💖 💌 This week’s dilemma: A divine listener just submitted a huge research paper after years of...
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6 months ago
1 hour 22 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
50. *SPECIAL* "HELP! I CAN'T DO LONG DISTANCE FRIENDSHIP" - Why ADHD turns us into chronic ghosters 🫣👻
Hi Bestiessss – It’s another SPECIAL throwback episode from the early days of our PATRE0N! This episode is juicy AF and is packed with friendship dilemmas and vulnerable conversations about ADHD that we know so many of you will relate to. First up, we answer a Patreon listener question: Grace shares a bit about her AuDHD diagnosis journey (and what that’s looked like over time). Tara talks through her own exploration of neurodiversity and why she feels she sits more in the ADHD-only camp. DIV...
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6 months ago
48 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
49. *SPECIAL* Inside the ACTUAL process of an ADHD diagnosis: Grace's audio diary (from the VAULT!)
Hiii neurodivergent dreamboats 💖 We have a special treat for you today - a full episode A year ago our little Gracie-babe went to see a psychiatrist to get diagnosed with ADHD. She'd been diagnosed 18 months before by a psychologist, but she needed to get re-diagnosed with a psychiatrist to get meds. Because the appointment was in the city (a 3 hr drive away) Tara body-doubled with Grace and drove her there... and they recorded a 'diary' documenting what an ADHD diagnosis can feel...
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6 months ago
50 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
48. Listen to our first ever ✨ LIVE PODCAST EVENT ✨ for ADHD women 🎉💃
Hiiiiiiii ADHD bestie BABES! Today we're sharing the recording of our VERY FIRST live podcast event (a few weeks ago) where we celebrated the launch of Grace’s book The ADHD Focus Friend... AND reaching the amazing podcast milestone of 250K downloads! We had such a wonderful time meeting some of our gorgeous listeners in person and we can’t wait to meet more of you in the near future! We discuss Grace’s book The ADHD Focus Friend and why it's different to traditional productivity tools ...
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6 months ago
1 hour 18 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
47. 🏝️ Your ADHD Island ft. Emma (@emmasmindovermatter) 🌈 🍄 A psychedelic toadstool paradise
ADHD BABES! YOU ASKED, AND SO (AFTER 8 MONTHS, WHOOPS! 😬) YOUR ADHD ISLAND IS BACK! 🏝️ And who better to kick off our episode with, than the incredible and hilarious Emma from @emmasmindovermatter! Emma’s island is an experience like no other… a maximalist pastel paradise where we promise you’ll never get overstimulated, and there’s no such thing as OVERSHARING (because it’s just called sharing, okay??) This island features psychedelic toads, astrologically relevant dolphins and robots that h...
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7 months ago
44 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
46. "I LOSE MY GRIP ON REALITY!" 🫨 ADHD, PMDD, mood-swings & hormones (feat. Emma from @emmasmindovermatter)
Hello tiniest ADHD babies 💁‍♀️ WE ARE OFFICIALLY BACKKKK TO OUR LIVE WEEKLY EPS!! (Grace has been away on holiday for 3 weeks and Tara has been a shell of a human without her, obvs) This week we're bringing you an interview with content creator and AuDHD advocate Emma Llewellyn (@emmasmindovermatter) all about PMDD - which is pre-menstrual dysphoric disorder. This topic is one that we get asked about often, so we wanted to do a deep dive with Emma, who raises awareness about PMDD frequentl...
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7 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
45. 🥊 Fighting for Understanding: Navigating ADHD in Family Relationships
Hiiiii ADHD bestiesssss we’re back with another symposium on why-ADHD-can-suck-but-it’s-also-going-to-be-okay-we-promise! This time we’re diving into the complexity of family relationships with ADHD and covering the best dilemmas from the last 40+ episodes on dynamics with parents, parents-in-law, partners etc *Dun dun duuun!* Dilemma 1 - Holly sends a voice message dilemma on sharing her diagnosis from family and friends and facing stigma and gaslighting. We discuss: ADHD's frequ...
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7 months ago
1 hour 22 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
44. ADHD & Friendships: “Why am I so bad at keeping friends?!”
Hi besties! On the pod today: Our Second Official ADHD Besties Symposium is here and this time we're looking at ADHD and Friendships. Why? Because when you have ADHD they can be hard bby. --- 🦋 JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY for extra subscriber-only episodes every week and the BEST community ever!! --- We have curated THE BEST 🤌 dilemmas on friendships from our very handsome (flicks hair into quiff) back catalogue and put them together for you to share with the people around you so ...
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7 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
43. ADHD & Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD): What it feels like and how to manage it
Hello tiny little ADHD besties, this episode is the official symposium on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (see: don't RSD), that we have curated from our stunning back catalogue and put together for you to share with people that you might have RSD'd on or around or near so that they understand what it is and why it's the yuck. 🦋 JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY for extra subscriber-only episodes every week and the BEST community ever!! On the pod this week we answer a series of dilemmas specific to...
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7 months ago
1 hour 21 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
42. ADHD & feeling BEHIND IN LIFE with finances, home-ownership, relationships & career 💸🏠💍
Hello stunning little neurodivergent brains On the pod this week Grace is guilt peeing and panic flushing... meanwhile Tara is finally not bogarting the eventful weeks, and ALSO she does like musicals and needs everyone to know it. 🦋 JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY for extra subscriber-only episodes every week and the BEST community ever!! 💌 Dilem lem lem: “I feel like due to being ADHD, I’m behind in life and not achieving milestones other people are. Have you girls ever felt like th...
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8 months ago
1 hour 14 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
41. "Tell me why I BINGE EAT even when I'm happy" 🍫🙃 ADHD, impulsive eating & sensory needs
Hi tiny little ADHD babes, In today’s episode, Grace is forcing Tara to do her recommendation in a Kiwi accent even though she's in the throes of PMDD (cute). We discuss important subjects: like “what ARE the cakes in men’s urinals made out of?” and "public proposals, sweet or stressful?". Meanwhile, Grace shares an inattentive moment that she's still spiralling about (spoiler: her leather couch is NOT okay 🫠) 💌 DIVERGENT DILEMMA: “I get why my ADHD makes me binge eat when I’m sad, but ...
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8 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
📣 We're doing our very first LIVE besties event!! (in Australia)
Besties, we're popping into your feed with a special announcement, and if you're a Western Australian local, you do NOT want to miss this event! We're doing our very first LIVE ADHD Besties event to celebrate the launch of Grace's amazing book The ADHD Focus Friend 🎉📕. The event will be held down in Margaret River at the arts centre - the HEART on the 13th March. The deets: ADHD, LATE-DIAGNOSIS & WOMEN: book launch and Q&A Date: March 13th Venue: The HEART (arts centre) Margaret...
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8 months ago
4 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
40. "Help! My mum is going to tell the psychiatrist that I DON'T have ADHD!"
Hellloooo besties In today's ep Grace is doing unimportant author-y things like promoting her chart topping book while Tara is doing genuinely important things like avoiding washing her colander. Tara gives insight into why ADHD medication is very personal and specific to each person and why it's a journey not a destination for her. 💌 DIVERGENT DILEMMA: “My mum doesn't believe I have ADHD and she has to fill out my ADHD assessment form for my psychiatrist" We cover: Generational ADHD G...
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8 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
39. When ADHD makes you feel like you're ⚠️ TOO MUCH ⚠️ (Masking & RSD)
Hi bestiessss On todays episode, Tara’s out of meltdown and is a bit more organised* *she’s doing HIGHLY profound things like sewing pants and brandishing bobbins with Chloe Wilder (Listen to Chloe’s ADHD island here), Meanwhile Grace is taking her journals on a little beach trip (don’t worry she asked them first) in her bid to stay unperceived and allowing herself to be indulgent about meeting her needs. 🫣 RSD corner: Tara completely messed up on the style episode “Alice Bornstein” is ...
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8 months ago
1 hour 1 minute

Your ADHD Besties
38. How to navigate ADHD & AuDHD meltdowns and shutdowns: tips for you and your loved ones
Oh HIII, bestie babes! In today's episode, we're ADHD-ing all over each other, and Tara is sick of people feeling bad about oversharing. Oversharing is the new sharing. Okay??? Good. 💌 DILEMMA OF THE WEEK: Nick asks: "I don't understand the difference between ADHD meltdowns and ADHD/AuDHD shutdowns! Can you explain?" We’re recording this episode just an hour after Tara had an ADHD meltdown—because she wants to show you what an ADHD meltdown actually looks like. Have you ever felt extremely di...
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9 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
37. ADHD & clothing: simplifying your wardrobe to reduce decision fatigue
Hi bestiesssss This week Tara will apparently do anything for a Dorset accent and Grace is asking for advice on whether she needs new beauty products, however the only answer she will accept is a resounding and supportive yes. We have a lot of fun introducing our new segment 🫠 RSD corner 🫠 where an RSD shared is an RSD halved. A lovely listener sent us an email with some recommendations including: The Samsung digital door lock Our ADHD emoji texting code We discuss ADHD stimming (self s...
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9 months ago
59 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
36. New Year, same ADHD?! 🫣 How to set goals that actually feel good 🤌
WE ARE BACK, BABY! 🎉✨🫠 And we've missed you all! 💖We’re kicking things off after Chinese New Year, and in 2025, we’re bringing you a brand new segment you never knew you needed—teaching you *how* to RSD (wait, what?! Don’t worry, all will be revealed).✨ RECS:Tara: Double cleansing skincare routine 🫧Grace: @gaiamusiccollective on Instagram 🎶💌 DILEMMA OF THE WEEK:Tahlia asks: How do I make New Year’s resolutions ADHD-friendly? She loves that fresh start feeling but hates her inconsistency! We c...
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9 months ago
1 hour 9 minutes

Your ADHD Besties
Hiiii besties! Today on the podcast we are discussing ADHD and social media/phone addiction. We share our theory as to why ADHDers often find their communities online, why we get stuck in dopamine DOOM SCROLL loops. We talk about how we are attempting to create digital boundaries for ourselves (while still being kind to our ADHD brains) and what might help us to get a bit more of our time back from Marky Mark Zuck and his sneaky ways. 🫠 Ireggy Seggy (tiiiimeeee): We almost reignite top s...