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The Private Parts of Wellness
Jessica Jolie B. the NP
58 episodes
4 days ago
Welcome to The Private Parts of Wellness, where we embrace the messy, imperfect journey of life. Finding balance isn’t about perfection; it’s about showing up, making choices, and accepting the beauty and chaos along the way. No pressure, no perfection— We’ll dive into everything from sex, hormones, aging, science, and a bit of the "woo woo". With a double board-certified family nurse practitioner and certified menopause provider. Heads up—She curses, so this podcast may not be suitable for the office or a carpool with kids. Life is messy, and that’s where the magic happens.
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Welcome to The Private Parts of Wellness, where we embrace the messy, imperfect journey of life. Finding balance isn’t about perfection; it’s about showing up, making choices, and accepting the beauty and chaos along the way. No pressure, no perfection— We’ll dive into everything from sex, hormones, aging, science, and a bit of the "woo woo". With a double board-certified family nurse practitioner and certified menopause provider. Heads up—She curses, so this podcast may not be suitable for the office or a carpool with kids. Life is messy, and that’s where the magic happens.
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The Private Parts of Wellness
Ozempic Vulvas and Mom Jeans: What Weight Really Means

Join Jessica Jolie, a family nurse practitioner and certified menopause provider, as she delves into the complex topics of body image, wellness, and societal expectations. In this candid episode, Jessica shares her personal journey and insights on menopause, weight, and the importance of embracing our bodies as they are. Discover the science behind body changes and the impact of cultural perceptions on our health.


Key Topics:


The politics of desirability and body image

Personal stories of body transformation and acceptance

The role of hormones in aging and wellness

Challenging societal norms around weight and health


Contact: For more insights and to join Jessica's newsletter email her at Jessica@PPWFNP.com.


Hashtags: #BodyImage #Wellness #Menopause #HealthJourney


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References:

    • Quetelet A. Sur l'homme et le développement de ses facultés (1835). BMI origins.

    • Ashwell M, Gibson S. Waist-to-height ratio better predictor than BMI. BMJ Open 2016;6:e010159.

    • Kelly DM, Jones TH. Testosterone and metabolism. J Endocrinol 2013;217(3):R25–45.

    • Santosa S, Jensen MD. Body fat distribution & hormones. Am J Physiol Endocrinol Metab 2008;295:E531–5.

    • Wildman RP et al. “Metabolically healthy obesity.” Arch Intern Med 2008;168(15):1617–24.

    • Ruderman NB et al. “Metabolically obese normal weight.” Diabetes 1998;47(5):699–713.

    • MyVagina.com. Ozempic, Wegovy, Semaglutide in the Vagina: Gynecologists Reveal Ozempic’s Unexpected Effects on Your Vagina. (online article).

    • Gada, Farouk, Mohamed, Salih. Tirzepatide Effect on Sexual Function in Women: Case Report. Clinical Medicine Insights: Case Reports. Sage Publishing. Abu Dhabi.

    • Clinical commentary: Gynecologists on Ozempic’s vaginal side effects (“Ozempic vulva”) – reports of rapid subcutaneous fat loss affecting genital tissues.

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    2 months ago
    40 minutes 9 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    # 57 - The Gut Knows: Trauma, Surgery, and the Strange Path to Healing

    In this episode of the Private Parts of Wellness podcast, Jessica Jolie discusses the complex interplay between surgery, emotional well-being, and women's health. She explores how major surgeries can impact intimacy and emotional health, the gut-brain connection, the role of hormones in recovery, and the significance of understanding the polyvagal theory. The conversation emphasizes the importance of addressing both emotional and physical pain, particularly in relation to heart health, and offers practical steps for healing and support.


    TAKE THE SEXUALITY & THE HOSPITALIZED PATIENT SURVEY



    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Healing After Surgery

    02:39 The Impact of Surgery on Intimacy and Connection

    04:54 Understanding the Gut-Brain Connection

    07:22 The Role of Hormones in Recovery

    09:51 Exploring the Polyvagal Theory

    11:58 Emotional Pain and Its Physical Manifestations

    14:12 The Heart's Role in Women's Health

    16:24 Addressing Cardiac Depression

    18:52 Personal Reflections on Hormone Therapy

    20:44 Healing the Triangle: Heart, Gut, and Hormones

    22:42 Practical Steps for Recovery

    24:59 Conclusion and Call to Action


    References:

    • ACEs and IBS (2022 Study)
      “Adverse Childhood Experiences and Their Effect on Irritable Bowel Syndrome”
      https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9270910/

    • Polyvagal Theory – Deb Dana and Stephen Porges

      • Official resources and practitioner tools: https://www.rhythmofregulation.com/

      • Scientific overview: Porges, S. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, Self-regulation

    • Takotsubo Syndrome (Broken Heart Syndrome)
      Mayo Clinic overview:
      https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/broken-heart-syndrome

    • Tylenol and Emotional Pain – NYT Article
      “Can Tylenol Heal a Broken Heart?”
      https://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/05/fashion/breakups-rejection-neuroscience.html

    • Women and Heart Disease – Cleveland Clinic
      https://health.clevelandclinic.org/5-things-women-should-know-about-heart-disease

    • CDC – ACEs Study Overview
      https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html

    • Estrobolome and Hormone-Gut Axis

      • Article on estrogen metabolism and the microbiome:
        https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5541407/

      • More functional medicine perspective: https://www.ifm.org/news-insights/the-estrobolome/

    • SpeakPipe – Leave a Voice Message for the Podcast
      https://www.speakpipe.com/privatepartsofwellness

    • Books Mentioned

      • The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

      • Healing Sex by Staci Haines

      • Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski




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    4 months ago
    29 minutes 3 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    4 things I was curious about: GLP1s; HRT over 65; Cocoa & 🍄

    Episode #56 I thought I would talk about stuff I am curious about when it comes to sex, aging, health, and of course menopause.


    Have something you are curious about?

    Email me at jessica@ppwfnp.com

    Leave me a voice message.


    Keywords: menopause, GLP-1, hormone replacement therapy, health, aging, psilocybin, quality of life, women's health, obesity, mental health


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to PPW

    00:01 Exploring GLP-1 Medications

    06:16 Hormone Replacement Therapy and GLP-1s

    16:19 Menopause and Aging Beyond 65

    23:38 The Role of Psilocybin in Mental Health

    28:50 Cocoa and Heart Health

    32:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    References:

    Baik, S. H., Baye, F., & McDonald, C. J. (2024). Use of menopausal hormone therapy beyond age 65 years and its effects on women’s health outcomes by types, routes, and doses. Menopause the Journal of the North American Menopause Society, 31(5), 363–371. https://doi.org/10.1097/gme.0000000000002335


    Brooks, M. (2025, June 19). One psilocybin dose eases cancer depression over long term. Medscape. https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/one-psilocybin-dose-eases-cancer-depression-over-long-term-2025a1000gd9


    Office, B. (2025, April 16). NEW BMS Tool for Clinicians – Use of incretin-based therapies in women using HRT. British Menopause Society. https://thebms.org.uk/2025/04/new-bms-tool-for-clinicians-use-of-incretin-based-therapies-in-women-using-hrt/


    Sesso, H. D., Manson, J. E., Aragaki, A. K., Rist, P. M., Johnson, L. G., Friedenberg, G., Copeland, T., Clar, A., Mora, S., Moorthy, M. V., Sarkissian, A., Carrick, W. R., & Anderson, G. L. (2022). Effect of cocoa flavanol supplementation for the prevention of cardiovascular disease events: the Cocoa Supplement and Multivitamin Outcomes Study (COSMOS) randomized clinical trial. American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, 115(6), 1490–1500. https://doi.org/10.1093/ajcn/nqac055





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    4 months ago
    35 minutes 46 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Biracial in the Time of Hot Flashes: Inside the Venn Diagram of Race, Rage, and Hormones

    In this Loving Day / Juneteenth / Pride special, host Jessica opens up in a powerful “get to know me” episode that weaves personal history with cultural legacy. From being born into the aftermath of Loving v. Virginia to navigating Gen X skepticism, hot flashes at 43, and queer liberation, this is a story of radical knowing, embodied identity, and unapologetic truth.

    Jessica shares how her own hormonal journey—rooted in race, gender, and resistance—informs the way she practices as a menopause specialist, nurse practitioner, and host of Radical Pause Salons.

    This episode is not just about where she comes from. It’s about what your body remembers—and what kind of care we all deserve as we age.

    Whether you're in menopause, on the cusp, or still learning the language of your body—this one’s for you.

    • 🎤 Leave a voice note: speakpipe.com/privatepartsofwellness

    • 📸 Instagram: @privatepartsofwellness

    • 🌐 Website: privatepartsofwellness.com

    🔗 Links Mentioned

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    4 months ago
    23 minutes 1 second

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    💋The Sweet, the Salty, and the Sexy: A Tastebud Tell-All




    The Menopause Brain

    Witches, Midwives, and Nurses














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    5 months ago
    22 minutes 11 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Episode 4: Sniff Me Like You Mean It: Scent, Sex, and the Midlife Mind

    In this sultry episode of The Private Parts of Wellness, Jessica Badonsky unpacks the steamy science of scent, sex, and memory—and why your body odor might be telling more of your story than you think. From the hormonal cocktail that drives attraction to the way birth control messes with your nose (and your lovers), we’re diving deep into why smell is the most intimate of the senses. Expect personal confessions, science-backed bombshells, and a few grounding tricks to help you sniff out what’s real.

    You’ll learn:

    • Practical advice for reconnecting with our sense of smell through grounding practices.
    • Why midlife hormones make you smell (and want) differently
    • How birth control changed who you were drawn to

    • What scent has to do with orgasms, intimacy, and identity

    • How to retrain your sense of smell (and your sex life)

    Warning: May cause sudden flashbacks to your ex’s t-shirt.

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    5 months ago
    24 minutes 49 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Mother’s Day: Letters, Lovers, Getting Tied Up, and a Little Oracle Magic

    Mother’s Day is weird. There, I said it. It’s one of those days that feels like it should be a celebration but somehow ends up being a chore—or worse, a guilt trip. In this episode, we’re not doing the cookie-cutter, Hallmark version. Instead, we’re digging into the weird, messy reality of this day: the history that went sideways, why some women are signing up for Ashley Madison the day after, and why getting tied up in Yugoslavia actually makes a lot of sense.

    Plus, I’ll share why I always ask for one thing on Mother’s Day—a letter—and why this year, I’m finally going to write one to my own mom. Oh, and there’s an oracle card reading to help you mother yourself—because sometimes you need more than brunch and carnations.

    Let’s be honest: You’re more than just what your uterus popped out. Sometimes Mother’s Day is about reclaiming yourself—cunt-warm, messy, fierce—and making space for what you actually need.

    • 0:00 – 1:00: Kicking off with why Mother’s Day feels like a weird mix of love, guilt, and obligatory brunches.

    • 1:00 – 2:30: The OG Mother’s Day story: Anna Jarvis just wanted a day to honor her badass mom, but instead got stuck with a Hallmark holiday from hell. (Spoiler: she hated what it became.)

    • 2:30 – 4:00: Wild traditions: In parts of the former Yugoslavia, kids tie up their moms until they pay ransom in treats. Honestly, it makes more sense than breakfast in bed.

    • 4:00 – 5:30: Fun fact: The day after Mother’s Day is prime time for women signing up on Ashley Madison. Turns out the whole “let’s celebrate mom” thing sometimes leaves women wondering, “Is this it?”

    • 5:30 – 7:00: How to feel seen and loved without pretending you adore getting flowers you bought yourself. Plus, why writing a letter to yourself (or your mom) might just be the real gift.

    • 7:00 – 8:30: Oracle card time—because nothing says self-care like pulling a card and asking, “What the hell do I actually want?” Mother’s Day isn’t just about what your uterus produced. Sometimes it’s about what your brain and heart need.

    • 8:30 – 10:00: Closing thoughts: Why this day can be both annoying and meaningful, and why it’s okay to skip the whole thing if it feels like a chore. Also, maybe call your mom—or write her a letter. That’s what I’m doing this year.

    Join us on Discord MenopauseAnarchy leave a rating and review wherever you find this podcast.


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    6 months ago
    14 minutes 8 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Episode 3: The Sound of Sex and Everything That Annoys You

    Episode 3: The Sound of Sex and Everything That Annoys You

    Why does his voice melt you one day and make your skin crawl the next? In this episode, we tune into the strange, sexy, and maddening world of hearing, hormones, and midlife brain chemistry. From praise kink to misophonia, from the music that turns you on to the chewing sounds that send you into a silent rage — we cover it all.

    We’ll talk about how estrogen, testosterone, and oxytocin shape what we hear and how we feel. You'll get science, stories, and some saucy truth bombs about aging ears, buzzy brains, and why your partner’s playlist suddenly sucks.

    Plus: how your sense of sound fits into the 5-4-3-2-1 Radical Pause practice — and what it means for your mental health, sex life, and sanity.


    Chapters


    00:00 Welcome to the Chaos of Midlife

    01:28 Exploring Hormonal Influences on Hearing

    09:21 The Role of Oxytocin and Sound in Connection

    12:44 The Power of Sound and Audio Erotica

    16:23 Understanding Auditory Trauma and Overload

    20:38 Hearing Loss and Health Equity

    23:35 Supplements for Hearing Health

    27:13 Personal Experiences with Hearing Changes

    30:28 Grounding Through Sound and Silence

    35:07 The Importance of Connection and Safety in Sound



    Bonus Oxy Rush Episode

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    6 months ago
    26 minutes 10 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    SKIN DEEP – TOUCH, KINK, AND THE CHEMISTRY OF CONNECTION

    In this episode of the Private Parts of Wellness, Jessica Badonsky explores the significance of touch in relation to hormones, aging, and intimacy. She discusses the science behind skin and sensation, the impact of hormones on touch, and the societal perceptions of aging and touch. The episode also includes practical exercises for mindful touch and emphasizes the importance of touch in fostering connection and intimacy, especially as we age.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Touch and Its Importance

    05:12 The Science of Touch and Hormones

    08:00 Aging, Touch, and Societal Perceptions

    11:16 Mindful Touch Practices and Techniques

    16:19 The Role of Touch in Intimacy and Connection


    • Email – To contact or book:
      jessica@ppwfnp.com

    • Substack – Newsletter, essays, and episodes:
      https://theradicalpause.substack.com

    • Discord – The Menopause Anarchist
      https://discord.gg/99S4994b

    • Instagram – Tarot, shares, stories:
      https://www.instagram.com/privatepartsofwellness



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    6 months ago
    18 minutes 45 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    The First Sense: Erotic Sight, Hormones, and Radical Grounding

    In this episode of Private Parts of Wellness, Jessica Badonsky introduces the Six Sense series, focusing on how our senses, particularly sight, are influenced by aging, hormones, and identity. She discusses the complexities of sight, the role of hormones in visual perception, and the intimate connection between vision and sexuality. The episode also addresses the effects of aging on vision and emphasizes the importance of grounding through sight to manage anxiety and enhance well-being.


    Takeaways

    • Sight is not just about the eyes; it's about the brain.
    • Hormones significantly influence how we perceive light and images.
    • Estrogen affects light processing, impacting sensitivity and migraines.
    • Visual perception is shaped by memories, fears, and desires.
    • Orgasm can enhance visual perception and create vivid experiences.
    • Aging affects vision, but perception can still be sharp.
    • Nutrition plays a role in maintaining eye health as we age.
    • Grounding techniques can help manage anxiety and bring awareness to the present.
    • Intimacy can be found in shared experiences, like borrowing glasses.
    • Embracing changes in vision can lead to a more fulfilling life.

      • Email – To contact or book:
        jessica@ppwfnp.com

      • Substack – Newsletter, essays, and episodes:
        https://theradicalpause.substack.com

      • Discord – The Menopause Anarchist
        https://discord.gg/99S4994b

      • Instagram – Tarot, shares, stories:
        https://www.instagram.com/privatepartsofwellness

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    6 months ago
    17 minutes 1 second

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    MINI EPISODE: SERIES INTRO – The Senses Series

    This is the season of THe Radical Pause. We will dive into the 5 4 3 2 1 grounding technique by exploring all 6 senses. Yep I added one.

    • Email – To contact or book:
      jessica@ppwfnp.com

    • Substack – Newsletter, essays, and episodes:
      https://theradicalpause.substack.com

    • Discord – The Menopause Anarchist
      https://discord.gg/99S4994b

    • Instagram – Tarot, shares, stories:
      https://www.instagram.com/privatepartsofwellness

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    6 months ago
    5 minutes 18 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Cholesterol is Horny — and So Are You

    In this episode, Jessica Jolie, a hormone-savvy nurse practitioner, dives deep into the often misunderstood topic of cholesterol. She explains the different types of lipids, their functions, and how they relate to hormones and overall health. The conversation covers the importance of understanding lipid panels, the impact of hormones on cholesterol levels, and the societal perceptions of body image, particularly regarding FUPAs. Jessica emphasizes the need for a nuanced approach to health discussions, especially in the context of intersectionality and personalized care.In this episode, Jessica Jolie, a hormone-savvy nurse practitioner, dives deep into the often misunderstood topic of cholesterol. She explains the different types of lipids, their functions, and how they relate to hormones and overall health. The conversation covers the importance of understanding lipid panels, the impact of hormones on cholesterol levels, and the societal perceptions of body image, particularly regarding FUPAs. Jessica emphasizes the need for a nuanced approach to health discussions, especially in the context of intersectionality and personalized care.


    The Radical Pause Salon

    IG PrivatePartsofWellness


    Discord The MenopauseAnarchist

    Send me a screenshot that you rated, reviewed, or commented and I'll add you to my mailing list and send you a Juicy Lipid Guide.

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    6 months ago
    35 minutes 55 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Strong, Silent, and F*cked Up? How ACE Scores Haunt Men’s Health

    In this episode, Jessica Badonsky discusses the traits of healthy versus unhealthy masculinity, emphasizing the importance of emotional awareness and integrity. She explores the impact of childhood trauma on men's emotional health, particularly focusing on the concept of covert depression. The conversation also delves into the role of hormones in men's health, the effects of toxic stress, and how practices like kink can serve as a healing mechanism. Jessica highlights the need for positive role models of masculinity and the importance of emotional expression in men.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Wellness and Real Talk

    01:32 Exploring Gen X Men's Emotional Landscape

    02:25 Understanding Covert Depression in Men

    06:43 The Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences

    12:14 Kink and Healing: A Unique Perspective

    16:15 Defining Healthy Masculinity

    17:03 Understanding Healthy vs. Wounded Masculine Energy

    20:10 Exploring Orgasmic Meditation and Its Controversies

    22:44 Trauma Processing: EMDR and Its Benefits

    25:10 Personal Stories: The Impact of Covert Depression

    28:08 The Role of Women in Supporting Men's Emotional Healing

    31:18 The Power of Awareness and Conversations in Healing


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    7 months ago
    34 minutes 49 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Gut Trouble, No Sleep, Zero Libido? It Might Be Trauma, Not Just Menopause

    In this conversation, Jessica Badonsky explores the intricate relationship between menopause, childhood trauma, and overall health. She discusses how adverse childhood experiences (ACE) can significantly impact women's experiences during menopause, leading to heightened symptoms and challenges. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding one's ACE score and its implications for health, as well as the need for trauma-informed care. Jessica also touches on the complexities of sexuality in midlife, challenging the narrative that midlife women are universally experiencing a sexual renaissance. The conversation concludes with practical steps for managing menopause and supporting one's nervous system.

    Takeaways

    • Menopause is a series of distractions that can be overwhelming.
    • Understanding ACE scores can provide insight into health risks.
    • Childhood trauma can significantly affect menopause experiences.
    • Women with higher ACE scores report more severe menopause symptoms.
    • The nervous system plays a crucial role in managing stress and health.
    • Caring for oneself is an act of self-preservation and resistance.
    • Menopause is not just a hormonal issue; it's about overall well-being.
    • Sexuality in midlife is complex and varies greatly among women.
    • Support for the nervous system can improve menopause symptoms.
    • Conversations about menopause should be open and inclusive.
    • "Your body becomes wired and tired."
    • "Menopause is not just about estrogen."
    • "Support your nervous system."

    Sound Bites

    Chapters

    00:00Introduction to Menopause and Wellness

    02:53Understanding the Impact of Childhood Trauma

    05:52The ACE Score and Its Relevance

    08:55Trauma-Informed Care in Menopause

    11:35Exploring the Connection Between ACE Scores and Menopause Symptoms

    14:32Racial and Contextual Factors in Menopause

    17:32Sexual Health and Menopause17:54Critique of Popular Narratives on Midlife Sexuality

    18:47Understanding Sexual Dysfunction in Midlife Women

    21:40Practical Steps for Managing Menopause

    24:13Conclusion and Future Conversations


    RESOURCES:

    ACE Tool

    Disord Invite TheMenopauseAnarchist


    The Radical Pause Salon where we can create a space together.


    • Felitti, V. J., et al. (1998).
      Relationship of Childhood Abuse and Household Dysfunction to Many of the Leading Causes of Death in Adults: The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study.
      American Journal of Preventive Medicine, 14(4), 245–258.
      DOI: 10.1016/S0749-3797(98)00017-8

    • DREAMS Study (Mayo Clinic, 2015–2016).
      Data Registry of Experiences of Aging, Menopause, and Sexuality.
      Referenced in: Faubion, S. S., et al. (2021). Association of Traumatic Experiences With Menopause Symptoms and Quality of Life.
      Menopause, 28(4), 430–437.
      DOI: 10.1097/GME.0000000000001721

    • Saadedine, D., et al. (2023).
      Adverse Childhood Experiences and Sexual Dysfunction in Midlife Women: Is There a Link?
      The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 20(9), 101258.
      DOI: 10.1093/jsxmed/qdad053

    • Mosconi, L. (2023).
      The Menopause Brain: New Science Empowers Women to Navigate the Pivotal Transition with Knowledge and Confidence.
      Publisher: Avery / Penguin Random House.

    • New York Times Magazine (2023).
      Why Gen X Women Are Having the Best Sex of Their Lives.
      Author: Susan Dominus. Published: July 12, 2023.
      Link: nytimes.com (Search article title for access; may be paywalled.)

    • Lorde, A. (1988).
      A Burst of Light: Essays.
      Quote referenced: “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.”

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    7 months ago
    27 minutes 18 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    The Great Turning: 2050 a story from ChatGpt

    Late one night when I saw too many IG posts, to much news and had had it I asked ChatGpt to write a story for me. The prompt was: Predict a global good outcome, one that could happen. Right now it seems that America is falling into fascism and evil, regression into times of violence. Please write a story of prediction where equity for all people and the earth itself is preserved and humans exist and while flawed have an understanding that we are all cousins, part of the human race. Universe is conspiring for good and world leaders are replaced with thoughtful kind leaders that we look up to.





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    9 months ago
    13 minutes 22 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Women & ADHD or My mind = 1000 open tabs.

    Disclaimer: This is not medical advise. I am not your provider. Do not make any changes without talking to your healthcare team.


    Summary

    In this episode, Jessica Badonsky explores the intersection of ADHD, aging, and women's health, discussing the unique challenges women face with ADHD, particularly as they age. She delves into the impact of hormonal changes on ADHD symptoms, the classic behaviors associated with ADHD, and the emotional dysregulation that often accompanies it. The conversation also touches on navigating intimacy and sex with ADHD, and concludes with practical strategies for managing ADHD symptoms, including lifestyle changes and therapeutic options.

    Takeaways

    ADHD in women often goes undiagnosed due to societal perceptions.

    Aging can exacerbate ADHD symptoms due to hormonal changes.

    Dopamine plays a crucial role in focus and movement.

    Emotional dysregulation is a common challenge for those with ADHD.

    Rejection sensitivity dysphoria can lead to intense emotional reactions.

    Hyperfocus can be both a blessing and a curse.

    Exercise and nutrition can help manage ADHD symptoms.

    Non-sleep deep relaxation techniques can improve mental clarity.

    Understanding ADHD can reduce feelings of shame and inadequacy.

    Open communication with partners is essential for intimacy.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to ADHD and Women's Health

    01:51 Understanding ADHD in Women

    05:24 The Impact of Aging on ADHD

    11:13 Classic ADHD Behaviors

    22:56 Navigating Intimacy and Sex

    26:15 Managing ADHD: Strategies and Solutions

    Thanks for listening. Fill my gaping dopamine hole by liking, subscribing, following, sharing, and engaging!!!!

    Want more follow me on IG @privatepartsofwellness where you can share your #heel4olehoes photos, my new embodiment practice for slappin my ass into the feminine (wink wink). 

    Wanna work with me well The Radical Pause will start in February 2025 a small group flipping menopause on its head - pause, reflect, and transform beyond the expected. Email me at jessica@ppwfnp.com to get on the mailing list. 

    Keep it messy, spicy & icy in 25.  


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    10 months ago
    35 minutes 46 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Millennial Mondays: Featuring Shanique Ivery & EJ Kim from NNABI

    Welcome to the first installment of Millennial Mondays! This week, we introduce you to Shanique Ivery, a Women’s Health Practitioner passionate about holistic wellness and patient advocacy. Shanique empowers women through comprehensive health education and promotes wellness routines like meditation, yoga, and physical fitness. When she’s not helping women thrive, she’s learning French, playing tennis, or running.

    In this episode, Jessica and Shanique dive into a candid conversation about personal growth, self-care, and the challenges of perimenopause. They discuss the importance of authenticity in relationships, respecting emotions, and navigating life as women in their 30s and beyond.

    Later in the episode, EJ Kim from NNABI™—The Peri Company—joins the conversation. NNABI is the first-ever company dedicated exclusively to perimenopause. Together, Jessica and EJ explore the complexities of this transformative life stage, from shifting roles and natural solutions to empowering products designed to alleviate symptoms. They also discuss the benefits of CBD, real user experiences, and the importance of community support and self-discovery.

    Special thanks to NNABI™—The Peri Company—for helping revolutionize how women experience perimenopause.

    💡 Exclusive Offer:Visit NNABILIFE.com and use code BF30 for 30% off until December 5. After that, use code Agelust20 for 20% off!


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Millennial Mondays

    03:48 Exploring Personal Aspirations and Podcasting

    06:39 Reflections on Boxing and Personal Experiences

    09:33 Self-Care and Personal Growth

    12:23 Weekend Plans and Self-Reflection

    15:20 Learning to Respect Emotions

    18:04 The Journey of Authenticity

    20:57 Navigating Relationships and Personal Truths

    26:15 Navigating Friendships and Intimacy

    27:48 Introducing Millennial Mondays

    28:46 The Importance of Organization in Conversations

    29:57 Understanding Women's Health and Intimacy

    30:32 The Archetypes of Women in Different Life Stages

    32:49 Introducing EJ and NABI

    33:40 The Journey of NABI and Hormonal Imbalances

    37:39 Creating Clarity in Perimenopause Solutions

    39:56 The Symbolism of the Butterfly in NABI

    41:51 The Role of Women in Society

    42:27 Formulating Effective Supplements

    54:40 Addressing Common Symptoms of Perimenopause

    58:08 Future Product Development for Women's Health

    01:05:48 Understanding Hot Flashes and Nerve Pain

    01:08:58 The Importance of Awareness in Menopause

    01:12:55 Empowerment Through Perimenopause

    01:17:21 Finding Your Tribe and Normalizing Conversations

    01:21:14 The Journey of Self-Discovery

    01:25:55 Embracing Change and Being Present

    01:35:24 OUTRO.mp4

    01:36:00 New Chapter


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    11 months ago
    1 hour 37 minutes 23 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    My Gender-Affirming Care

    Chapters


    00:00 Understanding Gender Affirming Care

    04:02 The Personal Impact of Hormonal Therapy

    06:30 Historical Context and Political Implications

    09:23 The Importance of Choice in Gender Affirming Care

    13:18 Outro thanks


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    11 months ago
    13 minutes 48 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    The Truth About Gender-Affirming Care

    It may surprise you!


    00:00 Understanding Gender Affirming Care

    04:02 The Personal Impact of Hormonal Therapy

    06:30 Historical Context and Political Implications

    09:23 The Importance of Choice in Gender Affirming Care

    13:18 Outro


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    11 months ago
    13 minutes 48 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    The Secret Sauce: Plant Medicine for Sexual and Spiritual Awakening

    In this conversation, Jessica Badonsky and Lynsey Ayala explore the transformative power of psychedelics and plant medicine in personal healing and community building. Lynsey shares her journey as an educator and herbalist, discussing her experiences with entheogenic medicine, the role of plant medicine in pregnancy and postpartum healing, and the significance of flower essences. They delve into the cultural context of psychedelics, the importance of feminine energy in healing, and the introduction of Lynsey's new formula, La Culebra, aimed at enhancing sexual energy and well-being. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-trust, community support, and the integration of holistic practices in modern life.


    Chapters

    00:00 Exploring Ancestral Connections and Identity

    05:16 The Journey into Plant Medicine

    08:08 The Role of Education and Community

    11:09 Childhood Memories and Nature's Influence

    14:24 The Awakening to Psychedelic Experiences

    17:19 Building a Career in Plant Medicine

    20:14 Navigating Motherhood and Plant Medicine

    23:10 Cultural Perspectives on Psychedelics

    26:24 Microdosing and Pregnancy

    29:13 Postpartum Reflections and Healing

    38:32 Navigating the Journey of Motherhood

    42:19 The Role of Plant Medicine in Healing

    44:31 Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences

    45:55 Breaking the Cycle of Trauma

    48:14 The Feminine Energy of Mushroom Medicine

    51:05 Rebirth and Transformation through Parenthood

    54:29 Exploring Microdosing and Flower Essences

    59:15 The Power of Flower Essences

    01:04:24 La Culebra: A New Blend for Healing

    01:10:12 Thanks


    To find Lynsey Ayala check out her IG @breadxbutta

    To find me check out my IG @privatepartsofwellness


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    11 months ago
    1 hour 10 minutes 42 seconds

    The Private Parts of Wellness
    Welcome to The Private Parts of Wellness, where we embrace the messy, imperfect journey of life. Finding balance isn’t about perfection; it’s about showing up, making choices, and accepting the beauty and chaos along the way. No pressure, no perfection— We’ll dive into everything from sex, hormones, aging, science, and a bit of the "woo woo". With a double board-certified family nurse practitioner and certified menopause provider. Heads up—She curses, so this podcast may not be suitable for the office or a carpool with kids. Life is messy, and that’s where the magic happens.