Welcome to the final episode in the second season of our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’. This new season is all about talking openly with people with a learning disability about death and dying, the feelings we have when someone we love dies and how we can help people to feel more comfortable talking about these topics. This episode is hosted by Anthony Fothergill who is a member of Inclusion North’s Stop People Dying Too Young Group, he is joined by a panel of experts. They are Dr. Katy Vigurs, Dr. Lisa Baker, funeral director Alex Thornhill, and Emma Satchell from Dying To Help. T0gether, they talk about important questions like what happens when we die, what a coroner does, what a’ good death’ means and what a hospice is. They also talk about important topics like grief and end-of-life care. Visit the Inclusion North website: https://inclusionnorth.org/ Find our more about My Ordinary Life podcast https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/my-ordinary-life-podcast/ Find out more about the Stop People Dying Too Young Group here. ( The Easy Read guides and videos that Emma Satchell and Dr Lisa Baker mention can also be found on this page. ) https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/stop-people-dying-too-young-the-leder-programme/ Visit the Death Cafe website https://deathcafe.com/ Follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media: https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth https://www.facebook.com/MyOrdinaryLifePodcast https://www.instagram.com/ordinarylife66/
Welcome to the second season of our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
This new season is all about talking openly with people with a learning disability about death and dying, the feelings we have when someone we love dies and how we can help people to feel more comfortable talking about these topics.
In this episode we meet Syed Ullah, Dawn Flockton, Shirley Potts and Joanna Routledge who are members of Inclusion North’s Stop People Dying Too Young Group. The episode is hosted by Karen Parry.
They talk about people they have loved who have died. They talk about how to remember people who have died. We learn about grief in muslim cultures and what it’s like to grieve for someone who is far away. They discuss what grief is like for children. There are some tears and many smiles as they discuss how to celebrate those we love who have died.
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Find our more about My Ordinary Life podcast
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Find out more about the Stop People Dying Too Young Group here.
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/stop-people-dying-too-young-the-leder-programme/
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Easy Read Guides on Death, Dying and Stages of Grief
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/stop-people-dying-too-young-the-leder-programme/
Waterbugs and Dragonflies Book
https://www.bloomsbury.com/uk/waterbugs-and-dragonflies-9781472973153/
Listen to our theme song by O’Hooley and Tidow
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PM_CMJ7qYI0
This new season is all about talking openly with people with a learning disability, autistic people and family carers about death and dying, the feelings we have when someone we love dies and how we can help people to feel more comfortable talking about these topics.
In this episode we meet Gavin Barr, Linda Dickinson and Fiona Regan who are members of Inclusion North’s Stop People Dying Too Young Group. They are joined by Davina Radford from St Oswald's Hospice and Dorothy Matthews a Learning Disability Nurse.
They talk about what makes a good life. They also discuss what it means to have a good death. It is discussed how that is different for everybody. They discuss different ideas of what happens when we die
Visit the Inclusion North website:
https://inclusionnorth.org/
Find our more about My Ordinary Life podcast
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/my-ordinary-life-podcast/
Find out more about the Stop People Dying Too Young Group here.
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/stop-people-dying-too-young-the-leder-programme/
Visit the Death Cafe website
https://deathcafe.com/
Deciding right and End of life planning documents https://northerncanceralliance.nhs.uk/deciding-right/deciding-right-resources/
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Listen to our Theme Song ‘Spare Change’ by O’Hooley and Tidow
Welcome to the second season of our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
This new season is all about talking openly with people with a learning disability about death and dying, the feelings we have when someone we love dies and how we can help people to feel more comfortable talking about these topics.
In this episode, we meet David Nicholls. He works at a funeral director called ‘Go As You Please’. David is joined by Suzie Fothergill and her two children, Anthony and Lindsey. They share why they decided to plan their funerals ahead of time and explain how they did it. They also share personal stories and talk about the special ways they want their funerals to reflect their own personalities.
The episode talks about how cremations and burials work and explains why planning ahead can make things easier for family and friends. The host Karen Parry also asks questions on behalf of Inclusion North’s ‘Stop People Dying Too Young Group’.
Visit the Inclusion North website:
Find our more about My Ordinary Life podcast
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/my-ordinary-life-podcast/
Find out more about Stop People Dying Too Young Group
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/stop-people-dying-too-young-the-leder-programme/
Visit the Go As You Please website
https://www.goasyouplease.com/
Follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
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My Ordinary Life Podcast is back with four more wonderfully inspiring and honest conversations. In Series 2 we are talking about death and dying. This might sound sad but we had some beautiful, funny and important conversations too. Coming soon.
Visit the Inclusion North website:
Find our more about My Ordinary Life podcast
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/my-ordinary-life-podcast/
Find out more about Stop People Dying Too Young Group
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/stop-people-dying-too-young-the-leder-programme/
Visit the Go As You Please website
https://www.goasyouplease.com/
Follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
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TRIGGER WARNING: Covid 19, mental health, domestic abuse, isolation
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Lynne.
Lynne is kind and resilient. She has faced many challenges in her life and shares her wisdom on how she copes and uses this knowledge to help others.
She is passionate about improving local services for people with learning disabilities and the importance of treating everyone with kindness and respect.
Lynne has great advice on the benefits of connecting with people and trying new experiences. She shares her thoughts on being a Mum of 4 and a keen member of local social groups for people with learning disabilities such as Equal People.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube. https://youtu.be/KC8una_bHCU
You can find out more about Equal People below:
https://www.yvc.org.uk/equalpeoplegateshead
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
TRIGGER WARNINGS: bereavement, cancer
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Jill.
Jill lives a free and active life. She has found meaning and joy in her involvement with self-advocacy groups and the opportunities they bring.
She enjoys acting, singing, and dancing.
Jill shows a lot of care for other people. She reflects on how she cared for her mum and continues to check in on her elderly neighbours. Helping others is important to her.
She has recently found love and shares with us some details about her relationship.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube.
You can find out more about Skills For People below:
https://skillsforpeople.org.uk/
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
TRIGGERWARNING: premature birth
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Ian. Ian’s life is full of kindness. He spends his time helping others as a proud uncle, godfather, and self-advocate.
Ian works at Sunderland People First, championing the rights of people with learning disabilities and autistic people.
He loves music, singing in choirs, and playing the keyboard. He is multitalented and uses his skills to help his community.
Ian tells us that it's important to understand and accept everyone, and that we should make the world a place where everyone feels included.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube.
You can find out more about Sunderland People First below:
https://sunderlandpeoplefirst.com/
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
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https://www.instagram.com/ordinarylife66/
TRIGGER WARNINGS – isolation, hate crime, people with learning disabilities being treated as children
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Paul James.
Paul is passionate about equal rights and has brought this energy and focus to his many and varied roles advocating for people with learning disabilities and autistic people.
In this episode he reflects on his working life; speaking truth to power and how it feels to be the only person with a learning disability in the room.
We hear about his life beyond work. His education and the challenges in finding love as a person with a learning disability.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube.
https://youtu.be/5B76Vkx4FGQ
You can find out more about Paul on his website:
http://www.livingwithlowes.com/
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website: https://inclusionnorth.org/
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
TRIGGER WARNINGS - Mental Health, being in a Mental Health Institution
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Michael whose life has transformed over the past few years. He talks about his time in a mental health hospital. He reflects on his journey to having his own home and a job helping others.
Michael has a positive attitude towards life and shares his thoughts on making changes happen. He talks about the tough times, but also the good times. He tells us about his job as a Community Connector Supporter where he helps people with learning disabilities, and autistic people live fulfilling lives.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube.
https://youtu.be/urkD1wKCZMs You can find out more about Skills For People below:
https://skillsforpeople.org.uk/
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Adham Mohamed Abdel-Aziz.
Adham is a remarkable young man who communicates without spoken words. He uses signs, gestures, symbols and body language. In this episode, Adham shares his story with us. He chose to take us with him on some of his favourite activities. He shares what makes him feel happy and proud.
We believe everyone, no matter how they communicate, should get a chance to share their own story.
As this episode is going to be more visual, listeners may prefer to join us on YouTube and Spotify.
https://youtu.be/9EdTmChkJhg You can find out more about surf sessions for people with additional needs and special educational needs below:
https://www.southshieldsurf.co.uk/project-surf
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
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TRIGGER WARNING: institutional and physical abuse, abortion, bullying, infant extreme ill health, loneliness, premature death of disabled people
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Suzie.
Suzie has faced great adversity in her life. This has fuelled her passion and lifelong work advocating for people who have learning disabilities. She educates professionals and has developed a mindfulness programme for people with learning disabilities.
Suzie is a poet and shares a powerful poem that she has written about her time in a mental health institution.
At the heart of everything she does is a love for her family. Suzie is an involved and committed mum having had to fight to keep her children in her life.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iB6cL8p07q8
You can find out more about Skills For People below:
https://skillsforpeople.org.uk/
https://skillsforpeople.org.uk/services/quality-checkers/
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
https://inclusionnorth.org/our_work/stop-people-dying-too-young-the-leder-programme/
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/MyOrdinaryLifePodcast
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
https://www.instagram.com/ordinarylife66/
TRIGGER WARNINGS: child in care, animal birth
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Liam Carrick.
Liam talks about his hobbies, interests and what makes him happy. From renovating furniture to birthing lambs. Liam has many talents which he shares with us. We talk about the importance of home, and Liam reflects on the Shared Lives Scheme.
Liam has a vibrant social life through his work with Bridge Creative in Bishop Auckland. He is involved with community work supporting other people with disabilities.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube.
You can find out more about the Shared Lives Scheme and Bridge Creative below:
https://bridgecreative.org/ or https://bridgecreative.org/the-cose
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/MyOrdinaryLifePodcast
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
https://www.instagram.com/ordinarylife66/
TRIGGER WARNING: Hate crime, Child taken into care
Welcome to our podcast, ‘My Ordinary Life’.
In each episode we will be talking to some fascinating people who have one thing in common: they all have a learning disability.
In this episode, we meet Diane Blackburn.
Diane is a self advocate. She helps train student social workers, midwives and other professionals. She teaches these people how to work well with people with learning disabilities. Diane talks about taking the lead and how her confidence has grown. Her aim is to make the world a better place for people who have a learning disability.
Some of our guests have speech differences and you may prefer to watch with subtitles on YouTube.
https://youtu.be/eBCIsIALc_A?si=9_PV_sITnlbNkp3P
You can find out more about Inclusion North on our website:
You can also follow Inclusion North and My Ordinary Life on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/InclusionNorth
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Join host Jillian Allan on 'My Ordinary Life', an inspiring podcast that celebrates the lives of people with learning disabilities.
Each week, a new guest shares their unique journey discussing the trials, triumphs, and the joy they've found along the way.
From overcoming barriers to celebrating personal achievements, these moving stories offer a rare invitation to hear life from a different perspective.
Tune in for advice on how we can all support each other to live a great life.