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Unrestrict-ED
Emily and Han
88 episodes
1 day ago
Emily and Han spend 15 minutes delving into an eating disorder recovery related question. For more ED recovery related content, check out our Instagram accounts: @emilyspence__ @oh_hi_han
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Emily and Han spend 15 minutes delving into an eating disorder recovery related question. For more ED recovery related content, check out our Instagram accounts: @emilyspence__ @oh_hi_han
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Mental Health
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Episodes (20/88)
Unrestrict-ED
Is It Harder To Recover As An Adult?

In this episode, Emily and Han are joined by fellow recovery coach Claire (@omnomclaire). The key takeaways from this episode are:

  • Best time for recovery is always Now
  • Rewiring can happen at any age
  • Experience and understanding of your ED can be weaponised
  • Honesty about responsibilities; where can you delegate, seek more support with, where can you release?
  • Autonomy is a benefit
  • Your ‘new’ identity will naturally reveal itself
  • Lean into your knowledge of what has or hasn’t worked for you thus far 
  • Frustration and ‘doneness’ with the ED can be a wonderful stimulant



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4 days ago
21 minutes 41 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
How Do I Navigate Alcohol in Recovery and Beyond?

In this episode, Han and Emily speak through the topic of alcohol consumption whilst in recovery, and in life beyond. The key takeaways are


  • Reconnect with your core self and values
  • Act with the next best step for your recovery in mind
  • Protect and promote your recovery agenda
  • Look at the reason behind the resistance (e.g., ED fear)
  • Focus on what your CAN
  • Your brain is watching and learning
  • Validating your own stance with self trust is a huge outcome of recovery


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1 week ago
18 minutes 14 seconds

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Should I Finish Everything On My Plate Regardless Of If I Am Still Hungry or Not?

In this episode, Han and Emily discuss the necessity of honesty and commitment when assessing full satisfaction.

  1. If in doubt, eat!
  2. Fullness is not the same as satiation.
  3. Full commitment -> simplification.
  4. Well fed is best.
  5. You are the expert on you.


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2 weeks ago
17 minutes 7 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
How Do I Deal With Feeling Behind in Life Due To My ED?

In this episode Han and Emily talk through feeling behind. The main takeaways are:


  1. Feel your feelings (RAINN)
  2. Fulfilment / goals are subjective
  3. Societal timelines are not mandated, nor necessarily reflective of you leading with authenticity.
  4. Social media offers mere glimpses into a curated life - rarely showing the full picture: struggles, sacrifices.
  5. Take ownership of your role as the pilot of your life
  6. Start where you are now
  7. Healing provides competencies that other people may not have


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3 weeks ago
20 minutes 5 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
How Do I Deal with Food Decision Paralysis?

In this episode, Emily and Han discuss making decisions in recovery. 

The key takeaway points are:


  1. It is ok to want everything. This is so often the root cause of paralysis.
  2. Do not attempt to please both (ED and recovery). This is impossible.
  3. Utilise the concept of ‘and’ not ‘or’
  4. Remember: there is no upper ceiling 
  5. Utilise quick, convenient and ED unapproved Go-To’s.
  6. Challenge ED driven perfectionism 
  7. Abundance mitigates paralysis. Stop tickling hunger!



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1 month ago
22 minutes 27 seconds

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How Important Is Food Quantity in Recovery?

In this episode Han and Emily discuss food quantity in recovery. The key  takeaways from this episode are:


  • The RAVES model showcases how formative adequacy is for all other aspects of your healing


  • Adequacy and abundance of food is at the foundation of neural rewiring


  • Your body feeling safe from famine largely depends on food abundance


  • Volume eating of non-recovery aligned foods is not the same as food abundance. 


  • A truly good relationship with food is being able to eat food without conditions or caveats, not just tick a box of 'I can eat X'


  • Permission and necessity of food adequacy does not reduce with physical progress 


  • Take action upon your awareness
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1 month ago
24 minutes 41 seconds

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How Do I Prioritise Recovery Alongside Studies?

In this episode, Emily & Han discuss how to make recovery work whilst studying. The key takeaways from this episode are:

  • Position recovery at no.1 of your to-do list
  •  Remember that your health is at foundation of everything else
  • Do not continuously adopt the ‘I just need to get through this’ delay tactic
  • See this as an opportunity to head towards Ed unapproved (e.g., messiness, convenience, rush)
  • Consistently remind yourself of where you want to be long term and what your studying is ultimately all for. 



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2 months ago
19 minutes

Unrestrict-ED
What Should I Keep Close In My Mind Whilst I Take The Leap Into Full Recovery?

In this episode, Han and Emily speak through an array of reminders that were important to hold close when diving into a committed recovery. The key takeaways are…


  • Surrendering involves consistently doing. Even in the presence of doubt.
  • Doing good often doesn’t feel good.
  • Your brain doesn’t have to be on board.
  • Neuroscience and psychology tells us the brain is wired for familiarity and survival, not joy or fulfilment.
  • Your thoughts are not the truth. They cannot force you to act.
  • Hunger is normal and safe. A body relentless communication of it (including mentally!) is absolutely reasonable.
  • Discomfort is temporary. The hard moments will pass. 
  • Slips are not failures. Recovery is non linear.
  • Embrace the fact that recovery is messy.
  • Recovery is absolutely possible, and absolutely going to be worth it!



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2 months ago
23 minutes 17 seconds

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What Are The Most Important Things a Recovery Buddy Should Know About Recovery?

“What Are The Most Important Things a Recovery Buddy Should Know About Recovery?”


In this episode, Emily and Han speak through advice for a recovery buddy who is supporting a healing journey. 


The key take away points are…


- Get to know the basics about recovery in order to be able to provide grounding advice that reconnects your loved one with their healthy self (see rec. resources)


- Stand by their side through that discomfort without enabling them to use disordered means to alleviate anxiety. Holding somebody to account to follow through with the most recovery aligned action is the kindest thing you can do. 


- Acknowledge that the place that somebody is in their recovery is not represented by their weight. Somebody can be ‘under weight’ at any weight, if they are beneath where their body wishes to be. 


- View recovery with urgency until the point of fully recovered. The amount of deficit somebody is in shows up their behaviours and inner experience.


- ‘Better than before’ is not good enough. Encourage unrestricted eating. Remember that under eating is often invisible.


- Engage in practical support where possible. Keep offering. Keep challenging. Hold to your word with consistency and plenty of hope. 


- Acknowledge that the ED will not like the recovery buddy. Friction that arises is not representative of your wrongdoing. Stand firmly in the recovery ground. 


-Some resources that we both recommend:

  1. Tabitha Farrar's 'Rehabilitate Rewire Recover'.
  2. Becky Freestone's YouTube videos.
  3. Helly Barnes' blog
  4. Chris Sandel's '@sevenhealthcompany'.


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2 months ago
22 minutes 28 seconds

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When Do I Start Eating Normally Again?

In this episode Han and Emily discuss beginning to eat 'normally' again.

The key takeaways are:

  • 'Normal' according to who?
  • 'Recovery eating' may not actually be all that different to Recovered eating.
  • Normalisation happens gradually as your body begins to trust you. 
  • There is no neat timeline.
  • Focus on what you CAN do.
  • Just like other resources that it might be deficient in, your body does know how to recalibrate itself and get back to individualised balance.


There are some other episodes on this topic of ‘normal eating’ if it is a subject that you find valuable to hear more on ~2023.



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3 months ago
21 minutes 21 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
Is It Normal To Feel Safer Eating At Home Than When Out?


discuss
permission to eat in the home environment.

The key takeaways from this episode are:

  • Hungry mammals are not social mammals
  • Is the safety of home serving the true you or is it actually serving the ED?
  • How much the ED weaves into so many aspects of ones life
  • Are you allowing exposure to things that hold resistance around You are not supposed to be pleasing the ED




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3 months ago
19 minutes 13 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
How Do I Navigate Being Ill/Sick in Recovery?

In this episode, Han & Emily discuss navigating illnesses such as flu or a stomach bug whilst in recovery. The key takeaway points are:


  • ED thoughts can intensify in a low energy state.
  • Listen out for the whispers of honest desire and direction.
  • Do not allow ED to piggy back on ‘standard advice’.
  • REST. REST. REST.
  • Take insights from this experience, using it to identify vulnerabilities.
  • Use the wealth of knowledge that you do have that you have to ensure intake adequacy. 
  • After the illness period is over, don’t just get back on track - get above the track!
  • Ask yourself: how I want to be able to treat myself in situation like this in the future? 


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3 months ago
24 minutes 39 seconds

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How Do I Navigate Recovery Whilst Travelling?

In this episode, Emily & Han discuss recovery whilst travelling, holidaying and day-tripping.

The key points are:

  • View the holiday as an opportunity
  • Do not delay or postpone commitment
  • Food abundance is not related to movement levels
  • Embrace the culture AND bring snacks to support you
  • Practice in advance
  • Prioritise being in recovery - ensure that your trip is recovery-wise.
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4 months ago
23 minutes 56 seconds

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How Do I Deal With Fear and Doubt About Life Beyond Recovery?

In this episode, Han and Emily discuss dealing with anxiety about the future - beyond recovery. 

Whilst it can be exciting to have freedom awaiting ahead, it is not at all uncommon to have emotions of hesitancy, fear and trepidation opposing these.


The key discussion points in this episode are:

  • Focus on The Now.
  • Recovery itself equips you to navigate tough life things 
  • Your worthiness of support does not rely on your physical condition or diagnosis.
  • Building tools for regulation (without ED) is part of your healing journey.
  • Building unwavering self-trust means allows you to not require ED certainty in order to feel safe.




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4 months ago
24 minutes 45 seconds

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What If My Hunger Is ONLY Mental?

In this episode, Emily and Han discuss the validity of mental hunger. The key takeaway points are:


Respect that your body knows what its doing


Mental hunger is not a ‘lesser hunger’


Mental hunger is coming from a physiological place.


Your body has no malicious intention. 


Whatever, whenever, how much ever



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4 months ago
23 minutes 18 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
How Do I Shift Away From Thinking About Weight Gain in Recovery?

In this episode, Emily and Han discuss how to move your attention away from thinking about weight gain in recovery.


The key takeaways are:


View weight restoration to an unsurpassed point non-negotiable. 

You cannot accept what you are seeking to side-step


Stop weight gain avoidant behaviours.

You cannot suggest to your brain that weight gain is safe when still doing weight gain avoidant behaviours that verify the fear.


Get clear on your values, and separate these from your EDs values. 

Nourish what is within your sphere of influence, and true interest.


Set yourself up to win

  • Comfortable clothes
  • Stop body checking 
  • Remove the scale
  • Where you can, ensure that your environment is not body-focused.


 Remove energy deficiency - ensure caloric abundance 




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5 months ago
25 minutes 36 seconds

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Is Intuitive Eating a Good Idea in Recovery?

In this episode, Han and Emily discuss Intuitive Eating. The key takeaways are:

  • Allowing intuition to guide us involves letting out body perform unconsciously. Therefore, there is a paradox in consciously deciding to begin to doing Intuitive Eating.
  • Intuition is distorted by fear.
  • Following your hunger and fullness is not necessarily safe to do in recovery, when these cues are very likely warped and compromised.
  • Intuitive eating is not just the 'hunger and fullness diet'. It is about supporting your body, oftentimes proactively.
  • Focus on clearing fear with intentionality. Mechanical processes are often required in any process that also involves fear


We hope you found value in this episode - as always, we really enjoyed speaking this topic through.


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5 months ago
20 minutes 57 seconds

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How Do I Juggle Life Responsibilities With The Need To Rest?

In this episode Han and Emily discuss how to navigate life commitments & responsibilities whilst honouring the recovery commitment to rest.

The key talking points are:

  • honesty
  • delegation
  • allowing help in
  • shelving
  • prioritising healing
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5 months ago
18 minutes 45 seconds

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How Do I Know If I Am Still Restricting in Recovery?

In this episode, Emily and Han discuss how to identify the signs that you are still restricting. 

The key takeaways from this episode are:

  • Getting brutally honest
  • Tuning into mental hunger
  • Identifying personal markers of scarcity 
  • Acting, even if in doubt 
  • Acting, without trying to convince/justify your actions to your ED first


Thanks so much for listening in! 🎺


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6 months ago
20 minutes 36 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
If I Honour My Hunger, Do I Still Eat My Meals and Snacks?

In this episode, Emily and Han discuss how to honour hunger fully and completely around formal baseline meal times.


The key areas covered here are:

Simplicity of the message that your brain & body needs to receive Direct opposite actions Demonstrate consistency food availability for neural rewiring & physiological safety Leave no doubt remain in The Now of your recovery Since there is a fair amount to cover in this topic, it is a little longer than usual.

We hope you enjoyed this episode!

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6 months ago
28 minutes 27 seconds

Unrestrict-ED
Emily and Han spend 15 minutes delving into an eating disorder recovery related question. For more ED recovery related content, check out our Instagram accounts: @emilyspence__ @oh_hi_han