In this episode, Emily and Han are joined by fellow recovery coach Claire (@omnomclaire). The key takeaways from this episode are:
In this episode, Han and Emily speak through the topic of alcohol consumption whilst in recovery, and in life beyond. The key takeaways are
In this episode, Han and Emily discuss the necessity of honesty and commitment when assessing full satisfaction.
In this episode Han and Emily talk through feeling behind. The main takeaways are:
In this episode, Emily and Han discuss making decisions in recovery.
The key takeaway points are:
In this episode Han and Emily discuss food quantity in recovery. The key takeaways from this episode are:
In this episode, Emily & Han discuss how to make recovery work whilst studying. The key takeaways from this episode are:
In this episode, Han and Emily speak through an array of reminders that were important to hold close when diving into a committed recovery. The key takeaways are…
“What Are The Most Important Things a Recovery Buddy Should Know About Recovery?”
In this episode, Emily and Han speak through advice for a recovery buddy who is supporting a healing journey.
The key take away points are…
- Get to know the basics about recovery in order to be able to provide grounding advice that reconnects your loved one with their healthy self (see rec. resources)
- Stand by their side through that discomfort without enabling them to use disordered means to alleviate anxiety. Holding somebody to account to follow through with the most recovery aligned action is the kindest thing you can do.
- Acknowledge that the place that somebody is in their recovery is not represented by their weight. Somebody can be ‘under weight’ at any weight, if they are beneath where their body wishes to be.
- View recovery with urgency until the point of fully recovered. The amount of deficit somebody is in shows up their behaviours and inner experience.
- ‘Better than before’ is not good enough. Encourage unrestricted eating. Remember that under eating is often invisible.
- Engage in practical support where possible. Keep offering. Keep challenging. Hold to your word with consistency and plenty of hope.
- Acknowledge that the ED will not like the recovery buddy. Friction that arises is not representative of your wrongdoing. Stand firmly in the recovery ground.
-Some resources that we both recommend:
In this episode Han and Emily discuss beginning to eat 'normally' again.
The key takeaways are:
There are some other episodes on this topic of ‘normal eating’ if it is a subject that you find valuable to hear more on ~2023.
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permission to eat in the home environment.
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In this episode, Han & Emily discuss navigating illnesses such as flu or a stomach bug whilst in recovery. The key takeaway points are:
In this episode, Emily & Han discuss recovery whilst travelling, holidaying and day-tripping.
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In this episode, Han and Emily discuss dealing with anxiety about the future - beyond recovery.
Whilst it can be exciting to have freedom awaiting ahead, it is not at all uncommon to have emotions of hesitancy, fear and trepidation opposing these.
The key discussion points in this episode are:
In this episode, Emily and Han discuss the validity of mental hunger. The key takeaway points are:
Respect that your body knows what its doing
Mental hunger is not a ‘lesser hunger’
Mental hunger is coming from a physiological place.
Your body has no malicious intention.
Whatever, whenever, how much ever
In this episode, Emily and Han discuss how to move your attention away from thinking about weight gain in recovery.
The key takeaways are:
View weight restoration to an unsurpassed point non-negotiable.
You cannot accept what you are seeking to side-step
Stop weight gain avoidant behaviours.
You cannot suggest to your brain that weight gain is safe when still doing weight gain avoidant behaviours that verify the fear.
Get clear on your values, and separate these from your EDs values.
Nourish what is within your sphere of influence, and true interest.
Set yourself up to win
Remove energy deficiency - ensure caloric abundance
In this episode, Han and Emily discuss Intuitive Eating. The key takeaways are:
We hope you found value in this episode - as always, we really enjoyed speaking this topic through.
In this episode Han and Emily discuss how to navigate life commitments & responsibilities whilst honouring the recovery commitment to rest.
The key talking points are:
In this episode, Emily and Han discuss how to identify the signs that you are still restricting.
The key takeaways from this episode are:
Thanks so much for listening in! 🎺
In this episode, Emily and Han discuss how to honour hunger fully and completely around formal baseline meal times.
The key areas covered here are:
Simplicity of the message that your brain & body needs to receive Direct opposite actions Demonstrate consistency food availability for neural rewiring & physiological safety Leave no doubt remain in The Now of your recovery Since there is a fair amount to cover in this topic, it is a little longer than usual.
We hope you enjoyed this episode!