Being Enough
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Snatching the Mic Back: Reclaiming Your Worth
2. Understanding Yourself: The First Step to Self-Acceptance
3. The Power of Self-Acceptance: Living Without Apology
4. Overcoming the Inner Critic: Winning the War in Your Mind
5. Practical Steps to Embracing Your True Self
You are not your Mistakes
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Failure is inevitable - But it’s not Final
2. The Culture of Shame vs. The Power of Grace
3. The Real Danger - Fear of Failing
4. Redefining Failure - A Mindset Shift
5. How to Rise Again - Practical Steps to Bounce Back
The Key to building Confidence
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Confidence Grows Where You Have None
2. Courage Comes First, Confidence Follows
3. Self-Compassion Over Self-Esteem
4. Action Builds Confidence, Not Just Affirmations
5. Step Into the Stretch Zone Daily
Dealing with Criticism & Disapproval
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Overcoming the fear of Rejection
2. Breaking free from the weight of Perception
3. Turning criticism into a tool for Growth
4. The freedom in setting boundaries & letting Go
5. Practicing self-compassion & seeking Reflection
The Pillars of Strength
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Grief as a response to Love
2. Transforming your relationships through Grief
3. Embracing & expressing Emotions
4. The roles of time, healing & Support
5. Rebuilding through routine, boundaries & Connection
The Tasks of Mourning
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. The Journey of Grief: A Personal & Unique Experience
2. The Stages of Grief: Denial, Anger, Bargaining; Depression & Acceptance
3. The Healing Process: Balancing Sorrow, Joy & Growth
4. Healing Outlets for Grief: Expressing & Processing Emotions
5. Faith & Support: Finding Strength in God, Therapy & Community
The Stages of Grief
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Pointers:
1. Grief: A Complex & Universal Experience
2. The Stages of Grief: From Denial to Acceptance
3. Navigating Emotional Responses: Anger, Bargaining & Depression
4. The Non-Linear Nature of Grief
5. Finding Growth, Faith & Transformation Through Grief
Understanding grief
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Grief Beyond Death: Recognizing Loss in Everyday Life
2. Carrying the Weight: Understanding Grief’s Physical and Emotional Impact
3. The Stone Analogy: Growing Stronger While Carrying Grief
4. Facing Grief: The Importance of Acknowledging and Processing Feelings
5. Healing Together: Grief as a Journey with God and Loved Ones
How to support Someone
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Pointers:
1. The balance of support: Being present without solving
2. Self-care as the foundation for supporting Others
3. Loving with boundaries: Supporting without becoming a Saviour
4. The power of compassion: Small acts & open-ended Questions
5. Trusting God’s timing in the healing Journey
The power of our words
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. The Power of Naming Emotions: Expanding our Emotional Palette
2. Connecting Emotion to Physical Sensation for Greater Awareness
3. The Impact of Words on Emotional Processing & Perspective
4. Focussing on Positive Emotions to Shape a Balanced Mindset
5. Journaling as a Tool for Emotional Honesty & Spiritual Growth
What to do with emotions
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Pointers:
1. The Power of Mindfulness & the Sacred Pause
2. Guarding the Heart: Choosing Responses over Reactions
3. Naming Emotions for Clarity & Connection
4. Self-Soothing Through Healthy God-Given Practices
5. Aligning Emotions with Faith & Values
Make it all go away
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Emotions as indicators, not enemies
2. Temporary nature of emotions
3. Shifting into curiosity mode
4. Building on a solid foundation
5. Patience & reflection
Big life changes. Where do I start?
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Understanding before change
2. Self-awareness as a compass
3. Power of words & thoughts
4. Turning failure into growth
5. Daily mind renewal
When you don’t feel like it
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Creating a Gap Between Urge and Action
2. Building Habits by Setting the Environment for Success
3. Actions Should Align with Values, Not Feelings
4. Repetition and Consistency Are Key to Forming Habits
5. Rest Is Essential for Balance and Well-Being
How to nurture your Motivation
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Pointers:
1. The Power of Awareness
2. The Role of Physical Movement
3. The Power of Focus
4. Handling Temptations & Stress
5. Shifting the Narrative of Failure
6. Practicing Self-compassion
7. Building lasting Motivation
Understanding Motivation
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Pointers:
The Basics
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Exercise: Moving our Bodies, Shifting our minds
2. Sleep: The Ultimate Reboot
3. Nutrition: Fuelling the Mind & Body
4. Routine: Finding Balance between Predictability & Adventure
5. Human connection: The Real Game-Changer
6. Putting it all together: Defence, Connection & Growth
From bad to better
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Pointers:
1. Perfectionism & Decision Paralysis
2. Small steps & consistency
3. Decisions based on Values
4. Self-compassion & Breaking the cycle
5. Learning to let go
6. Building a foundation
7. Moving forward with Self-compassion
Things that help
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Practice mindfulness
2. Stop ruminating
3. Gratitude practice
Mood pitfalls to watch out for
We’re reviewing the book: Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith
Pointers:
1. Instant gratification
2. Thought biases
3. What can we do to avoid these pitfalls