🎙️ EPISODE 93: Feeling Unheard — How Self-Worth Shapes Your Voice and Your Leadership💬 Episode Summary
Have you ever felt like your words just… disappear?
Do you feel like you speak up, but no one really hears you?
In this powerful episode, Diane Gudmundson unpacks the deep psychology behind feeling unheard — and how it often has more to do with our own sense of self-worth than with other people.
Whether you’re a leader in healthcare, a manager in business, or someone navigating your own personal healing, this episode will help you recognize how past experiences can silence your voice — and how reclaiming it transforms everything from your relationships to your leadership presence.
This isn’t just another conversation about communication.
It’s a journey into self-trust, emotional safety, and the courage to finally believe: my voice matters.
– Why feeling unheard is an identity-level wound, not a personality flaw
– How early experiences shape the way you speak, listen, and lead
– Three real-world stories that show how unhealed patterns play out in leadership
– The energy of being heard: how self-worth shapes presence and influence
– The connection between listening, healing, and leadership transformation
– Three simple practices to rebuild your voice and your confidence
The need to be heard is primal — it’s about safety, not ego.
When you don’t value your voice, you unconsciously teach others to undervalue it too.
The leaders who listen deeply are the ones who’ve learned to feel safe in their own truth.
Your voice is medicine — not because it’s loud, but because it’s real.
👉 Go back and listen to Episode 92: “Listening Is a Superpower (And Most Leaders Fail at It)” — a powerful companion to this one.
Together, these two episodes form the foundation for building trust, communicating with impact, and leading from authenticity — not performance.
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If you’re ready to reclaim your voice and lead with grounded confidence, message Diane directly or visit info.chtmodel.com/5-shifts to download your free guide.
Diane Gudmundson BScN MN, MBA (Candidate)
Manitoba, Canada
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🎙️ Episode 93: What No One Told Me When I Became a Leader
No one really prepares you for what leadership feels like.
You can read all the books, take the courses, and master your job — but the moment you step into leadership, everything shifts.
You’re no longer just responsible for tasks… you’re responsible for people.
And that means energy, emotions, and expectations — including your own.
In this episode, I open up about what I wish someone had told me when I first became a leader.
You’ll learn the hidden truths about leadership no one talks about — and how to stop leading from exhaustion and start leading from alignment.
Why leadership exposes every place you still need to heal
How your energy, not your control, determines team performance
The real reason trying to “have all the answers” burns leaders out
How to lead from curiosity instead of perfection
Why leadership is one of the fastest paths to personal growth and transformation
Whether you’re leading a clinic, a department, or a business — the inner work of leadership is the same.
This episode is your invitation to see leadership not as a job title… but as a mirror.
Because the truth is: you can’t lead others from a place you haven’t yet led yourself.
“Leadership isn’t about control — it’s about coherence. When you walk into a room grounded and aligned, people don’t just hear you… they feel you.”
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We’ll explore how to step into your next level of leadership identity with confidence and clarity.
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🎧 Episode 92: Listening is a Superpower (and Most Leaders Fail at It)
Most leaders believe they’re great listeners — but here’s the truth: most are only half-present.
They’re thinking, fixing, or formulating their next response instead of truly hearing.
In this powerful episode, Diane Gudmundson — transformational leadership coach and founder of the Health Warrior Method™ — reveals why genuine listening is the missing ingredient in transformational leadership (and in life).
You’ll discover:
The real reason most leaders fail at listening — and how it quietly destroys trust.
A true story from Diane’s Nurse Practitioner on Wheels journey that changed everything.
Why presence is not proximity — and how “busy listening” keeps us disconnected.
What true listening feels like — and how it transforms relationships, teams, and self-leadership.
This isn’t about being quiet.
It’s about being open.
Because listening is where real transformation begins — for you, your team, and the systems you lead.
✨ Listen now on Spotify:
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(Apple Podcasts link coming soon)
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Let’s talk about how to move from reaction to presence — from force to flow.
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Because the most powerful leaders aren’t the loudest —
They’re the ones who listen.
🎙 Show Notes — Episode 91
Title: Why Achieving More Will Never Be Enough
High achievers pride themselves on reaching the next milestone. The degree. The title. The revenue goal.
But here’s the hard truth: no matter how much you achieve, it will never feel like enough.
Because external achievement can’t fill an internal gap.
In this episode of Survival to Success, I share my own stories — from climbing the ladder in healthcare to chasing shiny objects in business — and the powerful lesson I learned: fulfillment doesn’t come from “more.” It comes from alignment.
Why the high of achievement fades so quickly.
The endless cycle of “achieve → empty → chase again.”
My story of chasing goals in healthcare and in business — and what finally shifted.
The truth about why achievement without alignment always feels hollow.
📩 Ready to stop chasing more and start creating true, identity-driven transformation?
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Or email me at support@dianegudmundson.com
Title: Surrender Isn’t Weak — It’s the Most Powerful Move You Can Make
High achievers are told that strength comes from control. Work harder. Push longer. Grip tighter.
But the truth? The tighter you grip, the more you lose.
In this episode of Survival to Success, I open up about one of the scariest decisions of my life — walking away from a secure nurse practitioner job to launch NP on Wheels. Everyone thought it was crazy. I thought it was terrifying. But that surrender didn’t make me weak. It gave me back my power.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding everything together and it’s draining the life out of you… this episode is for you.
Why surrender is the doorway to peace, clarity, and freedom.
The truth about control (and why it always backfires).
My story of leaving a secure career to create NP on Wheels.
How surrender can become your most powerful move.
📩 Ready to stop burning out on control and step into identity-driven transformation?
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Title: The Lie of Willpower (and What Actually Creates Change)
High achievers love to believe discipline is the answer.
Push harder. Try again. Use more willpower.
But here’s the truth no one tells you: willpower always fails. Identity always wins.
In this episode of Survival to Success, I pull back the curtain on the biggest lie high achievers have been sold. I share personal stories from my own health journey, career, and business to show why white-knuckling your way forward never works — and what actually creates lasting transformation.
👉 If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t “stick with it” no matter how hard you try, this episode will hit home.
Why willpower only works short-term — and why it always runs out.
The truth about identity and why it always wins.
My personal stories of chasing success with willpower (and how it failed).
The one shift that changes everything and makes lasting transformation possible.
📩 Ready to stop burning out on willpower and finally step into identity-driven transformation?
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What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
🎙 Episode 88: Why Your Old Self Is Sabotaging Your Future
Most high achievers don’t fail because they’re lazy.
They fail because they’re dragging their old self into their future.
In this episode of Survival to Success, I unpack why the identity that got you here is the very thing holding you back from going further.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
The hidden ways your “old self” sabotages your growth (even when you’re working hard)
The truth about why restlessness and burnout aren’t about doing too much — they’re about being someone you’ve outgrown
The pivotal moment when I realized the “old Diane” couldn’t create the life I wanted
This one is for every achiever who’s checked the boxes, hit the goals, but still feels stuck.
Because here’s the truth:
👉 You can’t build a new life with the old you.
🔥 Ready to stop sabotaging your future?
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🎙 Episode 3: Why “Trying” Is the Biggest Lie You’ve Been Sold
You’ve been told your whole life: “Just try harder.”
But what if that’s the very thing keeping you stuck?
In this episode of Survival to Success, I share the raw truth about why “trying” nearly broke me in both healthcare and business — and the powerful shift that finally set me free.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
The hidden cost of “trying harder” that nobody talks about
The scariest decision I ever made — and why it changed everything
How overachievers accidentally trap themselves in endless “trying” mode
If you’ve been spinning your wheels and wondering why nothing changes… this episode is for you.
👉 Ready to stop trying and start committing? Book your call with me today: www.calendly.com/DianeGudmundson1
Got questions or want to connect? Email me anytime at support@dianegudmundson.com
Because commitment changes everything.
Episode Summary:
In this episode of Survival to Success, we’re diving into the quiet, dangerous cost of “pushing through” when your body, mind, or spirit is begging you to stop. High achievers wear perseverance like a badge of honour — but what’s the toll when we ignore the warning signs?
I share my own personal moments of hitting the wall, the subtle cues that signalled I was heading for burnout, and the lessons I learned about listening to my body’s wisdom. We’ll talk about why “powering through” feels noble — but often comes at the expense of your health, relationships, and even your long-term success.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
The hidden costs of ignoring your body’s need for rest.
How overachievement can quietly erode your health and joy.
Three simple ways to recognize when you’re running on empty.
What to do instead of pushing harder.
If you’ve ever said “I just need to get through this week” (and then said it again the next week), this episode is your permission slip to stop, reset, and choose a more sustainable path.
Contact me: support@dianegudmundson.com
Why Success Feels Empty (And What to Do About It)
You’ve worked your whole life to get here — the title, the income, the recognition.
From the outside, you’ve made it.
But inside? It feels… hollow.
In this new season 3 episode of Survival to Success, I’m sharing my raw, personal story of hitting “success” twice in my life — first in my career as a Nurse Practitioner, and later as a new entrepreneur — and realizing that neither brought me the fulfillment I thought they would.
We’ll explore:
Why external success can still feel empty
How being “out of alignment” quietly drains your energy and joy
The two biggest wake-up calls that made me completely rethink my definition of success
A simple reflection exercise to help you reconnect with what actually matters to you
If you’ve ever looked around at the life you’ve built and wondered, “Is this it?” — you are not alone.
And this conversation might be the first breadcrumb back to your true self.
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