In our marriage and parenting, we’re often too hard or too soft. When we’re too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do. This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently. And, it leads to people distancing from us. When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak. And, our wives and kids kind of like that… But they don’t respect us or feel safe with us. And we don’t feel safe or respect ourselves...
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