What do you do when your kid is scared? Tell him not to be scared? What do you do when you’re mad? Yell at the person? Tell yourself you shouldn’t feel that way? The problem with this kind of response is that it doesn’t let the emotion move through and out of you. Emotion means to move out. Step 1 in tending to emotions is to acknowledge it’s there, and that it has a good reason to be there. Do this with yourself and others and your relationships will improve immediately. St...
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What do you do when your kid is scared? Tell him not to be scared? What do you do when you’re mad? Yell at the person? Tell yourself you shouldn’t feel that way? The problem with this kind of response is that it doesn’t let the emotion move through and out of you. Emotion means to move out. Step 1 in tending to emotions is to acknowledge it’s there, and that it has a good reason to be there. Do this with yourself and others and your relationships will improve immediately. St...
How Your Past Affects Your Present - Inner Child Journey Part 3
Strong Men Strong Marriages
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4 months ago
How Your Past Affects Your Present - Inner Child Journey Part 3
I used to think that the way to heal was three simple steps. Step 1 –Identify your old, negative, unattractive patterns. Step 2 – Create new positive attractive patterns. Step 3 - Practice the new patterns until you can’t get them wrong And, that sequence does work. However, it misses some important things. Mainly, it misses acknowledging why the old patterns were there in the first place. It doesn’t give compassion to the younger you’s and the current you that are acting ...
Strong Men Strong Marriages
What do you do when your kid is scared? Tell him not to be scared? What do you do when you’re mad? Yell at the person? Tell yourself you shouldn’t feel that way? The problem with this kind of response is that it doesn’t let the emotion move through and out of you. Emotion means to move out. Step 1 in tending to emotions is to acknowledge it’s there, and that it has a good reason to be there. Do this with yourself and others and your relationships will improve immediately. St...