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Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
Deborah
111 episodes
6 days ago
Join Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, in 'Healing From Toxic Abuse' as we unravel trauma, recovery, and resilience. Some abuse is hidden and undetected. Many people find themselves struggling with symptoms such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, confusion, and apathy, to name a few. So many times these symptoms can be traced back to toxic abuse. No matter where it comes from, when boundaries are systematically violated in any way, the result almost always includes these symptoms. My goal is to shed light on the erosive behaviors and help you heal. www.InnerSourceTherapy.com
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Join Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, in 'Healing From Toxic Abuse' as we unravel trauma, recovery, and resilience. Some abuse is hidden and undetected. Many people find themselves struggling with symptoms such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, confusion, and apathy, to name a few. So many times these symptoms can be traced back to toxic abuse. No matter where it comes from, when boundaries are systematically violated in any way, the result almost always includes these symptoms. My goal is to shed light on the erosive behaviors and help you heal. www.InnerSourceTherapy.com
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Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
105. The Transformative Power of Psychedelic Integration with Julian Bermudez

In this insightful episode, Julian Bermudez, a dedicated practitioner specializing in psychedelic integration work, shares his journey and expertise in helping individuals navigate through trauma and rediscover their authentic selves. Julian discusses the historical and spiritual significance of psychedelic experiences, the fundamental aspects of self-inquiry and emotional development, and the integration of these practices within modern therapeutic settings. He emphasizes the importance of re-connecting with oneself and highlights transformative success stories experienced by his clients. Through a blend of direct therapeutic techniques and psychedelic experiences, Julian’s work aims to heal deep-rooted pain and promote personal transformation. Listeners gain profound insights into the potential healing power of psychedelic therapy and how it challenges and complements traditional mental health approaches.


00:00 Introduction to Julian Bermudez and His Work

00:49 Julian's Journey into Psychedelic Integration

01:46 Understanding Psychedelic Integration

04:17 Traditional Therapy vs. Psychedelic Integration

06:14 Navigating Pain and Defense Mechanisms

07:50 Building a Practice of Self-Inquiry

08:53 The Role of Psychedelics in Therapy

12:27 The Science Behind Psychedelic Experiences

17:22 Protective Mechanisms and Reprogramming

21:12 Case Study: Addressing Toxic Relationships

22:09 Understanding Early Life Adaptations

23:08 The Conflict Between Attachment and Authenticity

24:26 Recognizing and Addressing Unmet Needs

25:58 Building Self-Compassion and Self-Care Practices

26:50 The Role of Psychedelic Experiences in Healing

28:10 Navigating Altered States and Protector Parts

33:01 Transformative Breakthroughs and Success Stories

38:13 The Future of Psychedelic Integration in Mental Health

41:10 Key Takeaways on Healing and Transformation

42:46 Closing Remarks and Contact Information

To learn more about today’s guest, Julian Bermudez, visit:

psychedelic-integration.net

To learn more about our host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, visit:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 days ago
46 minutes 32 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
104. Interview with De’Ann Richter on A Holistic and Balanced Approach to Healing

In this episode, host Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, welcomes De’Ann Richter, head coach at Breast Cancer Conqueror, to discuss the interplay between traditional and holistic approaches to health, particularly in the context of breast cancer recovery. De’Ann shares her journey from working in health food stores with her grandmother to becoming a surgical trauma nurse and advocate for integrative medicine. The conversation turns to the 'Seven Essentials System,', which includes guidelines like using food as medicine, reducing toxic exposure, balancing energy, healing emotional wounds, and more. De’Ann emphasizes the importance of personalized care, stress management, and the mind-body connection in cancer treatment. The discussion also covers common misconceptions about holistic medicine and offers advice for those newly diagnosed with breast cancer to empower themselves and take control of their healing journey.

00:00 Introduction to Deanne Richter

01:23 Deanne's Early Influences and Nursing Career

03:33 The Seven Essentials System

08:19 The Importance of Emotional Health in Cancer

18:11 Advice for Newly Diagnosed Breast Cancer Patients

23:39 Effective Stress Management Techniques

24:03 Exploring EFT Tapping for Stress Relief

25:26 Tailoring Stress Management Approaches

26:43 Monitoring Inflammation and Health Markers

31:52 Balancing Traditional and Natural Treatments

34:29 The Importance of Belief Systems in Healing

36:48 Staying Informed and Expanding Knowledge

38:03 Future of Integrative Medicine

41:06 Empowering Patients in Their Health Journey

45:03 Conclusion and Contact Information


To learn more about today’s guest, De’Ann Richter, visit:

https://breastcancerconqueror.com

coaching@breastcancerconqueror.com

To learn more about our host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, visit:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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1 week ago
48 minutes 11 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
103. Exploring Music Therapy and EMDR with Crystal Luk-Worrall

In this episode, we discuss the multifaceted world of music therapy with guest Crystal Luk-Worrall, an HCPC registered music therapist, EMDR therapist, and clinical supervisor based in London, UK. Crystal shares her journey from being a musician to a therapist, emphasizing the importance of combining music and emotional wellbeing. She talks about her work with the adoption community, the role of music in processing trauma, and how music therapy differs from traditional talk therapy. Crystal also talks about the challenges and misconceptions in music therapy, how music can be used to regulate emotions, and how parents can use musical techniques at home to support their children. The conversation wraps up with insights on the importance of love, co-regulation, and the supportive role of music and imagery in EMDR therapy.


00:00 Introduction to Crystal Luk-Worrall

00:54 Crystal's Journey into Music Therapy

03:24 Understanding Music Therapy

05:32 Music Therapy Techniques and Benefits

17:27 Incorporating EMDR with Music Therapy

24:41 Challenges and Insights in Therapy

35:34 Advice for Parents and Caregivers

38:40 Conclusion and Contact Information

To learn more about today’s guest, Crystal Luk-Worrall, visit:

ClapAndToot.com

To learn more about our host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, visit:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 weeks ago
43 minutes 33 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
102. Healing and Transformation with Spiritual Guide Inaya Oakroot

In this episode, Deborah hosts Inaya Oakroot, a spiritual guide and founder of Oakroot Spiritual Academy. Inaya shares her journey of healing and overcoming adversity, emphasizing the importance of aligning with one's authentic purpose. She discusses the significance of planetary sounds, crystals, and creative expression in the healing process. Inaya also explains the role of the Akashic records in healing past traumas and breaking free from toxic relationships. The conversation explores the intricate balance between the physical and spiritual realms and offers practical strategies for those seeking to heal from toxic relationships and personal traumas.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:30 Anaya's Personal Journey

02:42 Healing Through Creativity and Spirituality

06:45 The Power of Planetary Sounds and Crystals

09:32 Understanding Balance and Duality

12:35 Anaya's Work and Services

19:03 The Akashic Records and Higher Self

24:04 Healing from Toxic Abuse

29:44 Escaping the Victim Triangle

30:20 Practical Strategies for Breaking Free

30:27 The Power of High Frequency Sounds

30:53 Understanding Negative Thoughts

31:53 The Role of Acceptance

32:19 Exploring High Frequency Sounds

34:51 Impact of Low Frequency Sounds

35:32 Aligning Body and Soul

37:25 Healing Through Sound

38:45 Akashic Records and Healing

51:43 Daily Practices for Self-Care

53:50 Final Thoughts and Contact Information


To learn more about today’s guest, Inaya Oakroot:

www.oakrootspiritualacademy.com

To learn more about the host, Deborah Ashway, LCMCHS, LCAS:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 weeks ago
56 minutes 31 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
101. Navigating Burnout and Rediscovering Purpose: A Conversation with Dr. Emma Jones

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Emma Jones, a seasoned pediatric hospice and palliative care physician. Dr. Jones discusses her bestselling book, 'The Phoenix Blueprint: Rising Stronger from the Blaze of Healthcare,' which provides practical advice for recovery from burnout based on her personal experiences. She also elaborates on her online group coaching program, Unstuck, which helps clinicians reimagine their roles without compromising their well-being. Dr. Jones shares poignant stories from her palliative care work, illustrates the transformative power of community-minded care, and underscores the importance of recognizing and addressing burnout early. She emphasizes the need for self-care, meaningful work, and the benefits of cultivating a sense of purpose. The episode offers insights into creating sustainable healthcare practices and empowering healthcare professionals to thrive both personally and professionally.


00:00 Introduction to Dr. Emma Jones

01:20 The Emotional Impact of Pediatric Palliative Care

04:08 Remarkable Stories of Siblings in Care

07:56 Understanding Children's Grief

09:55 Dr. Jones' Personal Journey with Burnout

14:29 The Phoenix Blueprint: Steps to Recovery

17:30 Recognizing and Addressing Burnout

21:04 The Unstuck Program: Realigning Healthcare Careers

23:18 Empowering Through Mission Statements

23:54 Unstuck Program: A Hybrid Approach

24:09 Success Stories from Unstuck

24:57 The Importance of Vision and Trade-offs

26:28 Widening the Scope of Life

27:39 Cultivating Purpose to Overcome Burnout

29:09 The Role of Identity in Personal Growth

31:36 Reclaiming and Redefining Identities

40:22 Living in the Present Moment

42:23 Final Words of Wisdom

To learn more about today’s guest, Dr. Emma Jones:

www.Emmajonesmd.com 

To learn more about the host, Deborah Ashway, LCMCHS, LCAS:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 weeks ago
48 minutes 14 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
100. Transforming Trauma: Sydney Curtin's Journey and Advocacy for Adoption Reform

In this episode, Sydney Curtin shares her inspiring journey of overcoming personal trauma and her dedication to child-centered adoption practices. Growing up with a mother struggling with addiction, mental illness and dealing with significant family challenges, Sydney chose to channel her experiences into actionable advocacy. Through her work, including drafting a powerful adoption reform book, she aims to educate and guide both biological and adoptive parents to ensure ethical adoption practices. Sydney discusses the importance of legislative changes, her advocacy efforts in Idaho, and how her faith sustained her through hardships. With a focus on healing and growth, Sydney's story serves as a beacon of hope and transformation for others navigating similar struggles.


00:00 Introduction to Sydney Curtin

01:22 Sydney's Early Life and Family Struggles

02:48 The Impact of Labels and Misdiagnoses

04:21 Turning Pain into Purpose

12:36 Challenges with Adoption and Advocacy

24:14 Ineffective Communication in Relationships

25:19 A Life-Changing Sermon

27:16 Struggles and Rebellion

28:14 The Adoption Decision

32:56 Adoption Reform Advocacy

39:11 Challenges in Adoption Reform

46:31 Final Words of Wisdom


To learn more about today’s guest, Sydney Curtin:

Sydneycurtin@curtincall.com


To learn more about the host, Deborah Ashway, LCMCHS, LCAS:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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1 month ago
50 minutes 55 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
99. Interview with DeAnn Richter on A Holistic and Balanced Approach to Healing

In this episode, host Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, welcomes De’Ann Richter, head coach at Breast Cancer Conqueror, to discuss the interplay between traditional and holistic approaches to health, particularly in the context of breast cancer recovery. De’Ann shares her journey from working in health food stores with her grandmother to becoming a surgical trauma nurse and advocate for integrative medicine. The conversation turns to the 'Seven Essentials System,', which includes guidelines like using food as medicine, reducing toxic exposure, balancing energy, healing emotional wounds, and more. De’Ann emphasizes the importance of personalized care, stress management, and the mind-body connection in cancer treatment. The discussion also covers common misconceptions about holistic medicine and offers advice for those newly diagnosed with breast cancer to empower themselves and take control of their healing journey.

00:00 Introduction to Deanne Richter

01:23 Deanne's Early Influences and Nursing Career

03:33 The Seven Essentials System

08:19 The Importance of Emotional Health in Cancer

18:11 Advice for Newly Diagnosed Breast Cancer Patients

23:39 Effective Stress Management Techniques

24:03 Exploring EFT Tapping for Stress Relief

25:26 Tailoring Stress Management Approaches

26:43 Monitoring Inflammation and Health Markers

31:52 Balancing Traditional and Natural Treatments

34:29 The Importance of Belief Systems in Healing

36:48 Staying Informed and Expanding Knowledge

38:03 Future of Integrative Medicine

41:06 Empowering Patients in Their Health Journey

45:03 Conclusion and Contact Information


PubMed.gov (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/)

https://breastcancerconqueror.com

coaching@breastcancerconqueror.com



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1 month ago
48 minutes 14 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
98. Fluctuating Between Good and Horrible; The extreme highs and lows of toxic relationships

If you've contemplated leaving a toxic relationship but then get confused and question your decision because of the 'good times,' then this episode is for you. This episode explores the fluctuating dynamics of toxic relationships, focusing on the cycle of extremes in good and bad experiences, which leads to abuse and trauma bonding. The host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, discusses the psychological tactics used by abusers, including intermittent reinforcement and love bombing, to maintain control over their victims. The discussion includes insights from the book 'Why Does He Do That?' by Lundy Bancroft and findings from Chuck Derry’s research on abusive men. The episode emphasizes the ways to influence the release from the cycle and the importance of recognizing these manipulative behaviors, setting boundaries, and reclaiming one's sense of self. Deborah offers advice on moving forward and the benefits of cutting ties with manipulative individuals.

00:00 Introduction to Toxic Relationships

00:46 Understanding Trauma Bonding

01:49 The Cycle of Abuse

03:31 Do Abusers Know What They're Doing?

05:29 Benefits Abusers Gain

11:49 Motivations to Stop Abuse

14:35 Empowerment and Setting Boundaries

18:17 Personal Reflections and Moving Forward


To learn more or connect with the host visit:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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1 month ago
28 minutes 9 seconds

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97. Unmasking Hidden Toxins: Mold's Impact on Health with Corey Levy

In this episode, our special guest Corey Levy, co-founder of We Inspect and a leading expert in indoor environmental health, shares his journey and insights into the profound effects of mold and other hidden environmental toxins on our physical and mental wellbeing. Levy discusses the history of his family's involvement in indoor air quality, the evolution of his company, and the critical connection between environmental health and chronic illnesses. He explains the various ways mold can impact the body, the importance of identifying signs of mold in homes, and effective strategies for remediation. Levy also addresses the challenges of acknowledging environmental factors in health issues and provides advice for those suspecting mold-related health problems. The episode emphasizes the importance of awareness and proactive measures to create healthier living environments.


00:00 Introduction to Corey Levy and His Work

01:07 Corey's Journey into Indoor Environmental Health

05:08 Understanding Mold and Its Health Impacts

12:30 Identifying Mold in Your Home

14:57 Steps to Address Mold Issues

21:35 Challenges in Recognizing Environmental Toxins

26:07 Advice for Suspecting Mold in Your Home

30:03 Resources and Support for Mold Issues

41:24 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

To learn more about Corey Levy:

YesWeInspect.com

TheDustTest .com

@moldfinders


To connect with the host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 months ago
45 minutes 12 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
96. Embracing Inner Light: Diana Esther’s Journey of Triumph Over Adversity

In this episode, we are joined by Diana Esther, an acclaimed author, poet, speaker, transformational coach, and inspirational teacher. Diana shares her remarkable life story, including her recovery from lymphatic cancer and her extraordinary journey from the dark times in the Soviet Union to becoming a beacon of light and wisdom. She discusses her path to discovering the importance of inner light, her battle with cancer, and how she uses her personal experiences to help others transform their lives. Diana also speaks on the power of self-love, understanding, and the innate potential every individual has to connect with their true self for healing and growth.

00:00 Introduction to Diana Esther

01:15 Diana's Early Life in the Soviet Union

03:18 Struggles and Inner Strength

09:34 Journey to Freedom

16:31 Discovering the Diamond Within

24:52 The Power of Connection and Transformation

28:41 Understanding Innate Awareness

29:28 Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs

30:38 The Power of Desire and Free Will

31:09 Elevating Consciousness

32:58 Connecting with Inner Light

34:50 Overcoming Adversity: A Personal Journey

38:42 Miraculous Recovery from Cancer

46:01 The Role of Diet in Healing

53:10 Empowerment through Self-Love

54:58 Final Thoughts and Resources

To contact or learn more about Diana Esther, or her book, The Diamond Within visit:

diana.berschader@gmail.com





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2 months ago
58 minutes 5 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
95. To all the people that can’t stand you.

Breaking Free: Embrace Your True Self and Let Go of These Toxic People

In this empowering episode, we dig into the hard part of the journey of healing, which is letting go. You have to set boundaries in order to reclaim your authentic self. The focus is on letting go of toxic relationships and people who thrive on your submissive and people-pleasing nature. As you start putting yourself first and saying 'no' without guilt, some people will undoubtedly get upset. However, this transformation is key for your mental, emotional, and physical health. 

Learn to identify the signs that you are being used. Celebrate your growth as you let go and embrace the inevitable changes that come with setting boundaries. The changes are sometimes hard, but always beneficial to you.  This episode encourages you to push past the fear of judgment and criticism to become the most authentic and inspired version of yourself, ultimately attracting genuine support and healthier relationships.

00:00 Empowering Yourself Against Naysayers

01:35 Recognizing Toxic Relationships

02:22 The Cost of People Pleasing

03:00 Embracing Your True Self

03:53 The Transformation and Its Impact

05:39 Facing Resistance and Manipulation

07:26 Breaking Free and Setting Boundaries

19:01 The Importance of Self-Improvement

21:03 Practical Steps for Self-Care

23:27 Conclusion: Embrace the Change


To learn more or connect with host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS visit:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 months ago
43 minutes 37 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
94. Embracing Life's Challenges: Lori Pappas' Journey to Inner Peace and Humanitarian Impact

In this episode, Lori Pappas, a humanitarian and entrepreneur, shares her inspiring journey of overcoming personal struggles and transforming them into catalysts for growth and positive change. Lori's life story includes surviving a tumultuous childhood and being forced in to a mental institution in the 1960s by her over-religous parents. Pioneering as one of the first women in computer sales, and founding an international charity in Ethiopia, her insights on inner peace, self-discovery, and resilience are deeply explored. Her book 'The Magic of Yes,' offers pathways for finding inner peace through self-reflection and the 'DREAM' framework. Lori also touches on concepts such as self-compassion, forgiveness, and overcoming negative self-talk. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and leave feedback to help further the discussion on achieving inner peace and happiness.


00:00 Introduction to Lori Pappas

00:56 Early Life Struggles and Resilience

04:27 Breaking Barriers in the Tech Industry

07:53 Humanitarian Work in Africa

12:23 The Magic of Yes: Lori's Book

17:18 The Dream Framework Explained

20:36 Cultivating Courage and Setting Boundaries

24:50 Reincarnation and Past Lives

25:37 The Power of Reflection

26:18 Visions of Past Lives

28:42 The Difference in This Life

29:50 Inner Peace and Self-Reflection

30:43 Sticky Thoughts and Self-Love

34:11 Overcoming Negative Self-Talk

36:27 Fostering Self-Compassion

42:14 Final Thoughts and Resources

To learn more or contact Lori Pappas:

www.LoriPappas.com

Please reach out to Lori Pappas about joining the Wisewomen sisterhood

Email: lori@loripappas.com


To contact host Deborah Ashway:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 months ago
49 minutes 9 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
93. Embracing the Past: Kennerly Clay on Forgiveness, Healing, and Recovery

In this episode, award-winning and best selling author Kennerly Clay discusses her memoir, 'Letters from East of Nowhere; Daddy’s Words to Live, Drink & Die By' offering valuable insights into forgiveness, dealing with family complexities, and the journey of personal growth and healing. If you’re a fan of ‘The Glass Castle’ and ‘Lit’ then you’ll love hearing about Kennerly’s life. She shares her personal experiences with recovery, the impact of past traumas, and the challenge of navigating toxic relationships. Kennerly highlights the significance of authentic communication and resilience in the face of adversity while recounting the compelling influence of her father and the power of letter writing. Kennerly offers her wisdom on the challenges of healing from toxic abuse. This conversation offers timely advice for anyone facing unresolved familial and emotional issues. 

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

01:16 Kennerly’s Journey to Sobriety

02:05 Writing as a Healing Process

03:28 Father-Daughter Relationship Dynamics

06:19 The Power of Forgiveness

11:22 Navigating Complex Family Dynamics

20:01 Embracing Sobriety at a Young Age

23:03 Exploring Resilience and Overcoming Disappointments

25:44 Introducing the Book: Letters from East of Nowhere

26:01 The Story Behind the Book's Title and Content

29:11 Impact of a Troubled Parent on Family Dynamics

33:17 Understanding Forgiveness and Personal Growth

36:41 Recognizing and Dealing with Triggers

39:16 Final Thoughts and Where to Find More Information

To learn more about Kennerly Clay:

www.LettersFromEastOfNowhere.com

To contact host Deborah Ashway:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 months ago
43 minutes 37 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
92. Harnessing Ancient Wisdom: The Vagus Nerve and Holistic Healing with Melanie Weller

In this episode, host Deborah introduces Melanie Weller, a pioneer in mental health and holistic healing. Melanie discusses her approach of integrating intuition into clinical practice and how she has evolved her unique practice over 30 years. By focusing on the vagus nerve, Melanie reveals the profound connection between physical and emotional wellbeing and discusses the significance of time perception and processing in various health diagnoses. The conversation delves into the integration of ancient mythology and astrology with modern science, offering transformative solutions for those struggling with chronic pain, mental health challenges, and the aftermath of toxic abuse. Melanie shares practical exercises like helical breathing and discusses the broader implications of her work, aiming for a deeper understanding and healing of the mind, body, and soul.


00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

01:13 Melanie's Journey into Integrating Intuition

04:56 Understanding the Vagus Nerve

08:28 The Connection Between Intuition and the Vagus Nerve

14:54 Practical Techniques for Vagus Nerve Decompression

18:55 Ancient Wisdom and Modern Science

25:43 Imaginal Exercises and Metaphors in Healing

27:34 Astrology and the Body's Clock

27:50 Time Perception and Mental Health

28:38 Cerebellum and Emotional Coordination

31:54 Finger Tapping Exercise for Healing

40:33 Astrology, Mythology, and Healing

42:55 Healing from Toxic Abuse

46:26 Conclusion and Resources


To contact Melanie Weller:

www.melanieweller.com

You can also listen to Melanie's podcast: Fearless Presence


To contact Deborah Ashway:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com


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2 months ago
55 minutes 38 seconds

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91. Interview with Thomas J. LaGrave Jr.: A Pioneer in Adolescent Mental Health

In this insightful episode of Healing from Toxic Abuse, host Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS welcomes Thomas LaGrave Jr., LCSW, an expert with over 35 years in the field of adolescent mental health. Thomas, a former Navy SEAL and currently a licensed clinical social worker, shares his compelling journey from addiction to recovery and his dedication to helping young individuals. He discusses his book 'Special Welfare Social Warfare' and the Honor Bound Academy, a nonprofit aimed at providing a rite of passage for adolescents. The episode covers his personal story, insights into the mental health challenges faced by today’s youth, and the importance of creating supportive environments to foster youths on the verge of adulthood.

TheHonorBoundAcademy.org

00:00 Introduction to Thomas J. La Grave Jr.

01:24 Thomas's Personal Journey with Addiction

01:58 From Navy SEAL to Recovery

03:30 Finding Purpose Through Helping Adolescents

06:15 Educational Pursuits and Professional Growth

08:05 Insights from 'Special Welfare Social Warfare'

11:49 Generational Analysis and Youth Challenges

19:47 The Honor Bound Academy: Vision and Structure

25:16 Mental Health Challenges for Adolescents Today

28:53 Struggles with Addiction and Technology

29:10 Reeducating Phone Usage

30:35 Honor Bound Academy's Approach

30:39 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence

30:54 Using Nature and Challenges as Tools

31:37 Addressing Failures and Learning

33:51 The Role of Parents in Child Development

34:41 The Power of Love in Recovery

36:39 Challenges in Modern Parenting

46:56 The Importance of Trust and Accountability

49:11 Conclusion and Contact Information


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3 months ago
55 minutes 38 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
90. Navigating Mental Health and Trauma: Dr. Michelle Sherman on Supporting Families

In this episode, the host interviews Dr. Michelle Sherman, a clinical psychologist and author, known for her work on family dynamics related to mental health and trauma. Dr. Sherman talks about her books, 'Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or History of Trauma: Skills, Hope, and Strength for Your Journey' and 'I'm Not Alone: A Teen's Guide to Living with a Parent Who Has a Mental Illness or History of Trauma.' She shares her journey, professional experiences, and personal motivations for focusing on this field. The discussion centers on the importance of understanding mental health symptoms, the impact of parental mental illness on children, and the need for self-care and boundary setting for family members. Dr. Sherman also emphasizes the significance of community support and resources for managing these challenges. The episode concludes with a call to action for better awareness and support systems for families dealing with mental health issues.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Background

01:04 Dr. Sherman's Career and Contributions

01:37 Personal Motivations and Early Work

04:02 Book Structure and Purpose

06:38 Teen Resilience and Prevention

10:00 Understanding Mental Health Symptoms

14:58 Impact on Adolescents and Families

18:21 Challenges and Support Systems

25:28 Identifying Toxic Relationships

26:29 Recognizing Behavioral Patterns

28:36 Approaching with Kindness and Curiosity

31:46 Collaborating with Family

35:46 Setting Boundaries and Self-Care

41:06 Future Plans and Mission


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3 months ago
55 minutes 38 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
89. Avoidance = Denial

“What do you mean I’m avoiding? I’m facing everything head on.” I hear this frequently and sometimes catch myself  in a state of avoidance.  It takes a lot of self-reflection and awareness to notice this. Avoidance can be a natural built-in protective tendency in our body’s nervous system. We might not even realize when our bodies are keeping us from processing, cleaning out and re-writing the script.  In this episode, we delve into the concept of avoidance and its detrimental effects on us and how it can keep us stuck in toxic or unhealthy relationships. The discussion covers the nature of avoidance, its origins as a protective mechanism, and the ways it perpetuates anxiety and physical tension. By avoiding negative emotions, we hinder our healing process and allow manipulative individuals to undermine our self-confidence and self-worth. The episode explores strategies to overcome avoidance, emphasizing self-awareness, self-compassion, and the importance of rebuilding social networks. Practical steps, such as journaling, setting boundaries, and gradually facing uncomfortable emotions, are highlighted to foster personal growth and emotional resilience.


00:00 Understanding Avoidance: The Root of Being Stuck

03:19 The Impact of Avoidance on Mental and Physical Health

07:25 Manipulation and Self-Confidence: The Vicious Cycle

17:57 Breaking the Cycle: Steps to Overcome Avoidance

22:40 Rebuilding Social Networks and Facing Emotions

28:24 Practical Tips for Pushing Through Avoidance


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3 months ago
32 minutes 13 seconds

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88. Exploring Neuroplastic Pain: Insights from Dr. David Clark

Exploring Neuroplastic Pain: Insights from Dr. David Clarke

In this episode, host Deborah interviews Dr. David Clarke, President of the Association for Treatment of Neuroplastic Symptoms (ATNS). They discuss the chronic pain epidemic, neuroplasticity, and its link to stress-related and brain-generated medical conditions. Dr. Clarke highlights various conditions such as fibromyalgia, migraines, and chronic fatigue as examples of neuroplastic pain. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's life stressors and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) in diagnosing and treating these conditions. Deborah and Dr. Clarke also delve into the effectiveness of pain relief psychotherapy compared to traditional CBT. They underscore the essential role of self-esteem and the accurate understanding of personal experiences in relieving chronic pain and stress symptoms. The conversation sheds light on the necessity for modern healthcare to incorporate these insights for better patient outcomes.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. David Clarke and ATNS

00:58 Understanding Neuroplasticity

03:04 Chronic Pain and Stress Connection

05:52 Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and Chronic Illness

12:56 Pain Relief Psychotherapy and Its Effectiveness

18:31 Differences Between CBT and Pain Relief Psychology

24:54 The Language of Physical Symptoms

28:28 Protective Programs and Boundary Setting

29:01 Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

29:42 Rebuilding Self-Esteem

30:51 Therapeutic Techniques and Exercises

31:56 The Role of Affirmations

33:42 Understanding False Belief Systems

34:10 Brain and Body Connection

35:49 Journey into Gastroenterology and Neuroplasticity

43:52 Challenges in Modern Healthcare

45:26 The Importance of Collaboration in Healthcare

46:05 Subtle Forms of Toxicity

47:17 Patient Resistance and Acceptance

49:27 The Power of Placebo and Effective Treatments

51:20 Success Stories and Transformations


To learn more visit: Symptomatic.Me


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4 months ago
55 minutes 38 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
87. Inside the Mind of True Crime Storyteller Kim Davis

In this episode, I have the privilege of talking to Kim Davis, the multifaceted talent behind the true crime podcast, 'Slaycation'. Known for her diverse background in performing arts, social work, and raising awareness on domestic violence, Kim dives deep into her passion for true crime and storytelling. She discusses how her podcast began, the psychological aspects of crime, and the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships. Additionally, she candidly shares personal stories about her battle with cancer and how it has shaped her perspective on life and personal boundaries. The conversation also includes insights into maintaining healthy relationships and overcoming personal trauma.

00:00 Introduction to Kim Davis

01:26 Kim's Journey into True Crime Podcasting

03:26 Exploring Human Behavior and True Crime

04:55 Kim's Work in Domestic Violence

05:53 Personal Reflections on Abuse and Healing

08:27 Balancing Seriousness and Humor in True Crime

10:53 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships

20:21 Kim's Personal Journey and Therapy

29:44 Navigating Boundaries in Relationships

32:10 Parenting Challenges and Insights

38:50 Overcoming Cancer: A Personal Journey

46:27 The Power of a Supportive Home

52:21 Lifelong Learning in Marriage

53:32 Final Reflections and Gratitude



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4 months ago
55 minutes 38 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
86. Storytelling in Healing: Unveiling Family Truths with Sean Kenny

In this episode of the 'Healing from Toxic Abuse' podcast, Deborah welcomes Sean Kenny, author of 'Out of Step: A Memoir of a Life Misled.' Sean shares an emotional and introspective account of his personal journey, touching on themes of family, identity, and the long-lasting impact of toxic abuse. His memoir covers the eye-opening realizations that led him to rewrite his understanding of past events, revealing multiple layers of hidden truths about his family dynamics, particularly focusing on the revelations about his father and sister. The conversation delves into Sean's journey of self-discovery, the challenges of sharing deeply personal experiences, and the transformative power of writing.


00:00 Introduction to Sean Kenny and His Memoir

01:05 Sean's Dual Life: Engineer and Author

02:27 A Family Vacation That Changed Everything

03:36 Revelations and Family Secrets

06:30 Questioning the Past: A New Perspective

09:16 The Impact of Writing on Healing

16:25 The Role of Memoirs in Healing

36:15 Final Thoughts and Resources


'Out of Step: A Memoir of a Life Misled' on Amazon.


To contact Sean Kenny: seankennyauthor@gmail.com

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4 months ago
40 minutes 9 seconds

Inner Source - Healing from Toxic Abuse
Join Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, in 'Healing From Toxic Abuse' as we unravel trauma, recovery, and resilience. Some abuse is hidden and undetected. Many people find themselves struggling with symptoms such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, confusion, and apathy, to name a few. So many times these symptoms can be traced back to toxic abuse. No matter where it comes from, when boundaries are systematically violated in any way, the result almost always includes these symptoms. My goal is to shed light on the erosive behaviors and help you heal. www.InnerSourceTherapy.com