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Dear Little Me
Dawn Chitty
312 episodes
8 months ago

We share real, unfiltered conversations with trauma survivors—hear their truth and witness the resilience of the human spirit. Validate your own experience; what you endured was real, hard, and painful. But remember, it doesn't have to define the rest of your life.


Tune in to Dear Little Me, where you will hear some of the most important heart-to-heart conversations of your life.


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We share real, unfiltered conversations with trauma survivors—hear their truth and witness the resilience of the human spirit. Validate your own experience; what you endured was real, hard, and painful. But remember, it doesn't have to define the rest of your life.


Tune in to Dear Little Me, where you will hear some of the most important heart-to-heart conversations of your life.


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Dear Little Me
333. THE SELF CARE SECRET NO-ONE TALKS ABOUT: Letting Go of Your Mother

START WITH THIS EPISODE. Dear Little Me is currently on a break. If you are looking to heal your childhood trauma there are 333. incredible episodes available on this podcast to help you heal, grow and thrive.


We all want a loving, joyful, and connected relationship with our mother. But sometimes, no matter how much we want it, it is just not possible. After enduring years of emotional and physical abuse, Melany reached a turning point. Despite her tireless efforts to heal and start afresh with her mother, Melany came to a profound realisation that shook her to her core: each attempt to maintain her relationship with her mother was unraveling the progress she had made within herself. Every interaction left her feeling drained and disconnected from her own needs and values. Finally, Melany understood that holding onto this relationship wasn’t just challenging—it was costing her the peace, joy, and self-respect she had fought so hard to reclaim. Join us as Melany shares her journey, revealing the courage it took to prioritise her own well-being and the profound wisdom she gained along the way.


Melany Oliver is an intuitive life coach who can help you heal from emotional trauma, so you can feel more empowered and in control of your life. You can find Melany at https://melany-oliver.com/ and on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/melany.oliver/


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, Narcissistic Mother, Narcissist, Estrangement, Emotional regulation


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8 months ago
50 minutes 48 seconds

Dear Little Me
332. DITCH THE DRAMA: How to Survive Christmas with Peace and Sanity

Our final episode for 2024. The holiday season is meant to be filled with joy and connection, but for many of us, it can feel like an emotional minefield—especially when family dynamics are complicated. In this episode, we explore how to navigate Christmas without the chaos.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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Christmas, self love, toxic families, toxic relationships


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11 months ago
17 minutes 19 seconds

Dear Little Me
331. I FINALLY FOUND SAFETY From The Demons Of My Past

After a tumultuous childhood, Wen faced overwhelming struggles. When repressed memories resurfaced, she was left flawed and spiralling out of control. But then Wen realized that in order to truly heal she needed to first find safety. 


You can find Wen on Instagram at www.instagram.com/rebelforaspell and purchase her book here https://shorturl.at/QN3Xi


Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Tags and Categories: nervous system, freeze response, childhood trauma, emotional abandonment


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11 months ago
15 minutes 9 seconds

Dear Little Me
330. Unbreakable: WISDOM AND INSPIRATION FROM TRUE SURVIVORS

This week, we shine a light on some of the incredible wisdom and inspiration shared by so many courageous women on the podcast this year. Their stories of resilience, transformation, and healing are filled with setbacks, breakthroughs, and profound moments of self-discovery. Today, I wanted to bring some of these remarkable voices back into the spotlight. Each story reminds us of the power of vulnerability and the potential for growth, even in the most challenging circumstances. I hope these voices inspire you as deeply as they have inspired me.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject

or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au. I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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11 months ago
45 minutes 20 seconds

Dear Little Me
329. Unbreakable: THE TRUTH ABOUT TOXIC MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIPS

In this three-part series, we pause to honor the incredible women who bravely stepped forward this year to share their powerful and deeply personal stories with us. In part two, we turn our focus to the women who faced intense challenges in their relationships with their mothers. These are stories of conflict, longing, and self-discovery from women who have struggled to navigate difficult maternal bonds. Their journeys reveal how these early, often complicated relationships have shaped their lives.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au. I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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11 months ago
33 minutes 52 seconds

Dear Little Me
328. HOW TO CULTIVATE CALM Amidst Anxiety and Chaos

Laura Rhodes-Levin, LMFT, is the founder of The Missing Peace Centre for Anxiety, where she has dedicated her career to helping women navigate the complexities of anxiety. In this insightful mini-episode, Laura shares her incredible wisdom on what anxiety truly is, its root causes, and the various ways to heal from it. You can find Laura via her website https://missingpeace4anxiety.com/ and you can purchase her book here https://shorturl.at/rNkQW


Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Tags and Categories: nervous system, childhood trauma, anxiety, depression



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11 months ago
17 minutes 42 seconds

Dear Little Me
327. Unbreakable: I BROKE THE SILENCE OF ABUSE

In this three part series, we take a moment to honor the women who bravely stepped forward this year to share their powerful stories with us. In part one, we hear from incredible souls who broke the silence on growing up in abusive homes. We don’t share these stories to dwell on the pain, we share to inspire strength, resilience and to showcase the possibilities for healing. Listen in as these courageous women share with us how it is possible to not only survive but to truly thrive beyond trauma.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject

or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au. I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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11 months ago
50 minutes 5 seconds

Dear Little Me
324. HERE’S PROOF - Love Truly Heals

For 19 years Jewels was trapped in a cycle of drinking. Desperately trying to break free—nothing worked, until she found a group of women that would not let her fail. Discover how Jewels broke free from addiction with the help of people who truly loved her.


You can purchase Jewels book The Making Of A Woman: From The Inside Out here https://www.amazon.com.au/Making-Woman-Inside-Out/dp/1737268507


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support us and GET THIS PODCAST AD FREE, SPONSORSHIP FREE and RECEIVE ACCESS TO SUBSCRIBER ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Tags and Categories: addiction, childhood trauma, alcoholism



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1 year ago
10 minutes 39 seconds

Dear Little Me
323. WHY YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE NEVER ENOUGH (and How to Break Free)

Do you feel like you are never enough? Are you trapped in a cycle of trying to please everyone? Do you believe that if you can just achieve the next big thing, you will finally feel good about yourself? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you need to connect with Christina L Woods. Christina has all the answers you are looking for. On the outside, Christina appeared to have it all: a corporate VP role, a multi-six-figure salary, constant travel, a beautiful home, and two amazing children. But behind the scenes, her body was breaking down, plagued by autoimmune disorders, panic attacks, and the heartbreak of a marriage falling apart. Discover how Christina turned her life around and is now helping other women break free from the patterns that hold them back. Learn her powerful techniques to hold boundaries, trust yourself deeply, and become truly unstoppable.


You can find Christina via her website https://christinalwoods.com/ and on instagram https://www.instagram.com/christina.lwoods Please reach out and connect.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject

or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au. I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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1 year ago
46 minutes 32 seconds

Dear Little Me
321. HOW ONE DANCE CLASS SAVED MY LIFE: No Rules, Just Healing

By the time Toni Bergins reached grad school, her life felt like chaos. Beneath the surface, she was grappling with the lingering effects of childhood trauma, which manifested in body image struggles, disordered eating, and self-destructive behaviors. She became consumed by exercise and dieting, using alcohol as a coping mechanism. Then, one day, Toni took a dance class—unlike any other. There was no choreography, no rules. As she ran freely around the room, Toni felt like a child again. She broke down, crying, unraveling—but she had loved every moment of it. This was Toni’s introduction to embodied movement—a form of raw, primal dance that encourages women to fully inhabit their bodies and embrace every emotion. Today, embodied movement is helping countless women heal from their trauma.


Toni Bergins is the creator of JourneyDance, a form of embodied movement which is helping women transform their lives. Buy her book Embody: Feel, Heal, and Transform Your Life Through Movement here https://shorturl.at/LCZJr You can find Toni via her website https://journeydance.com/ or look her up on instagram www.instagram.com/journeydanceofficial


Key Takeaways:


  1. Embodied Movement Is Transformative and Healing: This free-form, primal style of movement enables women to fully feel and process their emotions and work through trauma in a physical, embodied way.
  2. How Is Trauma Showing Up For You?: Toni Bergins struggled with body image issues, disordered eating, and self-abuse, all of which were rooted in unresolved childhood trauma.
  3. What Are You Doing To Cope With Underlying Trauma : Exercise obsession, dieting, and alcohol are coping mechanisms, masking the deeper emotional pain.
  4. Movement Can Be a Powerful Tool for Healing: A dance class with no choreography or structure allows us to reconnect with our body and emotions.


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, Embodied Movement, Disordered Eating, embodied movement



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1 year ago
49 minutes 53 seconds

Dear Little Me
320. I Fight Every Day To Be NOTHING LIKE MY MOTHER

Abuse, abandonment, and a cult—my escape from a nightmare. They even tried to take my kids, but I fought back. Now, I’m breaking the cycle and fighting every day to be nothing like my mother.


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support us and GET THIS PODCAST AD FREE, SPONSORSHIP FREE and RECEIVE ACCESS TO SUBSCRIBER ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Tags and Categories: trauma, childhood trauma, cult, toxic parent, abuse





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1 year ago
18 minutes 28 seconds

Dear Little Me
319. CONFRONTING MY ABUSER: The Fight To Hold A Perpetrator Accountable

Very few of us ever get the chance to read a Victim Impact Statement for the trauma we endured in childhood. But Diane did. Frustrated by the lack of understanding and terrifying statistics surrounding childhood sexual abuse, Diane made the courageous decision to go to the police and hold her abuser accountable. It’s a choice that comes with immense difficulty, as the path to justice is long and, as Diane shares with us, often skewed against the victim. Diane first shared her story on this podcast in 2022. Now, she returns to update us on her two-year fight for justice. To hear Diane’s original story go to episode 86. Shame and Child Sexual Abuse https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/86-shame-and-child-sexual-abuse-part-one/id1533741808?i=1000577694507 


Key Takeaways:


  1. Why it was important for Diane to hold her abuser accountable.
  2. Should you confront your abuser? Diane shares her perspective.
  3. The challenges of holding an abuser accountable.
  4. Freedom, courage, perseverance, and the journey to move forward.
  5. The importance of having a strong support system.


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, CSA, Survivor stories.





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1 year ago
1 hour 22 seconds

Dear Little Me
317. I WON'T QUIT! Battling PTSD in the Wake of Domestic Violence (Part 2)

Part Two - Healing my trauma. In this important episode, I sit down with Kelly, an extraordinary woman who bravely shares her story of survival and healing. From enduring a childhood filled with domestic violence at the hands of her father to entering a relationship with a man who subjected her to ten years of verbal and emotional abuse, Kelly’s story is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Hear what Kelly endured for decades of her life, how it finally broke her and how she is now healing and creating a new and intentional life, on her own terms.


Key Takeaways:


  1. Identify the Signs: Be aware of the signs and patterns of domestic violence and abuse.
  2. Break the Cycle: While the cycle of domestic violence may repeat, it is possible to break free and find healing and freedom.
  3. Understand the Impact: Domestic violence can result in PTSD, nervous system disorders, and feelings of burnout and fatigue.
  4. Choose Your Path: Trauma can transform your life, but you have the power to choose to be a fighter rather than a victim.
  5. Embrace Healing: No matter what you’ve experienced, healing is achievable, and you can create a fulfilling life on your own terms.


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, Domestic Violence, PTSD, CPTSD, Complex Trauma



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1 year ago
42 minutes 35 seconds

Dear Little Me
316. EATING DISORDERS: It’s Not About Body Image

If you believe that eating disorders are a desperate attempt to achieve the perfect body, that’s not the full story. Anorexia and bulimia often stem from something far deeper—unresolved trauma and a desperate need for love. Discover the real reason behind the struggle and what most people are missing!


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support us and GET THIS PODCAST AD FREE, SPONSORSHIP FREE and RECEIVE ACCESS TO SUBSCRIBER ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Tags and Categories: trauma, childhood trauma, anorexia, bulimia, eating disorders




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1 year ago
16 minutes 42 seconds

Dear Little Me
315. I WON'T QUIT! Battling PTSD in the Wake of Domestic Violence (Part 1)

In this important episode, I sit down with Kelly, an extraordinary woman who bravely shares her story of survival and healing. From enduring a childhood filled with domestic violence at the hands of her father to entering a relationship with a man who subjected her to ten years of verbal and emotional abuse, Kelly’s story is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Hear what Kelly endured for decades of her life, how it finally broke her and how she is now healing and creating a new and intentional life, on her own terms.


*Trigger Warning: This episode contains descriptions of domestic violence that may be triggering to some listeners.


Key Takeaways:


  1. Identify the Signs: Be aware of the signs and patterns of domestic violence and abuse.
  2. Break the Cycle: While the cycle of domestic violence may repeat, it is possible to break free and find healing and freedom.
  3. Understand the Impact: Domestic violence can result in PTSD, nervous system disorders, and feelings of burnout and fatigue.
  4. Choose Your Path: Trauma can transform your life, but you have the power to choose to be a fighter rather than a victim.
  5. Embrace Healing: No matter what you’ve experienced, healing is achievable, and you can create a fulfilling life on your own terms.


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, Domestic Violence, PTSD, CPTSD, Complex Trauma



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1 year ago
48 minutes 30 seconds

Dear Little Me
313. TOXIC LOVE: The Heartbreaking Reason We Choose Narcissistic Partners Again and Again

Who do you choose to love and why?


When Anastazja lost her father at two years old, her life took a dark turn. She didn’t speak for a year, spent hours crying as a child, and grieved the loss deeply. But what did that loss make Anastazja believe about herself? Discover the shocking family trauma Anastazja stored in her body—and why she kept choosing toxic, narcissistic partners again and again. Connect with Anastazja’s story and find out why you keep repeating toxic relationship patterns in this must-listen episode!


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Key Takeaways:


  • Find out how family trauma influences who you choose to love and why.
  • The shocking negative belief patterns you form from childhood events—and how they secretly control your life.
  • How you become a magnet for narcissistic partners
  • The hidden trauma you store in your body, driving your choice in partners.
  • How childhood trauma sees you trapped in a cycle of emotionally abusive relationships


You can find Anastazja Gajkowska via her YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@ExposeNetwork22  

Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089474766773 Instagram instagram.com/thatgirl_whomadeit

And website https://exposenetwork.weebly.com/


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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Narcissistic relationships, narcissistic partner, toxic relationships, trauma bonding, love bombing, trauma, healing



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1 year ago
1 hour 46 seconds

Dear Little Me
312. WHY YOU’LL NEVER FIND PEACE Whilst You’re Still Seeking Validation from Others!

Are you waiting for others to see your value? It's a deeply ingrained belief system that's difficult to break. But the truth is, your worth comes from simply being who you are. Tune into this conversation with actor and producer Megan Henry who shares how she stopped waiting for validation from others and started embracing her own value, on her own terms.


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support us and GET THIS PODCAST AD FREE, SPONSORSHIP FREE and RECEIVE ACCESS TO SUBSCRIBER ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Tags and Categories: trauma, self love, self worth, validation, childhood trauma, childhood programming




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1 year ago
13 minutes 32 seconds

Dear Little Me
311. SPLIT LIVES: THE SECRET WORLD of Dissociative Identity Disorder

We all have parts of ourselves that make us human; sad parts, angry parts, combative parts. But what if your parts broke away and became individual identities? In this eye-opening episode, I had the privilege of sitting down with Maggie Walters, author of Split: A Life Shared: Living with Multiple Personality Disorder, to uncover the incredible story of how Maggie’s mind split into separate identities. Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder) is the result of extreme childhood trauma, causing the mind to split and split, again and again. Maggie reveals the chilling moments from her past that led to her dissociation and allowed her alter personalities to take over. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s truly like to live with multiple personality disorder, this episode will leave you speechless. TW Trigger warning, themes of sexual abuse are discussed in this episode.


Key Takeaways:- 


  1. Understanding DID: Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly Multiple Personality Disorder) causes the mind to split into multiple identities or "alters."
  2. Childhood Trauma Link: Severe early trauma can trigger the formation of DID and distinct personalities.
  3. Role of Alters: During trauma, alters take control, allowing dissociation from pain.
  4. Living with DID: A rare look into the experience of managing multiple identities.
  5. Healing & Triggers: The ongoing journey toward healing and managing triggers.
  6. Breaking Stigma: Emphasizing compassion and awareness for this often-misunderstood disorder.
  7. Courage & Resilience: How to live a fulfilling life despite the challenges of DID.


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


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MPD, DID, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Multiple Personality Disorder, Healing Childhood Trauma



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1 year ago
1 hour 1 minute 38 seconds

Dear Little Me
309. WHAT MADE ME A MAGNET FOR NARCISSISTS? The Surprising Truth and How I Overcame It

Tired of constantly attracting narcissists and toxic personalities? Sick of friendships that drain your energy? In this week’s must-listen episode, we dive deep with Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Specialist, Ina Hansen. After 16 years married to a narcissist and a lifetime of toxic relationships, Ina is sharing the hard-hitting truths about why she kept drawing them in—and how she finally broke free. Find out how to stop missing the red flags, escape toxic patterns, and start living life on your own terms. Ready to break the cycle? Don’t miss this episode!


You can find Ina Hansen via her website at https://liveyourlife.coach/ or on Instagram at www.instagram.com/liveyourlife.coach. Ina can help you break the cycle of narcissistic abuse.


Key Takeaways:


  • Discover why you keep attracting toxic relationships.


  • Learn the red flags you are overlooking.


  • What exactly is love bombing, trauma bonding and AFTERSHOCK?


  • Learn from Ina how to really heal yourself, stop the cycle of narcissistic abuse, and attract healthy relationships where you are truly loved and valued. 


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If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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Tags and Categories:


Narcissistic relationships, narcissistic partner, toxic relationships, trauma bonding, love bombing





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1 year ago
1 hour 13 minutes 2 seconds

Dear Little Me
308. DID YOU LEARN TO SHUT DOWN AS A BABY? How Early Trauma Could Be Rewiring Your Brain and Impacting Your Health

Did you learn to cope by shutting down from the time you were a baby? If your parent struggled to emotionally connect with you, you may have adopted a frozen state as a coping mechanism. This freeze response alters the neural pathways in your brain, potentially leading to developmental gaps, reduced stress tolerance, and a weakened immune system. Tune in for this important mini episode with Jamie McCoy, a trauma trained therapist. You can find her course, The Nervous System Re-set at https://www.myintegrativetherapist.com/Home and also via instagram www.instagram.com/myintegrativetherapist


Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support us and GET THIS PODCAST AD FREE, SPONSORSHIP FREE and RECEIVE ACCESS TO SUBSCRIBER ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to bigloveproject@iinet.net.au I would LOVE! to connect with you.


Tags and Categories: nervous system, freeze response, childhood trauma, emotional abandonment



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1 year ago
22 minutes

Dear Little Me

We share real, unfiltered conversations with trauma survivors—hear their truth and witness the resilience of the human spirit. Validate your own experience; what you endured was real, hard, and painful. But remember, it doesn't have to define the rest of your life.


Tune in to Dear Little Me, where you will hear some of the most important heart-to-heart conversations of your life.


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