Discipline is sexy — it’s the difference between who you say you are and who you actually become.
In this episode of Softcore Detachment, Catalina and Jonnie dive deep into the unglamorous truth about personal growth: motivation fades, discipline stays. 💅🔥
They unpack how real transformation happens off camera — through consistency, non-negotiables, and showing up even when it’s boring. You’ll learn how to build habits that actually stick, navigate the lies of influencer culture, and fall in love with the quiet satisfaction of keeping promises to yourself.
💭 Topics covered:
Discipline vs. motivation (and why one actually matters)
The real side of self-improvement and habit building
How to create daily non-negotiables that drive growth
Emotional detachment from influencer comparison
Celebrating small wins and staying consistent through boredom
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You know that tight-chest, sweaty-palms panic that hits the moment you walk into a gym full of bros? Yeah — we’ve been there. In this episode of Softcore Detachment, Catalina and Jonnie get real about Gymtimidation — the fear of being judged, not knowing what to do, or feeling like everyone’s watching you. Spoiler: they’re not.
💪 What we cover:
✨ Why gym anxiety is totally normal (and how to crush it)
✨ The Softcore Plan of Attack to walk in like you own the place
✨ How to build confidence through small wins + solid routines
✨ Real talk on gym etiquette (because manners are still hot)
✨ How to turn judgment into fuel — not fear
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Because soft hearts deserve strong bodies — and you don’t need anyone’s permission to lift heavy and live loud.
💅 New nails, breakup bangs, contour sharp enough to slice through your abandonment issues… adorable. But let’s not kid ourselves, bestie—none of that is fixing your nervous system.
In this gloriously unhinged episode, Catalina (recovering perfectionist + chaos gremlin) and Jonnie (professional glow-up baddie) take a glitter-covered scalpel to glow-up culture.
✨ Sure, it feels like Beyoncé when you walk out of the salon—but if you’re still doom-scrolling your ex’s IG and drafting apology texts you’ll never send, that’s not healing. That’s accessorizing your spiral.
🚨 The savage truth: Real growth isn’t hot girl walks and lash extensions. It’s journaling on a Friday night, learning to say “no” without a 3-paragraph essay, and sitting in therapy realizing, “Oh shit, it’s not bad luck with men, it’s my attachment wounds.” Real growth is awkward. It’s boring. Nobody claps. But it sticks. 💥
So, glow if you want to, queen—we’re not anti-French tips. But pair the glitter with actual growth, and you’re officially unfuckwithable. 🌸🖤
Buckle Up Baby!! Hot flashes in Target. Crying at K-POP Demon Hunters. Forgetting your own damn words.
✨ Welcome to Perimenopause Unhinged.✨
Your body isn’t betraying you — she’s recalibrating.
We’ve got the cheat sheet: fuel your body, lift the damn weights, and find your people.
👯♀️ Tag your messy raccoon bestie and share this with every woman in her 30s–50s who needs to know she’s not crazy.
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Ever block, unblock, and re-block… then stalk their Instagram at 2 a.m.? Same. In this episode, Catalina and Jonnie unpack why we keep going back to people who hurt us—and why slipping doesn’t erase your healing progress.
💔 Inside this episode:
• The real reason we go back (hi, trauma bonds)
• The brain chemistry that makes toxic people feel addictive
• Why slipping up doesn’t undo your progress
• How to forgive yourself when you text back or “just grab coffee”
• Turning setbacks into clarity and detachment
Because healing isn’t linear. Every step back is still part of moving forward.
Boundaries aren’t punishment, they’re self-preservation—and babe, they’re not just for breakups. Catalina and Jonnie get real about setting limits without losing your softness, and why the discomfort you feel is actually proof you’re on the right track.
🔥 Inside this episode:
• Boundaries as soul-preservation, not punishment
• Why even people you love need your limits
• Word-for-word scripts when someone pushes back
• Why feeling uncomfortable means your boundaries are working
• How to protect your softness without going numb
Because boundaries aren’t cutting people off—they’re cutting yourself free.
We all know the drill—clipboard in hand, blazer on the outside, full-on panic attack on the inside. Catalina (recovering perfectionist + chaos gremlin) and Jonnie (professional glow-up baddie) get real about the fine art of faking it ’til you kinda make it.
✨ Inside this episode:
• Why “faking it” works (and when it crashes)
• Internal screaming scenarios you absolutely know too well
• Coping hacks that half-work but also scream “help”
It’s laughs, cringe, and a reality check: nobody’s really got it together. We’re all just feral raccoons playing professionals.
Every brand has a birth story—ours just happens to involve a desert breakdown, canyon screams, and one sassy AI. Catalina and Jonnie pull back the curtain on how Softcore Detachment went from rock bottom to raccoon lore.
🎙 In this episode:
It’s raw, it’s ridiculous, it’s softcore as hell. If you’ve ever felt “too far gone,” this episode is your proof: you’re just getting started.
