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Necessary Realness
Hally Valentina
45 episodes
4 days ago
The Necessary Realness you need to hear from me, your no bullshit best friend. I’m here to serve you the truth about personal growth in a real, raw, relatable way while still having fun. I want to shed light on the unspoken struggles that come with self development and the importance of falling in love with the journey instead of just chasing the destination. My purpose is to help you reclaim your power and empower you to live your best life - however that looks for you.
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The Necessary Realness you need to hear from me, your no bullshit best friend. I’m here to serve you the truth about personal growth in a real, raw, relatable way while still having fun. I want to shed light on the unspoken struggles that come with self development and the importance of falling in love with the journey instead of just chasing the destination. My purpose is to help you reclaim your power and empower you to live your best life - however that looks for you.
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Episodes (20/45)
Necessary Realness
I Can’t Keep Hiding

This episode is my promise to myself. I promised to stop hiding, stop overthinking, stop over complicating and just take action.


I hope if you’re hiding from something you take this as your sign to come out of the shadows. 🤍

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5 months ago
13 minutes 19 seconds

Necessary Realness
2024 ins and outs, avoiding January panic, easing into the year and PREPARING to receive your blessings!

Hi 2024! Happy New Year (you can say it all January, it's the law) Do you feel the January panic? You want to declutter, have your vision board, set 24 goals and change everything all in the first WEEK of the year? Let us take a deep breath.


This episode is a reminder that you can start at any time, you can take your time to actually consider what you want to work towards this year. I share my 2024 ins and outs, an update on my 90 day challenge and a 2023 recap.


Hope you're having a gorgeous start to the year. If you loved this episode I would love to know your takeaways! Connect with me over on instagram

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1 year ago
30 minutes 48 seconds

Necessary Realness
Giving Yourself "Grace" is Stunting Your Growth!

Now this is some necessary realness, we are all giving ourselves too much grace and in turn stunting our growth. Whether it be our personal growth, in relationships, careers, anywhere. Grace has become a way we excuse our bad habit loops or excuse the behaviour of others.

But like a lot of things, too much grace, is not gonna help you grow! So todays episode goes through what it can look like to give yourself too much grace, and a loving push to get yourself onto the path of becoming the person you want to be.


Love you, mean it.


Make sure to follow me over on instagram here.

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2 years ago
47 minutes 54 seconds

Necessary Realness
Perspective, Please.
Just listen. Thank you, love you x
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2 years ago
21 minutes 13 seconds

Necessary Realness
Enough with The BS! The Importance of Self Commitment & The Shifts You Need To Make To Create Lasting Change

My goodness - what an absolute SH*T SHOW it was trying to record this episode. We got there in the end. This episode we're talking about why challenges are actually necessary for your brain to grow, why commitment to self is massively underrated and the shifts you need to make to create lasting change.


Hope you love and are inspired to make some changes in your own life to help you grow into the best version of yourself. x

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2 years ago
36 minutes 30 seconds

Necessary Realness
90 Days Left in 2023 - So I'm Changing My Life

Don't mean to alarm you but we're officially in Q4 of 2023! So I've decided to change my life and this is the first of episode the "series". To kick it off, I go through what I'm planning on doing the next 90 days and how I'm setting myself up to achieve what I'm setting out to do. I implore you to set yourself a challenge to finish off the the year and bring in the new.

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2 years ago
19 minutes 1 second

Necessary Realness
I Spoke to David Goggins...
Yes you read that right. In a recent event I was able to ask THE David Goggins a question about one of the greatest mistakes in his life. I believe the answer we can all apply to our lives. This episode goes through my takeaways from the event and I hope it gives you some perspective and inspiration for whatever you want to achieve in life. Connect with me on instagram
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2 years ago
39 minutes 49 seconds

Necessary Realness
A Very Necessary Reminder

You Are Enough!

All of the fears that hold us back from pursuing something come down to the fear of not being enough. This is NOT a fear we are born with, this is something we are conditioned to believe by people and messages outside of us.

If you have something on your heart that you want to pursue, it's there for a reason, you are enough as you are to go for what you desire.

You are enough, for simply being. I really hope you hear this message and let it connect with you!

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Thank you for taking the time to listen and if you enjoyed this episode I would be so grateful if you'd rate and write a review on iTunes it would mean the world to me. xx

If you have any feedback or just want to chat join me over on Instagram

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2 years ago
20 minutes 9 seconds

Necessary Realness
Okay, but WHY? The Power of Purpose in Achieving the Life You Desire
We know what want (sometimes) We know how we want it (sometimes) but do we ever really know - why? Did you know that having a clear why and deep sense of purpose can be linked to better physical and mental health including a lower risk of depression and a lower risk of mortality?! This episode I unpack with you my struggles with finding a why and in my unpacking I discover a process of how you to break down your thoughts to find your why! You can even use them as journal prompts which is what I'll be doing. I share a personal example of a strong why that kept me going with something for 10 years so you can find your own example for evidence that you've also had a strong enough why in the past to get you to a goal. I loved this episode and I really hope it's helped you gain some clarity. I'd love to hear your thoughts and any breakthroughs you had.  Share your thoughts with me over on instagram
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2 years ago
41 minutes 27 seconds

Necessary Realness
Your Lucky Girl Guide + The Most Crucial Element To "Lucky Girl Syndrome”
Todays episode is all about "Lucky Girl Syndrome"  LGS is all the rage right now and while the concept isn't new, I love a little a rebrand. This episode is a little guide for you to be your luckiest self. I also go over a very crucial element of becoming a Lucky Girl that I'm not hearing enough of. I know you'll love this one. As always please make sure to rate, review and subscribe. Share with someone who you think will love this (or any) episode. Follow me on instagram
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2 years ago
26 minutes 3 seconds

Necessary Realness
2022 My Biggest Year of Growth and It's About To Get Better in 2023

Heyyy... how y'all doing... *if you know you know*

HAPPY NEW YEAR BIH! 

Let's just act like the last episode was last week and move right along. This is a typical new year episode, reflecting on 2022 and sharing my intentions for 2023. I share the thing that catapulted my growth in every area of life. I hope this episode helps you count your blessings from 2022 and get into a state of readiness for 2023.

I'm so excited for this year and for all the deliciousness that's to come.

Please remember to share and connect with me on IG - @lovehally to share any feedback or topics you want to hear! 


LUH YOU x

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2 years ago
36 minutes 6 seconds

Necessary Realness
When Did 30 Become The Scary Age?

I would like to apologise to anyone I thought was old at 30 when I was 18! 

Seriously - 30 has had a bad rap and I'm here to set things straight. I had a listener write in and say that she's turning 30 and is scared because she doesn't have her shit together. Well, in this episode I go in on how the expectations of our 20's are LITERALLY INSANE and how once you hit 30 something just *clicks* 

I will be doing more episodes about our 20's and 30's and I want your input! Please head over to @lovehally on instagram and let me know anything you want me to speak on

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3 years ago
31 minutes 9 seconds

Necessary Realness
You Say You Know Better, Want Better, But Won't DO Better?

The world famous poet, memoirist, civil rights activist, author, singer, dancer and scholar - Maya Angelou said "When you know better, you do better."


Butttttt I think you and I both know that this isn't always the case hmmmm. So this episode I basically give you the tough love you need so you can repeat Ms Angelous quote and MEAN IT. Saying you want better but not actually doing better has detrimental affects on our lives, I know that sounds dramatic but it's true. You rob yourself of so much and diminish your self esteem by continuing to participate in situations that break you down and always resulting in the same outcome. 


As always would love to connect over on IG and know any future podcast episodes you want to hear and your takeaways! @lovehally

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3 years ago
33 minutes 34 seconds

Necessary Realness
Burnout, Feeling Stuck and Fear of What "Could" Happen

This is a short sharp episode - chatting about a feeling I think a lot of us are feeling, have felt or will feel at some point. I share how I'm trying to get myself out of the funk with a tangible exercise, spoiler alert - it's a journalling exercise (shocker right LOL) so get ya journals out bbs x

If you liked this episode and/or other episodes please share, follow, rate, review and connect with me over on instagram @lovehally

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3 years ago
18 minutes 49 seconds

Necessary Realness
Your Yes Has No Value If You Never Say No

No is one of the most uncomfortable words for a lot of people. We're fine hearing it but can't say it. Well if you're a "yes" person, that yes starts to lose it's value the more you say it without any no's in between. If you are someone that can't say no and pride yourself on being there for everyone (while exerting yourself beyond capacity) then this episode is for you! Or if you know someone that needs to start saying no, then pass this on boo.

Remember to rate, review, subscribe, share with ya friends and all that good stuff. Connect with me over on IG @lovehally 

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3 years ago
30 minutes 18 seconds

Necessary Realness
What is Comparative Suffering? Why Is It Dangerous? + How To Put An End To It

THROWBACK EPISODE - 

This episode is one I recorded nearly 3 years ago! WILD, I KNOW! So you'll hear a different intro and some things may be a *little* off.

Otherwise this episode is one I really want to highlight and hope it's a topic you get some value from.

In today's episode we are talking about comparative suffering, ever heard of it? Don't worry I'll fill you in! Look we have all been on the giving and receiving end of this and it's okay, but, we need to make sure we are being conscious about the words we use to someone who is suffering. Suffering is subjective, what you might deem insignificant is a traumatic event for someone else, so it's important to know that suffering doesn't have to come from some extreme earth shattering event. If someone comes to you with a problem they're facing, your automatic response shouldn't be to one up them with something you or someone you know is going through that's harder than what they're experiencing.   


Sometimes (emphasis on the some!) people respond in a way of comparing with good intentions, or to show that they understand where the other person is coming from, but it does more harm than good. Perhaps you're not great at consoling people who are going through a hard time. Maybe you struggle to empathise with people. You might be coming from a good place but your words don't reflect that. If any of these ring true for you we go through ways to avoid comparative suffering when speaking to someone else and how to address it if someone is doing it to you.   


This is a really important topic to me, I wanted to bring light to this because it's one of the main reasons there is such a stigma around mental health and seeking any form of therapy. As a coach, I've seen this really destroy peoples confidence and even their willingness to get help. It has to stop and it starts with us.

As always I want to thank you for taking the time to listen and if you enjoyed this episode I would be so grateful if you'd rate and write a review on iTunes it would mean the world to me. xx

If you have any feedback or just want to chat join me over on

Instagram: @lovehally

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3 years ago
33 minutes 12 seconds

Necessary Realness
What's Yours is Yours - Three Mantras You Need To Say This Week
In case you thought my life couldn't be any more chaotic - here I am with absolute drams about my moving situation. Which includes a bug infested apartment and a 48 hour eviction notice! LOVE THAT FOR ME! BUT - my mama came through with the necessary reminder and helped me recenter and shift my perspective on everything going on. I challenge you this week to remind yourself of 3 mantras and repeat them daily for at least a week. I promise it'll make a huge difference!  Be sure to let me know your thoughts on this episode and any topics you want me to chat about in upcoming episodes. Connect with me and share your takeaways over on IG @lovehally 
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3 years ago
25 minutes 45 seconds

Necessary Realness
Special Episode - My Number 1 Tip To Cultivate Self Awareness + What It's Like Working With Me as A Coach

Todays episode is special for many reasons. This is actually an episode I featured on with the boys over at 2 Peas on A Pod.

We dive into issues women face especially one particular scenario I can say almost all girls experienced with protecting themselves against men. We also chat self awareness, my coaching practices and so much more.

I loved this episode so much and I know you will enjoy it too, please let me know any feedback and any takeaways. I would be so grateful if you could rate, review, subscribe, follow - all that good stuff. 

Let's connect on IG - @lovehally

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3 years ago
56 minutes 24 seconds

Necessary Realness
The Convenience of Others Should Not be Your Priority
In this episode I discuss why being considerate of others to a fault can be detrimental to you and your decisions. I speak about how you can respectfully be inconsiderate (when the decision doesn't directly impact others) and make a decision for yourself. Taking accountability for your life and making your own decisions no matter the outcome is the most empowering thing you can do. Please let me know if you enjoyed this episode and like, rate, review and share to someone that might enjoy it too!  Let's connect over on IG - @lovehally 
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3 years ago
36 minutes 12 seconds

Necessary Realness
You Need To Affirm Your Anxiety

The past couple of weeks haven't been the best mentally and everyone I've spoken to has been in the same boat for various different reasons. 

In todays episode, I touch on how I manage anxious thoughts and fears and why you need to acknowledge and affirm your anxiety. The only way to move forward is by moving through!


Make sure you screenshot and share your favourite takeaways and I would be SO grateful if you followed, rated and gave it a review! Connect with me over at IG: @lovehally 

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3 years ago
28 minutes 32 seconds

Necessary Realness
The Necessary Realness you need to hear from me, your no bullshit best friend. I’m here to serve you the truth about personal growth in a real, raw, relatable way while still having fun. I want to shed light on the unspoken struggles that come with self development and the importance of falling in love with the journey instead of just chasing the destination. My purpose is to help you reclaim your power and empower you to live your best life - however that looks for you.