We're back with podcast number 3, this one covers a variety of topics, starting with an interesting one about the often discussed results of the good-looking rich and famous. A lot of guys limit themselves because they see a small percentage of people that do really well because of something a SMALL percentage of people have. Not every girl will be able to get the top of the top, that's why they happen to be at the top of the top. While some people do get lucky, that's not always the case, actually being at the pinnacle of success for most requires extremely hard work. So the fruits of the labor are earned. Don't expect anything in life to come easy. That is for the weak. enjoy
The black sheep bandit has unfortunately left us. But he will forever live in all the hearts of men who gave the effort to better their dating life and take a stand against adversity to have successful relationships and persevere in life. Whatever the media wants to portray to maintain their narrative is besides the point, you can attack ideas all you want, but the reality is the overwhelming majority of his ideas have good intentions behind them and that is becoming a better man.
Tom will never be forgotten, and what he meant for the dating advice community will never be forgotten. At the end of the day we as human beings need to work TOGETHER to make the world a better place for both men and women, we need to implement ways to properly navigate the dating market. Tom was just an engineer paving the way for a better future. And HIS PHYSICAL FORM may have passed. BUT HIS SPIRIT WILL FOREVER LIVE IN US ALL. Rest in peace torero, and thank you for the positive memories.
YO WHAT'S UP YOUTUBE, welcome to another video, but this one is special - we are doing the weekly podcast again, it allows a better more organic free flow of ideas and i think it will help you guys a lot especially the ones who are into longer-form content. BUT DONT WORRY we will still have our informative CLIPS being uploaded targeting ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW about DAYGAME APPROACH. SO STAY WITH US, TAKE ACTION, ENJOY THE SHOW AND LET LIVE OUR BEST LIFE BABY. Your WEEKLY day game scoop right here. STAY MOTIVATED LOVE YOU
Stop being so corny and walking on eggshells around women. The whole pua community up to now has been based on avoiding rejection and formulating some sort of advanced skill set that doesn't exist. rejection will always happen and you can see it for yourself. take the most advanced dude you know and have him do 100 approaches in front of you, he'll get rejected the overwhelming majority of the time and he will only hook up with a very small percentage. the reason you're anxious is that you have performance anxiety, stop trying so damn hard and you'll see how that anxiety goes away. simply approach and have a flirt. don't get stuck in your head thinking about what a false pickup artist told you. Man up, approach and deregulate and inject your personality into interactions, see how that works out for you before trying to be a gimmicky dork.
Picking up where we left off the last video, where I'm going to dive into setting up a plan of social practice. I go over what it means to have a funnel and why it is you do it. I also go over many misconceptions out there in the sinking pick-up artist community. It is now the year 2020, the internet is flourishing and we can no longer be fooled and misled like in the earlier days. Time to make dating great again. Put your big boy pants on and dive into this breakdown of dating and abundance awareness.
Did this little improv vid discussing fundamentals, a different location than usual but I thought I'd switch things up a bit. a lot of you have been wondering what the basics are so I'll be making a series of vids about it so you guys could hit the ground running. In this video, I go over a key mindset I need you to sink in before getting started, which is the abundance mindset. Realize it may be over with certain girls but there's plenty more opportunity out there so stop being needy and don't get discouraged. You have infinite opportunities to grow and to meet people. And in this video, I explain why. Let's start this new frame of mind and you'll see how you will be well on your way to success in dating.
For some reason, my last legit vid only uploaded half the content so ill drop this spoof here for you guys in the meantime , expect more content soon fellas I hope you have a nice day and stay icey
I wanted to make this video about some observations I've made about the pickup and red pill community. Dating is something important to men and our sexual urges are part of our biology. Its something essential in our lives so we want to not have any problems when it comes to either getting laid or dealing with women. Unfortunately, the way society is set up, men are misled and there's a lot of drama and stigmas when it comes to dating and what women want and how men should be. I think we need to look past all that rubbish and start working together to find solutions to how we can thrive together as human beings. A lot of pick up advice out there is about trying to avoid rejection and just being someone you are not and just trying to do mind tricks and jump through a bunch of hoops and processes like you're some sort of nerd advanced pua. Is ridiculous and it doesn't work any more than being your most confident self works and introducing yourself to women. How do I know this? because it has been tested with volume. You can make a technique guy vs. a confident guy do 100 approaches. The results won't be any different as long as they're both confident. So stop causing yourself so much anxiety and embrace rejection.
I'm pretty sure this is a relevant topic that a lot of guys have concern for. A lot of guys are always crying about why girls flake and getting but hurt because of it. These are usually guys reading texting techniques to get every girl, talking to very few girls if any at all, and every time one particular girl gives them the attention they go super crazy over her and how to get her. And when she ends up flaking they have to re-evaluate their life. Sad but true. I'm here to tell you that your suffering days are over.
I'm here to tell you flaking is part of the process no matter what it is you do or how many texting products from these wannabe pick up artist coaches you buy. Stick to the fundamentals and inject your own personality into the mix. You will never be mad for a girl who flakes on the real you. Because you left everything on the table. And trust me, I wouldn't be a dating coach if there weren't enough girls out there to like you for who you are and ultimately click with you and have that great relationship or rotation you've always wanted. Time to drop the bs, time to drop the crying over a flake, and time to meet lots of cool women that will be compatible with you. Embrace the process, embrace the rejections, this is what brings about true confidence.
Welcome to another insightful video, time to start moving away from that whole fantasy of being this sort of entitled pickup technique dude. We want you to be the best version of yourself in your dating life, and so do the women you meet. If for whatever reason a woman rejects you it doesn't mean your "game" is off. Don't be a fool. If you take care of yourself, learn basic social fundamentals, and inject your personality into interactions, you will meet women and women who are INTO YOU. Stop trying to be this fake pick up persona, that is ridiculous and shame on the people who try to give you these lame techniques and tactics and overanalyze rejection.
Just go up say hi and stick to the fundamentals, a beautiful relationship with blossom if it must. You do this how I am telling you and you will end up with a wonderful dating life full of wonderful women. Don't even worry about what I'm saying, try it yourself. You know those old pick up tactics ain't working and neither is that mgtow red pill garbage. Lets actually start seeing concrete results fellas. Enjoy the video. Hasta la vista!
I've decided to break down my thoughts on gimmicks and natural approach. Should you over-analyze or should you flow? After experimenting with both I've summarized a lot of my ideas into this video, I'll be expanding more on these concepts in the future. This will help anyone getting into the dating scene or getting back into it to understand how to navigate it without the frustration of trying to be some sort of advanced pickup nerd. I've had enough of the belief that you can be some sort of master with women.
You can have a great dating life but don't make it out to be a "thing" like a lot of these nerds do. A man who is truly good with women isn't bragging about how much skills he has. Any man who is truly successful at dating simply understands these fundamental principles and carries on with his life.
Thought I'd make this video going over some of the day game dynamics that have been going on within the recent decades. As sort of a continuation of my last video where I explained my thoughts on the issues going on with the media. The goal with this video isn't to say anyone is wrong about any sort of approach, the goal is to shine a light on the current approach and methods and question question question. Luckily for me, I've tried all types of approaches to see what is most convenient for my dating life and you'd be surprised about what I've come to find on this journey. A huge number of interactions with real people and a beautiful amount of success and relationships and these are my thoughts and a little bit on the history of day game and where it is at today.
Just made this video about RSDTyler. As you all know rsdnation was the biggest dating advice company in the world and it was led by one of the most innovative people when it comes to dating which is Tyler aka owen cook. Looks like Tyler has his own channel now called Tyler free tour. Apparently the company as disbanded but we still have great content from tyler. He's uploading videos about self-help and psychology it seems and it is very important for guys to master these skills. As you all know the foundation of meeting women is simple, but the self-esteem of the man is what will win you the race. A low self-esteem man will only get so far with a good foundation. Just like in basketball, you can know the moves but if you're not built to play, you train, and eat properly and have the right mindset you will not really be winning many games. Crack into and enjoy this video breakdown of some inner game concepts.
I thought I’d make this reaction because is no surprise that this song has so much popularity and is a situation many people could possibly find themselves on. Clearly by the amount of traction this song has gathered many men are going through similar situations. It's the lack of provision to dating in society that creates these problems. Many places especially in the united states kids are just brought up and either you got it or you don't. You either are attractive and get girls or you don't and get the short end of the stick and have to go through much unnecessary suffering in relations due to unawareness. That is why it is important to have role models and knowledge of how to navigate the dating scene.
You know what they say, when you don't want it you get it. Most guys who get into approach, after overcoming the fear and going up to the girl, if she happens to be nice to them or engage, maybe even exchange contacts, the man tends to get very excited because its a glimpse into what he wants. We're one step closer to the surge of dopamine that comes from female receptivity and ultimately sex. It is okay to feel these emotions but one must understand that the amount of pressure placed on a lot of these females you're meeting cannot be more. That is unless you're meeting a woman who's equally needy, but that is the exception not the rule. Even if a female is needy often times, she masks it well. Specially at the start. I'm not telling you to play any games, I’m simply telling you to be aware of your strong emotions and control your psychology and expectations when approaching and going through the phases with women. There is definitely room for excitement but it should be mutual and gradual. So meditate, self-develop and let the cards play out with women as they should. Don't force your hand. Know there will always be more plays and we cannot win every play.
If you think about it, everyone has a female pair. There will always be females are insecure as you are. But the problem is you're both so insecure you will never meet each other. And if you did you probably wouldn't like each other that much. We tend to want the highest value things we can get. But what makes us think in order to attain the highest value you are not suppose to put in the highest work. There is always the exception to the rule but we got more chances of getting struck by a lightning than being the exception. Work with the knowledge and understanding you have right now in order to have the most solid dating life possible. Put in the self work and yes recognize you're always capable of attracting someone each step of the way. But the flood gates open up much higher if you put in the self work. That just depends on what you want also and what truly makes you happy. Self awareness and meditation will be your friend in that. And also an understanding of human beings. Why we do what we do and what is it we truly want. Men's purpose in life is not to be happy. Men's purpose in life is to find meaning. According to jordan peterson. A beautiful phrase.
It's normal to feel attachment. There's nothing wrong with it. The best thing I do is lay my cards out on the table and tell her how I feel, this liberates me and makes it clear what I want. Of course, I don't do it at the very beginning of the relationship. As we go deeper and you've connected then you can lay out a path by telling her exactly how you feel. At this point, the ball is in her court. What does this have to do with getting over your ex or any girl? Is simple. You are a ball of energy and emotions. Energy and emotions are like water. They take the shape of the female you're currently courting. I know, we think there's just "the one". But the truth is that there are many women capable of playing the role you desire for her to play. Ultimately the one becomes the girl who is there in the end. There are no special snowflakes. But there are genuine connections. Value the connections and remember there is an abundance of situations and connections out there. But that being said, don't go around breaking hearts because you think there is an abundance of hearts to break. It just simply means you don't have to deal with the suffering that comes with thinking you'll never find another girl like her. Chances are you won't if you don't carry yourself as a high-value man and set yourself up to win. But If you're reading this then you know the actions you must take in order to make yourself appealing to the opposite sex in quantity. It's common sense. You get what you put in and karma works in mysterious ways.
You are required to be a confident man in order to meet the right partner. Otherwise you'll just take what you can get. It is not always clear that the right woman for you will be in you environment or will ever cross your path by destiny. And even if you were that lucky. Why would you leave things in the hands of luck. Even if she were to cross your path you would have to have the courage to even talk to her. And chances are even if she is in you path you don't have the resolute. The reference experience required to make it happen then and there because for many years the conditioning has been to ignore and look away from this area of your life, to accept what is told to you and that is why for the teens and the early adult years and beyond man on average experience catastrophic dating lives full of confusion and pain. It is my duty as a dating coach to give the advice that will guide you in the direction of having the highest chances of scoring the right partner for yourself or at least knowing that there is a bigger playing field out there. One in which you will end up finding out things beyond the silliness of dating.
Daily Fapping and Porn can cause anxiety and neediness because when we are actively engaged in the daily acts we are unconsciously addicted to the dopamine release which is the reason we do it and become attached to it. A man must regain control of his urges. Days 2-5 are the hardest, then man feels more under control . Man must channel this energy into his life and cold approach women not for sex but for mutual understanding and establishment of connection. Once man trusts woman intentions are genuine, man can engage in repeated sexual intercourse with such woman, knowing the chances of him having sex with her more often are on the higher end. Man will then establish relationships not through the looped neediness cycle of sexual biological desire. But through the eyes of a conscious beings aware of his , if not controlled, malicious urges. Man will then hold the power to remain calm under rejection and see through the facade and appeal of unconscious biological sexual desire, one that drives our needy behavior. Best harnessing the power and allocating it in a healthy way that of course will in the long term result in less suffering through neediness. And believe it or not, more sexual outcomes. I'll leave you with a quote "Him who doesn't need it , shall have it
It's the simple things that make you attractive. With everything factored in , you will have a dating life tailored to you. No one mans connection is the same nor should it be. You live your life, you attract who you attract depending on your personality and genetic position. There will be women you will mesh with effortlessly without trying to impress and do magic tricks. These are the women you should cater towards. There are men who are average who do very well, because looks isn't everything, it certainly helps but you must also take into account personality, confidence, potential, self love, good vibes, even just having a similar background as certain women can help their attraction towards you. A variety of factors beyond looks contribute to attraction. It doesn't mean you should discard looking your best. That is always a plus.