You know what they say, when you don't want it you get it. Most guys who get into approach, after overcoming the fear and going up to the girl, if she happens to be nice to them or engage, maybe even exchange contacts, the man tends to get very excited because its a glimpse into what he wants. We're one step closer to the surge of dopamine that comes from female receptivity and ultimately sex. It is okay to feel these emotions but one must understand that the amount of pressure placed on a lot of these females you're meeting cannot be more. That is unless you're meeting a woman who's equally needy, but that is the exception not the rule. Even if a female is needy often times, she masks it well. Specially at the start. I'm not telling you to play any games, I’m simply telling you to be aware of your strong emotions and control your psychology and expectations when approaching and going through the phases with women. There is definitely room for excitement but it should be mutual and gradual. So meditate, self-develop and let the cards play out with women as they should. Don't force your hand. Know there will always be more plays and we cannot win every play.