I wanted to make this video about some observations I've made about the pickup and red pill community.  Dating is something important to men and our sexual urges are part of our biology.  Its something essential in our lives so we want to not have any problems when it comes to either getting laid or dealing with women.  Unfortunately, the way society is set up,  men are misled and there's a lot of drama and stigmas when it comes to dating and what women want and how men should be.  I think we need to look past all that rubbish and start working together to find solutions to how we can thrive together as human beings.   A lot of pick up advice out there is about trying to avoid rejection and just being someone you are not and just trying to do mind tricks and jump through a bunch of hoops and processes like you're some sort of nerd advanced pua.  Is ridiculous and it doesn't work any more than being your most confident self works and introducing yourself to women.  How do I know this?  because it has been tested with volume.   You can make a technique guy vs. a confident guy do 100 approaches.  The results won't be any different as long as they're both confident.  So stop causing yourself so much anxiety and embrace rejection.