In our final episode of Season 1, we’re taking a moment to look back on the journey so far! Join us as we dive into a fun TOB podcast quiz, revisit our favorite (and not-so-favorite) moments, and reflect on everything we’ve learned along the way.
We’re incredibly grateful to our amazing community! Thank you for listening, supporting, and growing with us. This is just the beginning, and we’ll be back before you know it.
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Have you ever felt like you had to perform to be a “good Christian”? Like certain habits or rules defined your closeness to God? You’re not alone. In this episode, we unpack the things we used to do out of fear or obligation and trade them for a deeper, freer relationship with God rooted in truth and grace.
Through honest reflections, personal stories, and practical advice, we talk about what it really means to know God, not just know about Him. Because pursuing Him takes maturity, but it also takes being real and the beautiful part is, He was already pursuing you first.
Whether you’re rebuilding your faith or don’t know where to start, this episode will help you take a step closer.
Watch now and let’s grow together.
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In this episode, we open up with a game called “Growing up, I knew I was in trouble when” and how those memories still sit with us today.
We explore the long-term effects of physical discipline, and how it often teaches children to suppress emotions or normalize violence instead of learning how to emotionally regulate and dive into the difficult, but necessary, conversation around choosing patience and communication over punishment.
Lastly, we talk about the controversial use of Bible verses to justify physical punishment, and what happens when scripture is weaponized in parenting.
If you’ve ever questioned the way discipline was handed down to you or how you plan to break the cycle this episode is for you.
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Are Christian influencers getting it wrong? In this episode, we’re diving into the difference between being a Christian influencer and being a Christian who happens to create content. We’re calling out the double standards the world puts on believers, the way Christians tear each other down more than build each other up, how the Church has become known more for what it’s against than what it stands for, and unpack the lie that kindness means you’re not holding people accountableWe also discuss the dangers of platforming your faith and share some of our experiences on the journey so far. This one is honest, bold, and might make you uncomfortable in the best way. Watch now and join the conversation.Join the conversation—watch or listen now!✨ Keep up with us beyond the podcast for behind-the-scenes moments, and daily encouragement: TikTok: @tob.podIG: @tob.podcastYouTube: @tob.podcast
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In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most relatable human experiences: the gap between how others see us and how we truly feel inside. Why do so many of us hide parts of ourselves to avoid conflict, shame, or judgment? And what does it cost us?
We explore what it means to protect our true nature, especially when we’re naturally more introverted in a world that often expects us to be loud, social, and “on.” We talk about the pressure to perform, the emotional labor of pretending, and the quiet strength of just being who you are.
We also touch on the tension that can rise as parents and children grow when the balance of authority begins to shift. How do we navigate those evolving relationships with care and honesty?
And finally, a moment of reflection: what would we say to our 8-year-old selves? And what would they think of the person we’ve become?
Tune in for an honest, thoughtful conversation that just might help you feel more seen—and more permission to be exactly who you are.
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In this fun and heartfelt episode, we’re celebrating a major milestone—Queen’s 1-year wedding anniversary! Tune in as we reflect on what the first year of marriage has taught her and share some sweet (and hilarious) highlights from the journey so far.
We play a spicy relationship game where we call out real-life scenarios and decide: Is this princess treatment or just the bare minimum?Get ready for some surprising takes and honest convos about what women really deserve in relationships. And finally, we dive into the world of Love Island—yes, we’re watching as Christian girls, and yes, we’ve got thoughts! From temptation to intentional dating, we’re breaking down what it’s like to engage with dating shows through a faith-based lens.
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This week on TOB, we’re joined by none other than OJE THE DJ! Since 2014, OJE has been a key voice in faith-based music, bringing unforgettable energy to events like Kingdom Bound, Change Conference, Overflow, and more — from Canada to the U.S. and Europe. He’s shared the stage with artists like Lecrae, Chris Tomlin, and Elevation Rhythm, and is also 1/3 of ANC3 — a dynamic group blending faith, music, and anime in viral ways.
In this episode, we dive into what it’s like being Christian in anime spaces, how obedience sharpens spiritual discipline, why God’s calling to abstain isn’t a one-size-fits-all, plus, a little trauma-dumping about rude encounters
You don’t want to miss this one. Hit play and get to know the heart and humor behind OJE THE DJ. Watch now, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!
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Is the idea of “soft life” compatible with a life of faith? In this episode, we explore how the modern pursuit of ease and luxury stacks up against biblical examples like Jesus, John the Baptist, and Queen Esther. We talk purpose, responsibility, rest, and the tension between inner healing and outward appearances.
Can spiritual warfare, hard work, and true peace coexist? We think so—and we’re praying for the joy of the Lord to return to the Church and strengthen the collective.
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In today’s episode, we kick things off with a thought-provoking game brought to us by @andletthechurchsay that leads to some deep and dynamic conversations. From lighthearted debates—like whether women should propose to men or how much PDA is too much during the dating phase—to heavier topics around faith, salvation, and the state of the Church.
We reflect on the overwhelming love of our Heavenly Father and ask the hard question: Do we truly trust God, or are we just hoping He’ll co-sign our chaos? And also take a critical look at the blindspots in today’s church—are we really in alignment with God’s will, or just assuming we are?
This episode is honest, unfiltered, and rooted in truth. Let’s get into it.
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In this powerful episode, we’re joined by a special guest — our friend Tolu, who’s about to begin her PhD in psychology. Together, we unpack a listener’s heartfelt dilemma: how do you reconcile your faith with the need for therapy?
Tolu brings insight, compassion, and clarity to the conversation, reminding us that faith and therapy are not enemies — they can actually work hand-in-hand. We dive into why mental illness can be so hard to explain, especially in Christian spaces where struggles aren’t always visible — and aren’t always treated with the care they deserve.
From the stigma around seeking help, to the times when Scripture has been misused to silence mental health concerns, to the cultural influences that discourage vulnerability — we go there. And we ask the big questions: Why does the Church often avoid these conversations? And how can we, as believers, show up better for those quietly suffering?
Whether you’ve been wrestling with your own mental health, or want to learn how to support others with more empathy and grace, this episode is for you.
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In today’s episode, we’re diving into the honest, sometimes uncomfortable space where faith, family, and personal growth collide. We’re exploring the kind of questions that don’t come with neat answers — like what to do when you’re pursuing love through a Christian lens, but it keeps ending in disappointment. Is it faithfulness, or is it fear disguised as standards?
We also unpack the emotional weight of trying to honour your parents when their expectations don’t align with what you believe God is asking of you — especially in relationships and marriage. How do you walk in obedience without losing yourself in the process?
And finally, we sit with the woman trying to heal from jealousy after betrayal. How do you reclaim joy, rebuild confidence, and speak up when your peace has been shaken?
These are the real, raw moments where faith is tested, where grace isn’t just a nice idea but a necessity — for others and for ourselves. Grab the popcorn (and maybe your journal), because today we’re leaning all the way into the struggles behind good intentions and the beauty that can come from facing them with honesty and hope.
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In this episode, we ask the tough question: Is it harder to share the gospel with a stranger or correct a fellow believer’s doctrine? (Spoiler: both are awkward.)
We also talk about how getting closer to God reveals the mess in us, and why integrity is the launchpad for boldness. If your house isn’t in order, should you really be trying to clean someone else’s?
From personal stories of evangelism to a lively convo on the difference between apologetics and evangelism, we dig into the nuance of faith and logic—turns out, they’re not enemies. We touch on why debate isn’t about winning, echo chambers are a trap, and maybe—just maybe—if God wiped out all the evil in the world… He might have to start with us.
This one’s deep, real, and filled with laughs. Come for the theology, stay for the awkward honesty.
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Ever wondered if modesty is about your hemline or your heart? This week, we dive headfirst into a modesty minefield with laughs, Scripture, and a little holy side-eye.
We kick off by asking the question that nobody seems to be asking: “What does male modesty even look like?” (Hint: It’s more than just wearing a shirt at the beach, fellas.) From the viral “get ready with me” videos that start in underwear for no reason, the spiritual and societal dangers of porn, the pursuit of money over morals, and the way small compromises lead us far from God before we even realize we’ve moved.
We’re calling on men to rise above the crowd, be bold in their faith, and stop copying a culture that’s spiritually bankrupt. Modesty isn’t about dressing like a nun—but it is about representing Christ well, using discernment, and addressing both men and women with equal accountability. Let’s have real conversations about lust, leadership, and living holy in a world that rewards the opposite.
Come for the hot takes, stay for the Holy Spirit’s conviction, and belly laughs. You’ve never heard modesty talked about like this.
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Is worship still about glorifying God, or has it become about building a platform? In this episode, we’re digging into the complex intersection of gospel, culture, and the current state of the worship music industry. From branded aesthetics to chart-topping singles, we explore how the heart of worship can get lost in the noise of algorithms, marketing, and performance. Can artistry and anointing coexist? Is it possible to pursue excellence without compromising the message? Let’s talk about what happens when worship becomes a brand, and how we can stay anchored in truth.
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Is it possible for God to love us deeply and still be disappointed in our actions? In this episode, we talk about the uncomfortable — but beautiful — reality of godly correction. From conviction to discipline, we explore how God’s displeasure doesn’t cancel His love, but actually proves it. If you’ve ever felt distant from God because of your mistakes, or unsure if His correction means rejection, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about the kind of love that corrects, restores, and draws us closer.
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This week on the TOB Podcast we blend real-life parenting, honest theology, cultural commentary, and spontaneous musical outbursts into one big chaotic conversation.
We dive into raising kids in a world full of mixed messages. We talk about the little things like the sheer terror of someone knocking on your door unannounced—seriously, stop doing that and the big things like how to help your children discern between authority and manipulation.
We believe false teachings aren’t defeated by long-winded lectures—they’re dismantled with clear, Spirit-led truth and get passionate about creating spaces where children are not just told how to behave, but shown how to love. We talk about modeling the kind of adults we hope our kids will become, choosing character over control, and leading our families in faith with both intention and humility.
Whether you’re a parent, a believer trying to make sense of this world, or someone who enjoys biblical truth served with a side of comedy, pull up a chair, laugh with us, maybe cry a little, and let’s walk this messy, meaningful episode out together.
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In this episode, we’re diving deep into the chaos of Christian dating with a fresh round of “Would You Rather” — relationship edition. We’re asking the real questions: Would you rather be pursued for your character or your looks? Who in your circle would actually set you up with someone decent? And why does church matchmaking so often feel like it’s designed to benefit men more than women?
We also get real about the double standards in purity culture, why women are expected to carry the weight of righteousness, and how some men disqualify amazing women just because they want to wait until marriage. Plus, we’re side-eyeing some of the marital advice we’ve gotten from older generations.
Oh—and we’re not just here to rant. We talk about listening without defensiveness, the underrated gift of solid friendships in marriage, and why your partner should never be your only source of happiness.
It’s honest, it’s hilarious, it’s a little spicy—but it’s all love.
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In this episode, we’re talking all things help—giving it, asking for it (or not), and feeling some type of way when it’s not returned. We unpack why it’s so hard to just say “I need help,” and get real about the resentment that can grow when you pour out for others and come up empty-handed.
From being honest about our pride, learning how to build a trustworthy community, to checking our own motives and expectations—this episode blends funny, faith-filled truth bombs with practical advice for anyone feeling burnt out, overlooked, or stuck behind the “I-got-it” mask.
Jesus was rejected too, but what came next changed the world. So let’s talk about what’s possible when we drop the cape, pick up some self-awareness, and finally ask for what we need.
Stay tuned for more real talk and reflections as we keep trying our best!
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This week, we’re pulling back the curtain on imposter syndrome—yes, even in church (because apparently, holy water doesn’t wash away self-doubt). We’re talking about those compliments that make us want to crawl into a pew and disappear, the Olympic-level gymnastics it takes to be kind to ourselves, and why loving yourself isn’t the same as being full of yourself—no matter what Aunty says.
We’re also getting into why Spirit-led affirmations hit different, which disciple might’ve been lowkey battling imposter syndrome, and why the Holy Spirit is basically the ultimate life hack (seriously—better than Google, coffee, and your therapist combined).
If you’ve ever felt too broken, too weird, or just too you to belong in church, this one’s for you. And don’t dip out early—we close with a powerful altar call for anyone ready to make Jesus the King of their chaos.
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In this week’s episode, we dive into the sensitive yet important conversation around money and manipulation in the church. We explore how financial practices can sometimes drift from biblical stewardship into areas of pressure, guilt, or exploitation — and how to discern the difference. Join us as we unpack what Scripture really says about giving, generosity, and leadership accountability, and reflect on how we can build churches rooted in transparency, trust, and true faith.
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