In this episode, we’re diving deep into the chaos of Christian dating with a fresh round of “Would You Rather” — relationship edition. We’re asking the real questions: Would you rather be pursued for your character or your looks? Who in your circle would actually set you up with someone decent? And why does church matchmaking so often feel like it’s designed to benefit men more than women?
We also get real about the double standards in purity culture, why women are expected to carry the weight of righteousness, and how some men disqualify amazing women just because they want to wait until marriage. Plus, we’re side-eyeing some of the marital advice we’ve gotten from older generations.
Oh—and we’re not just here to rant. We talk about listening without defensiveness, the underrated gift of solid friendships in marriage, and why your partner should never be your only source of happiness.
It’s honest, it’s hilarious, it’s a little spicy—but it’s all love.
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