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The Unsidelined Life
Eileen Noyes
62 episodes
5 hours ago
The Unsidelined Life is the fresh and dynamic show hosted by Eileen Noyes, author of "Sidelined No More" and "Rise Up, Lady Bellator," speaker, mentor, and founder of Lady Bellator, advocating for women lost in the shuffle of family life. Join Eileen each week as she dives into the world of womanhood, tackling topics like motherhood, relationships, and purpose at every stage of life. With her unique perspective as the former spouse of an NFL player, Eileen brings stories and insights that resonate with everyone. Discover what God has in store for you this season with The Unsidelined Life, where you'll explore your potential and step confidently into a future full of possibilities.
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The Unsidelined Life is the fresh and dynamic show hosted by Eileen Noyes, author of "Sidelined No More" and "Rise Up, Lady Bellator," speaker, mentor, and founder of Lady Bellator, advocating for women lost in the shuffle of family life. Join Eileen each week as she dives into the world of womanhood, tackling topics like motherhood, relationships, and purpose at every stage of life. With her unique perspective as the former spouse of an NFL player, Eileen brings stories and insights that resonate with everyone. Discover what God has in store for you this season with The Unsidelined Life, where you'll explore your potential and step confidently into a future full of possibilities.
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The Unsidelined Life
Raising Daughters in a Seductive World - Classy, Modest, and Treasured
In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes tackles the flip side of Proverbs 31:3 by addressing how to raise daughters who refuse to become the kind of woman the Bible warns against. As a mother of eight with one biological daughter, Eileen gets honest about the challenges of raising girls in a culture that celebrates exposure over mystery and attention over respect. She shares five specific strategies for protecting your daughter's heart and identity, starting with building a relationship strong enough to have age-appropriate conversations about topics her own mother never discussed with her. Eileen reveals what happened when a football player confronted her about how she was presenting herself in college and how that wake-up call now shapes the wisdom she gives young women. She explains why being the example matters more than rules, teaching daughters to be classy and set apart rather than attention-seeking. Eileen breaks down the specific traits she's cultivating in her 11-year-old daughter and why mystery, modesty, and confidence attract the right kind of man while revealing everything attracts the wrong kind. She also addresses the father's role in this equation, sharing how she guides her husband Michael to love their daughter in ways that protect her from seeking male validation elsewhere. Discover why teaching your daughter she's treasured is the ultimate protection against becoming the woman who ruins kings.
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2 days ago

The Unsidelined Life
Becoming The Mom They'd Like to Follow for Your Sons and Daughters
In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes tackles Proverbs 31:3 which warns sons to keep themselves sexually pure and not waste their strength on women who ruin kings. As a mother of seven boys, Eileen shares her heart and practical strategies for raising sons who can see through seduction in a culture that praises women for showing skin and celebrates promiscuity. She breaks down five ways to be the mom your sons want to talk to about difficult topics like pornography, relationships, and sexual purity, starting with transparency about who you were before Christ so they never think you won't understand their struggles. Eileen shares her powerful prayer that love not be awakened in her sons until God brings the right person, and explains how she speaks Proverbs 6 and 7 over them from toddler-hood to help them recognize the characteristics of wayward women. She boldly redefines the term MILF as "Mom I'd Like to Follow," explaining her desire to be the kind of mother her sons' girlfriends and future wives want to emulate rather than compete with. Drawing from Life Skills International principles about unhealthy mother-son bonds, Eileen discusses preparing herself emotionally for the day when her sons' wives become their priority, and shares practical ways she's building relationships with potential future daughters-in-law while her boys are still young. Discover how to raise sons who value purity and godly character in women while becoming the kind of mother both your children and their future spouses want to follow.
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1 week ago

The Unsidelined Life
Four Things You Should Never Say to Your Children
In this concluding episode of the Proverbs 31:2 series on The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes shifts focus from what to say to what NOT to say to your children. She shares four critical boundaries every parent needs to maintain: never bash their father in front of them (even in divorce), never speak negativity over them (including seemingly obvious statements like "you're so irresponsible"), never place emotional burdens on them they weren't meant to carry (like making your son your emotional support when your marriage struggles), and never compare them to siblings or use performance-based labels. Eileen vulnerably shares how she speaks healing over sickness instead of claiming illness, explaining her supernatural approach to staying healthy as a busy mom who can't afford to get sick. She addresses the dangerous mother-son bond that develops when women seek emotional connection from their sons instead of their husbands, using NFL examples of grown men who haven't properly left their mothers. Drawing from Life Skills International principles, Eileen explains how to find the positive trait in every seemingly negative characteristic your child displays, teaching parents to speak life by reframing "strong-willed" as "determined" and "annoying" as "detailed and organized." Learn the four statements that damage your children's hearts and discover what to say instead that builds them up and protects their identity.
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2 weeks ago

The Unsidelined Life
I Spoke Truth to My Baby's Subconscious - Here's What Happened
In this continuation episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes shares actual stories from her parenting journey that demonstrate the four principles discussed last week in action. She reveals how being pregnant during her escape from an abusive marriage created a peaceful environment for her unborn son despite external chaos, proving that a mother's spiritual and emotional state directly impacts her child's development even in the womb. Eileen vulnerably shares how she unknowingly told her young son to "fend for himself" when overwhelmed with multiple children, then later had to sit him down at age two to apologize and speak truth into his subconscious mind, witnessing an immediate shift in his demeanor. She opens up about how her ex-husband’s words led their sons to believe they were somehow to blame for the divorce, and how she helped them heal by guiding them back to the truth. Eileen also discusses releasing her oldest son from the false life commandment that he had to be the man of the house after his father left, and shares how she's nurturing each child's unique bent - from the organized son who catalyzed her whole house cleaning journey to the craftsman son who builds furniture to her creative daughter who sees possibility in trash. This episode provides concrete examples that bring the theoretical principles to life, showing parents exactly what speaking truth and breaking life commandments looks like in real family situations. Hear real stories that show you exactly how to apply these principles with your own children, regardless of their age or your family circumstances. Follow or Subscribe to The Unsidelined Life Podcast: Website:https://theunsidelinedlife.com Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unsidelined-life/id1759219138 Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/54xYIHjkcIn2wbFFSExkxE Follow Eileen Noyes: LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenpnoyes/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/eileenpnoyes/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/eileennoyes Website:https://www.ladybellator.com Books:https://www.amazon.com/Eileen-Noyes/e/B0CXD2Y4RP Connect with Lady Bellator: Website:https://www.ladybellator.com Lady Bellator Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lady.bellator/ Free Community:https://www.ladybellator.com/calltoarms
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3 weeks ago

The Unsidelined Life
Did you Know Kids Blame Themselves for Everything - Here's Why
In this continuation episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes shares four life-changing principles from Life Skills International that transformed how she parents her eight children through divorce, trauma, and everyday challenges. Drawing from her seven years as a facilitator, Eileen reveals the single most important truth every parent needs to understand: all kids take responsibility for all losses all the time, meaning children naturally blame themselves for divorce, death, abuse, and family dysfunction even when it has nothing to do with them. She explains how life commandments - statements like "you're stupid" or "eat everything on your plate" - become permanent programming that follows children into adulthood, and shares her own life commandment about appearance that stemmed from overhearing one comment her father made to her mother. Eileen discusses the grammar stage of classical education and why the early years are critical for planting truth in children's subconscious minds through songs, scripture, and repetition. She also addresses the biblical principle of training children in their bent, explaining how parents often squash their children's natural gifting by trying to make them replicate the parent's interests or accomplishments. This episode provides deep psychological and spiritual insights for parents who want to understand what's happening beneath the surface of their children's behaviors and help them process difficult life experiences with truth rather than lies. Discover why your children might be carrying guilt and shame for things that aren't their fault and learn how to speak truth into their subconscious minds. Follow or Subscribe to The Unsidelined Life Podcast: Website: https://theunsidelinedlife.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unsidelined-life/id1759219138 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/54xYIHjkcIn2wbFFSExkxE Follow Eileen Noyes: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenpnoyes/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eileenpnoyes/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eileennoyes Website: https://www.ladybellator.com Books:https://www.amazon.com/Eileen-Noyes/e/B0CXD2Y4RP Connect with Lady Bellator: Website:https://www.ladybellator.com Lady Bellator Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lady.bellator/ Free Community:https://www.ladybellator.com/calltoarms
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1 month ago

The Unsidelined Life
What Do I Say to My Kids - Five Parenting Principles from Proverbs 31:2
In this vulnerable solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes tackles every parent's most haunting question: "Have you ever said anything to your kids that you regret?" Drawing from Proverbs 31:2 which asks "What my son, what shall I advise you?" Eileen shares five transformative principles that have guided her through raising eight children ranging from age 7 to 22. From navigating difficult conversations about their father's abandonment to handling everyday disputes between siblings, Eileen demonstrates how seeking God's guidance in the moment can prevent the regret that comes from reactive parenting. She addresses the challenge of age-appropriate conversations, the importance of not freaking out when your children make mistakes, and how to create a safe environment where kids feel comfortable being honest about their struggles. Drawing from her experience during her divorce and cult-like situation, Eileen shows how staying anchored in Christ enabled her children to maintain their faith despite devastating circumstances. This episode provides practical tools for Christian parents who want to parent like God parents - with patience, wisdom, and unconditional love that speaks to behaviors rather than attacking character. Eileen also discusses the role of the Holy Spirit as counselor in parenting decisions and shares real-life examples of age-appropriate conversations with her college-aged children about drinking and other challenging topics. Learn how to respond to your children from wisdom rather than emotion and create the kind of relationship where they come to you first when facing difficult decisions.
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1 month ago

The Unsidelined Life
Four Ways to Influence Your Family - Spirit, Soul, Body, and Home
In this practical solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes breaks down four specific ways every mother and wife can positively influence their family daily through spirit, soul, body, and home environment. Starting with her 4:30 AM morning routine that sets a spiritual tone for her entire household, Eileen shares how worship music, prayer, and seeking God first creates an atmosphere that her children absorb even while sleeping. She addresses the challenge of avoiding the "crank-o-rama" attitude that comes when mothers skip their spiritual connection, explaining how the first words spoken each morning determine the family's entire day. Eileen gets vulnerable about breaking generational cycles of chaos and disorganization, sharing her journey from making cultural excuses to creating a peaceful home environment for her eight children. She discusses the importance of apologizing to your children when you lose your temper, the value of strength training for aging mothers, and practical tips for maintaining an organized home without perfectionism. Throughout the episode, Eileen emphasizes that mothers have the power to influence their families for good or bad, encouraging listeners to choose intentional actions that create environments of peace, health, and spiritual growth. This episode provides actionable steps for busy mothers who want to maximize their positive influence without adding overwhelming pressure to their daily routines. Discover practical ways to transform your family's atmosphere through small, intentional changes that reflect your identity as a Proverbs 31 woman. Follow or Subscribe to The Unsidelined Life Podcast: Website:https://theunsidelinedlife.com Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unsidelined-life/id1759219138 Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/54xYIHjkcIn2wbFFSExkxE Follow Eileen Noyes: LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenpnoyes/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/eileenpnoyes/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/eileennoyes Website:https://www.ladybellator.com Books:https://www.amazon.com/Eileen-Noyes/e/B0CXD2Y4RP Connect with Lady Bellator: Website:https://www.ladybellator.com Lady Bellator Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lady.bellator/ Free Community:https://www.ladybellator.com/calltoarms
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1 month ago

The Unsidelined Life
Your Influence as a Mother - Proverbs 31:1 Breakdown
In this solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes begins her deep dive into Proverbs 31 by reading the entire passage and focusing on verse one, which reveals the influence of King Lemuel's mother on his wisdom and leadership. Eileen shares her personal journey from underestimating her role as a mother to understanding the tremendous impact she has on her children's future. She breaks down five essential principles every mother needs to understand about their influence, addressing common struggles like the pendulum swing from one extreme to another in parenting styles. Drawing from her own experiences of hitting rock bottom and wanting to give up, Eileen explains how God showed her the honor and privilege of motherhood during her darkest moments. She discusses the importance of setting healthy tones in the home, staying connected to God as the source, and allowing Him to heal wounds that affect how we parent. Eileen also addresses mothers who feel it's too late to change their influence, offering hope that healing and restoration are always possible. This episode launches her verse-by-verse study of Proverbs 31, showing how each principle applies to modern Christian mothers who want to raise children who will one day credit their mother's influence on their success and character. Discover why your role as a mother is more significant than you realize and learn practical steps to become the influencing force God created you to be. Follow or Subscribe to The Unsidelined Life Podcast: Website:https://theunsidelinedlife.com Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unsidelined-life/id1759219138 Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/54xYIHjkcIn2wbFFSExkxE Follow Eileen Noyes: LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenpnoyes/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/eileenpnoyes/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/eileennoyes Website:https://www.ladybellator.com Books:https://www.amazon.com/Eileen-Noyes/e/B0CXD2Y4RP Connect with Lady Bellator: Website:https://www.ladybellator.com Lady Bellator Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lady.bellator/ Free Community:https://www.ladybellator.com/calltoarms
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1 month ago

The Unsidelined Life
Proverbs 31 Woman Explained: Unlocking Your God-Given Purpose with Lady Bellator
In this solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes reveals the spiritual revelation behind Lady Bellator and why every family-devoted woman is called to embody the Proverbs 31 woman. After legal battles with UFC fighters over her trademark, God showed Eileen that Lady Bellator represents four essential pillars of biblical womanhood that apply to every season of life. She breaks down the paralyzing misconception that the Proverbs 31 woman is an impossible standard and explains how this passage actually provides a framework for living in your God-given authority as daughter, bride, mother, and impact maker. Eileen shares her early morning revelation about structuring this entire podcast season around the 31 verses of Proverbs 31, promising at least 31 episodes diving deep into each verse. She addresses the guilt many Christian women feel about pursuing purposes outside the home and reveals how cleaning house physically mirrors the spiritual work God wants to do in every area of your life. This episode reframes the Proverbs 31 woman as an achievable identity rather than an overwhelming checklist, showing how strength, authority, and kingdom influence look different for each woman while remaining rooted in the same biblical principles. Discover why you're already equipped to be the woman of virtue God created you to be and stop feeling intimidated by impossible standards.
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1 month ago

The Unsidelined Life
“Little Things: Nourishing Self-Care for a Better YOU ”
In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes reunites with transformational coach Amber Bryant to reveal their eight-month marriage coaching journey that completely transformed both their relationships. Amber shares her breakthrough approach to body image healing that helped her gain confidence for public speaking and social media, while Eileen demonstrates the coaching process that helped her stop controlling behaviors and create a safe space for her husband Michael to grow. They break down protective self-care versus nourishing self-care, explaining practical boundary-setting techniques that actually strengthen marriages instead of creating distance. Amber reveals the exact strategies she used to train her husband to respect her non-negotiables without building resentment, and Eileen shares her recent win handling a carpet spill incident without losing her cool. Both women discuss the before and after changes in their husbands' confidence and vulnerability, proving that personal growth work benefits the entire family. This episode offers actionable self-care strategies for overwhelmed wives and mothers who want to love their bodies while strengthening their marriages through healthy boundaries. Learn the difference between giving out of love versus giving out of obligation and discover practical ways to protect your daily routine without guilt. Follow or Subscribe to The Unsidelined Life Podcast on your favorite platforms: Website: https://theunsidelinedlife.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unsidelined-life/id1759219138 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/54xYIHjkcIn2wbFFSExkxE Follow Eileen Noyes: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenpnoyes/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eileenpnoyes/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eileennoyes Website: https://www.ladybellator.com Books: https://www.amazon.com/Eileen-Noyes/e/B0CXD2Y4RP Connect with Lady Bellator: Website: https://www.ladybellator.com Lady Bellator Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lady.bellator/ Free Community: https://www.ladybellator.com/calltoarms Connect with Amber Bryant: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she.walksfree/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61575473741640 (She Walks Free) Profile: https://buymeacoffee.com/shewalksfree/posts
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2 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
Midlife Fitness Motivation: The Wake-Up Call
In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes gets real about the fitness struggles women face in their 40s and 50s, especially during menopause. After gaining eight pounds despite maintaining her usual exercise routine, this former college strength coach had to swallow her pride and seek help. Eileen shares her three-month transformation journey that went beyond the scale, revealing why accountability partners change everything and how spiritual strength training mirrors physical development. She breaks down five practical steps every woman can take to stop making excuses about self-care, addresses the lie that taking care of yourself is vanity, and explains why getting strong isn't just about looking good but about being present for your family. This episode challenges Christian women who think they don't have time for themselves and shows how proper self-care actually makes you a better wife and mother. Eileen also announces upcoming coaching opportunities and reveals her honest struggles with perimenopause, the scale, and finding what actually works when your body starts changing. Discover why looking in the mirror and liking what you see isn't vanity but stewardship of the body God gave you. Follow or Subscribe to The Unsidelined Life Podcast on your favorite platforms: Website: https://theunsidelinedlife.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unsidelined-life/id1759219138 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/54xYIHjkcIn2wbFFSExkxE Follow Eileen Noyes: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenpnoyes/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eileenpnoyes/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eileennoyes Website: https://www.ladybellator.com Books: https://www.amazon.com/Eileen-Noyes/e/B0CXD2Y4RP Connect with Lady Bellator: Website: https://www.ladybellator.com Lady Bellator Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lady.bellator/ Free Community: https://www.ladybellator.com/calltoarms
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2 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
Clean House, Clean Heart: God's Blueprint for Total Life Order
In this Season 2 premiere of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes shares her unexpected three-month journey when God called her to completely surrender her work dreams and focus solely on family during summer vacation. What started as a simple garage cleaning project became a divine masterclass in spiritual and physical transformation that changed everything. After moving her family of eight from Wisconsin to California and living in chaos for three years, Eileen discovered that God's command to "clean house" wasn't just about organization - it was about creating space for His blessings. She reveals the specific order God led her through, from tackling neglected spaces to dealing with financial audits, and how each step mirrored the healing work He was doing in her heart. Eileen explains why God won't give you more than you can handle and how getting your house in order - both literally and spiritually - becomes the foundation for everything else He wants to do in your life. This episode will inspire you to see cleaning and organizing as acts of worship that prepare you for greater purpose. Learn how surrendering your agenda creates space for God's agenda and why healing always leads to freedom. Follow or Subscribe to The Unsidelined Life Podcast on your favorite platforms: Website: https://theunsidelinedlife.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unsidelined-life/id1759219138 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/54xYIHjkcIn2wbFFSExkxE Follow Eileen Noyes: Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eileenpnoyes/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eileennoyes Website: https://www.ladybellator.com Books: https://www.amazon.com/Eileen-Noyes/e/B0CXD2Y4RP Connect with Lady Bellator: Website: https://www.ladybellator.com Lady Bellator Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lady.bellator/ Free Community: https://www.ladybellator.com/calltoarms #clutter-free, #cleanhouse #summervacation #decluttering #organize #cleaning #healthyhabits #spiritualjourney #Christcenteredhome
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2 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
Stop Being Sidelined - Build Physical and Spiritual Strength Like a Pro
In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, former college strength coach Eileen Noyes thought writing about Proverbs 31:17 would be easy - until God made her wrestle with it for four weeks straight. At 52 and navigating menopause, she discovers that her expertise meant nothing when God wanted to teach her something deeper about true strength. Eileen breaks down the 7 essential phases of strength training and reveals their shocking parallels to spiritual growth, from initial assessment (examining yourself in faith) to progressive overload (trusting God's increasing challenges). She exposes three sneaky ways women get sidelined - in marriage, health, and purpose - and shares her proven method for staying strong in every season. You'll learn why resistance isn't your enemy but your greatest tool for growth, how to push through spiritual plateaus just like physical ones, and why starting with "milk" before "meat" applies to both Bible study and bench pressing. Discover the hidden connection between muscle fiber breakdown and biblical pruning, plus get practical tips for building strength at any age.
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4 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
The #1 Thing Wives Do That Pushes Husbands Away
"We want our husbands to be women, and that's destroying our marriages." This bombshell realization hit Eileen Noyes during a coffee date with friends, completely flipping her approach to marriage upside down. After surviving divorce and now thriving in marriage number two, she's decoded the exact formula that works. In this episode, she exposes the 10 specific strategies that eliminated her constant fighting and created the connection she'd been desperately seeking. You'll learn why men apologize through actions instead of words, how to stop the nagging cycle that makes you feel like a broken record, and the biblical submission approach that actually gives you more influence, not less. Eileen reveals her biggest controlling mistakes, the spiritual attacks that target Christ-centered marriages, and why treating your husband like your girlfriend backfires every single time. Find out why "setting up wins" creates a marriage breakthrough cycle and how side-by-side activities fill his love tank in surprising ways. Discover why setting your husband up for easy wins creates an unstoppable cycle of blessing, and how simple side-by-side activities might be filling his love tank in ways that will shock you.
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4 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
How Control Could Be Killing Your Marriage
Marriage coach Amber Bryant thought she wanted her husband to lead their family - until he actually started doing it, and she realized she was terrified. This shocking moment of self-discovery launched her into understanding why so many women unknowingly sabotage the very thing they've been praying for in their marriages. When Eileen Noyes shares her own journey from controlling every aspect of her marriage to learning biblical submission, both women uncover a startling truth: the very control they thought was protecting them was destroying their relationships. This episode exposes how past trauma creates invisible armor that sabotages present love, why questioning your husband's decisions sends a message you never intended, and the two areas where releasing control feels most impossible. Amber explains why biblical femininity isn't weakness but the key to genuine influence, while Eileen opens up about spending months in victim mode before finally taking responsibility for her own healing. Discover why going first in your marriage transformation changes everything and how surrendering control can give you more freedom than you ever imagined possible.
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4 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
The Summer Shift: 10 Ways to Bless Your Kids When Life Gets Overwhelming
Eileen Noyes gets brutally honest about feeling crushed by the demands of motherhood while trying to balance her calling as an author and podcaster. As end-of-school chaos threatens to derail her work on a Proverbs 31 devotional, she discovers that sometimes the best business strategy is stepping back and focusing on what matters most. In this vulnerable solo episode, Eileen shares her struggle with wanting to quit when everything feels like too much, and how God redirected her attention back to her eight children during the summer transition. She reveals the question she once asked God about her kids that got answered in ways she never expected, and why creating an environment of transparency with your children matters more than perfect performance. Eileen walks through 10 practical ways to bless your kids during busy seasons, including why she now takes her children out of school for special one-on-one time and how she learned to say sorry when she messes up as a parent. This episode offers both permission to prioritize family over productivity and actionable strategies for nurturing each child's unique gifts while maintaining your sanity during the summer months.
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5 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
From Forgotten Dreams to Life Coach: An NFL Wife's Journey to Reclaiming Her Dreams
After 32 years of marriage and 16 moves across the country, former sports broadcaster turned NFL coach's wife Honor Garrett spent years helping everyone else reach their potential until she realized she'd forgotten about her own. She knows what it feels like to watch your husband's career take center stage while you wonder if your own dreams expired somewhere between diaper changes and relocations. Join Honor Garrett on The Unsidelined Life with Eileen Noyes as she shares her journey from sports broadcaster to full-time mom to life coach, all while navigating the unique challenges of football family life. Honor reveals why she tells women to "get out of the GOOP" (Good Opinion of Other People) and shares the story that will change how you think about being present when you can't physically be there. This conversation tackles the guilt women feel about pursuing their own dreams, the surprising health advice that transformed Honor's approach to fitness after 50, and why intentionality matters more than proximity in relationships. Plus, discover the simple phrase that stopped Honor's negative self-talk and the biblical perspective that will shift how you view your own untapped potential. If you've ever felt torn between serving your family and pursuing your purpose, this episode offers both permission and practical steps to embrace both.
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5 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
Stepping Off the Sidelines: Journey from NFL Wife to finding her own Field with Kim Singletary
In this revealing conversation, Kim Singletary shares her 40-year journey alongside Chicago Bears legend Mike Singletary—from their challenging interracial relationship in the 1980s to her decades supporting his intense football career while raising four children. Kim opens up about the misconceptions in marriage, the pressures of NFL life, and her pivotal decision at age 60 to tell her husband, "I don't want to be on the sidelines of your life anymore." Her story showcases how God honors seasons of sacrifice and proves it's never too late to consider your own field and plant new vineyards. This episode offers hope for anyone questioning their worth or wondering if they've missed their time to shine. Connect with Kim Singletary: Facebook: Kim Singletary Instagram: Kim Singletary
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5 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
From NFL Dreams to Discipling Leaders with Former Player Chris Johnson
In a world where many chase glory on the field, few manage to translate that pursuit into lasting impact off it. Former NFL player Chris Johnson is one of those few. In this powerful and thought-provoking conversation, Chris opens up about his extraordinary transition—from the roaring stadiums of professional football to the quieter, yet deeply influential world of education, business, and spiritual leadership. Chris’s story is not just about reinvention; it’s about purpose. After achieving what so many only dream of in the NFL, Chris found himself drawn toward something deeper. The turning point? Former NFL player Chris Johnson shares his journey from professional football to education and business, revealing how one conversation changed Eileen's life, the power of being ready for opportunities, and his unique approach to discipling leaders that focuses on guidance rather than control.
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5 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
Breaking the Code: 10 Ways to Thrive in a Pro Sports Marriage
In this follow-up episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes reveals her practical strategies for handling the top 10 challenges she faced as an NFL wife. From maintaining your identity under public scrutiny to transforming unexpected competition into relationship strength, Eileen shares wisdom that applies far beyond the sports world. She unpacks how faith became her anchor during extreme highs and lows, offering a blueprint for navigating transitions when the game eventually ends. As Eileen introduces her new WAG (Women After God) community, she extends an invitation to join a space where sports spouses can drop the facade and find authentic connection. Whether you're connected to professional sports or facing similar challenges in your own high-pressure relationship, this episode delivers actionable insights for moving from the sidelines into your purpose. Feeling like you've lost your identity in someone else's spotlight? In her book Sidelined No More, Eileen helps women married to professional athletes reclaim their sense of self and purpose. Not a pro-athlete wife? Check out Rise Up Lady Bellator. Both available at ladybellator.com/books
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6 months ago

The Unsidelined Life
The Unsidelined Life is the fresh and dynamic show hosted by Eileen Noyes, author of "Sidelined No More" and "Rise Up, Lady Bellator," speaker, mentor, and founder of Lady Bellator, advocating for women lost in the shuffle of family life. Join Eileen each week as she dives into the world of womanhood, tackling topics like motherhood, relationships, and purpose at every stage of life. With her unique perspective as the former spouse of an NFL player, Eileen brings stories and insights that resonate with everyone. Discover what God has in store for you this season with The Unsidelined Life, where you'll explore your potential and step confidently into a future full of possibilities.