"We want our husbands to be women, and that's destroying our marriages." This bombshell realization hit Eileen Noyes during a coffee date with friends, completely flipping her approach to marriage upside down. After surviving divorce and now thriving in marriage number two, she's decoded the exact formula that works. In this episode, she exposes the 10 specific strategies that eliminated her constant fighting and created the connection she'd been desperately seeking. You'll learn why men apologize through actions instead of words, how to stop the nagging cycle that makes you feel like a broken record, and the biblical submission approach that actually gives you more influence, not less. Eileen reveals her biggest controlling mistakes, the spiritual attacks that target Christ-centered marriages, and why treating your husband like your girlfriend backfires every single time. Find out why "setting up wins" creates a marriage breakthrough cycle and how side-by-side activities fill his love tank in surprising ways. Discover why setting your husband up for easy wins creates an unstoppable cycle of blessing, and how simple side-by-side activities might be filling his love tank in ways that will shock you.