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The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
Alex Croxford
18 episodes
4 days ago
Join Alex Croxford on The Deeper Love Podcast as she guides women healing after betraying someone they loved. Through raw, compassionate conversations, The Deeper Love Podcast dives beneath the affair to the silence, the self-betrayal, and the parts of yourself you’ve forgotten. This is your space to release shame, face the truth, and begin again. With honest stories, intimate interviews, and deep guidance, The Deeper Love Podcast will help you rise from the ashes into love that feels safe, soft, and true.
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Join Alex Croxford on The Deeper Love Podcast as she guides women healing after betraying someone they loved. Through raw, compassionate conversations, The Deeper Love Podcast dives beneath the affair to the silence, the self-betrayal, and the parts of yourself you’ve forgotten. This is your space to release shame, face the truth, and begin again. With honest stories, intimate interviews, and deep guidance, The Deeper Love Podcast will help you rise from the ashes into love that feels safe, soft, and true.
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The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
S2#015 – How I Opened My Heart After an Affair and a Divorce

I remember sitting in front of my therapist, six months after my marriage ended, tears running down my face - “What if no one ever loves me again?”

At that point, I’d been through a divorce, I’d cheated on my husband, and I’d made a mess of dating after it all. I felt broken, like damaged goods.

And underneath that was the deeper fear: that maybe I was unlovable.

In this episode, I share the real story of how I moved from that place into the deepest, most honest love of my life. It’s the story of choosing celibacy after the affair, learning to tell the truth when it scared me, and letting a man see me fully, even when I wanted to hide.

You’ll hear what I discovered about:

  • Why honesty, not perfection, opens the heart

  • How pretending to be “easy to love” keeps us disconnected

  • The difference between intensity and intimacy

  • What real love actually feels like after the chaos has ended

This is a story about what becomes possible when you finally stop lying to yourself.

If you’ve ever wondered whether love can exist after betrayal, I hope this reminds you that it can.

Real love meets you when you meet yourself.

If you’re ready to start letting love in again after everything you’ve been through, join me in The Softening Sessions - gentle spaces to practise truth, tenderness, and belonging after the rupture of an affair.

You don’t have to share your story, just come, breathe, and be held.

Sign up here →⁠ The Softening Sessions


🔗 Connect

Instagram |⁠ @iamalexcroxford⁠

Website | ⁠www.alexcroxford.com

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4 days ago
30 minutes 30 seconds

The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
S2#014 – I Used to Be Terrified Anyone Would Find Out. Now My Story’s in the Daily Mail

Six and a half years ago, I was carrying a secret that felt absolutely terrifying to say out loud.

I was so scared that anyone would find out about my affair - I felt ashamed, sick with guilt, hiding behind the version of me that looked “fine.”

Today, that same story has been printed across a double-page spread in The Daily Mail.

And it proves to me, once and for all, that shame no longer runs my life.

In this episode, I share what it took to move from silence to self-acceptance - the texts, the trembling honesty, the waves of liberation that come each time we tell the truth.

I talk about the fear of exposure, the moment I told my ex-husband, and why vulnerability became my doorway to freedom.

If you’ve ever felt trapped in guilt or terrified of being seen in your truth after an affair, this conversation is for you.

You’ll hear what healing actually looks like on the other side of secrecy - messy, human, and deeply freeing.

 In this episode

  • The moment I stopped letting shame define me

  • How honesty became my path to liberation

  • What happened when my story went public

  • Why exposure doesn’t destroy you - hiding does

  • The truth about healing guilt after betrayal

🤍 Join me inside The Softening Sessions

If you’re ready to release the weight in your chest and be witnessed in safety, join my bi-weekly circle for women healing after infidelity.

You don’t have to share your story, just come, breathe, and be held.

Sign up here → The Softening Sessions


🔗 Connect

Instagram | @iamalexcroxford

Website | www.alexcroxford.com

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1 week ago
25 minutes 2 seconds

The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
S2#011 – The Phoenix Rising: When the Affair Becomes Your Awakening

Ep 11 — The Phoenix Rising: When the Affair Becomes Your Awakening

We think the affair is the end.

The end of love.The end of trust.The end of who we thought we were.


But what if it’s not the end at all?

What if it’s the moment you finally wake up?

Before my affair, I was sleepwalking through life.


On the treadmill of doing everything “right” - the job, the marriage, the house, the plan.

Smiling. Performing. Holding it all together.

But underneath, I was empty. Numb.

Disconnected from what I truly wanted.


The affair shattered that illusion.

It forced me to face everything I’d been avoiding

my exhaustion, my silence, my needs, my truth.

It burned down the version of me who survived by pretending.


In this episode, I talk about:

  • Why affairs often happen as a wake-up call from the life you’ve been asleep in.

  • What “collapse” really is — and why it’s the beginning, not the end.

  • How your soul uses chaos to bring you back to truth.

  • The moment I stopped trying to rebuild the old life and started to rise from the ashes.

If you’re in that place now, where everything feels like it’s burning,

please know you’re not losing your life.

You’re losing the illusion.

And underneath it is your return.


💌 Join the next Softening Session - a live space where we hold what’s collapsing, let go of who you’ve been, and begin the return home to yourself.

Join here: Softening Sessions


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1 month ago
31 minutes 28 seconds

The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
S2#010 – You Can’t Heal What You’re Still Hiding From Yourself

Ep 10 - You Can’t Heal What You’re Still Hiding From Yourself

There’s the version of you everyone sees.

Smiling. Functioning. Saying you’re fine.

And then there’s the version of you no one sees.

Carrying the secret.

Numb. Anxious. Afraid of what would happen if the truth ever got out.

I know that version well — because I lived her.

After my affair, I didn’t collapse on the outside.

I became “better.” More successful. More accommodating. More perfect.

But the whole time, I was hiding. Not just from my husband. From myself.

In this episode, I talk about:

  • Why pretending to be fine keeps your nervous system frozen.

  • How “performing healing” stops you from actually healing.

  • The truth about what happens when you hide even from yourself.

  • Why the part of you who cheated doesn’t need judgment — she needs space to speak.

This is the episode I needed years ago, when I was still carrying the secret that almost ate me alive.


✨ Listen in if you’ve been holding something inside — whether it’s the affair, or another truth you’ve never let yourself fully feel.

You cannot heal what you’re still hiding.

But you can come home to yourself.


💌 Join the next Softening Session — a live space where we stop performing, stop pretending, and meet the part of you still scared to be seen. Click here to read more about the Softening Sessions.


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1 month ago
11 minutes 5 seconds

The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
S2#009 – The Year of The Clusterf*ck and How I Finally Chose Myself

Content note: This episode contains references to sexual assault, harassment, and STI. Please listen with care and take the space you need.

I thought the hardest part was over when my marriage ended.

I’d told my husband I cheated. We’d tried therapy. We’d separated with kindness. I moved into my own place and thought: I’ve survived the worst of it.

But what came next was what I now call the year of the clusterfuck.

A year of red flags I ignored.

Boundaries crossed and crossed again.

Love bombing disguised as intimacy.

Freeze responses I didn’t understand.

And the deep shame of asking myself, over and over: Why am I still doing this? I should know better.

In this episode I share what really happens when you keep finding yourself in relationships that hurt, even after you’ve “done the work.” Why smart women repeat painful patterns. Why your gut isn’t always your truth. And how choosing celibacy at 39 broke the cycle for me, and opened the door to meeting Adam.

We’ll explore:

  • Why “I should know better” keeps you stuck in shame

  • The truth about boundaries (and why they only work with consequences)

  • How freeze can show up long before a violation

  • Why chemistry can actually be anxiety in disguise

  • What it feels like in your body when safety arrives

  • Why you’re not broken if you keep choosing the wrong men


If you’re in the aftermath of an affair, a divorce, or a breakup, and you keep getting pulled back into chaos, this one’s for you.

Because you’re not broken.

Your body just doesn’t know safety yet.

And that can change.


The Healed Heart - my 6-month group programme - is where we break the pattern at the root so you can choose love differently.

We begin Thursday 9 October.

Ten spots only. 

The Healed Heart

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1 month ago
37 minutes 41 seconds

The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
S2#008 – Relationship Anxiety, The Cool Girl, and The Affair with Georgie Collinson

You can love someone and still betray them. You can be strong, independent, the cool girl… and still find yourself in an affair.

In this conversation with Australia’s leading anxiety therapist, Georgie Collinson, we go deep into the ways anxiety and self-betrayal shape our relationships:

    • How high-functioning anxiety becomes the mask of the cool girl
    • Why silence and “I don’t need you” energy always lead to disconnection

    • The hidden link between childhood wounds, yearning, and affairs

    • Georgie’s first public share of her own affair story — and what it taught her about love

    • Why consistency and availability in a partner regulate the nervous system more than chemistry ever will

    • How to stop abandoning yourself and start asking for what you really need

    If you’ve ever thought, “I’m fine, I don’t need anything,” but secretly felt starving for connection — this episode will crack something open.


    Resources & Links:

    • Georgie’s Instant Calm Meditation: https://anxiety-reset.mykajabi.com/instantcalm

    • Follow Georgie on Instagram: @georgiethenaturopath

    • Learn more at www.georgiecollinson.com

    💔 The Healed Heart — 6 months of real healing after betrayal

    If you cheated and you’re drowning in guilt, shame, or self-doubt, this is for you.

    This isn’t about talking it out one more time — it’s about coming back to your body, feeling what you’ve been running from, and learning to love without abandoning yourself. We start October 9. Nine spots only.

    Book your free call here → The Healed Heart


    🔗 Follow me on Instagram: @iamalexcroxford

    🌐 Website: www.alexcroxford.com


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    1 month ago
    48 minutes 25 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S2#007 – Why Cheating Is a Pattern, Not a Moral Failure

    Episode 7: Why Cheating Is a Pattern, Not a Moral Failure

    This one’s for the woman asking herself:

    • “What is wrong with me?”

    • “Why didn’t I just leave?”

    • “How did I do this again?”

    In this episode, I explore why cheating isn’t just a one-off mistake, it’s often part of a deeper survival pattern shaped by emotional disconnection, shutdown, and unmet needs.

    We look at:

    • How your nervous system drives the behaviour you can’t make sense of

    • Why shame keeps you stuck (and moralising doesn’t help)

    • What actually creates lasting change

    This isn’t about excusing what happened — it’s about understanding it, so you don’t keep living in fear of repeating it.


    🎙 Free Masterclass: Breaking the Cycle of Shame

    Thursday 18th Sept @ 8PM BST

    If you were the one who cheated, and you’re still carrying guilt, confusion, or regret, this is for you.

    100 spots only. No replay.

    👉 Save your seat

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    Instagram: @iamalexcroxford

    Website: www.alexcroxford.com


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    2 months ago
    29 minutes 43 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S2#006 – The Part of You Who Cheated Was Trying to Survive

    You didn’t cheat because you’re a bad person.

    You cheated because something in you was trying to survive.

    Your chest tightens.

    Your stomach drops.

    The shame rushes in.

    And you think: “Why did I do that?”

    Most people miss this part: Cheating isn’t always a conscious choice.

    It can be a nervous system response.

    In this week’s episode of The Deeper Love Podcast, I break down:

    ✨ Why cheating can be a survival response, not a choice

    ✨ How you were already disconnected long before the affair

    ✨ What fawning, freezing, or running look like in love

    ✨ Why logic can’t heal you — but safety can

    ✨ How to stop the cycle in your body, not your head

    This isn’t about excuses.

    It’s about truth.

    It’s about rebuilding without shame.

    And if this lands in your body…

    🕊️ Join me live for my FREE masterclass: Breaking the Cycle of Shame

    📅 Thursday 18th Sept, 8pm BST

    ⚡ Only 100 spots, no replay


    Comment HEAL or go to this link to sign up

    📲 Instagram: iamalexcroxford

    🌐 Website: alexcroxford.com

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    2 months ago
    15 minutes 8 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S2#005 – Cheating Doesn’t Happen in a Vacuum

    We’re taught to see cheating as a simple equation: one person betrays, the other is betrayed. End of story. But the truth is never that clean.

    In this episode, I share why an affair is never just about the moment it happened or the person it happened with. It’s about everything that came before - the silences, the unspoken needs, the glass walls that build up between two people - long before a boundary is crossed.

    You’ll hear:

    • Why loneliness inside a relationship is one of the deepest fractures of all

    • How silence and swallowed needs slowly erode connection

    • Why cheating is never about “suddenly making a bad choice”

    • And how understanding this bigger picture can loosen the grip of shame

    If you’ve ever felt like you were screaming silently inside your relationship - or carrying the unbearable weight of guilt after betraying someone you loved - this conversation will help you see what was really happening underneath.

    This isn’t about excusing or blaming. It’s about understanding.Because when you can finally see the truth of what was there, you can stop carrying it alone.



    ✨ Join the Softening Sessions Every other week we gather on Zoom for 90 minutes of release, reflection, and return. This is where shame softens, guilt loosens, and your heart remembers what it feels like to be held. Click here to join.


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    2 months ago
    19 minutes 23 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S2#004 - Why You Cheated Isn’t the Real Why

    Most women think they know why they cheated.

    “I wasn’t seen. I felt lonely. I felt unwanted. I was bored. He didn’t love me.”

    And while those stories are true on the surface, they are not the root.

    In this episode, I take you deeper. We’ll look at the why beneath the why - the patterns of silencing, perfection, and strength-at-all-costs that began long before the affair.

    The truth is, the affair wasn’t the problem. It was the symptom.

    You’ll hear:

    • Why the real cause of betrayal starts years before the relationship rupture.

    • How childhood survival strategies shaped the way you love.

    • The hidden cost of being “the strong one” in your relationship.

    • Why betrayal is a scream from the part of you that’s been left behind.

    • How to stop asking “Why did I cheat?” and start asking “Where did I leave myself?”

    If you’ve been drowning in shame or searching for answers, this episode will help you see your story in a new way, and begin to free yourself from carrying the wrong “why.”

    You are not broken. You are at the threshold of truth.

    ✨ If this episode speaks to you and you want to explore these patterns in a safe, guided space, join me for the next Softening Session – a 90-minute healing circle for women navigating the shame and confusion after infidelity: alexcroxford.com/softening-sessions

    📲 Instagram: @iamalexcroxford

    🌐 Website: alexcroxford.com


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    2 months ago
    22 minutes 49 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S2#003 - When You’ve Been Cheated On: Jessica’s Story of Love, Betrayal, and Healing

    What does it really take to rebuild after betrayal?In this episode, I’m joined by fellow love & relationship coach Jessica Hayes, who shares her raw and powerful story of discovering her partner’s infidelity and the journey they took to heal together.

    We talk about:

    • The moment she found out and how it shattered her world

    • Why “just leave” isn’t the right answer for everyone

    • The messy, non-linear process of rebuilding trust

    • The deeper wounds and patterns betrayal can reveal, and how facing them can transform a relationship

    If you’ve been cheated on and you’re wondering if healing is possible - or you’re navigating the complicated emotions of staying - Jessica’s story will give you both hope and clarity.


    🔗 Join my next Softening Session – a 90-minute healing circle for women navigating the shame and confusion after infidelity: alexcroxford.com/softening-sessions

    📲 Instagram: @iamalexcroxford

    🌐 Website: alexcroxford.com

    Jessica Hayes — Instagram: @jessicahayescoaching | Website: https://www.jessicahayes.com/

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 34 minutes 31 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S2#002 - The Coldplay Scandal, Betrayal, and What We’re Missing in the Conversation

    When a betrayal hits the headlines, like the recent Coldplay cheating scandal, the internet rushes to judge.The memes, the moral high ground, the smug commentary. But what’s really going on beneath the noise?

    In this episode, I sit down with fellow love & relationship coach Jessica Hayes and Therapeutic Coach Lucy Maeve to talk about what’s missing from the public conversation around infidelity. We explore:

    • Why betrayal is rarely just about lust or opportunity

    • How childhood wounds, disconnection, and unspoken needs can quietly lead us he

    • The shame spiral women enter after cheating, and why judgement only keeps them stuck

    • What real healing looks like for both the betrayer and the betrayed

    If you’ve ever cheated, been cheated on, or found yourself caught in the grey space between, this conversation will help you see beyond the headlines and into the deeper truth about betrayal, love, and repair.

    🔗 Join my next Softening Session – a 90-minute healing circle for women navigating the shame and confusion after infidelity: alexcroxford.com/softening-sessions

    📲 Instagram: @iamalexcroxford

    🌐 Website: alexcroxford.com

    Jessica Hayes — Instagram: @jessicahayescoaching | Website: https://www.jessicahayes.com/

    Lucy Maeve — Instagram: @lucy__maeve | Website: https://lucymaeve133.lpages.co/offerings/


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    2 months ago
    1 hour 31 minutes 10 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S2#001 – My Story: Why I Cheated on Someone I Loved

    I never thought I’d be the kind of woman who cheated on her husband, and I’m guessing neither did you.

    In this episode, I share my story through the lens of a woman who’s had an affair and broken her own heart in the process. Not the surface version, but the truth beneath it: the silence, disconnection, perfectionism, and old wounds that led me there - long before the infidelity happened.

    If you’ve ever thought “I’ve had an affair and now I feel broken” or “I don’t know if I’ll ever trust myself again”, you’ll discover why this moment can be a wake-up call, not the end of your story, and how it can be the starting point for deep, lasting healing after infidelity.

    🔗 Join my next Softening Session – a 90-minute healing circle for women navigating the shame and confusion after infidelity: alexcroxford.com/softening-sessions

    📲 Instagram: @iamalexcroxford

    🌐 Website: alexcroxford.com

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    2 months ago
    29 minutes 15 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S1#005 | Escaping the Grip of Narcissistic Abuse with Nastassia Marie

    In this episode:

    Alex Croxford sits down with Nastassia Marie, a trauma-informed educator and practitioner specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery. Nastassia’s journey of healing from a history of challenging relationships and family trauma fuels her powerful work, as she brings compassion, humor, and depth to complex subjects. Together, they explore the importance of recognizing inherited trauma, understanding narcissistic abuse, and how self-awareness can lead to a safe, fulfilling love.

    This episode is a profound discussion on breaking free from destructive patterns, rebuilding self-worth, and how trauma-informed healing offers a pathway to self-discovery and genuine connection.

    Highlights:

    ✨ Nastassia shares her journey of healing from her traumatic past, including growing up around violence and eventually facing similar dynamics in her own relationships. She discusses the critical turning points that led her to trauma-informed work.

    ✨ The conversation dives deep into the cycle of abuse, with Nastassia highlighting the unconscious tendency to recreate familiar relationship dynamics rooted in early experiences.

    ✨ Alex and Nastassia discuss narcissistic abuse, what it truly means, and how understanding it can liberate individuals from toxic patterns and behaviors.

    ✨ Nastassia offers insights into the power of generational healing, shedding light on how we carry ancestral trauma and the importance of addressing it to live freely and intentionally.

    ✨ A touching moment reveals how Nastassia, holding her daughter, made a life-changing decision to break free from her past and pave the way for a new, empowered legacy.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Trauma Awareness is Empowering: Healing involves recognizing and honoring the traumas that shape us, often inherited across generations.
    • Safety in Love: Safe, healthy relationships are possible when we confront past traumas and free ourselves from the bonds of familiarity that keep us tied to harmful dynamics.
    • Narcissistic Abuse Defined: Understanding narcissistic abuse goes beyond the label; it's about recognizing manipulation, control, and inconsistency within relationships and learning to break free.
    • The Journey from Self-Blame to Self-Compassion: Nastassia’s story emphasizes the importance of self-compassion over shame, reminding us that healing is a journey that requires gentleness.
    • Healing Generational Trauma: We carry not only our own pain but often that of our ancestors. Breaking these cycles frees not only us but future generations.

    Stay tuned for more episodes of The Deeper Love Podcast where we dive into the heart of relationships and personal growth. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review!

    Alex's Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamalexcroxford/

    How to Find The Love Of Your Life Masterclass: https://www.alexcroxford.com/how-to-find-the-love-of-your-life-masterclass/

    Website: https://www.alexcroxford.com/

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    If you are interested in 1:1 Coaching or Other Offerings, Book a No Obligation Discovery Call with me here: https://calendly.com/alexcroxford/discovery-call -------

    About Nastassia Marie:

    Nastassia Marie is a Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Informed Educator & Practitioner. Her work is the Embodiment of her own healing and self discovery journey, as she brings authenticity, love and humor into deeply sacred topics that lead to beautiful lifelong transformations.

    Nastassia’s Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theartofintuition/

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    Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review! Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-deeper-love-podcast/id1770453444

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0ZHJGVpMHJgny8uoMKgjNP

    Tune in next time to continue your journey to deeper love and transformation!

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    8 months ago
    1 hour 8 minutes 20 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S1#004 | Breaking Patterns & Building Trust with Cody Mathieson Packer

    In this episode:

    Alex Croxford hosts Cody Mathieson Packer, a men’s transformation guide, to discuss the complex dynamics between men and women in relationships. Cody shares his personal journey of overcoming challenges, including a tumultuous marriage and career setbacks, to rediscover himself and step into his role as a guide for men. 

    Together, they explore how men can confront deep-seated fears, rewrite their pasts, and show up authentically in relationships. This conversation brings to light the importance of self-responsibility, healing old wounds, and cultivating healthy connections.

    Highlights:

    ✨ Cody recounts his journey of self-discovery after his divorce and job loss, and how he transformed his life from victimhood to self-empowerment.

    ✨ They explore the dangers of emotional caretaking and the importance of men stepping into their authority.

    ✨ Cody shares powerful insights on unlearning harmful relationship patterns and embracing radical self-responsibility.

    ✨ Alex and Cody discuss the mistrust of masculinity and how both men and women can heal to create more fulfilling relationships.

    ✨ A touching story illustrates the power of presence and trust in healing traumatic experiences.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Self-Responsibility is Crucial: Lasting change comes when individuals take radical self-responsibility for their emotions, experiences, and healing.
    • The Importance of Inner Work: Both men and women need to explore their wounds and patterns to build trust and meaningful relationships.
    • Do You Want to Be Right or Free?: Questioning whether you want to be “right” about your relationship beliefs or truly free from limiting narratives can be transformative.
    • Real Love Requires Surrender: True intimacy involves letting go of control and allowing relationships to unfold organically, without the pressure of outcomes.
    • Healing is Possible: Cody’s story of providing safety and presence to a trauma survivor demonstrates the profound impact of healing and self-compassion.

    Stay tuned for more episodes of The Deeper Love Podcast where we dive into the heart of relationships and personal growth.

    Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review!

    Apple Podcasts: 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-deeper-love-podcast/id1770453444

    Spotify:

    https://open.spotify.com/show/0ZHJGVpMHJgny8uoMKgjNP 

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    Alex's Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamalexcroxford/

    How to Find The Love Of Your Life Masterclass: https://www.alexcroxford.com/how-to-find-the-love-of-your-life-masterclass/

    Website: https://www.alexcroxford.com/

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    If you are interested in 1:1 Coaching or Other Offerings, Book a No Obligation Discovery Call with me here: https://calendly.com/alexcroxford/discovery-call

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    About Cody Mathieson Packer:

    Cody Mathieson Packer has been guiding men to unlearn their pasts and alchemize their pain and heartbreak into power for the last few years so it is possible for them to write a new future. 

    He walked this path on his own after losing his job and going through a divorce 5 years ago that completely changed the trajectory of his life. 

    He is fiercely and lovingly committed to inspiring the new generation of men to end their wars within, lead their lives from a place of wholeness and be the director of the life they actually want to create (all while having fun and enjoying the richness of life of course).

    Cody's Links:

    Instagram: @codymathiesonpacker

    Group Program, Rewrite Your Future: A 12-week course for men to unlearn past conditioning and create a new reality. Starting in October, more details on Cody’s Instagram.

    Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review!

    Apple Podcasts:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/001-my-story-with-alex-croxford/id1770453444?i=1000670626774

    Spotify:

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/37qsRH4atuyVi04f8a1pIS?si=DzAUPZd1SKe0x08Ybg006w

    Tune in next time to continue your journey to deeper love and transformation!

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    1 year ago
    1 hour 28 minutes 12 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S1#003 | Become The Partner You Want with Persia Lawson

    In this episode:

    In this episode, Alex Croxford interviews Persia Lawson, a top UK dating and relationship coach, to explore the journey of inner healing, and personal transformation in pursuit of meaningful romantic relationships. They dive into Persia’s personal evolution from her own tumultuous love life to coaching high-achieving women to find fulfilling relationships by working on themselves first.

    Highlights:

    ✨Persia shares her personal story of overcoming chaotic relationships and magnetising her husband of 8 years 

    ✨The secret she used to shift her external world and change her romantic life

    ✨We discuss how perfectionism impacts romantic relationships.

    ✨The importance of self-responsibility, self-respect and boundaries in dating.

    ✨Persia introduces the "Four Missing Pieces of the Courtship Puzzle" 

    ✨We talk about the importance of becoming the partner you want to attract by cultivating a deep relationship with yourself.

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Self-awareness is the key to lasting love: You cannot expect someone to love you if you do not deeply love and respect yourself. The most important piece of the puzzle is working on your relationship with yourself first.
    2. The Four Missing Pieces of the Courtship Puzzle: Magnetic energy, discernment, communication, and surrender are crucial to forming healthy, lasting relationships.
    3. Prioritise self-respect: True confidence comes from respecting yourself, your sacred body and not playing games.
    4. True power couples are about more than optics: Real power couples focus on collaboration, communication, and service, creating positive ripples not just in their lives but in the world around them.
    5. Let go of control in relationships:  The importance of surrendering the need to control outcomes in relationships and trusting the process.

    Stay tuned for more episodes in which we delve into the topic of Deeper Love!

    Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review!

    Alex's Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamalexcroxford/

    How to Find The Love Of Your Life Masterclass: https://www.alexcroxford.com/how-to-find-the-love-of-your-life-masterclass/

    Website: https://www.alexcroxford.com/

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    If you are interested in 1:1 Coaching or Other Offerings, Book a No Obligation Discovery Call with me here: https://calendly.com/alexcroxford/discovery-call

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    About Persia:

    Persia Lawson is a dating & relationship coach, 3x author & speaker. She specialises in getting female leaders healthy, exciting, meaningful relationships that are a force for good, not drama.

    Persia was honoured to be called “one of the UK’s most successful love coaches” by The Times and an “irreverent British guru” by Marie Claire magazine. Her work is regularly featured in Vogue, Cosmopolitan and the BBC.

    Her flagship mentorship programme, Love For Leaders, typically gets clients remarkable relationships within 6-12 months.

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PersiaLawsonLoveCoach/ 

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/persialawson/ 

    Linkedin: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/persia-lawson-02aa92211 

    Love For Leaders Scorecard (which shows you how far away you are from your ideal relationship): https://persia-lawson.scoreapp.com/  & Love Is Coming Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/love-is-coming/id1533608902 

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    1 year ago
    1 hour 21 minutes 3 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S1#002 | Reclaim Your Sexual Power and Transform Your Love Life with Amy White

    In this episode:

    Alex Croxford welcomes Amy White, a somatic sexual healing coach and founder of Temple of the Feminine, to explore sacred sexuality, feminine energy, and how women can reclaim their sexual power through self-awareness and emotional connection. Amy shares her personal journey of awakening and healing through kundalini tantra yoga and discusses how celibacy can be a powerful tool for empowerment and self-discovery.

    Highlights:

    ✨ Amy's transformative experience with kundalini tantra yoga, which awakened her sexual energy and led to a deeper connection with her body.

    ✨ How cultivating a deeper relationship with your body impacts intimate relationships allowing for more emotional and spiritual connection.

    ✨ Celibacy as a sacred practice of redirecting sexual energy inward and as an act of deep self love.

    ✨ Challenges women face in embracing their sexuality and practical advice on how to create emotional and physical safety in intimate relationships.

    ✨ The importance of emotional intimacy and a connection with yourself for developing a deeper, more fulfilling sexual experience.

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Reclaiming Sexual Power: Our sexual energy is a powerful source of creativity and healing. Societal conditioning often suppresses our connection to it, but by exploring this energy, we unlock deeper intimacy and emotional growth.
    2. The Journey of Self-Love: Cultivating a compassionate and loving relationship with your body, especially through self-pleasure, is essential to your healing and empowerment journey.
    3. Celibacy as a Sacred Practice: Celibacy isn't just about abstaining from sex with others. It's about redirecting sexual energy inward to discover personal sensuality and release old traumas.
    4. Emotional Safety in Intimacy: True pleasure and fulfillment in sexual relationships come from feeling safe, emotionally connected, and respected. Prioritize communication and emotional alignment to create deeper connections.


    Amy’s Links:

    Connect with Amy White:  

    Follow Amy on Insta and explore her self-paced courses, practitioner training, and free resources available on her website.

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    Alex's Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamalexcroxford/

    How to Find The Love Of Your Life Masterclass: https://www.alexcroxford.com/how-to-find-the-love-of-your-life-masterclass/

    Website: https://www.alexcroxford.com/

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    If you are interested in 1:1 Coaching or Other Offerings, Book a No Obligation Discovery Call with me here: https://calendly.com/alexcroxford/discovery-call

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    1 year ago
    1 hour 1 minute 57 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    S1#001 | My Story with Alex Croxford

    In this episode:

    In the very first episode of The Deeper Love podcast, Alex Croxford takes you on a raw, emotional journey through her personal story of heartbreak, inner transformation, and spiritual awakening. 

    From the outside, Alex had what many would call a perfect life: successful career, marriage, and all the external markers of achievement. 

    But beneath the surface, she was battling deep-seated wounds and patterns of self-abandonment. In this episode, Alex shares how heartbreak became her portal to freedom and how she discovered that true transformation begins with facing the deepest most shadowy parts of ourselves.

    Highlights:

    ✨Alex’s personal journey from a "perfect" marriage to divorce to being in a new true love partnership.

    ✨How her struggle with infertility unraveled her life and led to a profound transformation.

    ✨The power of emotional release, spiritual healing, and reconnecting with feminine energy.

    ✨How betrayal and the collapse of her marriage became the turning point for radical self-healing.

    ✨The role of heartbreak and grief as catalysts for personal growth and awakening.

    ✨The importance of being held by other women and creating a support network during difficult times.

    ✨How she reconnected with her authentic self and attracted a deep, soul-aligned love.

    ✨How her experience with plant medicine helped her heal, open her heart, and find love again.

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Heartbreak as a Catalyst: Heartbreak is often the beginning of a spiritual awakening. It forces us to face ourselves, heal old wounds, and come home to our true essence.
    2. Vulnerability is Power: True healing begins when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, to feel the depth of our emotions, and to open up to support from others.
    3. Spiritual Growth: Awakening to our true nature as spirit, opening our hearts and reclaiming our authentic selves, is the path to a deeper love.
    4. Self-Love Before All Else: Before attracting true love, we must first heal the relationship with ourselves and face, heal and integrate past trauma and hidden wounds.

    Stay tuned for more episodes in which we delve into the topic of Deeper Love!

    Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review!

    Apple Podcasts: 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-deeper-love-podcast/id1770453444

    Spotify:

    https://open.spotify.com/show/0ZHJGVpMHJgny8uoMKgjNP

    About The Deeper Love Podcast:

    Step into a realm of life-changing intimacy with The Deeper Love Podcast, where healing, love and the universe meet. Join host Alex Croxford as she guides you through the secrets of experiencing deep and healthy relationships, with experts in love, sexuality, personal development, and spirituality. Uncover how to use relationships as pathways to growth and expansion and learn the art of co-creating the passionate, magical and mystical relationship your heart desires. Let each conversation awaken your senses and deepen your connections, inviting you into a love beyond the ordinary.

    Alex's Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamalexcroxford/

    How to Find The Love Of Your Life Masterclass: https://www.alexcroxford.com/how-to-find-the-love-of-your-life-masterclass/

    Website: https://www.alexcroxford.com/

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    If you are interested in 1:1 Coaching or Other Offerings, Book a No Obligation Discovery Call with me here: https://calendly.com/alexcroxford/discovery-call

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    1 year ago
    57 minutes 17 seconds

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved
    Join Alex Croxford on The Deeper Love Podcast as she guides women healing after betraying someone they loved. Through raw, compassionate conversations, The Deeper Love Podcast dives beneath the affair to the silence, the self-betrayal, and the parts of yourself you’ve forgotten. This is your space to release shame, face the truth, and begin again. With honest stories, intimate interviews, and deep guidance, The Deeper Love Podcast will help you rise from the ashes into love that feels safe, soft, and true.