This episode is based on this post I wrote in our DeepClean private community (learn more about Inner Circle):
Last week I was working 1:1 with a client to help him pinpoint some wounds from his past.
The challenge?
He didn’t know what happened to cause the wounds.
He knew something was there — he has struggles today to prove it — but he just couldn’t pinpoint what happened.
And honestly?
I see this all the time.
Guys want to really dial in the trauma story. It makes sense… we want clarity. But let me remind you —
👉 It’s not totally necessary.
The focus of healing isn’t about perfectly remembering what happened. It’s about recognizing what still lives inside you.
The emotions you felt that never got processed (the ones you still wrestle with)
The thoughts you had that never got shared (the ones you still carry)
The needs you had that never got met (the ones you still seek to fill in unhealthy ways)
When you focus here, you may discover the full story — or maybe not.
Either way, you’re working directly with the part of trauma that can actually heal.
If you can name those 3 things — emotion, thought, and need — you now have real clarity on what you’re up against.
Then comes the good part: learning how to work through X emotion, Y thought, and Z longing.
That’s my super simple approach to recovery — and I love seeing how it changes men’s lives, time and time again. 💪
This episode is all about unpacking this idea and helping you make recovery simple!
Maybe you still feel stuck, not knowing how to apply this?
If so, hop on a call with our team to learn about our DeepClean programs - click here
Suppressing emotions is at the heart of what drives people to escape reality - we call this fantasy...
What if you could face reality with your Saviour? What if you had a grasp on your internal battles and let God fight for you?
One of the greatest weapons against suppression is journalling. And one of the greatest weapons against distance from God is a heart that wants to be known
This episode was inspired by a group call Shawn did where he had 15 men write their own psalm of lament...
4 Steps to writing a psalm:
- Questioning
- Complaint
- Petition for Help
- Statement of Confidence
To learn more about Shawns porn recovery coaching, hop on this free MasterClass
Helena was also moved by journalling in her journey. As a mom, a betrayed partner, one who went through pain and loss, this method of therapy was HUGE for her.
In this episode, you'll learn about
- How journalling helped us quit addiction, grow closer and move into new season
- How to read the psalms
- Vulnerability and trust
- Why men are desperate for expression and safety
If you're looking to get free from porn, its not a secret how to do that in the next 90 days. We have a very clear system and our new Inner Circle Brotherhood is only $2 a day
The Czech Republic has some staggering challenges when it comes to sexuality. Stats show us that they are top in the world in porn creation, sex trafficking, and some other difficult things to make sense of...
I brought Pete Lupton on the show today to talk about his incredible mission to help a country start to understand that porn at the very least can be a problem
Pete also shares about his journey of recovery, going through 10 years of what doesnt work so he could finally find what does work. Now he spends all of his time making sure more people learn the truth and develop the tools that really work to say no to porn and get sober from sexual struggles.
While listening, you may feel a nudge to get some help and a part of the solution to this problem rather than continue to give into the problem... if so
Check out secrethabit.ca to get connected to Shawn and his coaching with the DeepClean Program
Topics we cover in this episode:
- Passion behind a mission to change the narrative behind pornography
- What does not work in recovery
- What does work in recovery
- Hope for whats available in Jesus
- Czechs views of porn, sex and religion
- Vision for the Czech Republic
- What God is doing through NePornu and how everybody can help
To get connected to Pete and NePornu, here are 3 ways to do so
Instagram: https://instagram.com/info_npcz
Website: https://nepornu.cz/
Donate (different ways per country below):
-https://nepornu.cz/podpor-projekt-financne/
Helena and Shawn open up about their journeys from sexual shame and the weight of regret, to working as a team and developing a sexual union that is healthy and raw
This journey is one we all have to embark on... learning to be vulnerable, faithful and compassionate, while at the same time, holding a standard and casting vision of what is possible
Shawn quit porn and masturbation in 2017, and overcame Erectile Dysfunction in 2020
- To work with Shawn and his proven approach to lasting freedom from porn, go to secrethabit.ca
Helena had her own struggles with porn and masturbation before marriage, but her main journey was overcoming betrayal trauma which took 2 years after Shawn quit porn
In this episode, you'll learn about
- The 4 stages we went through to heal wounds and become a team
- The way to effective vulnerability
- How to be safe for the other person
- The deeper realm of trauma and wounds
Looking for MORE?
Work with me 1:1: Book your free strategy call to learn more about DeepClean Signature
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If you're really on the fence of what to do next, heres my free 90 day porn survival guide, this can be an awesome starting point if you're not ready to invest $2 per day
MORE resources and info on 1:1 Coaching with Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/
Mind Over Explicit Matter - Dr Trish Leigh's new book is all about the connection between porn addiction and way way we function as humans
In this incredible interview, Dr Trish gets into some of the most practical, simple and profound ways someone can get clean from porn, quit masturbation and overcome erectile dysfunction
Get ready to learn about:
- What really works for people who want to quit porn
- Fear and Anxiety
- Dopamine Determination + Getting Healthy Serotonin and Oxytocin
- Becoming self aware to learn from relapses
- Inner Child Work and Root Healing
- Finding your voice
- Marriage conflict resolution
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Next action steps:
Work with me 1:1: Book your free strategy call to learn more about DeepClean Signature
Our all new Inner Circle program has been FIRE - a place of proven recovery, brotherhood and identity in Christ
Join the DeepClean Inner Circle today!
If you're really on the fence of what to do next, heres my free 90 day porn survival guide, this can be an awesome starting point if you're not ready to invest $2 per day
MORE resources and info on 1:1 Coaching with Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/
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The mother wound is often missed or misunderstood... however, iv found it to be the missing link to most guys wounds that lead them down the road to addictions to sex, porn and masturbation
Why?
Because the mother is at the heart of our safety, nurture, affection and intimacy. She models for us what a women is like and what its like to interact and live around one
When men have a mother wound, they struggle to feel safe, to trust, to risk, to find their voice
I talk about my weekly Trauma Care Workshop on this episode - These workshops have been FIRE in our all new Inner Circle program - a place of proven recovery, brotherhood and identity in Christ
Join the DeepClean Inner Circle today!
In this Episode, Im going to talk about everything mother wound:
- How our mother forms our sexuality- Common wounds from the mother- Enmeshment - mom uses the son to numb her pain
- Triangulation - mom does everything for the family to numb her pain
- 4 practical steps you can take to heal your mother wound and BE A MAN who is free from porn, masturbation, sex and the fear holding you down from all God made you to be
Looking for MORE?
Work with me 1:1: Book your free strategy call to learn more about DeepClean Signature
Our all new Inner Circle program has been FIRE - a place of proven recovery, brotherhood and identity in Christ
Join the DeepClean Inner Circle today!
If you're really on the fence of what to do next, heres my free 90 day porn survival guide, this can be an awesome starting point if you're not ready to invest $2 per day
MORE resources and info on 1:1 Coaching with Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/
Renewing your mind is a key concept in Christianity, but how do you do it?
You may know what to do, but how?
Lets talk about that today so you are clear in the how and have some ideas of your next steps
I talk about my weekly Inner Child Workshop on this episode - These workshops have been FIRE in our all new Inner Circle program - a place of proven recovery, brotherhood and identity in Christ
Join the DeepClean Inner Circle today!
In this episode. I talk about:
- Overcoming temptation to porn, masturbation and other sins through articulating your deeper wounding
- Bringing your wounds to Jesus
- Developing your prayer life
- Renewing your mind through clarity of what needs renewing
For more insights on Inner Child work and trauma care, check out my past episodes - they're FULL of coaching tips on how to apply what you're learning
Looking for more?
Our all new Inner Circle program has been FIRE - a place of proven recovery, brotherhood and identity in Christ
Join the DeepClean Inner Circle today!
Make sure to check out Episodes 1, 2 and 3 from Season 3, all about my Porn Recovery Framework that I use everyday when coaching clients 1:1 and in group settings
Looking for MORE? Work with me 1:1: Book your free strategy call to learn more about DeepClean Signature
If you're really on the fence of what to do next, heres my free 90 day porn survival guide, this can be an awesome starting point if you're not ready to invest $2 per day
MORE resources and info on 1:1 Coaching with Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/
Helena is back! Get ready to learn all about her recent 2 years and how she overcame depression and renewed her faith in Christ...
We will talk about Helenas struggle with depression and the state it created in her
And about how Shawn found himself as a foreigner, a parent of 2 girls and a husband of a wife going through ALOT at once.
How did Helena overcome depression without pills?
How did Shawn remain integrous and porn free?
This is a really powerful raw chat between two people who have been through a ton. Married 9 years, 8 years of freedom from secual addiction and now 2 kids and a large coaching practise - we love giving back to inspire, convict and offer hope
May out failures be your success so you can experience ALL that Jesus has for you
Its time to overcome depression, fear, shame, porn addiction, masturbation and all other sexual bondage!
Looking for more?
Our all new Inner Circle program has been FIRE - a place of proven recovery, brotherhood and identity in Christ
Join the DeepClean Inner Circle today!
Make sure to check out Episodes 1, 2 and 3 from Season 3, all about my Porn Recovery Framework that I use everyday when coaching clients 1:1 and in group settings
If you're really on the fence of what to do next, heres my free 90 day porn survival guide, this can be an awesome starting point if you're not ready to invest $2 per day
MORE resources and info on 1:1 Coaching with Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/
RESOURCE PLUG: Humility by Andrew Murray is the book that CHANGED us around this topic of emptying ourselves and truly filling up with Jesus
Theres one challenge guys run into everytime when trying to quit porn, overcome masturbation and put and end to any sexual struggles
It is not what you would expect... its focusing on the task at hand more than the purpose ahead
I am a huge fan of seeing outcomes and experiences over the task itself.
This can be a huge help to create more hope, optimism, faith and desire to do hard things any god recovery requires
A lot of guys do need help with these things though, its not EASY, even if its simple
IF you do need help, for $2 a day, you can join us in the DeepClean Inner Circle
A place of Godly Brotherhood built on a Proven Content and Coaching model that has helped over 1500 guys
Learn more about Inner Circle Here
In todays episode, you'll learn about:
- Why a mission is so important
- Why outcome focused is better than task focused
- My powerful Mission Statement template
- How to apply Mission Statements into your life for maximum effectiveness
If you want more info on our approach at DeepClean before joining DeepClean Inner Circle
Make sure to check out Episodes 1, 2 and 3 from Season 3, all about my Porn Recovery Framework that I use everyday when coaching clients 1:1 and in group settings
If you're really on the fence of what to do next, heres my free 90 day porn survival guide, this can be an awesome starting point if you're not ready to invest $2 per day
The final step in this framework is focused on freedom, but more honestly, its about confidence, integrity and longevity. This is really what guys want… they want to LIVE their lives without the bondage of “what if I slip again” or “what if I get tempted”
ENOUGH with this crap… freedom doesnt talk like this, and I want to explain to you HOW to get free. Its not about time, its about resolving root pain and finding completion in your heart - sure this takes time, but time is not the main factor.
You need a guide for this, hands down. I would love to be that guide if you want to consider working with me
If you’re ready to book a call and find out more about coaching with me, check out my calendar at https://secrethabit.ca/call/
In this part 3 episode, I am going to talk all about freedom and the ways to develop healthy confidence.
What works
Finding clarity on the reasons for the root issues, not just the root issues themselves
Resolving the root pain behind the unmet needs and wounds
Finding completion with painful relationships
Renewing the mind and restoring your identity in Christ
What does not work
Focusing on the present and seeing re occurring problems as part of life
Seeing on going issues as your thorn in the flesh
Assuming that the past is forgiven so there's no need to do any work with your childhood
Getting stuck in the busy cycle of recovery
Concepts
Reverse Engineering - finding clarity in why XYZ arouses you
Forgiveness
Soul Ties
Redefining Core Motivations
Inner Child Work
Application
Locate - seeing the boy inside of you
Learn - understanding what's at the heart of your on going struggles with pornography
Lead - Going from what feels true to what is true
Jesus - Re-experiencing life through a new lens with Jesus
NEXT STEPS: Take Your Recovery To The Next Level:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
3. Enroll in a Free DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
Its insane how many guys think that awareness is what changes your life… I was stuck in that mindset for a long time and it really kept me stuck… I knew my struggles but I didnt know what to do with them
In this episode, I will lay out the framework for you to get SUPER clear on the real problems and then get SUPER clear on what to do about them based off of what the problems are revealing about your heart.
I am excited about this episode guys, this content is some of the best I have ever come by and I am really proud of the work we do with DeepClean… it took me many years to understand this concept and now you can figure it out with me in just 20 mins, thats pretty cool!
If you’re ready to book a call and find out more about coaching with me, check out my calendar at https://secrethabit.ca/call/
Heres what ill be sharing in this part 2 episode all about becoming emotionally mature and achieving solid sobriety
What works
Becoming emotionally aware THEN using that awareness to change the way you act
What doesn't work
Defining your emotions and expecting life to change because you now know how you feel
Concept
Utilize Trigger Digger, Trigger Template and Journaling to grow in awareness
Quick insight on each one
Define your red zone plan - triggers, fear response, tendencies
Understand your longings/needs - main needs of humans and 4 ways to get them met
Create a green zone plan focused on what and how will help you experience what you need - proactive and reactive
Application with example
Red Zone
Trigger: Fear of rejection
Response: Submit and freeze
Tendencies: people please, overeat, judge others, internal anger, avoidance of conflict, futility towards relationships
Needs
Safety, vulnerability, support, predictability, hope, reassurance, curiosity
Green Zone
What can help
Bible, prayer walks, calling a friend, spotify playlist, having a bath, meeting with mentor, throwing rocks by the water, hugging my wife
Who can help
Wife, friend, mentor, God, sister, brother
When did I feel it before
Conflict with mom was resolved, safee to fail with wife, exposed by friend with love, invited into fellowship with church group
NEXT STEPS: Take Your Recovery To The Next Level:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
3. Enroll in a Free DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
In this episode and 3 part series, I am going to show you the SIMPLE way to do recovery effectively. I have seen thai help hundreds of guys overcome porn, masturbation, and sex addiction and I want to share it with you in a bite size version
I have been free nearly 8 years from porn, masturbation and sex and iv spent 10 000 + hours refining this process. I hope you will glean from it so you can have everything and more in the next few years of your recovery
If you’re ready to book a call and find out more about coaching with me, check out my calendar at https://secrethabit.ca/call/
Here’s what I talk about in this part 1 episode on Gaining Perspective
Who/Where
The Gospel - Scripture, Holy Spirit
Mentors
Peers/Spotters
Disagree’ers
WHY
We need to get out of our own head and feelings
start to see and know what is true, factual and proven
Let this dictate how you choose, feel and live
NAS
In knowledge and understanding, you will grow in confidence… ASSURE yourself in the salvation story, Gods character and His promises for you
Find a spiritual father - glean from experience
Find a discipleship partner - sharpen one another
Find a resource that is focused on scripture, facts and has proven results… NOT MORE HYPE or surface stuff
NEXT STEPS: Take Your Recovery To The Next Level:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
3. Enroll in a Free DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
We're a month into 2025, how are you doing with your triggers and temptations?
In this episode, I want to ensure you dont just run away from your temptations, I want you to understand them, face them and overcome them
We just launched DeepClean Signature 2.0 and its FIRE - you will learn much more about in this episode.
If you're ready to book a call with our team, you can learnj how you can work 1:1 with Shawn Bonneteau: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
Today, we will talk about:
- How Emotions and Sexuality Are Connected
- What Triggers and Temptation Tell Us
- How To Create a Trigger Template
- How to Ask Great Questions About Our Temptations and Triggers
- How To Get To The Bottom Of Why you're Triggered
- Defining Core Lies
- Getting Needs Met
- Pursuing Real Recovery
These topics are fundamental to recovery. Guys in DeepClean are getting incredible results from just these 2 videos in our new course.
If you want to take your recovery to the next level, theres no better time to take the next step,
Heres a few ways for you take that next step
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
3. Enroll in a Free DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
Credit to DeepClean and Sathiya Sam & Pure Desires Arousal Template
Hey man, 2025 is fast approaching, but that doesnt mean you cant still make the most of 2024! In this episode I share some thoughts on how you can focus on generosity in this season and get yourself set up for success by enrolling in DeepClean
If you're looking for lasting freedom from porn, START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
2. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
3. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
This episode was inspired by a nudge from the Lord to stand firm in my calling as a father one morning. Since then, I started to think about how we need to go from compassion, to leadership to firmness
In this episode, you will learn all about the ways to change, but even more, the ways to go through the pain that comes with change
1. Speaking to the man with language that conveys strength and boldness
2. Focusing on 30 day increments to experience the blessing of change/sobriety from porn
3. Creating task focused mission statements to snap yourself out of the dopamine spiral and into the truth
4. Emotional Regulation to ensure you have the bedrock of recovery rock solid
If you need help with any of these steps, dont delay getting in touch. I know these concepts can be difficult to apply on your own, not to say you MUST get 1:1 coaching, but to say, you really need to be honest with yourself and how probable it is that you can do this without the right help
If you feel ready to explore coaching, book a call, it costs you nothing and could cause you to gain everything
https://secrethabit.ca/call/
Learning the Czech Language has made me so aware of what guys need when healing from porn addiction... they need clarity, simplicity and spotted reps. They don't need more discipline or harder work, they need more guidance!
If you're looking for lasting freedom from porn, START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
2. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
3. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
In this episode, ill share about my journey of learning Czech and how its improved my coaching 100x over
Ill go into details about why the DeepClean system is so incredibly powerful, even more than I knew before learning a language
If you feel helpless, lost, or stuck when it comes to quitting porn and overcoming sexual brokenness, then this episode is definitely for you!
Book a call to work with me: https://secrethabit.ca/call
If you're looking for lasting freedom from porn, START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
2. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
3. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
This episode is all about helping YOU make the most of your time and effort, so you can get the healing from porn addiction that you're looking for
In this episode, you will learn about
- the true mindset to prioritizing what matters most
- deep work vs learning and preparing
- making time vs having time
- mission statements
- inner child healing
A lot of this can be fairly easy to apply, however, to stay consistent, thats the true test. If you struggle with consistency, I would assume theres some deeper roots to work through
If you need help healing the roots, book a call with our team. Working with us is often the difference between someone throwing mud against the wall or finding lasting freedom from their porn addiction
Book your call now: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
This is Episode 100 of the SH podcast! Bring on the fireworks!! Im so excited to bring this REALLY IMPORTANT word for such a milestone episode
If you're looking for lasting freedom from porn, START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
2. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
3. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
Iv been UBER convinced lately that guys need to grow in leadership... I did and I still do, and that's after 7 years of freedom from porn addiction!
Here are a few of my recent convictions: - Leadership is a non-negotiable - leadership is difficult and rarely taught/understood - leadership is built on empathy and strength - Iv missed out on ensuring guys feel fully equipped in the step of leadership - Anytime someone is stuck after growing in self awareness it always comes down to a lack of leadership
Here are some of the biggest challenges I see with clients recently: - Moving from self-awareness to daily AND life long change - How to live in TRUTH when what FEELS TRUE is so powerful - Leading themselves aka, renewing their minds Here is what I want to explain, explore, and coach you on today: - Where guys are struggling to lead (with examples) - Defining their inner child feelings, thoughts, and needs - Role-playing leadership to ensure you are fully equipped - my 3 step formula - Learning about the boy within - my 3 step template
- Separating what feels true from what really is true through love and STRENGTH
*For more content on inner child work, you can check out other episodes on the POD, but for now, check out some of the resources linked here, they will get you on the right track.
* Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
Bonus Resources:
Betrayal Trauma Coaches (Affiliated with DeepClean)
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
2. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
3. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
Most people struggle to feel momentum in their Christian walk. This leads to low self esteem, dull confidence and lukewarm living... which leads guys to relapsing with porn. Not a fun cycle to be in!
One of the biggest reasons I see for this is that we dont know how to truly sharpen one another (Scripture says that iron sharpens iron)
Most people are "great" at giving advice, but the advice is actually harmful, or unhelpful at best...
We focus way to much on the surface problem and neglect peoples deep pain
We must start asking questions that get to the heat of the issue
King Artaxerxis in Nehemiah 2 is a great example of what we call curiosity in the recovery world. He asks Nehemiah a wonderful question to get below the surface, and then further, he asks how he can help RATHER than assuming his advice is what he needs
I also dive ito some paradigm shifts when it comes to discipleship, accountability and friendship
These are some AWESOME tips on how to develop a healthier life which leads to quitting porn and growing in sexual integrity
Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
In this episode, you'll learn why you you're coming up short even if you're "doing all the right things"
This may be in porn recovery, family, marriage, work... whatever it is, you MUST change your core motivation or else you'll stay stuck.
We all have a core identity and from that core identity we have motivations
If your motivations are focused on NOT being a failure and working hard to not be one, you'll miss the gospel
The gospel saves, PERIOD. Jesus is the solution here, but he meets us in such strategies to renew our belief system and change the very reason we do anything
May this be the driver to changing your life... its time to quit porn and masturbation, to redeem your marriage, to enjoy Godly sex and to be men of integrity!
Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
I am answering the BIG questions today - why did I move to Czech? why did I join DeepClean? Why did I stop coaching with Secret Habit? Do I miss Canada? Am I staying in Czech? And so many more!
Helena and I moved to Czech back on May 30th from Canada. I joined DeepClean on June 8th and since then, its been quite the God story. However, it goes much further back, and thats what I want to share about today
If you're ready to quit porn in the next 120 days, book your free strategy call with us, we would love to help you find out the best next steps with DeepClean!
If you want to know more about DeepClean before booking a call, grab a free copy of "The Last Relapse"