S2E30: Rethinking Accountability: What We Can Learn From a Simple Question Changes Everything

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Secret Habit

Shawn Bonneteau; Helena Bonneteau

116 episodes

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Do you wish there were some fun, purpose-driven couples talking about sex in a way that was actually helpful? Back when we were struggling, we certainly did, and that is why the Secret Habit podcast exists. We are Shawn and Helena Bonneteau and we are committed to helping you experience just how satisfying God's design for sexuality can be. Because we know what it's like to deal with things like porn addiction, betrayal trauma, and sexual struggles we can relate to your story and bring refreshing, restorative truths that will lead you to love stronger, laugh harder, and sex better.

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S2E30: Rethinking Accountability: What We Can Learn From a Simple Question Changes Everything

Secret Habit

13 minutes 51 seconds

1 year ago

S2E30: Rethinking Accountability: What We Can Learn From a Simple Question Changes Everything

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Most people struggle to feel momentum in their Christian walk. This leads to low self esteem, dull confidence and lukewarm living... which leads guys to relapsing with porn. Not a fun cycle to be in!

One of the biggest reasons I see for this is that we dont know how to truly sharpen one another (Scripture says that iron sharpens iron)

Most people are "great" at giving advice, but the advice is actually harmful, or unhelpful at best...

We focus way to much on the surface problem and neglect peoples deep pain

We must start asking questions that get to the heat of the issue

King Artaxerxis in Nehemiah 2 is a great example of what we call curiosity in the recovery world. He asks Nehemiah a wonderful question to get below the surface, and then further, he asks how he can help RATHER than assuming his advice is what he needs

I also dive ito some paradigm shifts when it comes to discipleship, accountability and friendship

These are some AWESOME tips on how to develop a healthier life which leads to quitting porn and growing in sexual integrity

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