Play is available to us as a powerful tool to bring more play into intimacy. When we are having “problems” in the bedroom, play is a wonderful way to break us out of the frustration. It’s also a wonderful tool to help us be more open to our partners and the pleasure available to us.
Play is a tool that sets a foundation of safety and allows us to move through zones of discomfort with the greatest level of ease. It gets you out of your head, without being dismissive. Intimacy can be birthed from fun, play and laughter.
How to amp up the play:
-Don’t censor your weird
-Be willing to laugh at yourself
-Remove the expectation of what it’s supposed to look like
-Open yourself to the possibility that laughter can live in intimate spaces
-Allow the joy to grow and spread
Remember, laughter is the one one thing worth faking in the bedroom!
Wishing you orgasmic joy, fun and all the playfulness you can muster. We’ll see you next season!
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Alise Shelman
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Lisa Wade
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Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Radical honesty is saying things just as they are. It is not shaping or filtering your language in a way that you think the other person is willing/able to receive it.
What is required for to be in place for radical honesty to be the next step on your journey of intimacy:
-Is communication a value?
-Are you able to hold safe space for each other without immediately being triggered and shutting down? Are you clear on how to set the stage for this?
-Are you willing to surrender to vulnerability and get emotionally naked and bare?
-Is this level of honesty consensual?
We resist sharing ourselves with others to the extent that we are making our past/fears/perspectives mean something about us that it doesn’t. Radical honesty with a partner begins with radical honesty within ourselves. We can only be as intimate with someone else as we are willing to be with ourselves. You won’t really know if you’re ready for radical honesty until you set the stage and give it a try. And willing to fail and willing to try again.
Wishing you happy, radical and deeply intimate orgasms that are birthed from radical honesty.
You can connect with both Alise and Lisa online.
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Alise Shelman
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDcF0jOCzguNyXQtnlFIuqQ
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Does the “Upper Limit” in pleasure really exist? Or are we creating a glass ceiling to prevent too much pleasure, joy, connection, in our lives? And if so, how can you get out of your head and back into the flow of pleasure? Join Lisa and Alise as they dive into making your brain an ally to create a more fluid, joyful life.
The Upper Limit problem, and all that goes along with it, represents way too much thinking and not enough feeling.Pleasure doesn’t exist in our head…it’s in our body in the physical sensations and emotional response. When we are in our heads about it, we disconnect from the real embodiment of pleasure.
Some solutions to explore:
-Move the body. Be connected to the body. An intentional movement practice can help enhance embodiment of pleasure when the brain attempts to intervene.
-Energy follows intention, so moving our thoughts / attention to what feels good in our body can help focus attention on the pleasure rather than on the potentially complicating thoughts.
-Reframing unhelpful thoughts, even in throes of intimacy, can help the brain be an ally rather than adversary.
-Presence matters. Thoughts are feedback. What do you need most right now to be supported?
-Every act is either an act of love or a call for love. Looking at intimacy through that lens can help heal and lead to greater intimacy, or show where change may be needed.
-Accountability for our thoughts is critical. If we are taking accountability for 80% of our stuff and spending 20% in victim mode, that 20% is where the limitations and toxic/wounded thoughts and disconnection grow.
Ultimately, rather than claim the brain is an asshole and push it away and ignore it, can we love the brain anyway and allow ourselves to upgrade the programming – alchemize it through love – so we have more space and openness to receive.
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Alise Shelman
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
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Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Highlights from this exploration include:
-Do I feel safe? Safe to be fully seen and fully expressive?
-Is there communication during the act? Can I request that I be touched in a certain way?
-Is there room to explore? An opportunity to push the edges and see what else is available?
-Are we enhancing intimacy or detracting from intimacy?
-What limiting beliefs may be getting in your way? Are you shaming yourself for wanting good sex?
-Is getting stuck in your head cockblocking your sexual potential?
-How does approaching sex from a heart-centered space impact your receptivity of pleasure?
-Are you allowing yourself to experience intimacy through the eyes of your partner?
-Is permission to take baby steps present?
-Are you making your current situation mean something about your, your partner or your relationship that may not really be true?
Ultimately, Lisa and Alise hit on the notion that a heart-centered and communicative approach, surrendering expectation of a specific outcome, and a willingness to explore help make up the recipe for good sex.
Wishing you better and better sex.
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Alise Shelman
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
In this episode, co-hosts Alise and Lisa explore the importance of sensual communication – not *just* sexy talk, but a willingness to have real, meaningful conversations about all things pleasure.
What bedroom topics have you explored with your partner?
Lisa and Alise are here to remind you:
Let’s not make challenges in the bedroom “problems to solve.” Rather than being “problems to solve,” challenges in the bedroom can be seen as “mysteries to explore.” And that feels a hell of a lot more fun!
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You can connect with both Alise and Lisa online.
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Pod.Link: https://pod.link/1505607260
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLyZpVQR3uzMCNsZzOebAGeUnMrFYmWUgA
Alise Shelman
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDcF0jOCzguNyXQtnlFIuqQ
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website:
Lisa Wade
YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/LisaWadeAlchemy
FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
How are past lovers impacting you? What lasting energetic influence do sexual encounters really have? Are you being programmed in a way you’ve yet to even imagine? Join Lisa and Alise as they dive deep into the lasting impacts of your sexual past.
In this episode, Lisa shares how she unraveled money stories, health problems, heart walls, and so much more that were tied to her first sexual encounter.
Features from the show include the exploration of:
May pleasure and orgasms find you with ease.
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Alise Shelman
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Sex comes in many forms. In addition to the physical aspect, there is also a mental, emotional and spiritual component. How do these aspects intertwine and can the quickie be just as intimate as making love?
Join Lisa and Alise as they dive into sex energetics and what’s at play behind each act.
Features of this exploration include:
May pleasure and orgasms find you with ease.
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Alise Shelman
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Lisa and Alise discuss the energetic differences between root chakra sex and sacral chakra sex, and why opening to sacral sex is empowering for pleasure and personal growth.
A sexy, satisfied sacral inspires us to live a more turned on life in so many juicy ways:
The sacral influences how we experience money, health, and sex. When the sacral is open and supported and flowing, these can be experienced through pleasure rather than fear or constriction.
Societal conditioning and religious dogma have attempted to shame, frighten, and guilt us out of our sacral power. Having a sacral conversation is a rebellious act. By reminding people of the power of their sacral, the more we take away the power of those who would like to control us as sheep.
The sacral relationship with the root chakra (center for safety and security energies) is essential for fully opening to the power, pleasure, and meaningful connection amplified through sacral energy.
Sacred self-pleasure is a powerful tool to intentionally shift our relationship with pleasure, to move us out of our critter brain and shift us into the quantum field where all things are possible.
And, so much more juiciness…
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You can connect with both Alise and Lisa online.
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Alise Shelman
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Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Lisa Wade
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Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
In this “super fucking fantastic” episode, Alise and Lisa dive into the idea of Grace in the Receive of pleasure.
Highlights include:
Fuck yes! we can enjoy the non-sexual, non-orgasmic pleasure, too. Let’s feel “super fucking fantastic” about the receive, too.
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
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Alise Shelman
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In this episode, Alise and Lisa share the big shifts taking place in their lives as they continually dive into sacred self-pleasure practices and the ever-expanding journey that unfolds as a result.
Features from the show include the exploration of:
Cheers to exploring all the ways in which pleasure may present itself!
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You can connect with both Lisa and Alise online.
OMG-Spot Podcast
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Pod.Link: https://pod.link/1505607260
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Alise Shelman
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDcF0jOCzguNyXQtnlFIuqQ
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Alise and Lisa dive into the pursuit of presence and how presence activates both pleasure and soul wisdom.
Some highlights from the show include:
May pleasure and orgasms find you with ease.
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You can connect with both Lisa and Alise online.
OMG-Spot Podcast
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Lisa Wade
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FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Alise Shelman
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDcF0jOCzguNyXQtnlFIuqQ
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In this episode, Lisa and Alise explore the ebb and flow of pleasure and what may prevent the sustainability of pleasure in their lives.
Highlights of this exploration include:
May pleasure and orgasms find you with ease.
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You can connect with both Lisa and Alise online.
OMG-Spot Podcast
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Pod.Link: https://pod.link/1505607260
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Lisa Wade
YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/LisaWadeAlchemy
FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Alise Shelman
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What magic lies within the power of orgasm? In this episode, Alise and Lisa dive into sacred pleasure as its own adventure for personal growth, breakthroughs, surrendering to higher guidance and even the discovery and healing of past lives.
And then there was the time that a couple of powerful orgasms landed one of the hosts on the chiropractor table…
Other highlights of the conversation include:
Ultimately, Lisa and Alise hit on the notion that our relationship with our own orgasm is a reflection of where we are in our relationship with ourself. Do you run from the good stuff, or allow yourself to sink even deeper into it?
Wishing you happy exploration as you enjoy those orgasms!
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You can connect with both Alise and Lisa online.
OMG-Spot Podcast
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OMGSpotPodcast
Pod.Link: https://pod.link/1505607260
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLyZpVQR3uzMCNsZzOebAGeUnMrFYmWUgA
Alise Shelman
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDcF0jOCzguNyXQtnlFIuqQ
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Lisa Wade
YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/LisaWadeAlchemy
FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
In this episode, Lisa and Alise get down on the principles of sexual energy alchemy and the path it provides to becoming multi-orgasmic, heart-centered, connected to self and clearing out trauma. So how do you get there too?
Join them as they explore the steps:
Sexual Energy Alchemy can hold space for continual personal expansion, regardless of where you are in the opening process right now.
Wishing you happy orgasms!
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You can connect with both Alise and Lisa online.
OMG-Spot Podcast
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OMGSpotPodcast
Pod.Link: https://pod.link/1505607260
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLyZpVQR3uzMCNsZzOebAGeUnMrFYmWUgA
Alise Shelman
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDcF0jOCzguNyXQtnlFIuqQ
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Lisa Wade
YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/LisaWadeAlchemy
FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sealchemy
Books available on Amazon and other booksellers:
Website: https://lisawade.mykajabi.com
Are you a pleasure queen or do you deem yourself unworthy of pleasure? Are you placing limitations on when pleasure can and can't be experienced or do you live open to all the pleasure that exists in each moment?
Do you deem yourself unworthy of pleasure? Are you placing limitations on when pleasure can and can't be experienced?
Join Lisa and Alise as they explore:
And of course, how intentional orgasm and sacred self-pleasure practices can easily transmute whatever may be getting in your way. Explore along with them the places where you may denying pleasure and where you can allow more of it!