Radical honesty is saying things just as they are. It is not shaping or filtering your language in a way that you think the other person is willing/able to receive it.
What is required for to be in place for radical honesty to be the next step on your journey of intimacy:
-Is communication a value?
-Are you able to hold safe space for each other without immediately being triggered and shutting down? Are you clear on how to set the stage for this?
-Are you willing to surrender to vulnerability and get emotionally naked and bare?
-Is this level of honesty consensual?
We resist sharing ourselves with others to the extent that we are making our past/fears/perspectives mean something about us that it doesn’t. Radical honesty with a partner begins with radical honesty within ourselves. We can only be as intimate with someone else as we are willing to be with ourselves. You won’t really know if you’re ready for radical honesty until you set the stage and give it a try. And willing to fail and willing to try again.
Wishing you happy, radical and deeply intimate orgasms that are birthed from radical honesty.
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