Are you leading from your true self or just reacting from habit? In this episode, we explore the 8 C’s of Self from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and how to use them as a leadership check-in tool. Learn how to recognize when autopilot is running the show and what it feels like to return to calm, clarity, and confident decision-making. Sign up for my newsletter here.
Why do we interrupt, shut down, or mentally rehearse our rebuttals instead of truly listening? In this episode, we explore the hidden fear behind it all: the worry that listening might be mistaken for agreement.
You’ll learn:
Why empathy doesn’t equal approval
How fear of being misunderstood shuts down connection
4 practical tools to stay grounded and present in tough conversations
What real leadership sounds like when you stop performing your values and start embodying them
If you’ve ever felt anxious about being “too understanding,” this one’s for you.
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Urgency is a trap that makes every decision feel like a crisis.
Learn how to pause with power, regulate your response, and lead with long-term clarity.
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Your story isn’t just commentary. It’s the blueprint your brain follows. In this episode, I break down the neuroscience, hypnosis principles, and NLP tools behind why you create what you narrate and how to start rewriting the script for better leadership and life results.
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Feeling stuck, frozen, or overwhelmed by your to-do list? In this episode, I break down the science and strategy behind microtasking which is a powerful tool to calm your nervous system and take action. Learn how to build momentum, reduce overthinking, and move forward with clarity.
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Is compartmentalization a leadership superpower or a hidden emotional trap? In this episode, I unpack the misunderstood skill of mentally separating roles, responsibilities, and emotions. You can lead with clarity without disconnecting from yourself. Learn how to use this tool intentionally, not avoidantly.
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“Later” is lying to you. This episode breaks down what you’re really saying when you delay, why it’s costing you more than you think, and how to lead yourself out of the mental chaos it creates.
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Ever catch yourself spiraling over a thought like “I must avoid looking bad”? In this episode, I unpack how to challenge those sneaky beliefs using Robert Dilts' "thought viruses", Byron Katie’s The Work and nervous system awareness. Learn how to question your assumptions, calm reactivity, and lead with more clarity and confidence.
Perfect for overachievers, leaders and anyone ready to think differently.
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In this episode , I unpack the identity labels we carry as leaders that feel productive, but actually hold us back. I’ll share how my addiction to urgency wasn’t a strength, it was a stress cycle. Letting go of that label gave me access to peace, clarity, and a more empowered team.
You’ll learn:
Why some leadership labels feel true but aren’t helpful
The hidden cost of urgency on your nervous system (and your team’s)
How to challenge the thoughts that create pressure
A practical experiment to shift from chaos to calm
How peaceful leadership begins with self-trust, not stress
Plus, I’ll give you 7 powerful journal prompts inspired by Byron Katie’s The Work to help you uncover the label that’s running your leadership.
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The first thing I had to learn how to do to get a sense of balance in my life was move from urgency to intentionality. Here are 10 ways that I did that. Feel free to take what works for you and tweak as necessary.
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Ben Maden is originally from the UK. He moved to Australia in 2006 and discovered that working at full-tilt for years on end comes with a price. When things go wrong, they cascade. Today, he's sharing his overachiever story. He's still an entrepreneur and digital marketer at Matter Solutions but has oriented his life much more around a family centric life-design.
Today I cover a worksheet I put together to help you deal with that difficult person in your life and get to a win-win.
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Do you label people at work as difficult?
What if it's just a difference in your programming?
Having this awareness helped me stress less and find it easier to get to a win win with people I had previously labeled as difficult.
I hope it helps you too!
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I often get asked how to tell the difference between being an optimal performer or an overachiever. Well, here's how.
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Are you making the assumption that you can't say no to your boss?
In this episode, I'll talk about why that is and give you a technique to use to bust that assumption.
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Are you constantly trying to prove your worth? I did this for a long time. Today I talk about my journey and how I finally got to a place where I believe that I am enough at least 80% of the time.
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I can't wait for you to hear this amazing interview with my brilliant friend Jen who coaches people over 40 with ADHD. We talk about the intersection of ADHD and overachieving/overworking and get into the nitty gritty of how we helped ourselves with this dilemma.
You might be an overachiever/overworker if you have performance issues at work, relationship issues or you just plain ignore your own health.
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Busy is seen as success. Is it really? This episode discusses busyness and why you should embrace a bit of idleness.
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I spent most of my life believing that I had to work long hours to be the most productive I could be.
I was wrong.
This episode will tell you why and give you some things to experiment with in regards to time efficiency.
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Are you addicted to work? Do you find yourself working more and more hours just to get that great feeling that you used to get?
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