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Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Sasha Quince
76 episodes
1 day ago

"Heal You, Heal Your Relationship" is exactly what I did to save my own marriage. Overcoming anxious attachment, fear of abandonment and self sabotage have been my greatest transformation. The process of learning and unlearning is a path we walk when we are intrigued to heal and grow. This is not your average podcast of someone telling you what to do, these are the experiences, lessons of a woman who practices what she preaches and spent two decades overcoming trauma, fears and anxiety.


Tune in to break free of relationship cycles, intrusive anxious thoughts, love fears and behaviors that leave you feeling guilty, worried and ashamed. As you build your self awareness, you grow, as you grow your relationship transforms. The ripple affect is powerful and your host Sasha Quince is proof of that. Sasha, now 17 years into her own marriage after overcoming self sabotage, a mom of two boys but also a trauma survivor, love coach, and dedicated advocate of personal development. Let's do this together!




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"Heal You, Heal Your Relationship" is exactly what I did to save my own marriage. Overcoming anxious attachment, fear of abandonment and self sabotage have been my greatest transformation. The process of learning and unlearning is a path we walk when we are intrigued to heal and grow. This is not your average podcast of someone telling you what to do, these are the experiences, lessons of a woman who practices what she preaches and spent two decades overcoming trauma, fears and anxiety.


Tune in to break free of relationship cycles, intrusive anxious thoughts, love fears and behaviors that leave you feeling guilty, worried and ashamed. As you build your self awareness, you grow, as you grow your relationship transforms. The ripple affect is powerful and your host Sasha Quince is proof of that. Sasha, now 17 years into her own marriage after overcoming self sabotage, a mom of two boys but also a trauma survivor, love coach, and dedicated advocate of personal development. Let's do this together!




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Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Guest Episode: From Burnout To Healing with Parent Coach & Mindfulness Expert Jeri Ashley

Sasha interviews Jeri (Parenting & Mindful Expert) supporting leaders through emotional intelligence and mindfulness. Cultivating resilience, preventing burnout, and creating sustainable well-being. With nearly 20 years of experience, she brings a trauma-informed, research-backed approach to emotional and psychological health across schools, nonprofits, and mission-driven workplaces.


This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha sits down with mindful leadership coach Jeri Ashley to explore healing burnout, re-parenting yourself, and creating boundaries that protect your peace. 🌿


Jeri shares her story of becoming a mother during the pandemic and how it awakened patterns of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the belief of “never enough.” Together, she and Sasha unpack how to shift these cycles through self-compassion, emotional intelligence, and joyful practices that nurture your inner child. By the end of this episode, you’ll leave with practical tools to soften your inner voice, raise emotionally aware kids, and honor your well-being with boundaries that last. ✨


💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv

💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training


Heal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 


Learn more about Jeri Ashley:

Website: https://www.themindfulnessco.com/soft-success 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerithemindfulmama 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeri-ashley/  



Learn more about Sasha Quince:

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For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship



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5 days ago
57 minutes 2 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
42 lessons learned on my healing journey for healthy lasting love (part two) that will awaken you!

Here is part two of the 42 lessons learned on my healing journey that will spark awareness and wake you up to how far you've come and how to notice when healing is calling your name to better your relationships and how to build healthy lasting love with your partner.


This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha continues her heartfelt journey through the 42 lessons that transformed her love life—sharing the second half of the powerful insights that helped her break cycles, heal abandonment wounds, and step into secure attachment. 🌸


Through honest stories and hard-earned insights, Sasha explores what it takes to break cycles for good: learning how attachment styles shape our conflicts, discovering that repair—not perfection—keeps love alive, and realizing that forgiveness frees you most of all. You’ll also hear why rest is not something you earn, how softening into your feminine makes you stronger, and why every step of healing ripples into the generations before and after you.


By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with 21 lessons to ground you in love, guide you through uncertainty, and remind you that the greatest gift you can give your partner, your family, and the world is a healing you. ✨



Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:


  1. Out of these 21 shared today, which one do you feel you’re embodying?
  2. Which one illuminated for you?
  3. Who are you going to share this episode with?


💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 

Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

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For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship



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1 week ago
46 minutes 11 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
42 Lessons in Love from a 20-Year Healing Journey (part one)

We think healing moves in a straight line, but it doesn’t. In this episode, I reveal 42 lessons learned from two decades of healing in love. Be ready to feel seen, supported and illuminate your own path with compassion and awareness.


This week on Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha takes you inside her 20-year journey of healing in love—and the 42 powerful lessons it revealed. 🌿 From breaking toxic cycles to learning how to truly feel her emotions, she shares what it really looks like to navigate the twists, turns, and spirals of growth with compassion and awareness.


Through vulnerable stories, client breakthroughs, and insights from her own healing path, Sasha reminds us that healing isn’t linear—and that every trigger, conflict, and boundary crossed holds wisdom. You’ll learn why self-compassion is more effective than self-criticism, how to transform anxiety by uncovering the fear beneath it, and why trusting yourself is the ultimate freedom in love.


By the end of this episode, you’ll not only walk away with 21 soul-deep lessons—you’ll also be invited to pause, reflect, and celebrate just how far you’ve already come. ✨

Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:


  1. Which one of these really felt true to your current journey right now.
  2. What is a boundary that you know needs to be set either for yourself in life this week or with someone else
  3. What is something that you can just be really proud of?


💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 

Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

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For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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2 weeks ago
58 minutes 26 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Will I ever not be triggered by my partner?

Sasha shares her triggering moments over summer holidays and debunks the questions she gets asked so much: how do I not get triggered by my partner?


In this solo episode of Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha reflects on her summer travels and the surprising ways triggers showed up with her partner—even during magical moments in Prague. She shares how old patterns of control and frustration surfaced, what those moments revealed about her needs, and the lesson she learned about letting go and trusting the flow.

Through personal stories and client insights, Sasha shows why the goal isn’t to avoid being triggered but to learn how to support yourself when it happens. From regulating your nervous system, to checking the stories you tell yourself, to clearly communicating your needs without blame, this episode offers practical tools and gentle reminders that triggers can become powerful teachers for deeper connection and growth.



Soulful Trio: 

  1. When was the last time you felt triggered by your partner or in a relationship? 
  2. What story did you tell yourself in that moment? 
  3. How did you respond in that moment to that trigger? 
  4. What might have shifted if you had paused and regulated yourself before your response?
  5. What need of yours was underneath the trigger?



💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 



Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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3 weeks ago
31 minutes 13 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Can we change our partners?

The question you and I have both asked ourselves debriefed here. Can we truly change our partners? Do they change for us? When you feel stuck in your relationship dynamic you wonder if there is something you can do to inspire change in your partner, here is the real truth!


This week on Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha unpacks one of the most common myths in love: Can our partners really change? ✨ For years, she believed her relationship would only improve if her husband changed—but what she discovered was far more powerful.

Through personal stories, client breakthroughs, and lessons from her own healing journey, Sasha reveals how true transformation in a relationship begins with the changes we make within ourselves. You’ll learn how the Law of Reflections plays out in love, why trying to control or “fix” a partner only leads to exhaustion, and how reclaiming your inner power can naturally inspire change around you.

By the end of this episode, you’ll see why shifting your own patterns, tending to your unmet needs, and setting boundaries with self-worth at the core can spark the very relationship changes you’ve been longing for. 💖


Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:

  1. What did you learn about changing your partner? 
  2. Where is one place you can focus on creating your own change right now in your life?
  3. Who do you believe needs to hear this and would most benefit from hearing it?


💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 

Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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3 weeks ago
34 minutes 28 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Guest Interview- Healing Your Inner Child & Building Adult Resilence

 In this episode Sasha is interviewed by Marcus Smith from InnerFlight Podcast about how unresolved childhood patterns affect your nervous system, your reactions, and even your performance during workouts or competitions, and in life. Whether you're an CEO, Parent, Friend, Partner, Coach or simply someone on a healing journey, this insight into healing your inner child offers powerful, practical tools for emotional regulation and personal growth


In this deeply revealing conversation, Sasha Quince joins Marcus Smith on the InnerFight Podcast for an unexpected yet transformative session exploring the emotional roots of everyday struggles. From navigating time anxiety and emotional dysregulation to the profound impact of childhood wounds on adult relationships, Sasha shares powerful tools, real-life stories, and practical techniques for inner healing. Whether you're struggling with abandonment, emotional reactivity, or chronic stress, this episode offers a pathway to building emotional safety, regulating your nervous system, and healing from the inside out.



💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 

Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


The InnerFight Podcast: https://www.innerfight.com/podcasts/the-innerfight-podcast

Website: https://www.innerfight.com/



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1 month ago
54 minutes 13 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
5 Things You Think Are Feminine but Are Actually Anxious Energy That Push Our Partners Away

In this solo episode of Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha talks about how some “feminine” behaviors—like overgiving, mind-reading, or avoiding conflict—can actually stem from anxiety and push partners away. She breaks down five common patterns and shares how to shift from doing and proving to simply being.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving too much or losing yourself in love, this episode will help you reconnect with your worth and feel safer in your relationships.


Soulful Trio: 

  1. Where are you currently out of your feminine energy? 
  2. Is resentment showing up in your life?
  3. What is your true need to clear that resent?


In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Feminine energy is about receiving, not proving or performing.
  • Overgiving, controlling, and caretaking can be signs of anxiety—not softness.
  • Letting your partner lead means letting go of the need to control the outcome.
  • Avoiding conflict builds resentment and disconnects you from your truth.
  • Manage your emotions first—don’t rely on your partner to hold all of them.
  • Your worth isn’t tied to how much you do or give.
  • Clear communication beats hoping someone will read your mind.
  • Presence, not effort, creates emotional safety and real connection.


💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 



Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship

Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1 month ago
32 minutes 49 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
The Hidden Truth Behind Why Love Feels Hard and Impossible at Times

In this solo episode of Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha explores why love can feel difficult, even when you're doing everything “right.” She unpacks how early beliefs—often formed in childhood—can lead to patterns like people-pleasing, shutting down, or chasing emotionally unavailable partners.

Through personal and client stories, Sasha reveals the hidden fears behind these struggles and offers insight into breaking free from painful relationship cycles.


Soulful Trio: 

  1. What is your biggest takeaway from this episode? 
  2. What belief is limiting you or which one did you resonate with the most? 
  3. Who do you think would most benefit from receiving a message from you today saying, check out this episode?


In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Limiting love beliefs form early (often before age 7) and shape your relationship patterns.
  • They stem from subconscious fears like abandonment, rejection, or not being enough.
  • Your brain reinforces them by seeking proof, keeping you stuck in familiar pain.
  • Behaviors like overgiving or pulling away often trace back to these hidden beliefs.
  • Awareness is key—you can’t shift what you don’t see.
  • Rewiring takes nervous system safety and repetition, not just positive thinking.
  • New, empowering beliefs can transform how you love and connect.


💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 



Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship

Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



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1 month ago
30 minutes 1 second

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
How We Self-Sabotage Love and Dating in 2025 – Sasha Is Interviewed by Boundless Authenticity Host

Hear Sasha be interviewed by Jehan from Boundless Authenticity as they dive deep into relationship self-sabotage, the challenges of modern dating, and how to feel truly loved and seen—starting from within.

In this enlightening episode of the Boundless Authenticity Podcast, relationship coach Sasha Quince joins Jehan to explore the powerful impact of emotional healing on relationships. Sasha shares her personal journey of healing her inner child and how it helped her break painful patterns and save her marriage.

Known for integrating deep emotional work with proven strategies, Sasha offers practical tools to help you create safer, more connected relationships. Whether you're dating, committed, or recovering from heartbreak, this conversation will empower you to build love from a place of safety—not fear.


💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 


Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Jehan Sattaur | Boundless Authenticity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boundlessauthenticity 

Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/boundless-authenticity--6200007 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/61yYcwIemMKAhQKqNdg576 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0NGT6v7ibUgsS8oys0a6Hg 


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


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2 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 13 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
What 75 Years of Research On Relationships That Last Revealed About Love

A 75-year Harvard study uncovered the true key to lasting love — and it’s not passion or compatibility. In this episode, learn why emotional safety is the real foundation of healthy, connected relationships, and how you can start building it today.


Have you ever blamed communication for the struggles in your relationship—only to realize something deeper was going on? In this honest solo episode, Sasha shares how a long-term Harvard study revealed emotional safety—not communication—as the true key to lasting love. She opens up about how learning to feel her emotions instead of avoiding them changed everything, and offers practical tools to help you do the same. If you’ve ever felt too much, held back your needs, or struggled to feel secure, this episode is for you.



Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:


  1. Whose voice taught you that certain emotions weren’t okay? Are you still carrying their voice with you today?
  2. What emotion do you find hardest to sit with? What would it feel like to offer that part of you safety instead of shame?
  3. Who will you share this episode with to help break the cycle of emotional avoidance?



In this episode, you will learn the following :


  • Emotional safety is the foundation of lasting love.
  • We’re often running from feelings, not people.
  • Your emotions are valid—and safe to feel.
  • Naming emotions helps you release them.
  • AVP (Acknowledge, Validate, Permit) supports healing.
  • Real connection starts with inner safety.




💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training 



Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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2 months ago
37 minutes 43 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
The 4 Love Blocks Keeping You Stuck In Love — and How to Heal Them

Have you ever wondered why love still feels so hard—even after all the therapy and healing work? In this honest solo episode, Sasha breaks down the four hidden fears that quietly shape your relationships: rejection, abandonment, betrayal, and not feeling enough. Through real client stories and moments from her own journey, she helps you spot where these fears might be playing out in your life and offers gentle ways to start shifting them. If you’ve been doing the work but still feel stuck, this episode will help you see what’s really going on underneath.



Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:


  1. What did you learn about you from this episode?
  2. Who will you share the learnings with today?
  3. What wound do you think out of the four that I shared you think you’re carrying? What did you learn to make the shift there?



In this episode, you will learn the following :


  • Recurring relationship struggles often come from deep, unresolved fears—not failure.
  • The four core blocks are fear of rejection, abandonment, betrayal, and unworthiness.
  • These fears form in childhood and shape how you give and receive love.
  • Emotional safety begins with self-trust, not external validation.
  • Awareness is the first step toward real change and healing.



💘 Still stuck in the same love patterns no matter how hard you try? This summer, join my $11 Mini Training to uncover the sneaky limiting beliefs hiding in your subconscious that are blocking the love you deserve. It’s fun, powerful, and just 48 hours to start transforming your love life.


Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life through teachings that has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



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2 months ago
42 minutes 19 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Reflections: The Hard Truth About Why You Suffer in Love

In this deeply reflective episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, you’ll discover the Law of Reflections—and why your love life challenges might not be about others, but about what you’re unconsciously doing to yourself. Sasha walks you through powerful real-life examples from her retreat and her own journey, helping you see how your fears, judgments, and self-rejection shape your romantic experiences. By the end, you’ll know exactly what to ask yourself when you're triggered—and how to shift your patterns for good.


Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:


  1. What is something you're currently struggling with now where someone else is involved?
  2. What are you making it mean about you?
  3. And how are you actually doing it to yourself?



In this episode, you will learn the following:


  • Understand the Law of Reflections in love and relationships
  • Why your partner’s behavior may mirror your inner wounds
  • Real client examples of love blocks caused by self-rejection
  • How unprocessed emotions can lead to repeated ghosting
  • The truth about abandonment wounds and how they show up
  • What your reactions say about your beliefs and insecurities
  • How to stop betraying or ghosting yourself
  • Sasha’s personal story of misinterpreting disappointment
  • How inner healing changes your outer relationships



💘 Still stuck in the same love patterns no matter how hard you try? This summer, join my $10 Mini Training to uncover the sneaky limiting beliefs hiding in your subconscious that are blocking the love you deserve. It’s fun, powerful, and just 48 hours to start transforming your love life.



Ready to release old patterns and renew the way you love? Join the VIP Relationship Reset Retreat—available online or in person—and start rewriting your story with conscious tools and deep healing. Save your spot here: https://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com



Heal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships


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2 months ago
31 minutes 54 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
The Self-Love Ritual We Often Skip: Celebrating You

In this heartfelt birthday episode, I invite you to rethink how you celebrate you. Birthdays aren’t just dates on a calendar — they’re powerful opportunities to honor your growth, reflect on your journey, and recommit to self-love. If you’ve ever downplayed your birthday or felt it wasn’t important, this conversation will challenge that belief and inspire you to celebrate your life, every single year. Because you are worth celebrating.


It’s Sasha’s birthday—but surprise, you’re the one getting the gift! 🎁 In this soul-nourishing episode of Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, you’ll be guided through a heartfelt birthday ritual designed to reconnect you with your growth, joy, intuition, and self-worth.


Through seven powerful reflection questions, you’ll dive into:

  1. What is one thing you are proud of this year?
  2. What surprises you about where you are in your journey—and how does that make you feel?
  3. How did you prioritize you this year, even when it would’ve been easier to put others first?
  4. Where is somewhere you traveled to that warmed your heart—or where do you dream of going next?
  5. What brought you the greatest joy and presence this year?
  6. What did you learn about yourself this year?
  7. What were you able to let go of—and finally feel peace because of it?


Whether you love birthdays or tend to shrug them off, this episode is your loving nudge to pause, reflect, and celebrate your beautiful self—because you are so worth it. ✨


Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:


  1. What did you learn about yourself and birthdays from this episode?
  2. Who will you share this episode with? 
  3. And how are you celebrating you these days?


💘 Still stuck in the same love patterns no matter how hard you try? This summer, join my $10 Mini Training to uncover the sneaky limiting beliefs hiding in your subconscious that are blocking the love you deserve. It’s fun, powerful, and just 48 hours to start transforming your love life.



Ready to release old patterns and renew the way you love? Join the VIP Relationship Reset Retreat—available online or in person—and start rewriting your story with conscious tools and deep healing. Save your spot here: https://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com



Heal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships


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2 months ago
40 minutes 5 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
How to Turn a Sexless Marriage into Passionate Love (Interviewed by Yana Fry)

How do you reignite desire and emotional intimacy in a long-term relationship after betrayal, resentment, and emotional distance? In this powerful episode, Sasha Quince joins Yana Fry to share her raw, deeply personal story of navigating a sexless marriage, recovering from infidelity, and learning how emotional connection fuels physical intimacy. Together, they break the silence around sexless relationships, explore the emotional load many women carry, and offer tools to rebuild not just passion—but mutual understanding, communication, and trust.



In this episode, you will learn the following:


  • A sexless marriage isn’t uncommon—but it doesn’t have to be the end.
  • Emotional intimacy is the foundation of physical desire.
  • Resentment often comes from unspoken needs and a lack of boundaries.
  • The Law of Mirrors: your relationship reflects your inner beliefs.
  • Healing starts within—and your growth can inspire your partner’s shift.



Ready to release old patterns and renew the way you love? Join the VIP Relationship Reset Retreat—available online or in person—and start rewriting your story with conscious tools and deep healing. Save your spot here: https://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com


Heal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



Learn more about Yana Fry:


LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram: @yanafry

TikTok: @yanafry



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3 months ago
46 minutes 54 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Guest Episode: How to Be Honest With Yourself, Heal Within & Awaken Your True Self

What does it truly mean to heal beyond just the physical symptoms? In this episode, Sasha sits down with holistic energy specialist and meditation facilitator Vandana Mendonca to explore the deep, layered journey of self-healing. From an autoimmune diagnosis in her 20s to uncovering soul-level wisdom through intuition, Vandana shares how her path led her back to her true self. Together, they unpack what it means to ground in the present, protect your energy, and find joy by listening to your intuition over ego.



Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:

  1. How do you create space to get to know yourself?
  2. Do you blame external circumstances or do you take the responsibility to heal what feels uncomfortable?
  3. Intuitively, what inspiration came through today for you during this conversation and how do you plan to honor it?


In this episode, you will learn the following :

  • Healing starts with intuition and unfolds over time.
  • Grounding means knowing you belong in the present moment.
  • Intuition is quiet but powerful—learn to trust it.
  • Protecting your energy begins with healthy boundaries.
  • True healing is layered and rooted in self-compassion.


Ready to release old patterns and renew the way you love? Join the VIP Relationship Reset Retreat—available online or in person—and start rewriting your story with conscious tools and deep healing. Save your spot here: https://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com


Heal You, Heal Your Relationship – an 11-week inner work course to transform your relationship with yourself and others. Whether you're partnered or seeking love, this step-by-step journey helps you understand yourself, overcome fears, reprogram limiting beliefs, and create lasting, healthy love. Learn the tools that helped Sasha and hundreds of her clients find peace, joy, and balance in their love lives.

Explore the course: Heal You, Heal Your Relationships


Learn more about Vandana Mendonca: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/graceful_reflections/ 


Click here to explore energy healing, reflexology, and soul guidance sessions with Vandana: gracefulreflections.biz 


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

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For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


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3 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 15 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Anxious Meets Avoidant: How We Used to Break Down in Conflict — and What It Took to Heal

Have you ever found yourself stuck in the same argument with your partner, feeling like nothing ever gets resolved? In this solo episode, Sasha shares how the anxious-avoidant dynamic showed up in her marriage and the patterns that kept conflict looping. She opens up about the turning point that helped her and her partner shift from disconnection to repair.


If conflict leaves you feeling overwhelmed, shut down, or afraid of losing love, this episode will offer real tools and relief. Sasha breaks down what’s really happening beneath the surface—and how to navigate conflict with more clarity, calm, and connection.



Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:


  1. When conflict arises, do you chase, freeze, or shut down? 
  2. What story are you attaching to conflict and where did you learn it from? 
  3. What did you most resonate with about this episode?



In this episode, you will learn the following :


  • Childhood experiences shape how we handle conflict as adults.
  • Anxious partners pursue; avoidant partners shut down during conflict.
  • Taking space is healthy—if it’s used for regulation, not rumination.
  • Conflict isn’t the problem; lack of repair is.
  • Sasha’s 5 R’s: Recognize, Regulate, Reflect, Reveal, Repair



Ready to release old patterns and renew the way you love? Join the VIP Relationship Reset Retreat—available online or in person—and start rewriting your story with conscious tools and deep healing. Save your spot here: https://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com


Heal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



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3 months ago
47 minutes 32 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
How My Fear of Betrayal Manifested the Very Thing I Was Trying to Avoid - him cheating.

 If you struggle with a deep feeling that men can't be trusted, your partner will cheat or betray you or you have a history of attracting partners who do this to you - this episode is for you or someone you love!


Have you ever been so scared of being betrayed that it starts to take over your relationship—even when there’s no real reason to feel that way? In this deeply personal solo episode, Sasha opens up about how her fear of betrayal and past abandonment wounds actually created the very heartbreak she was trying to avoid. She shares how this fear lived in her subconscious, affected her behavior, and how healing it changed everything.


If you’ve ever struggled with jealousy, trust issues, or felt like you’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop, this episode will speak to your heart. Sasha gently walks you through where this fear comes from and how to finally release it so you can feel safe, secure, and worthy of real love.



Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:


  1. Are you still bracing for betrayal even when you’re being loved?
  2. What do you need to be thinking to trust you’re safe and worthy of commitment, honesty, loyalty?
  3. What would shift in your life if you were able to trust?



Ready to release old patterns and renew the way you love? Join the VIP Relationship Reset Retreat—available online or in person—and start rewriting your story with conscious tools and deep healing. Save your spot here: https://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com


Heal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship

Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv


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3 months ago
34 minutes 31 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
If They Knew the Real Me, They’d Leave: How Fear of Rejection Sabotages Our Closest Relationships
This is one of the leading fears that sabotages both finding love and keeping it healthy. When we carry a fear of rejection we can't show up as our true self and that leads to resentment in relationships and dating. Our fears create our behaviors and pul us away from love. Learn how to identify this fear or wound and through that awareness lean intoa healing space to better your relationships and chances of finding love.

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4 months ago
38 minutes 2 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
Guest Episode: How to find peace in your life and your relationships with Neli and Sasha

This is a special episode where Sasha invites Neli Holistic Mindset and Empowerment Coach where we go unscripted and dive into how to overcome hard things in life and love, we cover mindset management, emotional regulation, healing from chronic conditions, anxiety and fears and how to find your own unique healing uncovering what works and what doesn't when it comes to self healing.


Why do we stay stuck in old patterns and how do we finally shift them? In this episode of Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha Quince sits down with holistic mindset coach Neli for an inspiring conversation on emotional healing, self-worth, and the power of choice. From reversing chronic illness to changing the way we speak to ourselves, they explore how aligned action, deep self-trust, and somatic awareness can transform your life and relationships.



Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:

  1. What is not going well in your life right now?
  2. What do you think led you to this point?
  3. What do you want and what can help you get there?



Heal You Heal Your Relationship - the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts.

http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



LINKS:

Learn more about Neli Merris: 

Website: https://nelimerris.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neli_merris_mindset_coach/ 


Click here to explore Neli’s 1:1 coaching, sound healing trainings, and transformational offerings to support your healing journey: coaching.nelimerris.com/nelimerrisinfo. 

Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

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For more insights and guidance, reach out to SashaQuincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship

  • Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv



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4 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes 39 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship
How Our Adult Relationship Struggles Mirror Our Childhood Trauma - Illumination Is Healing

Ever wonder why healthy love, rest, or joy can feel strangely uncomfortable? Sasha Quince unpacks how childhood trauma quietly influences our adult relationship dynamics. This deeply compassionate conversation offers insights, stories, and practical tools to help you reconnect with your true self and break free from patterns that no longer serve you.

Whether you're navigating dating, partnership, or self-healing, this episode helps you understand the nervous system’s role in love—and how to rewire your responses for more connection and emotional peace.


Here’s our episode Soulful Trio Reflection questions for the week:


  1. Which behavior do you most resonate with that we spoke about today?
  2. Who is one person you can share this episode with that you think really needs it?
  3. What are you choosing to become aware of as you move forward from this episode?



In this episode, you will learn the following :


  • How childhood trauma—big or small—shapes adult relationship patterns
  • Why we shut down during conflict or pull away when things feel too good
  • Self-sabotage as a result of unfamiliarity with healthy love
  • Guilt around joy and rest tied to early family beliefs
  • Overexplaining and chronic apologizing as trauma responses
  • Hyper-independence as a barrier to intimacy
  • How holding in resentment slowly erodes connection
  • Triggers: why the present often reactivates old wounds
  • How to recognize and unlearn inherited emotional patterns
  • Tools for nervous system regulation and somatic healing



Heal You Heal Your Relationship - the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts.

http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships 



LINKS:


Learn more about Sasha Quince:

Linktree

Instagram

Instagram


For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship


Ready to reconnect and reset your relationship? Join the VIP Relationship Renewal Retreat—email sashaquincementoring@gmail.com to save your spot.

  • Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now

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4 months ago
51 minutes 19 seconds

Heal You, Heal Your Relationship

"Heal You, Heal Your Relationship" is exactly what I did to save my own marriage. Overcoming anxious attachment, fear of abandonment and self sabotage have been my greatest transformation. The process of learning and unlearning is a path we walk when we are intrigued to heal and grow. This is not your average podcast of someone telling you what to do, these are the experiences, lessons of a woman who practices what she preaches and spent two decades overcoming trauma, fears and anxiety.


Tune in to break free of relationship cycles, intrusive anxious thoughts, love fears and behaviors that leave you feeling guilty, worried and ashamed. As you build your self awareness, you grow, as you grow your relationship transforms. The ripple affect is powerful and your host Sasha Quince is proof of that. Sasha, now 17 years into her own marriage after overcoming self sabotage, a mom of two boys but also a trauma survivor, love coach, and dedicated advocate of personal development. Let's do this together!




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