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Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
Bevin
196 episodes
1 day ago
Hi, I'm Bevin! There are millions of ways to be a happy, successful adult in this world! I'm blessed with wise, funny & fascinating friends who are in their unique thrive. You're invited to listen to some great conversations about how we stay resilient & fabulous! I'm passionate about self love and empowering other folks to love themselves. The kinder I am to myself the easier it is for me to learn, grow and stay looking a lot younger than I would if I was stressed about aging & the effects of gravity on my body. Welcome to the party!
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Hi, I'm Bevin! There are millions of ways to be a happy, successful adult in this world! I'm blessed with wise, funny & fascinating friends who are in their unique thrive. You're invited to listen to some great conversations about how we stay resilient & fabulous! I'm passionate about self love and empowering other folks to love themselves. The kinder I am to myself the easier it is for me to learn, grow and stay looking a lot younger than I would if I was stressed about aging & the effects of gravity on my body. Welcome to the party!
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Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
202. Dr. Melissa A Fabello: Gaylor and the Taylor Swift Engagement

Melissa is a queer femme, politicized relationship coach and Swiftie! She talks about the Gaylor theory and reflects on the engagement news, how Taylor presents her public image and emotionally based art. How, perhaps, the way Travis speaks of Taylor and supports her could help end the male loneliness epidemic.

Melissa also reflects on turning 40, navigating a life crisis by asking for help and allowing her internet fans and friends to support her to get to a place where she can heal.


Episode 147 about Taylor Swift's astrological chart: https://youtu.be/3Y8uU9xFk3w

Episode 186 my previous episode with Melissa on de-centering men: https://youtu.be/KB8Ja-ZNBIk

Melissa's website: https://www.melissafabello.com/

Melissa's IG: fyeahmfabello

Her fundraising consultant/architect Veronica: https://www.saltbreadroses.com/

Veronica's IG: salt.bread.roses

Support the Podcast! 

Patreon.com/fkdp

Bevin on IG: bevinsparty, fatkiddanceparty

Work one on one with me:  https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/

Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)

You Tube Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty

Blog: queerfatfemme.com

Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com

Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty

Facebook.com/bevinsparty

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2 months ago
1 hour 6 minutes 6 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
201. Bianca Raquel Russo: Simple Health Hacks

I'm obsessed with how to easily infuse vitality into my day to day life! Bianca, a personal trainer, athlete, expert on the GOATA method and vibrant Sagittarius is full of great tips. We visit and explore ways to add small physical movement changes to feel better from a body positive, Health at Every Size perspective! (GOATA= Greatest of all Time Athletes / Actions is a system focused on optimizing biomechanics and restoring natural movement patterns.)


Previous episodes with Bianca:

Episode 148. Bianca's tips for mental health spirals: https://youtu.be/lA3Cq7mnXUw

Episode 170: Bianca's tips for customizing your habits: https://youtu.be/SQtIjLRYhmU

Bianca's website: https://www.biancarusso.com/

Bianca on IG: https://www.instagram.com/hi.biancarusso/

Bianca on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@hi.biancarusso

Support the Podcast:

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)

Venmo: @bevinb

Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/

Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share

Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party

You Tube Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty

Blog: queerfatfemme.com

Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com

Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty

Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty

Facebook.com/bevinsparty

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2 months ago
46 minutes 13 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
200. (Solo) Dismantling Beauty Standards

Beauty is how we decorate our time and space! I've been working in the activist realm redefining beauty standards for 23 years and in two decades many things have shifted and some have alarmingly worsened.

The cosmetic, weight loss and surgery industries rely on our feeling "less than" and chasing unachievable standards to make billions annually. Reflecting on the shifts we've made, share my perspective on how to live beautifully and in alignment with our own values, and where we have to go together, culturally, with beauty.

Let's dismantle systems that profit off our self loathing!

Also check out Episode 141: Releasing Guilt and Shame from Fundamentalism, Fat Stigma, and Colonial Programming

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6JAPlvbeF65RL8vkx4vV0Q?si=DEtGKVbpSIubBp2_CkUtkA

Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)

Venmo: @bevinb

Cash App: $BevinBoss

Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share

Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty

Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/


You Tube Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty

Blog: queerfatfemme.com

Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com

Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty

Facebook.com/bevinsparty

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3 months ago
54 minutes 36 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
199. Lauren Morgan: Dreamweaver and Plant Maven

Lauren Morgan has been teaching me dreamtending for seven months and the quality of information I'm getting from and able to use from my dreams has increased a thousandfold. Beyond dream interpretation it’s learning the wisdom our dreams are teaching us. She is a font of information about the plant world around us and helps make the gifts of Mother Earth more accessible. She has an incredible book called Seasonal Herbalism, a podcast of her own and online courses. Lauren enriches our sleeping and waking lives and I'm so grateful to work with her! 


Lauren's online dreamweaving course use code BEVIN for 30% off: https://www.herbsanddreams.com/dreamweaving-course

Lauren's Podcast, Herbs and Dreams: https://www.herbsanddreams.com/podcast

Lauren's book: https://www.herbsanddreams.com/book-seasonal-herbalism

Lauren's website (free ebooks, free courses, lots of info): https://www.herbsanddreams.com/

Support the Podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)

Venmo: @bevinb

Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share

Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party

Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty

Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/

You Tube Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty

Blog: queerfatfemme.com

Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com

Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty

Facebook.com/bevinsparty

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4 months ago
56 minutes 50 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
198. (Solo) Highlights from my First Cruise

I had the opportunity to go on my first cruise and it surprised me! I had a lot of preconceived ideas about cruising. I'm grateful I was willing to be open minded and try it out! I had such a wonderful time and had a great time recounting them in this episode! Enjoy our visit in the woods and check out my you tube Cruise Vlog playlist as I roll out the content I filmed while on my adventure with Rachael!
My Cruise Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8cdaubmjKdI2fXkNoynG7H9srmkbtyiK
Support the Podcast!
Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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5 months ago
56 minutes 4 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
197. (Solo) Overcoming Defensiveness

The more years I experience, the more healing I do, the less I feel the need to be right or defend myself. I used to be SO defensive that any kind of criticism or loving concern came across as threatening and would shut me down or rile me up.
Our spirit knows mistakes are part of life & will readily say I’m sorry but the ego gets so caught up in defending mistakes it ignores the impact it has on others.
This episode I reflect on not needing to protect myself from how people perceive me. If there's nothing to defend, it feels so free and that comes from an internal sense of safety developed through healing authority trauma. And since filming this a few days ago I've had even more aha moments--more to come on this topic!


Support the podcast:

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/


You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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6 months ago
30 minutes 20 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
196. (Solo) Life Lately

What I'm learning, what I'm launching, what I'm leaving behind. Happy eclipse season beloveds, join me on the virtual porch!



Support the podcast!

⁠Patreon.com/fkdp⁠ (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)

⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin⁠ (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)


Venmo: @bevinb



Buy my aerobics video! ⁠⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠⁠


Amazon Wishlist: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share⁠


Tee shirts: ⁠https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party⁠


Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty

Work one on one with me: ⁠https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/⁠


Podcast: ⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin⁠ (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)

You Tube Channel:

⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty⁠

Blog: ⁠queerfatfemme.com⁠


Substack: ⁠bevinsparty.substack.com⁠


Email list: ⁠http://eepurl.com/dyX3db⁠


Threads, Tik Tok, ⁠bsky.app/⁠, Twitter: @bevinsparty

⁠Facebook.com/bevinsparty⁠


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7 months ago
35 minutes 18 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
195. Sarah Lyn Rogers: Writing her Cosmic Tantrum

Sarah Lyn Rogers is a writer whose recent collection of poems, Cosmic Tantrum, delves into codependent and transactional relationships. She also edits manuscripts and helps writers get their own work across the finish line. We talk MFAs as accountability tools (and releasing them when no longer needed), living in Bhutan, Gilmore Girls and Grey Gardens.


Sarah's Website: sarahlynrogers.com

Sarah on IG: https://www.instagram.com/sarahlynwrites


Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty
Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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7 months ago
50 minutes 53 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
194. Jeffrey Marsh: Embracing Selfishness for Spiritual Growth

Internet sensation, author and fellow advocate for self-kindness Jeffrey Marsh joins me to talk about making difficult choices to prioritize our peace! Sometimes the most loving thing we can do for ourselves is to choose to go no contact with family. We discuss the new frontier of social media, the distinction between being kind and being "nice" and attention as a human need. If releasing shame is on your personal growth agenda, knowing Jeffrey will multiply your efforts.


Previous episode with Jeffrey: Audio episode 77 & on you tube: https://youtu.be/TOnQl4vCRtw?si=RAi0r2qvD8aUG7is


Jeffrey's website: https://www.jeffreymarsh.com/

Jeffrey on socials: @jeffreymarsh

Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share


Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty


Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/


You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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8 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes 7 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
193. A.P. Looze: A Love Letter to A Life Lived Queerly

A.P. Looze is a human love letter to a life lived queerly. A performance artist, photographer, textile artist, vexillographer, Akashic records practitioner and so much more… A.P. contains multitudes. Their coming out story is hilarious!

We talk about what it means to embody queerness, how getting rooted in our queer lineages is so vital to the experience. How we center love in our movements. The opening about experiencing light and color as senses!!
A.P. on IG: wahoolooze

A.P. Links:
linktree.com/aplooze


Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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8 months ago
1 hour 20 minutes 30 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
192. (Solo) How to Build Community Part One

Community means you keep showing up! I am feeling very blessed and enriched by my in person and online communities right now. In these times having community is so vital to getting our needs and resources met. Belonging is an actual human need--I talk about how to bring your own safe place to community, how to develop it, the importance of vulnerability and tips for facilitating community.


I also talk about focusing on where our values intersect in community versus politics or identities. I have spoken about identifying your personal values in these episodes: 96 with Colin Bedell and episode 111 (solo) discerning your personal values.


Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)


https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share


Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty


Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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9 months ago
48 minutes 36 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
191. Koi Reid: Queer Vagabond

Unconventional life choices during a Saturn Return! Koi is a Taurus, a Burner and an explorer who has figured out life on the road as a car camper and a converted school bus. Van life is totally a learning curve and we talk about problem solving as a digital nomad. How do you care for yourself on the road? Koi is a queer friendly event producer and his (currently in New Mexico but will travel with him) event Pandemonium is linked below!


Koi's blog: https://www.queervagabond.com/

Koi's Hair website: https://www.dread-king.com/

Koi's IG: https://www.instagram.com/queervagabond

Koi's Queer Event IG: https://www.instagram.com/pandemonium_nm


I referenced another episode I released with Meredith about boondocking with a video tour of her sleep-in truck. Episode 112 audio or video here: https://youtu.be/6OlUfjC-LEo


Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share


Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin (Search "Bevin" on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)


You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty
Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
Like/subscribe/review/send a link to a friend! It all helps!



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9 months ago
51 minutes 20 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
190. (Solo) 10 Minute Path to Peace

We've talked about morning routines (ep 103) and figuring out our values (ep 111) but here I propose less than ten minutes, thrice daily for your optimal peace! I talk about my experience having an intentional routine three times a day and what you could do to brainstorm what your path to peace could be like.


Especially. helpful this time of year because in the Northern Hemisphere this is a great time to strategize and lay down frameworks that will help when we hit Spring!


Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Buy me an audio book from Libro.fm: https://libro.fm/referral?rf_code=lfm624922


Send me a gift card or just switch your listening to their audiobook platform so we can starve Bezos.
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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10 months ago
28 minutes 53 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
189. Scott K. Smith: Glamour and Bringing the Light

My annual episode with Scott on the Winter Solstice! What's a glamour? How can we dig a little deeper and shine our light in these dark times?

Please visit with us in our other episodes--I love the progression of a friendship with two growing people over time! Episodes 157, 144, 118, 60 and 14!

Scott's website: https://starandstonellc.com/

Scott on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/ScottKSmith/posts

Scott on IG: @scott_k_smith @starstoneedu


Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Buy me an audio book from Libro.fm: https://libro.fm/referral?rf_code=lfm624922
Send me a gift card or just switch your listening to their audiobook platform so we can starve Bezos.
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share


Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Substack: bevinsparty.substack.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db


Threads, Tik Tok, bsky.app/, Twitter: @bevinsparty
Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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10 months ago
1 hour 9 minutes 56 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
188. (Solo) Reviewing My Archives

Listener question! Do I ever watch old vlogs and videos? How do I feel after having left the hustle bustle of Los Angeles? Following up on Episode 2 about my Gay Divorce and the healing of that heartbreak.


Here's the performance art piece I created about Mariah Carey and Activism on the occasion of the inauguration in 2017, which feels relevant to these times: https://youtu.be/dXPZFjxGMWI



Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
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10 months ago
38 minutes 3 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
187. (Solo) Burning Man Regional my first time! Is this prepping the culture we need for the revolution?

Are the ten core principles of Burning Man an example of how we can create an interdependent society and bring out the best in one another? I immersed myself for the first time in their culture for four days at the Alchemy Burn near Atlanta, GA and I radically received! The feeling of personal freedom is contagious and I had a great time at this fire festival right below the full moon and Jupiter. Thanks to my bestie Rachael for getting me there!


Buy me a treat box from my friend Reiki Baker Manduh! https://sites.google.com/view/manduhsreikibakery


Here's all the things I do to fortify myself against C19, the virus that causes Long C19: https://queerfatfemme.com/2024/08/21/heres-what-im-doing-to-prevent-c19/


Support the Podcast!

⁠Patreon.com/fkdp⁠ (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)


⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin⁠ (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)Venmo: @bevinbCash App: $BevinBoss


Buy my aerobics video! ⁠⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠⁠

Buy me an audio book from Libro.fm: https://libro.fm/referral?rf_code=lfm624922

Send me a gift card or just switch your listening to their audiobook platform so we can starve Bezos.

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Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty

Work one on one with me: ⁠https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/⁠

You Tube Channel:⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty⁠

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11 months ago
59 minutes 23 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
186. Melissa Fabello, PhD: Bisexuality, De-Centering Men, Should you get a PhD?

Melissa is bisexual, sapphic and polyamorous. She is a coach who helps folks align their values and their lives, navigate heartbreak and build relationship skills. We talk about her coming out story. De-centering men. The academic industrial complex and, with her PhD and my JD, whether and how to pursue higher education. Freelance work and whether to take the plunge. Melissa was raised Catholic and has developed a spiritual practice after leaving The Church (TM). Join us!


Melissa's website: https://www.melissafabello.com/

Melissa's IG: fyeahmfabello


⁠Patreon.com/fkdp⁠ (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)⁠

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin⁠ (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)

Venmo: @bevinb

Cash App: $BevinBoss

Buy my aerobics video! ⁠⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠⁠

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Tee shirts: ⁠https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party

⁠Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty

Work one on one with me: ⁠https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/⁠

You Tube Channel: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty⁠


Blog: ⁠queerfatfemme.com⁠


Email list: ⁠http://eepurl.com/dyX3db⁠

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12 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes 48 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
185. Colin Bedell: Healing the World, Having a Good Time

Colin of Queer Cosmos is a Gemini who teaches me how to change the world without taking it too seriously. This is a fun conversation going deep on astrology themes, relational understanding and making jokes and teasing all the Zodiac signs. A Course in Miracles, autonomy, community and my hyper focus on the 1989-1991 birth year microgeneration.


This is a FUN episode! Join us for this long form conversation! (When we finished I couldn't believe we clocked in at 1:44:44! An angel number!)


Previous episodes with Colin: Episode 142 about partner pre-selection https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/142--Colin-Bedell-of-Queer-Cosmos-Healing-Wounds-and-Partner-Pre-Selection-e1r4f9f

Episode

Previous episode 96 with Colin about values: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/96--Colin-Bedell-of-Queer-Cosmos-Discerning-Values-to-Create-a-Life-Worth-Living-e145hdt/a-a63f69k

Previous episode 68 with Colin about his back story! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/68--Colin-Bedell--Queer-Cosmos-eo7bfk/a-a475usk


Colin's website! https://www.colinbedell.com/

Join Colin's Daily Subscription (I value his voice notes so much): https://www.colinbedell.com/subscriptions

Colin on IG: @queercosmos


Support the Podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share


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Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
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1 year ago
1 hour 44 minutes 43 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
184. Dylan Hill: "We are all transforming"

"Living authentically is the key that unlocks the door to life!" Dylan returns to the podcast and we talk all things transition, transformation and self trust. Releasing fundamentalism and the wedge to trusting self and your connection to God. Living in integrity through listening to that still, small voice and following our purpose.


Previous episode with Dylan: Episode 51 https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/1s4Q9T4FOMb


Dylan Hill on IG (DM to set up a reading!): https://www.instagram.com/the_dylanhill/

Dylan's Links: https://linktr.ee/the_dylanhill

Dylan's Podcast: The Dylan Hill Show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts


Support the podcast!

Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share


Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty


Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/


You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty


Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
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Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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1 year ago
1 hour 14 minutes 27 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
183. (Solo) Is Being Gay a Choice? Why are there so many queer people all of a sudden?

I'm hearing propaganda that being queer or trans is being "pushed" onto kids. There's an important distinction between having information about actual human diversity available to people and pushing people into making decisions about a very fluid experience.


Queer and trans people have existed since people have existed, natural human diversity is more fluid and spectrum than white supremacy culture's binary thinking deluded people into believing.
My entire podcast exists to help show lots of different ways to be a happy successful adult!


I invite you to explore the archives and meet people of so many genders and sexualities!


Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Buy my aerobics video! ⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share


Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty


Work one on one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
You Tube Channel:
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Blog: queerfatfemme.com
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
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1 year ago
15 minutes 25 seconds

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
Hi, I'm Bevin! There are millions of ways to be a happy, successful adult in this world! I'm blessed with wise, funny & fascinating friends who are in their unique thrive. You're invited to listen to some great conversations about how we stay resilient & fabulous! I'm passionate about self love and empowering other folks to love themselves. The kinder I am to myself the easier it is for me to learn, grow and stay looking a lot younger than I would if I was stressed about aging & the effects of gravity on my body. Welcome to the party!