The discussion on CUNY with Dr. J focused on addressing institutional racism in America. Dr. J emphasized the need to understand and address the root causes of racism, particularly the belief in color hierarchy. She highlighted the systemic nature of racism in education, policing, economics, and housing, advocating for equal opportunities and inclusive practices. Dr. J stressed the importance of recognizing our common humanity and the need for media representation to reflect this. She called for collective action to dismantle institutional racism and create a more equitable society, emphasizing unity and respect for all.
Dr. J addresses questions about communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of adapting communication styles to avoid threatening reserved partners. For outgoing individuals, she suggests using non-threatening language and framing conversations as a mutual effort for intimacy. She also discusses how to tactfully address issues like poor kissing techniques, suggesting learning together through books and videos. Lastly, she advises on discussing a partner's weight sensitively, focusing on health and well-being rather than appearance, and involving them in a joint effort for better health.
Dr. Lorraine Johnson's life coaching session continues with part two of "How to Survive a Breakup," focusing on days eight through fourteen. She emphasizes self-care, meditation, and journaling as key activities. On day eight, she advises treating oneself to a nice dinner and creating personal "background music." Day nine involves physical exercise and writing letters to oneself and the ex. Day ten encourages random acts of kindness. By day fourteen, she suggests buying something special and writing a letter affirming survival and self-worth. The program aims to help individuals heal emotionally and maintain self-care practices.
Dr. J provides a detailed guide for coping with a breakup, emphasizing self-care and positive reinforcement. The advice includes meditating, visualizing oneself whole, and engaging in activities that bring joy, such as reading, journaling, and spending time with friends. Dr. J suggests avoiding rebound relationships and instead focusing on personal healing, which can take six months to a year. Practical tips include treating oneself to dark chocolate, taking hot showers, and using positive self-talk. The goal is to reclaim one's sense of self and prepare for future relationships.
Dr. J addresses a listener's concern about her boyfriend potentially cheating after six months of dating. Dr. J advises the listener to trust her intuition, communicate her feelings, and assess if her partner's behavior has changed significantly. For a married couple experiencing a decline in intimacy after seven years, Dr. J suggests planning staycations, writing love letters, using angel cards, having weekly family meetings, and going on play dates to reignite their relationship. Dr. J emphasizes the importance of communication, honesty, and breaking routine to maintain a healthy and exciting relationship.
Dr. J addresses a listener's question about transitioning from casual dating to a committed relationship. She emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding both partners' expectations. If the partner is not ready for commitment, Dr. J suggests either giving the relationship more time or moving on. She also responds to a listener feeling left out because friends are dating. Dr. J advises embracing singlehood, attending social events, and not comparing oneself to others. She highlights the benefits of being single, such as personal growth and the freedom to meet new people. Dr. J encourages listeners to be honest with themselves and to seek genuine connections.
Dr. J discusses strategies for coping with social distancing during the COVID-19 pandemic. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining a routine, including setting work and leisure times, and engaging in activities like reading, journaling, and virtual interactions using tools like Zoom. She advises limiting news consumption to avoid anxiety and suggests creative activities, such as painting or sewing, to stay connected with family and friends. Dr. J also recommends meditation, exercise, and music to boost mental health. She encourages reaching out for help if needed and maintaining a positive outlook, urging listeners to stay connected and supportive.
