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How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Anna Holtzman
94 episodes
5 days ago
Are you a sensitive creative, coach, or entrepreneur who wants to share your work—but feels held back by imposter syndrome, self-doubt, or fear of being seen? How to Trust Yourself helps you build confidence, overcome creative resistance, and show up without burning out. I'm Anna Holtzman, a therapist turned coach who spent years as a creative-for-hire in publishing and TV before launching my own business. Now I help others use nervous system tools to move past fear, own their voice, and step into lasting visibility. 🌎 Work with me → www.annaholtzman.com
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Are you a sensitive creative, coach, or entrepreneur who wants to share your work—but feels held back by imposter syndrome, self-doubt, or fear of being seen? How to Trust Yourself helps you build confidence, overcome creative resistance, and show up without burning out. I'm Anna Holtzman, a therapist turned coach who spent years as a creative-for-hire in publishing and TV before launching my own business. Now I help others use nervous system tools to move past fear, own their voice, and step into lasting visibility. 🌎 Work with me → www.annaholtzman.com
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How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 94: Visibility, Vulnerability & Community-Centered Marketing with Lindsay Pinchuk

In this powerful episode, Anna sits down with Lindsay Pinchuk—award-winning entrepreneur, marketing consultant, and host of the top 2% podcast Dear FoundHer…—for a conversation about growing your business without compromising your values, your nervous system, or your story.

Lindsay built a seven-figure business from a $500 investment, grew a thriving community that reached millions monthly, and led her company through a successful acquisition—all while showing up as herself. Today, she helps women founders cut through the noise and grow with intention, authenticity, and community.

Whether you're building a business or simply learning to show up more fully in your life, this conversation will help you rethink visibility as a form of connection, not performance—and remind you that vulnerability, when grounded, can be your greatest marketing tool.

✨ In this episode, we explore:

  • How to share your story in ways that feel empowering, not exposing
  • Why your community is your biggest marketing asset (and how to start building one)
  • What to do when visibility brings up fear, shame, or self-doubt
  • How storytelling builds trust—and how to tell yours with boundaries
  • The difference between hustle-driven growth and connection-led expansion

If you're a sensitive entrepreneur, coach, or creative who wants to grow without burning out, this one’s for you.

 

🔗 Connect with Lindsay:

  • Website: lindsaypinchuk.com
  • Instagram: @dearfoundher
  • Podcast: Dear FoundHer… (available wherever you listen)

 

💌 Want support growing your heart-led business with more ease and alignment?
Work with Anna: annaholtzman.comFollow on IG: @anna_holtzmanEmail: anna@annaholtzman.com

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5 days ago
52 minutes 21 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 93: My 10-Month Unraveling into Visibility—How Clarity Emerges Through Action

This week marks ten months since I pivoted How to Trust Yourself from its original focus on chronic pain to the deeper work that had been calling me all along: nervous-system-safe visibility.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what that transition has really been like—the messy, nonlinear, beautifully human process of finding clarity through action.

I share how I started speaking my new direction into being before I felt “ready,” what it’s taught me about fear as a heat map to intuition, and why visibility isn’t something you master once—it’s something you practice, gently and consistently, as you grow.

You’ll hear:

  • How intuition leads the way before the mind understands it
  • Why clarity lives inside fear, not beyond it
  • My 2021 story of hitting record for the first time (and shaking through it)
  • How dialoguing with fear through journaling became the core of my method
  • The breadcrumb trail that led me to realize this podcast has always been about visibility

And finally, I share the offer that grew directly from this season of unraveling: Your Story, Out Loud — a two-session coaching intensive for sensitive creatives, coaches, and entrepreneurs who are ready to find their voice and share it safely, gently, and powerfully.

✨ Learn more at www.annaholtzman.com/yourstory

Thank you for walking this path with me—through the pivots, the fear, and the evolution.
This next chapter of How to Trust Yourself is about what happens when we trust ourselves enough to be seen.

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1 week ago
17 minutes 16 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 92 Body-First Healing with Brittany Piper: Rebuilding Self-Trust Through Somatic Practices

Episode Summary:
In this powerful conversation, Anna sits down with internationally renowned speaker, Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner, and author Brittany Piper to explore how we begin to rebuild self-trust after trauma—not just cognitively, but somatically. Brittany shares insights from her own healing journey as a rape survivor and from over a decade of work in trauma-informed care, including her transformative Body-First Healing framework.

They talk about the science and soul of nervous system recovery, the fear of being seen, and the courage it takes to step into your voice and visibility after trauma. Brittany also offers a behind-the-scenes look at her new book, Body-First Healing: A Revolutionary Guide to Nervous System Recovery—a practical and compassionate guide to reclaiming safety, regulation, and vitality in your body and life.

Whether you're in the early stages of your healing or years into the process, this episode offers deeply validating, body-centered wisdom to support you on the path of self-trust and recovery.

In this episode, Brittany and Anna discuss:

  • The origin of Body-First Healing and how it revolutionizes trauma recovery
  • How Brittany rebuilt self-trust in her work, motherhood, and healing
  • The tools that helped her regulate her nervous system and reconnect to her voice
  • Moving through fear of visibility in writing, publishing, and public speaking
  • How to write and share your story from a trauma-informed lens
  • Words of encouragement for those beginning the journey of healing and self-trust

Connect with Brittany Piper:
🌿 Instagram: @healwithbritt
🌿 Website & Programs: www.bodyfirsthealing.com
📘 Book: Body-First Healing: A Revolutionary Guide to Nervous System Recovery (available now!)

Connect with Anna:
🌿 Website: www.annaholtzman.com
🌿 Instagram: @anna_holtzman
📧 Email: anna@annaholtzman.com

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2 weeks ago
54 minutes 43 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 91 Coaching vs Therapy: How Taking Action Transforms Visibility and Growth

Episode Description / Show Notes:
I’ve been getting this question a lot lately: what’s the difference between coaching and traditional talk therapy? In this episode, I break it down using a client story (pseudonym: “Kathy”) that illustrates common patterns of hesitation, fear, and overthinking.

You’ll hear how coaching is different: we don’t just talk—we take action. I share how taking the first step, even when you don’t feel ready, opens the door to real progress, how processing fear in real time supports sustainable growth, and why nervous-system-informed guidance is essential for stepping into visibility without burning out.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The key difference between coaching and traditional therapy
  • Why taking action—even small steps—is central to transformation
  • How fear and resistance show up and why that’s a feature, not a bug
  • The importance of nervous-system support, co-regulation, and reflection
  • How to sustain progress while showing up authentically for your work

Who This Episode is For:
Sensitive creatives, healers, entrepreneurs, and coaches who want to take aligned action, show up authentically, and move past patterns of freeze or hesitation.

Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Learn more about working with me: www.annaholtzman.com
  • Apply for private coaching if this episode resonates

Follow & Connect:

  • Instagram: @anna_holtzman
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3 weeks ago
32 minutes 22 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 90: From Golden Child to Self-Led Healer with Lauren Smallcomb

In this powerful and heartfelt episode, Anna talks with Lauren Smallcomb—a certified mind-body practitioner, trauma-informed healer, and author of the forthcoming memoir Golden Child: My Descent to Scapegoat and Rise to Freedom (coming September 2025).

Lauren shares her story of growing up as the golden child in a conservative Christian family system—and the painful unraveling that led her to reclaim her autonomy, identity, and voice. We talk about the hidden cost of perfectionism, the complexities of family estrangement, and the grief and liberation that come with choosing your own wholeness over external approval.

If you’ve ever wrestled with the question, “How much of my story should I share?” or struggled to reconcile your need for connection with your need for authenticity—this episode will speak to your soul.

We explore:

  • ​What it means to be cast as the golden child (and how that role can harm)
  • ​The double bind of family estrangement: “Do I stay and erase myself, or leave and be erased?”
  • ​Rebuilding self-trust after leaving a family system or belief structure
  • ​How to share personal stories without retraumatizing yourself
  • ​The healing power of grief, creativity, and telling the truth

✨ Connect with Lauren:

  • ​Website: flourishtherapy.kartra.com/page/goldenchild
  • ​Instagram: @flourish_therapy
  • ​Substack: @laurensmallcomb
  • ​Book 📖 available now on Amazon: Golden Child: My Descent to Scapegoat and Rise to Freedom
  • ​Email: lauren@flourishtherapy.co
  • ​YouTube: @flourishtherapy

🌀 Want support building self-trust in your own creative or entrepreneurial journey?Work with Anna 1:1, join a live workshop, or explore resources at annaholtzman.comFollow Anna on Instagram: @anna_holtzmanEmail: anna@annaholtzman.com

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1 month ago
1 hour 2 minutes 22 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 89 Visibility Wounds: What They Are and How to Heal

Have you ever had a moment where being visible suddenly felt… dangerous?

In this episode, I share a story I’ve never forgotten—from second grade, when I was the eager kid raising her hand… until my teacher said something that made me shrink. It was one sentence that planted a seed of shame and taught me that being seen might not be safe.

That moment became what I now call a visibility wound—an early experience where being visible led to shame, rejection, or punishment. And the thing is: those wounds don’t stay in childhood. They resurface every time we go to share something that feels vulnerable and meaningful.

Whether it’s launching an offer, posting on Instagram, speaking up in a meeting, or just sharing your voice in a group—you might notice fear, procrastination, or even total shutdown. That doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It means your nervous system is doing its job to protect you.

But the good news is: visibility wounds can be healed. Not through pushing harder—but through compassion, safety, and gentle, consistent practice.

In this episode, I talk about:

  • What a visibility wound actually is (and how to spot yours)
  • How it shows up in creative and professional life
  • Why these moments hit so hard—and how to work with them
  • The 4 tools I use with myself and my clients to move through fear
  • How visibility becomes easier when we stop going it alone

If you've ever frozen at the first step, ghosted your own goals, or judged yourself for not being more confident—this episode is for you.

 

🌱 Want Support Healing Your Visibility Wounds?

💻 Watch the free workshop:
Let Yourself Be Seen — a nervous-system-safe approach to being visible without burning out or abandoning yourself. www.annaholtzman.com/beseen

👥 Join the membership:
Seen & Safe — our cozy group coaching circle where you’ll get biweekly support, practical tools, and a safe place to melt fear and take meaningful steps toward your next creative or business leap. www.annaholtzman.com/seenandsafe

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1 month ago
31 minutes 40 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 88 Trusting Your Voice & Healing Chronic Pain with Sean Hershey

In this heartfelt and revealing episode, Anna sits down with New York City-based psychotherapist Sean Hershey, LCSW, to explore what it really means to heal—from chronic pain, from emotional repression, and from the lifelong habit of hiding parts of yourself to survive.

Sean is the host of the podcast Mind-Body Medicine for Chronic Pain, where he brings raw honesty, depth, and humor to the complex world of chronic symptom recovery. In today’s conversation, he shares what led him to this work, how his own experiences with pain and identity shape his approach as a therapist, and why expressing your truth—even when it’s scary—is a crucial part of healing.

We talk about:

  • What it means to be “a highly functioning zombie”
  • The emotional root causes of chronic pain
  • Why Sean launched his podcast (and what it brought up for him emotionally)
  • How telling your story can be a healing act
  • The role of community and mentorship in building self-trust

If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide parts of yourself to get through life, or if you’re on your own healing path and looking for inspiration to keep going, this episode will speak directly to you.

Learn more about Sean and his work:

  • 🌐 mindbodymedicineforchronicpain.com
  • 📸 Instagram: @my_gay_therapist
  • 🎧 Podcast: Mind-Body Medicine for Chronic Pain (available wherever you listen)

 

Work with Anna

If you’re a sensitive, purpose-driven human—like a coach, creative, or entrepreneur—who wants to build a life and business that feels deeply aligned (without overriding your nervous system), I’d love to support you.

✨ Learn more and apply to work with me, visit annaholtzman.com or find me on Instagram @anna_holtzman

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1 month ago
1 hour 1 minute 16 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 87 Soft Scripting Your Life: How Reality TV Taught Me to Find My Voice and Purpose

Episode Description / Show Notes:
Ever feel like your story is messy, scattered, or unclear—and that’s holding you back from stepping fully into your purpose? In this episode, I share a metaphor from my 10 years working in reality TV—soft scripting—and how it taught me to find the through threads in the chaos.

I’ll break down how this concept applies to your life and work:

  • How to sift through the raw material of your experiences to discover your unique voice.
  • Why trying to force your story or follow someone else’s blueprint backfires.
  • How to nurture your emerging story so it grows naturally into its fullest expression.

Whether you’re navigating a career pivot, stepping into visibility as a sensitive creative, or exploring a new identity, soft scripting is a practical, nervous-system-friendly approach to clarifying your purpose and showing up authentically.

I also share a new opportunity to practice this in community: my Seen & Safe group membership, a supportive space for sensitive creatives, coaches, and entrepreneurs to grow in visibility without burning out.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The reality TV concept of soft scripting and why it’s a powerful metaphor for life and work.
  • How to find the through threads in your experiences and start shaping your story.
  • A gentle, collaborative approach to visibility that respects your nervous system.

Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Join Seen & Safe: AnnaHoltzman.com/seenandsafe
  • Email me with your thoughts or reflections: anna@annaholtzman.com

Who This Episode is For:
Sensitive creatives, coaches, healers, and entrepreneurs who want to show up authentically, discover their voice, and step into purpose without burning out.

Follow & Connect:

  • Instagram: @annaholtzman
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1 month ago
25 minutes 1 second

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 86 Brave the Page: Healing Through Trauma-Informed Writing with Megan Febuary

In this episode, I’m joined by Megan Febuary—trauma-informed writing coach, embodiment teacher, founder of For Women Who Roar, and author of Brave the Page: How Writing Our Hard Stories Brings Healing and Wholeness. Megan shares her journey into storytelling as a healing practice and how writing from a trauma-informed lens can transform not only the stories we tell but who we become in the process.

We dive into concepts like “creative consensuality,” how to approach writing with compassion and care, and why it’s not about the end product but the healing that happens along the way. If you’ve been curious about using writing to process trauma, find your voice, or build creative community, this conversation offers gentle guidance and inspiration.

Connect with Megan Febuary:

  • Website: meganafebuary.com
  • For Women Who Roar: forwomenwhoroar.com
  • Instagram: @meganfebuary
  • Instagram: @forwomenwhoroar
  • Book: Brave the Page: How Writing Our Hard Stories Brings Healing and Wholeness

Connect with Anna Holtzman:

  • Website: annaholtzman.com
  • Instagram: @anna_holtzman
  • Email: anna@annaholtzman.com
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2 months ago
56 minutes 31 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 85 How Sensitivity Can Fuel Your Creativity (Even When It Feels Like a Distraction)

In this episode, I get real about what it’s like to have a sensitive nervous system—and how that sensitivity, while it can sometimes derail your day, is actually a source of creativity, intuition, and connection. I share a recent experience with our cat, Billie, whose vet visit turned into a spiral of worry about her dental health. Through journaling, self-compassion, and nervous system regulation, I navigated the overwhelm and found my way back into flow—and discovered how even the most challenging moments can inform and inspire our work.

If you often feel sensitive, overstimulated, or “derailed” by small daily stressors, this episode is for you. I’ll show you why taking care of your nervous system isn’t wasted time—it’s a key part of doing meaningful work, showing up authentically, and fueling your creativity.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How to reframe sensitivity as a superpower instead of a barrier
  • Practical ways to tend to your nervous system when small stressors feel big
  • How to move through fear, overwhelm, or self-criticism without getting stuck
  • Why the way we handle everyday disruptions is actually connected to our creativity and purpose

Join Me Live for My Workshop:
I also invite you to join my free live workshop, Let Yourself Be Seen, on Tuesday, September 9, 2025 at 1pm ET. This is for sensitive creatives and entrepreneurs who want to share their work without losing themselves. We’ll explore how to:

  • Use fear as a gateway into authentic self-expression
  • Share your work without burning out or abandoning yourself
  • Make visibility feel energizing, not performative or draining

Sign up here: www.annaholtzman.com/beseen

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2 months ago
27 minutes 54 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 84 How to Stop Sleepwalking Through Your Life with Jodi Wellman

If you've ever looked around at your life and thought, "Is this it?"—this episode is your wake-up call. Speaker, author, and "aliveness evangelist" Jodi Wellman joins me for a bold, funny, and deeply honest conversation about what it means to really live before we die.

We talk about what snapped her out of autopilot, how grief cracked her open to a more vibrant life, and why facing our mortality can actually be the most life-affirming move we can make. Jodi shares stories and strategies from her new book, You Only Die Once, and we explore how trusting yourself and embracing your aliveness are deeply intertwined.

Whether you're feeling stuck in a life that looks great on paper but feels flat, or you're just craving more zing in your everyday, this conversation is packed with perspective, humor, and permission to want more out of your time above ground.

We talk about:

  • What it means to be a “highly functioning zombie”
  • How grief (and the death of her mom) woke Jodi up
  • Why death is actually one of the most motivating forces for joy and change
  • How to stop squandering your precious time
  • Practical tools for snapping out of autopilot
  • The difference between productivity and aliveness
  • Why it’s okay (and necessary!) to want more from your one life

More from Jodi Wellman:

  • Website: https://fourthousandmondays.com
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fourthousandmondays/
  • Book: You Only Die Once (Available wherever books are sold)


Work with me:
If this episode stirred something in you—if you're craving more boldness, more clarity, more you in your life and work—I’d love to support you. I help sensitive, ambitious humans like you overcome fear and visibility blocks so you can share your voice and build a business that feels aligned and alive. Learn more and book a free call here: https://www.annaholtzman.com/breakthrough


Subscribe + Share:
If you loved this episode, subscribe to How to Trust Yourself on your favorite podcast app and share it with a friend who’s ready to stop sleepwalking and start really living.

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2 months ago
58 minutes 14 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 83 When Fear Feels Like Fire: How to Stay With Yourself Instead of Burning It All Down

Ever had a moment where everything felt fine… until it wasn’t?

In this episode, I share a deeply personal story about an emotional blow-up with my husband—how it unfolded, what it triggered, and what it taught me about fear, shame, and self-protection.

This isn't just a story about relationships. It’s a mirror for what so many of us experience in business, creativity, and visibility:
That moment when a hidden landmine gets tripped, and before we even know we’re in a fear response, we’ve shut down, disappeared, or lit a match to something we care about.

I talk about:

  • The shame spiral that follows emotional triggers
  • The old pattern of blowing up and walking away
  • How these same dynamics show up in creative and professional life
  • The mind-body tools that help me stay with myself and rebuild connection
  • Why this is the exact work I do with my 1:1 coaching clients


If you’ve ever ghosted your own dreams after a hit of self-doubt, or found yourself in a freeze state without knowing why—this episode will speak to you.


And if you’re ready to move through fear without burning out or abandoning yourself…

→ Download the free workshop Let Yourself Be Seen: www.annaholtzman.com/beseen

→  Join the waitlist for 1:1 coaching here: www.annaholtzman.com

Spots open this September and waitlisters get first dibs.

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2 months ago
23 minutes 9 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 82 Creating Space for Your Creative Voice with Liz Kimball

Welcome back, dear listener. I am so thrilled to share today’s episode with someone who has had a really meaningful presence in my own journey—Liz Kimball.

Liz and I met about ten years ago in a coaching certification program, and I really looked up to her. She had already been coaching for years and brought this grounded, wise, creative energy to everything she did. After the course ended, I got to work with her as a client, and it was a pretty magical experience for me. So, reconnecting with her for this conversation felt like a full-circle moment.

Liz is a creativity catalyst and transformational coach for visionary creators. She’s the founder of The Creative15 and The Expansion Project Creative Development Lab, and her work is all about helping women and girls free their voices and bring their brave creative work into the world—without burning themselves out in the process. Her work has been featured on TEDx, Oprah.com, The Guggenheim, and at universities and institutions throughout the country. She’s also a mother and, as she says, a nonlinear duck—more on that in the episode.

In our conversation, we talked about the importance of having a safe, de-pressurized space for the creative process to unfold—something Liz creates so beautifully for her clients. As she put it, she needed “a de-pressurized environment to hear the sound of me,” and I think so many of us can relate to that.

We also talked about her nonlinear path to coaching—how she started long before coaching was a buzzword—and how she’s followed the quiet tugs of her inner voice, often before she could see the full picture.

This one’s for anyone who’s feeling the call to create something, even if it doesn’t all make sense yet. I hope you love it as much as I did.


You can find Liz at:
lizkimball.com
https://www.instagram.com/lizkimball/


And you can find me at:
Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@anna_holtzman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Email: anna@annaholtzman.com
Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.annaholtzman.com⁠

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2 months ago
1 hour 6 minutes 47 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 81 Embracing the Slow... Can Be Hard: Navigating Transitions and Self-Acceptance

In today’s episode, I’m getting personal and sharing a story that I honestly find a little embarrassing. I’m not always graceful with transitions—especially when it comes to slowing down. Summer is usually a time when my energy and my business naturally slow down, but even though I know it’s good for me, I can resist it pretty intensely.

I know this isn’t just me. I see it in my clients and in myself: there’s this tension between wanting to slow down and the nervous system’s resistance to it. We often push ourselves through that resistance and feel frustrated when we can’t just “switch off” or enjoy the downtime we think we should be having.

I’m sharing my experience with you because I want to remind you that you're not alone in this struggle. Slowing down can feel awkward, frustrating, and even a little depressing. But it doesn’t have to be perfect to be valuable. I’ve been learning that, and I want to offer you some tools that are helping me navigate this transition, like my mantra Slow Summer and some simple self-regulation practices.

In this episode, I dive into:

  • Why transitions can be awkward and difficult (even when we know they’re needed)
  • How to embrace slow without judgment or self-criticism
  • The power of giving yourself grace through the discomfort of shifting gears
  • A self-reflection practice to help you release pressure and soften into your natural rhythm

If you’re feeling stuck in a similar transition or struggling with the pressure to “do more,” I invite you to consider how embracing slow can actually help you feel more aligned. And if you need support along the way, I’d love to help.

Ready to slow down but need support?
I’m opening up my one-on-one coaching for the fall. If you’re tired of pushing through and want to create more space for what feels good, I’d love to help you do that. You can learn more and join the waitlist at www.annaholtzman.com. Feel free to email me directly at anna@annaholtzman.com or connect with me on Instagram at @anna_holtzman.

Thank you for listening! If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend or leave a review. Your support means the world to me and helps me keep showing up in this space.

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3 months ago
32 minutes 56 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 80 Trusting Your Creative Path: Building a Soulful Business with Angela Monaco

Welcome back, dear listener. Today’s guest is someone whose work radiates beauty, intention, and a deep reverence for the natural world—and whose journey as a creative and entrepreneur is a powerful testament to the role self-trust plays in bringing a vision to life.

Angela Monaco is a Philadelphia-based jewelry designer and the founder of Angela Monaco Jewelry, a fine jewelry brand and storefront that centers intuition, spirituality, creativity, and connection. Through handcrafted talismans made of gold, silver, and earth-toned gems, Angela’s pieces tell stories—both ancient and personal. They’re more than jewelry; they’re invitations to connect more deeply with yourself and the world around you.

In this conversation, Angela shares how she built her business from the ground up, how she continues to navigate the unknown with courage and creativity, and how she’s learned to trust her own instincts along the way—even when she didn’t have all the answers. We talk about the illusion that anyone “has it all figured out,” the creative power of curiosity, and what it really means to follow your own path.

If you're someone who struggles with perfectionism, comparison, or feeling like you’re not ready yet—this episode will remind you that no one starts out knowing what they’re doing… and that’s exactly where the magic begins. Let’s get into it.

You can find Angela at:
https://www.instagram.com/angelamonacojewelry/

https://angelamonacojewelry.com/


And you can find me at:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@anna_holtzman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: anna@annaholtzman.comWebsite: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.annaholtzman.com⁠

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3 months ago
56 minutes

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 79 How to Show Up When the World Feels Like It’s Falling Apart (Solo Episode)

In this solo episode, Anna reflects on what it means to stay visible and grounded in your work—especially when the world feels chaotic, polarized, and uncertain.

If you’ve been wondering, “Who am I to say anything right now?” or feeling tempted to freeze, shrink, or disappear… this episode is a loving call back into your voice, your visibility, and your creative leadership.

Anna explores:

  • Why visibility matters more than ever in times of collective fear and division
  • The nervous system's freeze response—and how it feeds silence, shouting, and polarization
  • What it means to become a holding environment for yourself and others
  • How art, coaching, and business can be quiet, powerful forms of leadership
  • Why your perspective is irreplaceable and needed in this moment
  • How coaching can hold space for the fear and help you show up with clarity and courage

Whether you're a creative, coach, healer, or heart-centered entrepreneur, this episode will help you reconnect to your purpose and show up—not in spite of the chaos, but because of it.

 

✨ Connect with Anna:
🌐 www.annaholtzman.com
📸 Instagram: @anna_holtzman
📬 Email: anna@annaholtzman.com

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3 months ago
30 minutes 24 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 78: Getting Paid to Be Yourself—with Laura Belgray

Today’s conversation is funny, real, and unapologetically human—with someone I’ve admired for a long time.

My guest is Laura Belgray: award-winning copywriter, founder of Talking Shrimp, co-creator of The Copy Cure with Marie Forleo, and author of the hilariously honest and wildly relatable memoir, Tough Titties: On Living Your Best Life When You're the F-ing Worst.

In this episode, we talk about:

✨ How Laura went from “professional avoider of ambition” to creative business owner and bestselling author
✨ Why she proudly claims the title of “lazy” — and how that’s been one of her greatest strengths
✨ What it really means to “get paid to be yourself” (and how to start)
✨ How to balance wanting to be liked with not giving a f*ck
✨ Why perfectionism is overrated, overworking is unnecessary, and being fully yourself is your best asset

If you’ve ever felt like you’re too messy, too late, or too lazy to succeed, Laura’s story is here to remind you: you’re not too anything. In fact, the very things you think disqualify you might just be your magic.

Whether you're a creative entrepreneur, writer, late bloomer, or simply someone who’s tired of trying to do it all right, this episode is a permission slip to be more you.

🎧 Listen in and learn how to:

  • Embrace your quirks
  • Tell the truth in your writing
  • Build a business around your personality
  • Let go of trying so damn hard

 

📚 Learn more about Laura:

  • Website: talkingshrimp.com
  • Instagram: @laurabelgray
  • Book: Tough Titties: On Living Your Best Life When You're the F-ing Worst – Available wherever books are sold!

 

💌 Want to work with me or stay connected?

  • Website: annaholtzman.com
  • Instagram: @anna_holtzman
  • Email: anna@annaholtzman.com

If you loved this episode, please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing it with a friend who needs to hear that it’s okay to be delightfully, messily human.

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3 months ago
49 minutes 59 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 77 Healing Together: Chronic Pain Recovery & Nervous System Safety with The Mind-Body Couple

In this heartful and informative episode, I’m joined by Tanner Murtagh and Anne Hampson—therapists, educators, partners in both life and business, and the voices behind The Mind-Body Couple Podcast.

Together, they run Pain Psychotherapy Canada, a clinic dedicated to helping clients reduce or eliminate chronic pain through mind-body approaches, and MBody Community, an online space for chronic pain recovery education and support.

We explore:

  • Tanner’s personal journey from chronic pain and fibromyalgia to full recovery
  • How Anne supported his healing and how it shaped her own work with trauma and mind-body symptoms
  • Why social safety is a missing link in so many healing journeys
  • The challenges and rewards of being romantic and professional partners
  • The importance of self-trust in the early stages of chronic pain recovery
  • Their shared “soap box” message and the one thing they want everyone to know about healing

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, alone, or stuck in your symptoms—or if you’re curious about how nervous system work can support deeper healing—this episode is a must-listen.


✨ Connect with Tanner & Anne:
Website: mbodycommunity.com
Therapy Clinic: painpsychotherapy.ca
Instagram: @painpsychotherapy
YouTube: Pain Psychotherapy
Podcast: The Mind-Body Couple


🌿 Want support on your own healing or visibility journey?
If you're a sensitive, purpose-driven human who’s ready to show up more boldly and trust yourself more deeply—whether in your business or your body—I’d love to work with you.
Learn more and apply to coach with me here: www.annaholtzman.com

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4 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 26 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 76 The Power of Community: How Letting Go of Control Creates More Impact with Michael Averill

Welcome back, dear listener. Today, we’re diving into a conversation about the power of community, creativity, and connection—and how they can transform not just our work and creative endeavors, but our lives.

My guest is Michael Averill, an award-winning speaker, musician, and community builder who has spent over 20 years fostering deep connections across teams, organizations, and even entire countries—literally. He once walked 4,000 miles across Canada, using music and storytelling to bring people together. His work is all about helping people move beyond the limitations of going it alone and into the magic of collaboration.

In this episode, we explore why trying to do everything yourself leads to burnout, what happens when you let go of control and invite others into your vision, and how embracing community can take your work further than you ever imagined. Michael shares powerful stories from his own journey—both on stage and on the road—that will leave you feeling inspired to lean into connection in new ways.

Let’s get into it!

You can find Michael at:
https://www.michaelaverillproductions.com/

https://www.instagram.com/michaelaverillmusic/


And you can find me at:
Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@anna_holtzman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Email: anna@annaholtzman.com
Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.annaholtzman.com⁠

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4 months ago
1 hour 2 minutes 47 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Ep 75: 4 Common Client Questions About Visibility, Vulnerability, and Sharing Your Story

✨ Episode Summary:

In this solo episode, Anna dives into four powerful and recurring questions that come up with her coaching clients — sensitive creatives, coaches, and entrepreneurs navigating the tender terrain of putting their work into the world. Whether you're launching a business, writing a book, or simply stepping into more visibility, this episode will resonate deeply if you've ever wondered:

  • How much of my personal story should I share?
  • Is it okay to talk about hard stuff in coaching sessions?
  • Why can’t I make myself do the things I know I need to do?
  • Why do I feel like crap after doing something brave?

Using a mind-body approach grounded in nervous system wisdom, Anna explores each question with nuance, compassion, and practical insight. You'll learn why emotional safety is essential for sharing vulnerably, how to listen to your body when deciding what to reveal, and why those “vulnerability hangovers” after being visible are not signs you're doing it wrong — but signs you’re on the right track.

🧠 What You'll Learn:

  • How to tell when sharing your story is empowering vs. overwhelming
  • Why grounded vulnerability connects more than oversharing
  • The difference between coaching and therapy — and why deep topics are welcome in coaching
  • What to do when you're stuck in inaction despite knowing the next steps
  • Why shame, doubt, or even pain flare-ups after visibility are totally normal — and how to care for yourself through them

💬 Favorite Quote:

“When you’re out of connection with yourself, your audience won’t feel safe connecting with you either.”

🌱 Resources & Links:

  • Learn more about working with Anna: www.annaholtzman.com
  • Join the newsletter for updates & offerings: www.annaholtzman.com/getintouch
  • Connect on Instagram: @anna_holtzman

🎧 Subscribe & Review:

If this episode resonated with you, subscribe to the show and leave a review. It helps the podcast reach more folks who need it — and it means so much!

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4 months ago
38 minutes 20 seconds

How to Trust Yourself: Overcome Imposter Syndrome, Feel Confident, and Let Yourself Be Seen
Are you a sensitive creative, coach, or entrepreneur who wants to share your work—but feels held back by imposter syndrome, self-doubt, or fear of being seen? How to Trust Yourself helps you build confidence, overcome creative resistance, and show up without burning out. I'm Anna Holtzman, a therapist turned coach who spent years as a creative-for-hire in publishing and TV before launching my own business. Now I help others use nervous system tools to move past fear, own their voice, and step into lasting visibility. 🌎 Work with me → www.annaholtzman.com