Confessions of a Freebird - Midlife, Divorce, Heal, and Date Differently with Somatic Experiencing, Empty Nest, Well-Being, H
Laurie James - Podcaster, Author, Somatic Relationship Coach
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Have you spent years doing everything “right”? Building your career, caring for others, keeping things together and still feel like something is off? Maybe it’s a quiet ache you can’t shake. That pull between might not be burnout at all. It might be a kind of betrayal you didn’t know you were carrying. In this episode, I sit down with Lora Cheadle, author, speaker, and betrayal recovery coach. Lora’s story began with infidelity but led her deeper into the world of nervous system r...
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Have you spent years doing everything “right”? Building your career, caring for others, keeping things together and still feel like something is off? Maybe it’s a quiet ache you can’t shake. That pull between might not be burnout at all. It might be a kind of betrayal you didn’t know you were carrying. In this episode, I sit down with Lora Cheadle, author, speaker, and betrayal recovery coach. Lora’s story began with infidelity but led her deeper into the world of nervous system r...
Have you spent years doing everything “right”? Building your career, caring for others, keeping things together and still feel like something is off? Maybe it’s a quiet ache you can’t shake. That pull between might not be burnout at all. It might be a kind of betrayal you didn’t know you were carrying. In this episode, I sit down with Lora Cheadle, author, speaker, and betrayal recovery coach. Lora’s story began with infidelity but led her deeper into the world of nervous system r...
You might’ve grown up believing you weren’t the “creative type.” Maybe someone told you your art wasn’t good enough, or life pulled you toward what felt practical. After years of raising kids, caregiving, working, or just keeping things afloat, your creative side may have faded into the background. But creativity never left — it’s simply waiting for you to notice it again. In this episode, I sit down with Kevin Murphy, master illustrator, portrait artist, and founder of Evolve Artist, whose w...
Dating in midlife isn’t for the faint of heart. Maybe your marriage or a long-term relationship ended, you’ve healed, and now you’re ready to date again—only to ride a rollercoaster of hope, disappointment, or those “fetal position on your bed” moments we don’t always admit. But what if dating wasn’t about forcing it or giving up—what if it was about trusting yourself, slowing down, and staying rooted in your worth? In this episode, I’m joined by Heidi Friedman—an accomplished att...
Have you ever sent a text to your teen or college-aged kid and immediately wondered if they rolled their eyes when they read it? Maybe you’re trying to stay connected as they move across the country—or even just across the house. If you’ve ever longed for a deeper bond with your child, this episode is for you. I’m joined by Tammy Cohen—speaker, author, founder of Women Beyond the Table, and mom of three sons. Tammy is also the author of Text Messages to My Sons, a heartfelt book born fr...
Ever feel like you’re drawn to the wrong people—repeatedly? That pull isn’t random. It’s often old patterns and unhealed wounds running the show, not true safety or connection. If dating has left you feeling confused, overwhelmed, or ready to give up, you’re not imagining it—and you’re not alone. In this episode, I sit down with Bernardo Mendez, relationship coach and creator of one of YouTube’s top dating advice channels, for a grounded look at what’s really happening beneath the surface—esp...
When a relationship ends, how do you really move through the grief—body, mind, and heart? In this solo episode, I share my own recent breakup story and how I used somatic practices to walk through the grief process. Because here’s the thing: heartbreak isn’t just emotional—it’s physical too. Our bodies feel the loss, and somatic healing tools can help us soften, ground, and gently move through it. As a somatic practitioner, I walk you through seven intentional steps that helped me stay presen...
Have you ever reached for a drink—not because you genuinely wanted it—but because you were trying to soothe stress, numb emotions, or simply make it through the day? This week’s episode features Colleen Freeland Kachmann, an intuitive drinking coach and host of It’s Not About the Alcohol podcast. Colleen shares her powerful personal transformation and offers a radically different approach to navigating alcohol use disorder through emotional regulation, somatic healing, and self-awareness. Wha...
Do you want to make sure you’re not just alive… but truly living? My guest this week suggests, starting by contemplating your own death. In this transformative episode, I’m joined by Karen Salmansohn, bestselling author and behavioral change expert known for blending humor, heart, and science to make life’s most meaningful lessons accessible. We dive into her latest book, Your To Die For Life, and explore how embracing mortality awareness can be the catalyst for deep, lasting transformation. ...
Have you ever felt as though the ground has suddenly dropped out from under you after someone you trusted deeply betrayed you? Betrayal can manifest physically and emotionally, preventing you from achieving what you truly desire. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Debi Silber, PhD, the founder of The Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and an international bestselling author. She shares three key insights from her personal experiences with betrayal trauma, as well as her research findings....
Is your body changing in ways that feel unfamiliar or unexpected? Perhaps your midlife body has gained a few pounds without any changes to your eating habits. Or maybe you’ve always struggled with body image and are searching for ways to accept yourself with more ease. This week, I’m joined by Elizabeth Dall, a certified women’s wellness coach who focuses on nutrition for women, behavior change, and body acceptance. Elizabeth brings a grounded and thoughtful approach to midlife wellness...
When we are healing, do we only focus on the emotional aspect, or do we look at healing our lives holistically? Addressing different aspects of our lives is essential for feeling our best and ultimately creating space for what many desire the most—a secure and healthy intimate relationship. In this conversation, I reconnect with Kate Anthony, a coach, author, and host of The Divorce Survival Guide podcast, who is a listener favorite. Kate shares her difficult, raw, and unfiltered ...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email Are you feeling uncertain about what’s happening to your body during perimenopause and menopause? Are you unsure of whom to trust regarding hormone therapy? In this episode, I talk with Dr. Maria Sophocles, a nationally recognized menopause specialist, OBGYN, and founder of Women’s Healthcare of Princeton. With nearly 30 years of experience and a deep passion for women's health in midlife, Dr. S...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email Have you ever experienced a loss so deep it changed everything? What if healing isn’t about moving on, but about learning to live differently with your grief? In this episode, I talk with Melissa Saleh, a trauma advocate, storyteller, and mother who shares her powerful journey through stillbirth grief and how she found her way back to life after everything crumbled beneath her. Following the los...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email Is the story you’ve been telling yourself keeping you stuck? Maybe it’s not the circumstances that need to shift, but your perspective on them and how you feel inside. In this episode, I talk with Karen Fabian, a yoga teacher, podcast host, and founder of Bare Bones Yoga. She left her high-level corporate job to pursue a more meaningful path. We discuss what it looks like to make a midlife...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email Many people say that your life begins at birth, but what if your emotional imprint starts to take shape long before that? What if your emotions, behavioral patterns, and adaptability are formed in the womb? This is the conversation Cynthia Marks, host of the And Now, Love Podcast, and I explore. We delve into the transformative work of her late husband, Dr. Bernard Bail, who developed the “Lov...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email What does it mean to be ‘the good daughter’? Being ‘the good daughter’ is a role many people step into without even realizing it. If you find yourself constantly maintaining peace, prioritizing others’ feelings over your own, and seeking your mother’s approval, you may be experiencing ‘the good daughter syndrome.’ Over time, this role can quietly wear you down, erode your mental well-being, se...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email Have you ever wondered, “Why isn’t anyone fixing this problem?” Maybe it’s something in your community, your workplace, your government, or in your own life. You see a problem, but there’s no solution. When that happens what do you do? Assume someone smarter and more experienced is already solving the problem. Or maybe your fear steps in and says, “Who am I to solve this problem?” But what...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email If you've been feeling stressed, anxious, or overwhelmed lately, you're not alone. I don’t know about you, but it feels like I've lived through three years' worth of challenges in just the first two months of this year. Even with ten years of energy work, coaching, therapy and somatic healing, overwhelm can still creep in. The good news is that I've developed a strong relationship with m...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your email Navigating the complexities of divorce can take a toll on our well-being, but it also presents an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. In this episode, Karen McMahon and I delve into these themes. Karen is a high-conflict divorce coach and strategist who shares her personal and raw divorce story, along with the powerful mindset shifts she has learned over the past 15 years. We discuss ho...
Please leave me feedback. I cannot respond so if you'd like me to respond, please leave your emailFloating down a river serves as a beautiful metaphor for life. There are times when you need to be 'wild' and playful, willing to paddle when necessary, and wise when the river is calm, taking the time to listen to the messages that come your way. So, how do you learn to go with the flow of life when it feels uncertain and scary?In this episode, I’m joined by a beloved-guide Heather Ash, bes...
Confessions of a Freebird - Midlife, Divorce, Heal, and Date Differently with Somatic Experiencing, Empty Nest, Well-Being, H
Have you spent years doing everything “right”? Building your career, caring for others, keeping things together and still feel like something is off? Maybe it’s a quiet ache you can’t shake. That pull between might not be burnout at all. It might be a kind of betrayal you didn’t know you were carrying. In this episode, I sit down with Lora Cheadle, author, speaker, and betrayal recovery coach. Lora’s story began with infidelity but led her deeper into the world of nervous system r...