In the episode I go back to a painful period in my life
Pieces I read in the episode
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/living-someone-else-s-life-9ee14b30b422
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/practicality-a-k-a-kicking-and-screaming-into-adulthood-895c4c895ed2
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/my-eyes-are-wide-open-168904d7203f
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/my-dear-brother-565100275861
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/thoughts-inspired-by-death-and-the-new-year-61680a021fc7
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/one-empty-mind-521ae3262f3
THIS WEEK'S RECOMMENDATIONS
https://www.youtube.com/c/thefuturishere
https://www.instagram.com/thefuturishere/
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
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In the episode I examine common misconceptions about therapy
HELPFUL RESOURCES
https://www.instagram.com/p/CHs3ZGMhdIZ/
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Birds by Monk Turner
Fascinoma-04 Its Your Birthday Instrumental Version by Monk Turner
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In the episode this week, let's examine how we talk to ourselves.
This weeks recommendations
Dr. Tracey Marks
Softie The Film
https://www.softiethefilm.com/watch
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Further reading
https://positivepsychology.com/challenging-automatic-thoughts-positive-thoughts-worksheets/
Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
Ellie's Home Stretch by The Green North Sound Society
Fascinoma-04 Its Your Birthday Instrumental Version by Monk Turner
In the episode we talk to Muhu, a counseling psychologist about the therapy process, exploring what it is, what its not and common misconceptions about it.
MTRH-Moi Teaching and Referral Hospital
You can book a session with her on +254714807447
Growth Catalyst
https://www.growthcatalysts.org/
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This weeks recommendations
Dr. Ramani
https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula
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Music
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Ellie's Home Stretch by The Green North Sound Society
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In the episode this week we explore emotional abuse, starting with ourselves
This weeks recommendations
Zikora
https://www.amazon.com/Zikora-Short-Chimamanda-Ngozi-Adichie-ebook/dp/B08K942N84
Notion
The podcast is available on Audible and Amazon Podcasts
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
Ellie's Home Stretch by The Green North Sound Society
On the episode this week, A Conversation with Ama
This weeks recommendations
Conversations with Ama
https://anchor.fm/conversationswithama/
Sam Vaknin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0uM13pZxBLM
An open letter to South African Men by Vusi Thembekwayo
https://medium.com/@vusispeaker/an-open-letter-to-south-african-men-d290022c356d
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
Ellie's Home Stretch by The Green North Sound Society
On the episode this week is a submission I received from one of you guys, a listener...
This weeks recommendations
Criminal UK Season 2 Episode 2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtHBrjgDjes
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
Ellie's Home Stretch by The Green North Sound Society
Into It by Kwon
Today I talk with Ntombi from the Podcast Season 2000 about making the same episode on both our podcasts :-)
This weeks recommendations
Go listen to Ntombizodwa: Season 2000
Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman I & II by Pierre Alex Jeanty
How to Stop Feeling So Damn Depressed: The No BS Guide for Men by Jonas A. Horwitz PhD
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
Fascinoma-04 Its Your Birthday Instrumental Version by Monk Turner
Ellie's Home Stretch by The Green North Sound Society
Into It by Kwon
Hey there!
I’m baaaack!! For real this time! Welcome to Season Two of the podcast!!!!
In this episode, I tackle what I’ve been up to since I took a break & what grief has been like for me
Grief definition from
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/grief
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grief
Read The 128th stage of grief here
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/the-128th-stage-of-grief-6118de96ca23
The stammer
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/the-stammer-73170532fcf1
I am so down in the dumps, my soul is overwhelmed.
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/i-am-so-down-in-the-dumps-my-soul-is-overwhelmed-309055584f9e
Listen to Episode 2 here
https://anchor.fm/cocoabutterjunkie/episodes/EPISODE-2--My-Mental-Health-Experience-efhl75
Listen to Episode 3 here
Listen to Episode 8 here
https://anchor.fm/cocoabutterjunkie/episodes/EPISODE-8--Women-Vs-Womanhood-in-Kenya-ehel26
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: Notes on Grief | The New Yorker
https://www.newyorker.com/culture/personal-history/notes-on-grief
MDQ’s episodes on CTA
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLY82RVylbju3bkK_ya_PD0w0690w9Loi2
Passenger List.
Unmarried
https://www.showmax.com/eng/tvseries/9e6vwnk0-unmarried
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
Hey, so here's a bonus episode as I work on Season 2. It's taking a shape I hadn’t planned on but I am happy it is going the way it is…can’t wait to release it. Just a few more days!
Platitude definition read from wikipedia : https://g.co/kgs/zUYhkr
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This week I’m listening to
Where should we begin with Esther Perel, a podcast that follows one couple’s therapy session of different couples with Esther Perel.
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
I need a mental health break guys....and I'm taking it. So this will be the final episode of this season. But worry not, I will be back with more episodes in a few weeks. I'm taking this time to work on them. In the mean time, you can learn what it takes to work on this podcast.
Lemme know if you're interested in an IG live and what topics you'd like covered in Season 2.
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Peyton Sawyer's Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/peytons-podcast/id292591486
Serial Podcast
List of Kenyan Podcasts I'm currently listening to
This week's recommendations
Jesus & Jollof Podcast
https://jesusandjollof.simplecast.com/
Twilight App
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.urbandroid.lux&hl=en
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
On this episode , another phone call with a friend. We just got right into it, talking about identity crisis, toxic work environments, giving on empty, friendships ,first born manenos ,boundaries,COVID-19 and I basically pressure Mary into therapy :-)
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This week's podcast recommendations
@rangipop
@ginodrawsit
@homewithrue
@islandboiphotography
All in Instagram
Psych2go : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkJEpR7JmS36tajD34Gp4VA
Wahura Kabutha : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuCsv_d1SHgOk9wV_tZugdQ
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
On this episode I explore sexual assault, sexual harassment, women and their work, catcalling, the importance of having a thick skin and a few other gems on what it means to be a woman in Kenya in 2020 A huge thanks to all the ladies who submitted their stories for this episode. If you would like to submit your experiences, please contact me via email on cocoabutterjunkie[at]gmail.com or social media
Please have a look at this video in IG
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CBIvDepDFvk/?igshid=qjhk2f5rxzb0
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CBC61PjATCc/
I Know This Much Is True TV Series
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4KBGydqlVk
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
This week I talk to another high school friend about losing a brother, her mental health journey, how her family has adjusted to her condition, experiencing work as a woman and of course how 2020 and COVID have affected her life.
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This weeks podcast recommendations
The Infinite Game by Simon Sinek
https://simonsinek.com/the-infinite-game
The Subtle Art of not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson
https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck
Kina
https://stories.showmax.com/kina-series/
The podcast on Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1LcY5LYBt24l43nL_SrnkKAv2RK4KOry
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
It’s a long episode guys so get your favourite drink and snack and settle in. I have a guest!
We talk about one woman’s journey into adulthood, newly found freedoms as an 18 year old. family ties , the importance of relationships and community outside of family, racism, sexism, mental health, the patriarchy, misogyny, resilience, workplace harassment, making it, OCD and therapy, growing up outside of Kenya, respect or the lack thereof for women and why no one is listening, and of course 2020 and COVID…
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This weeks podcast recommendations
Impact Theory by Tom Bilyeu
In therapy
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Music
Happy African Village by John Bartman
Not Remembering her by Esther Abrami
The anxiety was high this week, so I may sound like I’m hyperventilating :-)
In the episode today , I give quick update on the state of my mental health , talk about toxic positivity and let you in on some IG accounts I am loving this week.
Mentioned in the episode
Cocoa Butter Junkie on Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1LcY5LYBt24l43nL_SrnkKAv2RK4KOry
The Psychology group video
https://thepsychologygroup.com/toxic-positivity/
Teachers seek mental health support
IG accounts mentioned in the episode
@africacovidexhibition @pichaimages @melaninjourney @dopeblackart and @notesfromyourtherapist.
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Music: Happy African Village by John Bartmann
Today I will read some stories, poems and thoughts I wrote the year after my brother died.
As I said, COVID-19 has forced me to think about my brother’s death more these last few months. The first year, to deal with the shock of losing him, I would write.
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Links mentioned in the episode
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/that-first-walk-5215dde29e06
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/i-want-to-be-normal-f10461979f1e
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/hopes-and-dreams-i-had-for-my-brother-29e7c719995
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/be-strong-f436c4b550f1
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/lessons-from-my-brothers-death-2d8ee6d2abc6
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Music: Happy African Village by John Bartmann
Today I tell you about my brother, the journey to finding out he’d died, the first time I saw him in a casket, his burial and the journey since
For those not from Kenya,
* Matatu = public transport bus ,
* Matatu stage = bus stop,
* Maragoli = one of the ethnic communities/languages spoken in Kenya,
* Safaricom = most popular Telcom in Kenya
* Town = the city
* Fundi = Tailor
Doing this episode was really hard for me. Recording and editing the audio took a lot. Reliving the death of loved one is hard. I didn’t realize just how hard it would be...
The day that this episode goes live was supposed to be my brother’s birthday. June 28th. He would be turning thirty.
You will hear a lot of “…at some point” “…aaaand…”, clicks, and awkward laughs :-)
I wrote this couple of months after my brother died…I mentioned it in the episode
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/that-first-walk-5215dde29e06
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/i-want-to-be-normal-f10461979f1e
https://medium.com/@thiskenyanwoman/hopes-and-dreams-i-had-for-my-brother-29e7c719995
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Music: Happy African Village by John Bartmann
In this episode I talk about the first time I realized that my mental health might not be at 100%. I talk about signs and symptoms of depression and anxiety, seeing a doctor for the first time, getting on medication and my experience on the meds.
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Apps I use (on Android) are Inuka, Youper, and Wysa.
I follow @nedratawwab on Instagram
On Youtube I follow Psychology Demystified, Dr Tracey Marks, Live by Design with Grace Kariuki and Therapy in a nutshell
I have also done a Pinterest Board on Mental health. Have a look and see if you feel any of the same symptoms.
https://www.pinterest.com/msmiira/selfcare/mental-health/
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Music: Happy African Village by John Bartmann
Welcome to the Cocoa Butter Junkie podcast. I’m Michelle and this is my podcast.
This is a podcast on the everyday reflections and experiences of a Kenyan woman. An examination of life living through mental health issues, grief, growing up a.k.a kicking and screaming into adulthood, the experiences of being a woman in Kenya, making friends as an adult, struggles with faith and bunch of other topics.
Today I talk about my vision board versus everything 2020 has brought with it.
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Music: Happy African Village by John Bartmann
