So it’s talk about stock sentences that you can use at any time of the interaction to continue the intention so that the conversation can lead to being complete. Today we would like to discuss the types of sentences you can use and the two different types of ways to use stock sentences.
1. I do want to be clear here 2. Ok, what you are saying is 3. So you're committed to 4. And our goal is to.
Two types: Dismissal of the idea and Acceptance of the idea.
What your life may look like does not change based on how someone responds in the discussion so take on listening and using these stock sentences when your stuck to say what you need to say and be heard!
S2 EP 16 - Holding focus on what is important - Strategies
We apologize for being away for a few weeks, with the Hong Kong Lockdowns and health concerns it's been a while since we posted. We miss you all and are excited to share this LONG podcast unedited just for you the Vocal Visionaries!
In this episode, we talked about how to hold focus on what is important. It is a fun exercise, we mentioned earlier which is being able to listen to someone be able to listen to yourself and self reflect, and find out the intent of the conversation identify the problems these things are important.
Then we discussed why focusing on the conversation and what the point of this conversation is, to not derail yourself don’t do not allow yourself to be derailed by your thoughts of rejection or concern for yourself that you’re not saying what you need to say but in terms of just being with the conversation if you can focus on what’s important on that it doesn’t matter the outcome of the conversation because it’s an ongoing thing especially if you’re planning on having this conversation is for the future relationship to continue, You will have time to revisit these conversations in the future knowing that if you’re focusing on ally then that you are not listening to you so what is important is what’s important to the conversation
In this episode, we discuss: Keeping the conversation on track - redirecting techniques.
We all want to keep the conversation on track so know where you’re at within the interaction. We share how many times the conversation will go off track because the other person will redirect the conversation, for multiple reasons, maybe because they feel uncomfortable having a conversation at that time or oftentimes whether not we realize it odd chats also seem to take the conversation off track. If we’re scared to say something to bring it back we miss the opportunity to drive this point home especially if you’re talking about something it’s very difficult. Today we talk about to help you get back on track
In this episode, we talk about how to lead the conversations where it's going, why identity and context are so important. Now we can lead the conversation in the direction it goes, not as some sort of manipulation but in an effort to make sure the tactical chat becomes valuable for both involved.
In this episodes Next Actions we ask you to answer these questions before you have the conversation:
1. What is the outcome you're looking to achieve?
2. What is the best-case scenario?
3. What is the worst-case scenario?
4. What would it look like if the conversation was never had, whats the impact of that?
In this episode, we talk about. what is the context? It's the overall theme of the message, the place where we are coming from where anything said in this space is allowed yet also geared toward why we are even having this interaction in the first place. It's a space to always go back to if needed.
in this episode's Next Actions we discuss what you can do to create the workflow to know what to say within the context of the conversation.
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In this episode we talk about how to identify what needs to be said, I mean we all struggle with saying what we want to say, right? Maybe it's because we fear the reaction of someone else, or we don't know what that means for the conversation. Let's dive into both ideas and are clear on what needs to be said before we chat. So today we talk about ways to see how it will go and then we can be clear about what we want to say to get an intended result.
In this episode's Next Actions we ask you to write about the fear you have going into the conversation by clarifying the best and worst-case outcome and then providing a thesis statement, one sentence that would explain the conversation.
In this episode, we talk abotu why we all must pre-pair for the conversation, we talk about specific steps you can do to get ready to have the talk that you have been waiting for in order to be intentional. Its not about speaking just yet, we discuss the ways of being, and really preparing what we know will be said so that we don't react in that moment. Enjoy a few stories along the way as we prepare you for that chat.
In this episodes next actions, take on reviewing what conversation you want to prepare for, are you ready?
In this episode, we talked about how to have intentional conversations, continue listening for Part 2.
We continue stories about intentional conversations, why you should focus on the intent in the beginning, what does it take to be intentional with the time you have to say what you need to say, we shared things that stop us and moments where we were intentional and how it worked out for us.
In this episode we talked about how to have intentional conversations, why you should focus on the intent in the beginning, what does it take to be intentional with the time you have to say what you need to say, we shared things that stop us and moments where we were intentional and how it worked out for us.
Next Actions will be in the Pt2, so stay tuned!
In this episode we talk about how to lead a breakthrough conversation, we share the steps to take that can open up a space of comfort, for your self and others, that leads to having a breakthrough. WARNING - it may also lead to a break down, but as we discuss there is not breakthrough without a breakdown, its only an incite. Also, we use practical examples for you to take on.
In this episodes Next Actions, we ask you to have this conversation with yourself and see what shows up!
In this episode, we talk about taking a bold stand, for yourself and your life. We revisit a popular episode from last season where David and I just talked and shared authenically what it means for us to take a stand toward yourself, others and humanity. We also share ways how people are doing that now in modern culture and what you can say to stand out and take a stand verbally! Enjoy.
In todays episode we talked about Sharing in a group, with so many events this past year and learning about how to share, David and I dive into the best shares we experienced recently and what you can do to make moments matter when in a group setting.
In this episode we decideded to let you take the Next Action necessary, tell us what you decided to do theanelloofficial@gmail.com
In this episode, we talk about How to have contact in conversation - the three key tips that you can try right away and even a few stories on the recent events where these styles showed up.
In this episodes Next Action - Create a group where you can share and practice these three tips, Eye Contact, Listening and Sharing!
In this episode we talked about when to just say it, its an interesting topic because we’ve been talking with you about a lot of other concepts of how we can get over the fear and what to say in those moments but now we just need to get it out.
That confidence is now in us we understand where we’re coming from in so you need to just say it be OK with it send that text don’t think about it be authentic self don’t let anybody else consider you any less than now of course were talking with people who are already mentally stable enough to be able to know who they are in society to be able to make a contribution to we’re not talking about negative words of hatred anger no comments that would incite any type of violence so this isn’t just say it be OK
In this episodes Next Actions we suggest 2 parts - 1. To find a few people you can say anything you wanna say but this time mention what you haven't said before. and 2 - Have others share what they need to because it is when you get to say what’s your truth you believe to be genuine and authentic how do we get to that space when it’s OK to just say what I want to say?
In this episode we talked about, how to overcome the fear of what other people think?
We are inundated with so many affirmations telling ourselves that we’re great reminding ourselves those things but because were human also consider what others think and serve a tribe mentality in a world of agreement of people agree that it’s true so we’re always looking for that but within that also comes fear and it’s a deep rooted fear that attaches onto these concepts we just talked about the agreement the tribe mentality that if we’re ostracised from these things we may not be good enough anymore or potentially even have the fear of failure so how are we able to overcome the fear of what other people think and be true to ourselves to say those words of affirmation is really really know it be OK with who you are?
In todays Next Actions we discuss the new system you can create and the 3 steps to make it work!
In this episode we talked about, presenting, what is the piont? So we talking about how to say what you need to say last episode. Often we get to the place of whats the point so why speak if you're not being heard?
We discuss how many times I have not said things I know I want to say because I believe that person wInto the words that I’m saying whether it be based on their bias weather be based on previous experiences of how they’ve been listening. So I tend to say what I need to say but I don’t say what I want to say so how can we say what we need to say when we feel like we’re not really being heard? It’s not about getting what we want what but being able to say what I need.
In todays episode we talked about saying what you need to say. When we speak we don’t always realize what we say, how it lands and even how we are perceived.
Fear overtakes a lot of the moments that we have to say the words that we need to say but we are afraid to say it because we may not see it in the best way you know are you know we could’ve done better that there’s a lot of that concerned that shows up in public speaking and so the best ways to say some thing is to not be afraid so What can we say that helps others be with us and not be afraid to speak?
In this episode we talked about the Fear of Public Speaking.
We shared what is the best thing to say to overcome that fear. In this episode we learned a few facts about what we do to know what to say, being unreasonable with our need to speak, and even a few tech mistakes that showed us that we must say what is there to be authentic when we speak.
In Season 2 - EP 1 we talked about: What is your Vocal Vision? We discuss what it means to create your vocal visions, the plan you can create to make your vision reality and a few success stories of clients we have worked with that have us believe you can do it too!
In this episodes Next Actions: How to create your Vision Vocally and to contact us to work together.
In this episode we talked about S1 Review + S2 Preview. We discuss the reasons for the podcast, what you the listeners have been getting and sharing with us as well as the plan moving forward for Season 2, it's crazy to think our ability to speak with you and be heard has opened up another season of how to help you.
In this episodes next actions, we ask you to contact us and share what you got from Season 1. Shoot us an email, we'd love to hear from you and even provide more information about the upcoming Vocal Vision Course. Cheers and thank you! Email: theanelloofficial@gmail.com