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The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
Jennifer J Lehr, LMFT
18 episodes
4 days ago
The Yearning Heart Podcast is a soulful space where real people share journeys through love, heartbreak, and healing. Hosted by Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, each episode dives into relationship dynamics, emotional intelligence, attachment styles, and self-love. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, deepening intimacy, or breaking old patterns, you’ll find honest stories and therapist insights to help you create secure, lasting love. Tune in for real stories and expert guidance to help you transform your relationships. Topics: self-love, attachment styles and more.
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The Yearning Heart Podcast is a soulful space where real people share journeys through love, heartbreak, and healing. Hosted by Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, each episode dives into relationship dynamics, emotional intelligence, attachment styles, and self-love. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, deepening intimacy, or breaking old patterns, you’ll find honest stories and therapist insights to help you create secure, lasting love. Tune in for real stories and expert guidance to help you transform your relationships. Topics: self-love, attachment styles and more.
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The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
Parenting Neurodivergent Children & The Work of Marriage | Dr. Nicole Dolan

Parenting sensitive, neurodivergent children can be both sacred and overwhelming.

In this heartfelt conversation, Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT, speaks with Dr. Nicole Dolan—depth psychologist, author, and mother of three—about the profound challenges and transformations that come with parenting complex children and sustaining a conscious marriage.

Together, they reveal how healing our own emotional imprints allows us to show up more consciously for our children and partners.

They explore how nervous-system imprints shape our relationships, how marriage becomes a crucible for growth, and how conscious parenting invites both partners into deeper healing.

✨ In this episode:
• Parenting and marriage under pressure
• Understanding nervous-system imprints
• The dynamics of self-sacrifice and resentment
• Co-parenting and teamwork
• The spiritual and ancestral layers of family healing

💜 A powerful conversation about the art of chaos, the work of love, and finding renewal as both a parent and partner.

🔗 Connect:
Dr. Nicole Dolan — https://drnicoledolan.com
Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT & Author — https://jenniferlehrmft.com


💗 If this episode resonated, please follow The Yearning Heart Podcast and share it with someone who’s on their own healing journey.


00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges
03:18 Navigating Neurodiversity in Children
06:15 The Impact of Parenting on Marriage
09:58 Understanding Marital Dynamics and Personal Growth
12:56 The Work of Marriage and Emotional Imprints
17:41 Finding Balance in Relationships
20:29 Individual Responsibility in Partnerships
27:52 The Dynamics of Self-Sacrifice in Relationships
30:40 Navigating Narcissism and Martyrdom
31:52 The Soul’s Journey and Ancestral Influence
33:20 Marriage as a Crucible for Growth
36:07 Deciding to Stay or Leave: The Inner Conflict
38:09 Transformation Through Conscious Work
40:08 Co-Parenting Dynamics and Teamwork
42:34 The Unique Journey of Parenting a Special Child
49:00 The Call for Conscious Parenting


Tags: parenting, autism, marriage, relationships, depth psychology, sensitive children, co-parenting, nervous system, trauma healing, personal growth, Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT, Dr. Nicole Dolan, The Yearning Heart Podcast


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2 weeks ago
51 minutes 24 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
Healing The Mother Wound - Episode 16

In this episode (16) of The Yearning Heart Podcast, Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT, speaks with Willow Light, an esthetician, herbalist, and intuitive healer, about her powerful journey of healing from childhood trauma and toxic relationships.

Willow shares openly about growing up in foster care, the impact of her mother’s mental illness, and how these wounds shaped her choices in love. From a stable but spiritually mismatched marriage, to a painful six-year relationship with a narcissistic alcoholic, to the deep healing that followed—including psilocybin journeys and therapy—her story is one of resilience, courage, and transformation.

Now, Willow is in a spiritually aligned relationship with someone she’s known since childhood. Her journey shows how our deepest wounds can lead us toward growth, self-love, and hope.

✨ Topics in this episode:

  • The “mother wound” and “father wound” in relationships

  • Why we sometimes attract toxic partners

  • The seductive pull of narcissistic love

  • Nature, meditation, and psilocybin as healing tools

  • Moving from dependency → toxic entanglement → interdependent love

💜 A story of descent, healing, and renewal—proof that even our most painful chapters can open the way to love.

For more information or to read the full transcript for this episode go to https://weconcile.com/yearning-heart-podcast.

Chapters

00:00 Healing Through Relationships: Willow's Journey

01:04 Willow's Relationship Overview

02:36 Introduction to Willow's Journey

04:24 The Impact of Early Trauma

07:01 Finding Strength in Adversity

09:53 Seeking Stability: The First Marriage

10:59 Not Chosen - A Wound

14:23 The Shift in Spiritual Connection

17:39 Co-Parenting and Collaboration Post-Divorce

20:58 The Guilt and Shame

22:31 Dreams and Intuition

23:37 Voice of Sabotage

27:11 The New Relationship and the Hook

29:40 Red Flags

30:27 Navigating Alcohol and Relationships

33:57 Alcoholism/ Narcissism/Mother Wound

37:02 Beginning to Leave

41:13 Co-Dependent

41:50 Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns

44:23 Psilocybin Journey

49:52 Choosing to Heal

51:12 New Relationship

59:35 Finding a Healthy Connection

01:02:01 Interdependence

01:02:37 Willow's Relational Arc

01:04:58 Thank You

01:05:49 Connect with Willow

01:06:10 More about Jennifer Lehr LMFT


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1 month ago
1 hour 6 minutes 31 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
Therapist Insights: Mindfulness, Attachment Styles & Core Values in Love

In this episode (15) of the Yearning Heart podcast, Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT delves into the insights shared by Dennis regarding mindfulness, relationships, and personal growth.

She emphasizes the importance of mindfulness in therapy,how it can be used to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation, and the potential pitfalls of using mindfulness defensively. She also explores how mindfulness can heal anxious and avoidant attachment styles, deepen self-awareness, and strengthen relationships.explores the significance of attachment styles in relationships, the necessityvof growth and shared core values between partners, and the importance of focusing on what works in a relationship to foster connection and understanding.

 

Takeaways

Mindfulness helps strengthen the witness within us.

Being mindful allows us to notice our experiences withoutmerging with them.

Mindfulness can be misused as a defense mechanism.

It's essential to engage with our feelings rather than avoidthem.

Attachment styles influence how we can best use mindfulness in relationships.

Growth in relationships requires both partners to be willingto evolve.

Core values must align for a relationship to thrive.

Focusing on what works in a relationship fosters positivity.

Communication must be safe and compassionate for effective engagement.

Differentiation is key to understanding and relating to apartner.

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Mindfulness: A Deep Dive

06:06 Mindfulness Red Flags

07:11 What Do The Feelings Want?

07:43 Mindfulness and Attachment Styles

09:02 Mindfulness as a Cognitive Strength

11:37 When It is Time to Leave a Relationship

15:22 Core Values and Relationship Compatibility

16:50 I Can Only Control Myself

19:32 Engagement in the Process: Detaching from Outcomes

20:50 Focus On What Works

Keywords

mindfulness, self-awareness, relationships, attachmentstyles, emotional intelligence, personal growth, communication, core values,emotional connection, therapy

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2 months ago
23 minutes 46 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
From Shame to Mindful Love: Dr. Dennis Merritt Jones on 32 Years of Conscious Relationship

What does it take to create a 32-year relationship grounded in deep presence, personal growth, and unwavering commitment?

In this powerful conversation, Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT welcomes renowned author and spiritual teacher Dr. Dennis Merritt Jones to share the inner journey behind his long-term marriage and the mindfulness tools that helped himtransform a shame-based upbringing into a conscious, loving partnership.

Find his books on Amazon by searching for Dennnis Merritt Jones.

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2 months ago
37 minutes 41 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
Therapist Insights: Falling Out of Love, Codependency, and Rekindling Connection

In this Therapist Insights episode of The Yearning Heart Podcast, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, unpacks the deeper emotional themes from Episode 12, where Samantha shared her story of reconnection after separation.

Jennifer explores the emotional and psychological dynamics of falling out of love, the role of postpartum depression in creating disconnection, and how couples can rekindle intimacy by learning to communicate, express needs, and take responsibility for their relational patterns.

This episode also dives into attachment styles, codependency, and the importance of character in sustaining long-term love.

💗 If you’ve ever felt lost in your relationship, struggled with emotional disconnect, or wondered how to rebuild after crisis — this episode offers both clarity and compassionate tools.


💬 Topics We Explore:

  • Why couples fall out of love (and how to reconnect)

  • How postpartum depression affects intimacy and attachment

  • Communication as a bridge to deeper connection

  • Attachment styles and how they show up in conflict

  • Codependency vs. interdependence

  • The role of character, responsibility, and emotional regulation

  • Understanding the roots of infidelity

  • Healing family-of-origin wounds that influence love

  • Growing individually and together

🎯 Keywords:
falling out of love, emotional disconnection in marriage, codependency in relationships, postpartum depression and intimacy, secure attachment in love, how to communicate in marriage, healing infidelity, rekindling love

📲 Hashtags:
#TherapistInsights #RelationshipHealing #EmotionalConnection #PostpartumDepression #FallingOutOfLove #Codependency #AttachmentStyles #CouplesTherapy #TheYearningHeartPodcast


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3 months ago
29 minutes 38 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
How We Saved Our Marriage After Divorce: A Story of Healing, Separation, and Partnership

From emotional pain to true partnership — in this heartfelt episode of The Yearning Heart Podcast, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, speaks with certified life coach Samantha Shoemaker about her powerful journey through postpartum depression, separation, and ultimately, reconnection with her husband.

Samantha shares how the weight of parenting, mental health struggles, and unresolved attachment patterns challenged her marriage — and how time apart led to self-awareness, therapy, and deep relational healing. Together, they explore the power of accountability, emotional growth, and the work required to truly transform a relationship.

Now supporting other women through life transitions as a coach, Samantha offers hard-won insight into what it means to own your story, ask for what you need, and rebuild love from a place of wholeness.

💗 If you've ever wondered whether a broken relationship can be repaired — this episode offers hope, tools, and emotional truth.

💬 Topics We Explore:

  • Navigating postpartum depression and relational distance

  • The emotional impact of parenting and mental health

  • How separation became a catalyst for self-discovery

  • Childhood wounds and their effect on adult attachment

  • Using therapy as a bridge to reconnection

  • The role of accountability in healing a broken bond

  • Rebuilding a partnership through communication and truth

  • Coaching, independence, and emotional self-awareness

  • Empowering women to navigate transitions in love and life

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Samantha's Journey

02:56 The Breakdown of Marriage and Infidelity

06:10 The Path to Healing and Reconnection

11:34 Lessons Learned About Love and Relationships

17:18 The Role of Communication and Connection

22:32 Navigating Parenting Through Divorce

27:32 Ongoing Growth and Independence

31:05 Applying Lessons in Coaching

33:51 Rebuilding Relationships: The Power of Therapeutic Work


🎯 Keywords:
saving a marriage after divorce, postpartum depression and relationships, relationship healing through therapy, separation and reconnection, emotional growth in marriage, rebuilding trust in love, coaching for relationship recovery

📲 Hashtags:
#MarriageHealing #RelationshipRecovery #PostpartumDepression #SeparationToConnection #TherapyInLove #EmotionalGrowth #LifeTransitions #TheYearningHeartPodcast



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5 months ago
34 minutes 36 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
Therapist Insights: Tools and Knowledge for Anxious Attachment Style

n this Therapist Insights episode, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, unpacks the emotional complexity of the anxious attachment style and offers therapeutic tools to support healing, regulation, and deeper connection.

Jennifer explores how early emotional wounds manifest in anxious relational behaviors — from fear of abandonment to heightened sensitivity and emotional reactivity. She shares strategies for self-regulation, boundary setting, and clear communication, while highlighting the importance of compassion, intuition, and differentiation in building secure relationships.

💗 This episode is a supportive resource for anyone who struggles with anxious attachment and is working to build healthier, more secure love.


💬 Topics We Explore:

    • What anxious attachment looks like in relationships

    • How to self-regulate when triggered (especially with avoidant partners)

    • Recognizing and healing personal emotional wounds

    • Using timing and calm communication to express needs

    • Compassion and accountability in relational dynamics

    • Differentiation: staying connected while being yourself

    • The impact of negative self-talk on love and self-worth

    • How intuition helps identify red flags

    • Building secure, emotionally safe relationships


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Dynamics

00:53 Understanding Partner Needs and Differences

01:50 Anxiety and Avoidance03:46Curiosity and Compassion in Relationships

04:53 Wounds

06:03 The Anxious Avoidant Struggle

07:53 The Negative Cycle

09:44 The Importance of Self-Regulation

12:04 Communication Examples

13:20 Communication and Asking for Needs

15:08 Impact of Parents and Survival Strategies

17:22 Secure Relationships

17:55 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships

18:35 Friendship, Compassion, Curiosity, Attunement

18:58 Differentiation

21:09 Developing Healthy Communication Skills

23:45 Listening to Our Bodies

25:11 Self Talk

26:28 Parent's Communication

27:16 Inner Voice

28:07 Listening to Intuition and Red Flags

29:28 Closing


🎯 Keywords:
anxious attachment healing, therapist advice for anxious partners, self-regulation in relationships, communication in insecure attachment, emotional triggers and self-worth, building secure relationships, understanding attachment trauma

📲 Hashtags:
#TherapistInsights #AnxiousAttachment #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalTriggers #SecureRelationships #SelfRegulation #RelationshipCommunication #TheYearningHeartPodcast

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8 months ago
29 minutes 54 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
What Makes a Relationship Healthy: Compassion, Triggers, and Mutual Care

n this heartfelt episode, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, speaks with Kristina about the emotional complexities of building healthy relationships. Kristina shares her personal experiences navigating early relationship challenges, recognizing narcissistic patterns in past partners, and learning the value of emotional safety, compassion, and self-awareness.

Together, they explore how generational trauma, anxiety, and communication blocks impact love — and how healing begins with self-compassion and mutual care.

💗 This episode offers a relatable and hopeful look at what real growth in relationships can look like.

👉 For deeper therapeutic insights on this topic, listen to the follow-up “Therapist Insights” episode on healing relational patterns and building secure love.


💬 Topics We Explore:

  • Recognizing the signs of a healthy vs. unhealthy relationship

  • How compassion and communication build emotional safety

  • Triggers, anxiety, and body-based awareness in love

  • The legacy of generational patterns on romantic behavior

  • Identifying narcissistic traits in past partners

  • Self-reflection and personal growth through relationship

  • Why mutual care is foundational in lasting love

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Relationships: A Journey of Growth

06:03 Navigating Triggers and Communication

11:35 The Importance of Timing in Conversations

17:37 Generational Influences on Relationship Skills

22:30 Recognizing Narcissism in Relationships

26:48 The Foundation of a Healthy Relationship

29:26 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose

 🎯 Keywords:
signs of a healthy relationship, emotional safety in love, compassion in relationships, recognizing narcissism, communication and triggers in relationships, generational trauma and dating

📲 Hashtags:
#HealthyRelationships #EmotionalSafety #CompassionInLove #RelationshipTriggers #NarcissisticTraits #SelfCompassion #TheYearningHeartPodcast



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8 months ago
29 minutes 55 seconds

The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
I Put Up With Emotional Abuse Because I Grew up With Alcoholic Parents (Includes Therapist Insights)

In this episode of The Yearning Heart Podcast, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, speaks with Janet about the long-lasting emotional impact of growing up in a household with alcoholic parents.

Janet shares how her early experiences led her to tolerate emotional abuse in adult relationships, and how the journey toward healing required deep personal growth, therapy, and self-awareness. Together, they explore the challenges of recognizing dysfunctional patterns, the power of body awareness, and the importance of emotional intelligence in breaking generational cycles.

This is a story of reclaiming personal truth, setting boundaries, and learning to believe in your worth — even after a lifetime of emotional confusion.

Interwoven throughout this conversation, Jennifer offers Therapist Insights into how trauma is carried in the body, how childhood survival strategies become adult patterns, and what it takes to break free from generational cycles.

💗 If you’ve ever struggled with self-worth, stayed too long in an unhealthy relationship, or questioned your truth, this episode is for you.


💡 Topics We Explore:

  • How growing up with alcoholic parents shapes adult relationships

  • Why emotional abuse feels familiar when it mirrors childhood trauma

  • The importance of body awareness and somatic healing

  • Emotional intelligence and the path to personal power

  • Speaking your truth in relationships

  • The role of therapy in integrating trauma

  • Recognizing generational trauma and ending the cycle

  • Self-acceptance as a gateway to transformation

    Chapters00:00 Introduction to Janet and Her Journey02:55 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth03:07 Growing Up in an Alcoholic Family

    🎯 Keywords:
    emotional abuse recovery, alcoholic family trauma, adult children of alcoholics, body awareness and trauma healing, generational trauma healing, therapy for childhood emotional wounds, breaking toxic relationship patterns

    📲 Hashtags:
    #EmotionalAbuse #AdultChildrenOfAlcoholics #GenerationalTrauma #BodyAwareness #EmotionalHealing #TherapyWorks #TheYearningHeartPodcast





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    9 months ago
    31 minutes 1 second

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    How To Heal From Childhood Trauma (Includes Therapist Insights)

    In this couragous and vulnerable conversation, Elaine shares her personal experiences with relationships, trauma, and the journey towards healing. The discussion delves into the impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships, the search for love and connection, and the challenges of setting boundaries. Elaine reflects on her love addiction and the importance of safety in relationships, while also exploring her therapy experiences and the role of community support.

    The conversation emphasizes the need for self-discovery and healing as essential steps towards building healthy relationships.

    This episode includes Therapist Insights as Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, offers a grounded and compassionate guide to healing from childhood trauma. Drawing on over 20 years of experience as a licensed therapist, Jennifer explores how unresolved childhood experiences shape our adult relationships, emotional patterns, and sense of self-worth.

    She unpacks the core elements of relational trauma — including emotional neglect, insecure attachment, and abandonment wounds — and shares insights on how to begin reparenting yourself, establish emotional safety, and reclaim your inner voice.

    Whether you grew up feeling unseen, feared rejection, or are still struggling with relational triggers, this episode offers validation, practical tools, and hope for lasting healing.


    💡 Topics We Explore:

  • The invisible wounds of emotional neglect

  • How childhood trauma shapes attachment and self-worth

  • The importance of nervous system safety and regulation

  • Reparenting your inner child

  • Understanding and breaking relational patterns

  • Cultivating self-compassion and emotional resilience

  • What healing actually looks like in daily life

    Chapters

    00:00 Exploring Relationship Dynamics and Trauma

    06:08 Attachment Styles and Patterns in Relationships

    13:07 Community, Anger, and Forgiveness

    18:06 The Impact of Love Addiction

    24:56 Healing and Setting Boundaries

    30:28 Navigating Trust and Safety in Relationships

    46:43 Understanding Trauma and Its Impact on Relationships

    46:43 Introduction to the Podcast and Relationship App

    47:21 Understanding Trauma and Its Impact on Relationships

  • 🎯 Keywords:
    how to heal from childhood trauma, emotional neglect in childhood, reparenting the inner child, therapist podcast trauma healing, insecure attachment recovery, trauma and relationships, nervous system regulation

    📲 Hashtags:
    #TherapistInsights #ChildhoodTrauma #EmotionalHealing #InnerChildWork #AttachmentHealing #Reparenting #TheYearningHeartPodcast

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    9 months ago
    47 minutes 21 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    Healing the Past: From Anxious Attachment to a Secure Love (Including Therapist Insights)

    In this powerful episode, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, speaks with Wynn Austin — founder of Wynn's Kitchen — about her journey from a difficult childhood and painful divorce to finding a deeply secure, loving relationship.

    Wynn shares how her early attachment style influenced her relationships and how, through self-reflection, therapy, and intentional growth, she began to transform her patterns.

    Together, they explore the role of emotional healing, conscious communication, and nervous system safety in building lasting love. As Wynn prepares to enter a new marriage, she reflects on how true partnership requires not only choosing the right person — but also becoming the version of ourselves who can fully receive that love.

    💗 If you've ever struggled with anxious attachment or wondered whether healing is possible after heartbreak, this episode offers insight and hope.

    💡 Topics We Explore:

    • How anxious attachment forms in childhood

    • The impact of early wounds on adult love

    • Healing after divorce through self-reflection and growth

    • Coping mechanisms that block emotional intimacy

    • Learning to recognize and shift old patterns

    • Communication and conflict resolution in secure partnerships

    • The role of safe partners in personal healing

    • Building a strong “relationship container” that supports growth

    Chapters

    00:00 Wyn's Childhood and Its Impact

    47:44 Understanding Emotional Needs in Relationships

    50:10 Healing Attachment Wounds

    52:37 Coping Strategies and Survival Mechanisms

    55:11 Navigating New Relationships After Divorce

    57:29 The Importance of Communication and Reassurance

    59:36 Daily Practices for Relationship Growth

    01:02:33 Creating a Strong Relationship Container


    🎯 Keywords:
    anxious attachment healing, secure love relationships, attachment styles in marriage, emotional healing after divorce, childhood trauma and love patterns, choosing emotionally available partners, how to build a healthy relationship

    📲 Hashtags:
    #AnxiousAttachment #SecureLove #HealingPastWounds #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipGrowth #EmotionalHealing #TheYearningHeartPodcast


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    10 months ago
    1 hour 3 minutes 52 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    Therapist Insights: People Pleasing and Self-Love — Healing Family Wounds in Relationships - A Deeper Dive into Episode 3

    In this Therapist Insights episode, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, offers a deeper exploration of themes raised in Episode 3 with Kirsten — focusing on how people-pleasing behaviors and struggles with self-love are rooted in early family dynamics.

    Jennifer examines how childhood experiences influence our ability to set boundaries, communicate needs, and choose emotionally available partners. She shares therapeutic insights and reflections to help you better understand your relational patterns and begin the journey toward self-trust and emotional safety.

    If you've ever abandoned yourself to keep the peace or felt stuck in unhealthy cycles of overgiving, this episode is here to guide you back to your inner worth.

    💡 Topics We Explore:

    • The roots of people-pleasing in family systems

    • Self-love as a boundary practice, not just a feeling

    • Healing abandonment fears and self-doubt

    • How family patterns shape romantic choices

    • The importance of emotionally safe environments for children

    • Choosing partners based on kindness and reciprocity

    • Using self-talk as a healing tool


    Chapters

    00:00 Kirsten's Journey

    01:36 Relationships Are Our Biggest Teachers

    03:11 People Pleasing

    05:13 What Kind of Partner To Look For

    06:18 Family History

    08:41 Awareness, Acceptance, Action

    10:20 Self Talk

    11:00 Leaving A Relationship for the Children

    11:43 Impact on Children

    12:17 Questions for you

    13:08 Introduction to Weconcile and Relationship Building

    🎯 Keywords:
    people pleasing and relationships, self-love and boundaries, healing childhood wounds in love, therapist podcast on emotional health, emotional abandonment recovery, choosing healthy partners, recovering from codependency

    📲 Hashtags:
    #TherapistInsights #PeoplePleasingRecovery #SelfLoveHealing #FamilyWounds #RelationshipPatterns #EmotionalGrowth #TheYearningHeartPodcast

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    10 months ago
    13 minutes 39 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    Therapy Insights: How Your Personal History Shapes Love: High Drama, Trust & Self-Worth - A Deeper Dive Into Episode 2

    In this short solo episode, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, builds on the themes from Episode 2 with Janice — exploring how our personal histories shape our relationship patterns, sense of self-worth, and ability to experience emotional safety in love.

    Jennifer dives into why so many of us are drawn to high-drama relationships, how unresolved childhood dynamics keep us repeating pain, and what it takes to create real connection and trust.

    With compassion and clarity, she shares insights on emotional growth, learning to choose healthier partners, and the importance of developing new relational skills.

    💗 If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship?” — this episode offers answers and hope.

  • 💬 Topics We Explore:
    • The roots of high-drama relationships

    • Why love can feel unsafe if we lack self-worth

    • How family history influences who we choose

    • Letting go of outdated relationship patterns

    • Learning to communicate and build emotional safety

    • When “in love” fades — and how real love grows

    • How to pick your battles and protect your peace


      Chapters

      00:00 Understanding High Drama Relationships

      06:42 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

      08:37 Introduction to Weconcile and Relationship Building

      08:38 The Importance of Communication in Relationships


      🎯 Keywords:
      high drama relationships, emotional safety in love, family history and relationships, healing self-worth, relationship patterns, therapist podcast on love, how to stop choosing the wrong partner

      📲 Hashtags:#HighDrama #RelationshipPatterns #SelfWorthHealing #ConsciousLove #AttachmentHealing #TheYearningHeartPodcast #TherapistReflections

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    11 months ago
    9 minutes 7 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    Therapist Insights: Healing Attachment Wounds: Emotional Safety, Trust, and Childhood Roots - A Deeper Dive into Episode 1

    In this solo episode, Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, expands on the powerful themes from Episode 1 — diving deeper into the roots of attachment wounds, emotional safety, and the lasting effects of narcissistic parenting on our ability to trust and connect.

    Drawing on her experience as a licensed therapist and her conversation with Miette, Jennifer explores how early emotional injuries shape our adult relationships — and what we can do to begin healing. With clarity and compassion, she offers guidance on vulnerability, honest expression, and building trust.

    This episode is for anyone who grew up feeling unseen, unsafe, or unsure how to express their needs — and who longs to create deeper, more authentic connections in love.

    💗 Topics Explored:

    • How attachment wounds form in childhood

    • The impact of narcissistic parents on emotional development

    • Why emotional safety is essential in love

    • Listening without judgment to build trust

    • Using self-soothing to manage relationship anxiety

    • Honesty and vulnerability as tools for deeper connection

    • How assumptions can sabotage intimacy

    • The importance of understanding your partner’s inner world

    Chapters

    00:00 Exploring Attachment Wounds and Relationships

    07:41 The Importance of Honest Expression in Relationships

    09:05 Introduction to Weconcile and Relationship Building

    09:06 The Importance of Communication in Relationships


    🎯 Keywords:
    attachment wounds in relationships, healing childhood trauma, narcissistic parenting effects, emotional safety in love, building trust in relationships, self-soothing techniques, vulnerability and connection, therapist podcast on love


    📲 Hashtags:
    #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalSafety #NarcissisticParents #RelationshipTrauma #SelfSoothing #HonestCommunication #TheYearningHeartPodcast #JenniferLehrLMFT

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    11 months ago
    9 minutes 35 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    Trailer: Welcome to The Yearning Heart Podcast — Stories of Love, Healing & Growth

    Welcome to The Yearning Heart Podcast, a space for real stories of love, heartbreak, healing, and personal transformation. In this short trailer, host Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, shares the inspiration behind the podcast — and why our emotional journeys in love and relationships are too valuable to stay hidden.

    Whether you're seeking a life partner, healing from a breakup, or navigating a long-term relationship, this podcast offers intimate, meaningful conversations to support your growth.

    Hosted by a licensed therapist and creator of the WeConcile app, The Yearning Heart Podcast features guests who open up about their struggles and breakthroughs — and invites you to explore your own relational path with more awareness, compassion, and courage.

    🔔 Follow on Spotify, YouTube, or Apple Podcasts to begin your journey of emotional growth and relational healing.

    “So many of us struggle with the same things. We have yearning hearts, dreams, and the desire to feel secure in love and in ourselves.” – Jennifer Lehr, LMFT


    🎯 Keywords:
    relationship healing podcast, emotional growth stories, conscious love, relationship therapist podcast, how to build secure relationships, healing relationship patterns, stories about love and trauma


    📲 Hashtags:
    #RelationshipHealing #PodcastTrailer #EmotionalGrowth #LoveAndRelationships #TheYearningHeartPodcast #ConsciousLove #WeConcile

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    11 months ago
    2 minutes 37 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    From Divorce to Self-Love: Kirsten’s Journey Through Codependency and Healing

    In this raw and insightful conversation, Kirsten opens up about the deep impact her parents’ divorce — and her own — had on her sense of self, relationships, and emotional patterns.

    She shares how childhood dynamics led to people-pleasing, codependency, and emotional attunement that became survival tools in adulthood. But through reflection, therapy, and inner work, she has begun to shift toward empowerment, reciprocity, and authentic self-love.

    If you've ever questioned your "picker," stayed too long in a one-sided relationship, or struggled to prioritize yourself in love, Kirsten’s journey will deeply resonate.

    💗 This episode is a gentle invitation to forgive yourself, understand your patterns, and move toward the love you truly deserve.


    💬 Topics We Explore:

    • The emotional impact of childhood divorce on adult love

    • Patterns of people-pleasing and codependency in relationships

    • Learning to identify emotional cues and unmet needs

    • The “faulty picker” — and how to change your relationship blueprint

    • Cultivating self-love that includes your flaws

    • Seeking kindness, balance, and emotional maturity in love


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Relationships and Personal Growth

    06:09 Navigating Divorce and Its Aftermath

    11:15 Patterns in Romantic Relationships

    16:41 Breaking the Cycle of Codependency

    21:32 Reflections on Parental Relationships

    26:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    30:26 Introduction to Weconcile and Relationship Building

    30:27 The Importance of Communication in Relationships


    🎯 Keywords:
    divorce healing, people pleasing, codependency recovery, self-love after breakup, emotional trauma in relationships, how to build self-worth, conscious dating, attachment healing, childhood wounds and love patterns

    📲 Hashtags:
    #SelfLoveJourney #DivorceRecovery #PeoplePleasing #EmotionalHealing #ConsciousRelationships #CodependencyHealing #TheYearningHeartPodcast

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    11 months ago
    30 minutes 55 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    From Chaos to Connection: Rewiring Drama-Based Love for a Secure Marriage

    In this heartfelt conversation, Janice shares her transformative journey through love — from early relationships shaped by family dysfunction to the grounded, emotionally safe marriage she now experiences.

    Together, we explore how drama and chaos were once mistaken for passion, and how her understanding of love evolved through boundary-setting, healing past wounds, and learning to embrace difference with patience and presence.

    Janice opens up about how communication, emotional safety, and self-discovery continue to shape her partnership — and how growth is an ongoing process, even in a healthy relationship.

    If you’ve ever confused emotional intensity with real intimacy, this episode offers both compassion and clarity.


    Topics We Explore:

    • How family dynamics shaped Janice’s early relationships

    • Releasing the “drama = love” narrative

    • Creating emotional safety in a secure marriage

    • Conflict resolution as a pathway to deeper connection

    • Personal growth, self-acceptance, and relational healing

    • Embracing difference in a healthy partnership

    • The ongoing evolution of love and intimacy


    Chapters

    00:00 Janice's Journey Through Relationships

    03:39 Building a Strong Foundation

    07:18 Navigating Differences and Conflict

    10:21 Understanding Family Dynamics

    14:22 Creating a Secure Relationship

    18:55 Personal Growth and Self-Discovery

    22:52 The Impact of Past Relationships

    26:11 Embracing Imperfections

    28:25 Looking Forward to New Chapters


    Keywords:

    drama bond recovery, secure attachment, emotional safety in relationships, marriage healing journey, childhood trauma and love, relational growth, how to build emotional trust, conscious marriage, family dynamics and intimacy


    Hashtags:

    #EmotionalHealing #SecureAttachment #DramaBond #MarriageJourney #RelationshipGrowth #ConsciousLove #AttachmentHealing #TheYearningHeartPodcast

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    1 year ago
    29 minutes 13 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    Blended Families & Trust Issues: A Journey Through Long-Distance Love and Emotional Growth

    In this heartfelt conversation, Jennifer speaks with Miette about the emotional complexities of love, trust, and family. Miette opens up about her experiences in a long-distance relationship, the challenges of navigating trust issues rooted in her upbringing, and the impact of blended family dynamics on her ability to feel emotionally safe.

    Together, they explore how self-awareness, emotional support, and communication are essential in building healthy partnerships. Miette’s journey of healing, self-discovery, and redefining her needs in relationships offers insight and inspiration for anyone learning to love more consciously.

    Topics Explored

      • Trust issues from childhood and family dynamics

      • Long-distance relationship challenges and communication

      • Emotional safety and self-expression in love

      • Blended families and relationship healing

      • Overcoming people pleasing and reclaiming personal power

    Chapters

    00:00 Navigating Relationships: A Young Adult's Perspective

    12:31 Trust Issues and Their Origins

    22:08 The Impact of Parenting on Relationship Dynamics

    30:12 Defining Future Relationship Goals and Emotional Safety

    36:14 Introduction to Weconcile and Relationship Building

    36:15 The Importance of Communication in Relationships




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    1 year ago
    36 minutes 40 seconds

    The Yearning Heart Podcast: Real Stories of Love, Relationships and Emotional Growth
    The Yearning Heart Podcast is a soulful space where real people share journeys through love, heartbreak, and healing. Hosted by Jennifer Lehr, LMFT, each episode dives into relationship dynamics, emotional intelligence, attachment styles, and self-love. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, deepening intimacy, or breaking old patterns, you’ll find honest stories and therapist insights to help you create secure, lasting love. Tune in for real stories and expert guidance to help you transform your relationships. Topics: self-love, attachment styles and more.