In this episode (15) of the Yearning Heart podcast, Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT delves into the insights shared by Dennis regarding mindfulness, relationships, and personal growth.

She emphasizes the importance of mindfulness in therapy,how it can be used to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation, and the potential pitfalls of using mindfulness defensively. She also explores how mindfulness can heal anxious and avoidant attachment styles, deepen self-awareness, and strengthen relationships.explores the significance of attachment styles in relationships, the necessityvof growth and shared core values between partners, and the importance of focusing on what works in a relationship to foster connection and understanding.

Takeaways

Mindfulness helps strengthen the witness within us.

Being mindful allows us to notice our experiences withoutmerging with them.

Mindfulness can be misused as a defense mechanism.

It's essential to engage with our feelings rather than avoidthem.

Attachment styles influence how we can best use mindfulness in relationships.

Growth in relationships requires both partners to be willingto evolve.

Core values must align for a relationship to thrive.

Focusing on what works in a relationship fosters positivity.

Communication must be safe and compassionate for effective engagement.

Differentiation is key to understanding and relating to apartner.

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Mindfulness: A Deep Dive

06:06 Mindfulness Red Flags

07:11 What Do The Feelings Want?

07:43 Mindfulness and Attachment Styles

09:02 Mindfulness as a Cognitive Strength

11:37 When It is Time to Leave a Relationship

15:22 Core Values and Relationship Compatibility

16:50 I Can Only Control Myself

19:32 Engagement in the Process: Detaching from Outcomes

20:50 Focus On What Works

Keywords

mindfulness, self-awareness, relationships, attachmentstyles, emotional intelligence, personal growth, communication, core values,emotional connection, therapy