
In this episode (16) of The Yearning Heart Podcast, Jennifer J. Lehr, LMFT, speaks with Willow Light, an esthetician, herbalist, and intuitive healer, about her powerful journey of healing from childhood trauma and toxic relationships.
Willow shares openly about growing up in foster care, the impact of her mother’s mental illness, and how these wounds shaped her choices in love. From a stable but spiritually mismatched marriage, to a painful six-year relationship with a narcissistic alcoholic, to the deep healing that followed—including psilocybin journeys and therapy—her story is one of resilience, courage, and transformation.
Now, Willow is in a spiritually aligned relationship with someone she’s known since childhood. Her journey shows how our deepest wounds can lead us toward growth, self-love, and hope.
✨ Topics in this episode:
The “mother wound” and “father wound” in relationships
Why we sometimes attract toxic partners
The seductive pull of narcissistic love
Nature, meditation, and psilocybin as healing tools
Moving from dependency → toxic entanglement → interdependent love
💜 A story of descent, healing, and renewal—proof that even our most painful chapters can open the way to love.
For more information or to read the full transcript for this episode go to https://weconcile.com/yearning-heart-podcast.
Chapters
00:00 Healing Through Relationships: Willow's Journey
01:04 Willow's Relationship Overview
02:36 Introduction to Willow's Journey
04:24 The Impact of Early Trauma
07:01 Finding Strength in Adversity
09:53 Seeking Stability: The First Marriage
10:59 Not Chosen - A Wound
14:23 The Shift in Spiritual Connection
17:39 Co-Parenting and Collaboration Post-Divorce
20:58 The Guilt and Shame
22:31 Dreams and Intuition
23:37 Voice of Sabotage
27:11 The New Relationship and the Hook
29:40 Red Flags
30:27 Navigating Alcohol and Relationships
33:57 Alcoholism/ Narcissism/Mother Wound
37:02 Beginning to Leave
41:13 Co-Dependent
41:50 Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns
44:23 Psilocybin Journey
49:52 Choosing to Heal
51:12 New Relationship
59:35 Finding a Healthy Connection
01:02:01 Interdependence
01:02:37 Willow's Relational Arc
01:04:58 Thank You
01:05:49 Connect with Willow
01:06:10 More about Jennifer Lehr LMFT