In the final episode of this season, Gillian gives an update on the future of this podcast, and does a full reading of the Introduction section of her book coming out on October 25th 2025 called, "When Family Isn't Everything."
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If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I doing this healing thing right?” — this podcast is for you.
Do you worry that you're 'falling back' or not moving forward if you get triggered or feel emotional about a past experience with family, an ex, or criticism even after you've begun personal growth? Does it feel like you're not healing or "healed" if you still struggle from time to time? Let's talk!
Host Gillian Shields shares:
Gillian also shares more details about her new book coming out later this year!
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Struggling with a difficult, distant, or estranged relationship with a parent? In this powerful episode, host Gillian Shields explores why many adults still long for their parents to change—and how that desire can keep us stuck in pain. Discover compassionate insights and empowering tools to help you find peace, and build a fulfilling life—regardless of your relationship with your parent.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
The book: This Is Gratitude
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Feeling judged or criticized by your family for being true to yourself? In this episode, host Gillian Shields shares three powerful tools to help you stay authentic and find happiness, no matter what others think. Tune in for practical advice on how to embrace your individuality and make life choices that feel right for you.
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Have you ever struggled to decide if you should stay or walk away from a difficult relationship with a family member, friend, or romantic partner? I have! And my decision making process used to be a complete mess. How I make decisions now is totally different. I now do it with confidence and without regret.
In this episode, I share:
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People either sink or they rise when a personal crisis or disaster hits. Today, I talk about becoming the one who rises. Whether your crisis is a breakup, being single, toxic family, a friend who betrayed or let you down, or a career let down, what's the difference between sinking or rising? I share 3 things that helped me become my most resilient self yet, and go on to have a better life than I did before difficult events hit.
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Going home for the holidays is a great feeling for some. But for others, it’s a feeling of discomfort and even dread. Choosing to not go home for the holidays or visit some people can be a decision that comes with a lot of feelings - doubt, guilt, frustration, and burn out. This used to be my emotional experience. Since then, I’ve done a lot of work to honor my goals, growth, and happiness during the holiday season. You can too.
In this episode, I talk about:
The reason I don’t always go home for the holidays (or any other event, etc.)
The two main factors that contribute to my reason
The honest truth about what really creates your happiness during the holidays
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Healing advice - you see it everywhere and from everyone. Whether it’s from friends, family, therapists, mentors, coaches, or a person you don’t know on the internet, people who want to help you feel better will share healing advice. I started my own healing and transformation journey over a decade ago, and I’ve heard it all. Some advice helped, and others really did not.
In this episode, I share 4 pieces of healing advice that never worked for me versus what did when it came to turning around my life and healing from toxic relationships and feeling hurt by the actions of others.
In this episode, I talk about:
How to know if a piece of healing advice is best for you and your situation
Acceptance vs. tolerance of other people’s actions and where they are at in life
Alternative perspectives to get better after a difficult relationship
How to disentangle yourself from dysfunctional people and situatons
The most helpful question you can ask yourself to find out if a piece of healing advice fits well for your situation
Enjoy!
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Welcome to Season 4! Gratitude is often thought of an ‘OG happiness tool’ by therapists, researchers, coaches and mentors, and pretty much anyone else who wants to help you with feeling better about life. Why? Because practicing gratitude works at improving our well being.
Despite all the research and books written about the power of gratitude, there’s a lived experience about practicing gratitude that I often don’t see talked about. The truth is that for many people (including myself), practicing gratitude hasn’t always brought on a happier feeling about life. We might go through the steps of gratitude, but not really get there in feeling. If this is your experience, then I know you’ll love this episode.
In this episode, I talk about:
What is gratitude
What blocks you from getting to a true state of feeling grateful
5 things that you may have not considered that can help you get to gratitude now
2 things I believe are most important to helping you feel grateful and happy even if you aren’t truly grateful for ‘everything’
My new guided journal-book hybrid, This Is Gratitude
Enjoy!
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Summer has been different, in a good way. In this episode, I talk about:
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My book, Happy Boundaries
"What you might not know about boundaries" - podcast episode with Erika Mason
In today’s episode, I hold an incredible conversation with Erika Mason about boundaries. Erika is a holistic Occupational Therapist, spiritual and energetic coach and healer, Akashic Record consultant, and more. She has been doing energetic and intuitive work for over 20 years, and through her work, she has seen a very clear link between chronic pain and other health issues, and lack of boundaries.
Erika and I discuss what you might not know about boundaries and share perspectives that will inspire you to use boundaries for a healthy and fulfilling life.
In What you might not know about boundaries, we discuss:
My new book, Happy Boundaries, coming out later in June 2024
How boundaries relate to your emotional, psychological, and physical health
What your energetic and chakra system can tell you about your boundaries
How to effectively navigate feelings or guilt and anger surrounding boundaries and when people don’t respect yours
What boundaries (and lack thereof) mean for your soul and your spiritual growth
How boundaries come into play as a parent, partner, friend, and individual
How to heal from people who criticize, disrespect, and dislike your boundaries (what I call, Boundary Resisters)
Erika's 50% off link for listeners
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In today's episode I share with you what I've been up to and:
* 3 things you can do to move into self love, specifically when it feels difficult
* What is really means when you're struggling with self-love
* The connection between the self-concept and your tangible goals like loving relationships and success.
Enjoy!
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A short, but powerful episode for anyone who feels too afraid to fly and soar in life after adversity, emotional hurt, and difficult relationship experiences.
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My book: The Dating Pattern Cure
In today’s episode of So This Is Love, the podcast, I hold a powerful conversation with life coach Emily Hart, who shares her story of using heartbreak for change after her fiancé broke off their engagement 3 months before their wedding.
Emily shares her dating and relationship pattern, how she became aware of it, and what she did to change her love life around.
Together, we discuss:
· How to know if you have a dating and relationship pattern that doesn’t align with your desire and joy
· The most important factors to create change in your love life, instead of repeating a pattern
· How to begin developing a healthy self-relationship
· How to use the post-breakup space for pure magic
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In this episode of So This Is Love, the podcast, I have powerful conversation with Patsy Berridge, who shares her journey into sobriety after a childhood full of competition, and losing her brother from suicide. Patsy explains how being a highly sensitive person who had no knowledge or developed skills about emotional regulation, led her to use alcohol beginning at the age of 12 to cope with her feelings.
We talk:
· What is emotional intelligence?
· How to become an ‘observer’ of your emotions
· How to calm and regulate your emotions and body
· Top pieces of wisdom to start and continue on a growth journey into emotional intelligence
· What really worked for Patsy on her path to sobriety and emotional intelligence
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In this episode, I have a beautiful conversation with women's empowerment coach, Maria Cottrell. She shares her story of how she shifted her career as a nurse to becoming a life coach after being diagnosed with bladder cancer at the age of 34. Together, Maria and I share:
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We’re back with Season 3! In this episode, I share with you 6 beautiful, life-changing messages I got this summer. Whether it was through my own personal experiences, or what I saw my clients experience, these messages of summer shifted how I lead my life.
In this episode I share about:
· How I got the second edition of my book, The Dating Pattern Cure, written by working less and having it be way more enjoyable and fun than the first time around
· A deeper truth about relationships with people who aren’t willing to love themselves, and what I chose to do about it
· The secret to moving through change and challenge quicker and more connected to life than ever
· The unobvious perspective that helps you heal and up-level when it seems like things are falling apart in life or in a relationship
· The key to coming up from emotional hurt better than f*cking ever
…and more!
Stay tuned till the end part of this episode for an exciting announcement!!
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Welcome back to the podcast! This episode is so so special to me - it's the LAST episode of Season 2 and it's a deeply personal share that has powerful guidance.
It's been an incredible season for me and I hope for you too! I am super excited for Season 3, which will begin later in the summer.
In today's episode I share with you the grief I've been moving through over the last 2 months and how you can massively thrive in grief, coming out stronger than ever.
Topics:
* The different circumstances than can create a sense of grief
* The two reactions that most people have in grief that don't allow full thriving, and how to change that!
* 4 powerful codes that create thriving (not just surviving) through grief
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In this episode I chat with the lovely Tina Marie, an incredible life coach & healer. She shares her story and we have an open conversation about:
This was such a beautiful and powerful conversation, I hope you enjoy!
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In this episode, I have a special guest, Aveary Hamilton, a soul freedom coach. We met in a business program mastermind and discovered we had so much in common in our growth journey.
In this episode, Aveary and I chat about:
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