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Sayo Says
Adesayo Talabi
16 episodes
1 week ago

I’m a spoken word artist; gatekeeper of kpoetry; satirist and favourite child. Welcome to my new show, Sayo Says.


I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.


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I’m a spoken word artist; gatekeeper of kpoetry; satirist and favourite child. Welcome to my new show, Sayo Says.


I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.


📲 FOLLOW ✨SAYO SAYS✨ ON SOCIALS:

Insta: https://bit.ly/sayosaysig

TikTok: https://bit.ly/sayosaystt


📲 FOLLOW ME ON MY SOCIALS:


Instagram: https://bit.ly/simplysayoig 

TikTok: https://bit.ly/simplysayott 

Twitter: https://bit.ly/simplysayo-twitter





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Episodes (16/16)
Sayo Says
Sayo Says: Faking Adulthood | Under My Clittatorship | He Undermined Your Career?! | ep.019 ft Rita B

Sayo Says: Faking Adulthood | Under My Clittatorship | He Undermined Your Career?! | ep.019 ft Rita B


🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.019 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here. 


In this week’s episode, we are joined by another special guest, the hilarious host of Faking Adulthood Podcast, Rita B!!! 


🗒️ In this episode we talk about:

🎙️ Faking adulthood podcast

💁🏿‍♀️ Under my Clittatorship- because ‘Doctatorship’ is too male-centred

🚙 Parking fines & other adult sh*t

🙅🏾‍♀️ Being an unforgiving woman

😔 Why must good women have small bums

📧 Dilemma: leave him sis!!



🍿This is a must watch if you love a laugh, and entertaining and stimulating conversations then you’re going to love this show!

 

Thank you for watching.


Reminder: register to become a blood donor through ‘ It Takes A Village’, my campaign to get 16,000 new blood donors from Black heritage backgrounds https://bit.ly/it-takes-a-village-simply-sayo


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1 week ago
1 hour 37 seconds

Sayo Says
Sayo Says: “ Sayo’s Supper Club I Double Dip Your Coochie Lips I Demonic Rage Rooms? I Black British Women Date Transactionally? ep.018


🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.018 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here. 


🗒️ In this episode we talk about:


🎙️Sayo’s Supper Club: Sold Out Show

✍🏾Making up your own idioms

😈Rage Rooms are demonic? Chelsea come on now?!?

🤐Emotional suppression

💷Black women date transactionally?!? Boy bye!!

🖤Hedonism & Black queer love 

 


🍿This is a must watch if you love a laugh, and entertaining and stimulating conversations then you’re going to love this show!

 

Thank you for watching.


Reminder: register to become a blood donor through ‘ It Takes A Village’, my campaign to get 16,000 new blood donors from Black heritage backgrounds https://bit.ly/it-takes-a-village-simply-sayo 


Listen to Oriki album:

https://f.io/tQsHdz3m

•⁠ ⁠tracks, Adunni & Oriki ft ME!


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2 weeks ago
1 hour 11 minutes 2 seconds

Sayo Says
Sayo Says: “I’m Not Religious”| Nailing It Pod| Influencers lying?| Women in Sports ep.017 w. Wunmi & Priscilla

🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.016 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here. 


In today’s VERY VERY special episode, we have our first double guest feature !!! We’re sat down with my Nailing It Podcast co-hosts; presenters and creators, Wunmi Bello and Priscilla Anyabu!


We talk about life, religion, pivoting careers, health and much more. 


🗒️ In this episode we talk about:


💅🏾 Life since Nailing It

⛪️ Religion, atheism and self discovery

🙏🏾Faith, belief, and confidence 

🛣️ Pivoting career paths

☝🏾Transparency in influencing 

⚽️ Women in sports 

⚕️Health and wellness



🍿This is a must watch if you love a laugh, and entertaining and stimulating conversations then you’re going to love this show!

 

Thank you for watching.


Why not binge all episode of Nailing It Podcast from episode one here:

 https://spotify.link/f6Gwk0bqOXb


Reminder: register to become a blood donor through ‘ It Takes A Village’, my campaign to get 16,000 new blood donors from Black heritage backgrounds https://bit.ly/it-takes-a-village-simply-sayo


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3 weeks ago
1 hour 42 minutes 31 seconds

Sayo Says
Sayo Says: “ Male Postpartum?! Girl, shut up!”| Watered down Feminism| Politics is doing you. ep.016

🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.016 of Sayo Says!


In today’s episode, I’m annoyed!



🗒️ In this episode we talk about:



🚫 Co-opting the language of women’s pain

🤦🏾‍♀️ Not every choice a woman makes is a feminist choice - that’s okay.

🧍🏾‍♀️ Watering down feminism  

😐 This world is mad/dening

🚨 Grow up and engage with politics

📈Fascism and bigotry on the rise 


Reminder: register to become a blood donor through ‘ It Takes A Village’, my campaign to get 16,000 new blood donors from Black heritage backgrounds https://bit.ly/it-takes-a-village-simply-sayo 


Thank you for watching.


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4 weeks ago
1 hour 3 minutes 13 seconds

Sayo Says
Sayo Says: Street interviews I Dating I Socialising with men I Being the class clown I ft StxphnotSteve ep.015

🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.015 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here. 



In today’s special guest episode, I am joined by Stephan Sarpong, aka Stxph Not Steve; actor, street interviewer and content creator whose hilarious interviews and vox pops have kept thousands of people entertained.

This episode is chatty, playful and very unserious from the jump. 

I also introduce a new segment in today’s episode. Hope you enjoy. 


Reminder: register to become a blood donor through ‘ It Takes A Village’, my campaign to get 16,000 new blood donors from Black heritage backgrounds https://bit.ly/it-takes-a-village-simply-sayo 


Tickets for Sayo’s Supper Club: Come and join me and my talented friends for Dinner and A Show on Thursday 23rd October: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/sayos-supper-club-an-evening-of-food-poetry-live-music-tickets-1757662207979?aff=oddtdtcreator


🗒️ In this episode we talk about:


Friendship and brand trips

Street Interviews

Dating

Holding male friends accountable

Experimenting with content



🍿This is a must watch if you love a laugh and entertaining conversations then you’re going to love this show!

 

Thank you for watching.


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1 month ago
1 hour 25 minutes 49 seconds

Sayo Says
Sayo Says: “Colourism in Mykonos?" I Sun, Sea & Sex I I lost my passport I solo dates ep.014

🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.014 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here. 



In today’s episode, there is no 4th wall being broken. In today’s episode we talk about how I use fashion and colours to survive living in the gloomy hellscape that is the UK. We talk about the beauty of solo dates and spending time with yourself picking up hobbies and trying new activities. Later in this episode, we speak about my trip to Mykonos and how I almost didn’t make it because I couldn’t find my passport. If you‘ve watched previous episodes, you’ll know how much I love a good story time, and this episode has like 4; two of which being the story of how I experienced colourism in Mykonos a few hours apart which really irritated me.


The contents of this episode and the topics are as colourful and vibrant as my fabulous outfit! Enjoy, baby cakes 😘


Reminder: register to become a blood donor through ‘ It Takes A Village’, my campaign to get 16,000 new blood donors from Black heritage backgrounds https://bit.ly/it-takes-a-village-simply-sayo 


🗒️ In this episode we talk about:


🌦️ Pathetic fallacy and using fashion to compensate for moody British weather 

🧍‍♀️ Solo dates and doing things alone 

✈️ I almost missed my flight - My holiday to Mykonos 

👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 The beauty of baecations

🟤 Colourism on holiday 



🍿This is a must watch if you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface; then you’re going to love this show!

 

Thank you for watching.


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1 month ago
58 minutes 13 seconds

Sayo Says
Sayo Says: “Someone dragged you off a train?”I Summer shenanigansI Role play ft Seyi Classic. Ep 013

🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.013 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


In today’s episode, I am joined by another special guest; my friend and minister of enjoyment, Seyi Classic. Seyi is a host, presenter, media personality and enjoyer of life, and honorary South African who has built an online following for his relatable and hilarious videos.


I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did.


In this episode we talk about:

- Summer shenanigans and holidays

- Hosting, presenting, media industry

- Setting boundaries with supporters

- The importance of dancing like no one is looking

- Someone pooped on my car!!!


EXCLUSIVE: Seyi teases new BTS Show: Growing up Seyi


🍿This is a must watch if you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface; then you’re going to love this show!


Thank you for watching.


Reminder: register to become a blood donor through ‘ It Takes A Village’, my campaign to get 16,000 new blood donors from Black heritage backgrounds https://bit.ly/it-takes-a-village-simply-sayo


Thank you for watching.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.


📲 FOLLOW ✨SAYO SAYS✨ ON SOCIALS

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1 month ago
1 hour 23 minutes 59 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: ‘We do not live in a meritocracy’ | wardrobe malfunctions | deservedness & suffering| Dilemmas. ep.009

🔊 Welcome back! It's ep.009 of Sayo Says!


If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes!


I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here. 


In today’s episode, we talk about how I almost dieded on the escalators and my skirt was almost pulled down in the process. We also talk about meritocracy, touching on imposter syndrome, anchoring the conversation to the story of how I won Head Girl of my sixth form college and how the election confirmed my perspective on meritocracy and how the world operates. The episode is ultimately discussing the idea of deservedness and how we try to quantify how much someone deserves something based on how much they have suffered before getting it. This is more of a philosophical conversation to get us to think about how we engage with the world based on what we think we deserve and don’t deserve and how we try to find meaning by trying to quantify deservedness.


We also have a very special dilemma segment this week AND WE HAVE A NEW JINGLE!!!!! I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.


In this episode we talk about:

🧍🏾‍♀️The lady who put her coochie on my head

⚖️ Meritocracy 

🌚 Imposter syndrome

✨ Deservedness and suffering

👩🏾‍🏫 Running for Head Girl at my College

📧 Dilemmas 


🍿This is a must watch if you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface; then you’re going to love this show!


Thank you for watching.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.


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Insta: https://bit.ly/sayosaysig

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Instagram: https://bit.ly/simplysayoig

TikTok: https://bit.ly/simplysayott

Twitter: https://bit.ly/simplysayo-twitter


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2 months ago
48 minutes 51 seconds

Sayo Says
Sayo Says: “We missed our flight” | Black UK & African American creators | ep.008 ft The Oddity

🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.008 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


Today’s another special guest episode! My good good sis Sofi joins us in the studio today to talk about sex, how she is finding digital nomadry, paying $7000 a month for her NYC apartment, Ronald Raegan, being woke- to name just a few topics touched on in this episode. And we have started our dilemmas segments on the show now- so that means ✨ new jingle ✨!!!


In this episode we talk about:

🇲🇪✈️ Missing our flight to Montenegro

🏖️ Sex on holiday

👩🏾‍❤️‍👩🏽 Friendship and sisterhood

🇬🇧🇺🇸 Black British creators & African American creators

✊🏾 Racism & xenophobia


Description:

In this episode, I sit down with @Theodditty and fawn over her. She’s such a cutie pie and I love her. This episode takes you onto many journeys a day different conversations that flow seamlessly. I’m sure you’ve grown to expect lots of fun and playfulness from Sayo Says and we hope you are enjoying growing with us.


🍿This is a must watch if you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface; then you’re going to love this show!


Thank you for watching.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.



📲 FOLLOW ✨SAYO SAYS✨ ON SOCIALS

Insta: https://bit.ly/sayosaysig

TikTok: https://bit.ly/sayosaystt


📲 FOLLOW ME ON MY SOCIALS:

Instagram: https://bit.ly/simplysayoig

TikTok: https://bit.ly/simplysayott

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2 months ago
1 hour 37 minutes 23 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: “ I’m A Kpoet”| “What does my name mean?” | Teachers deserve better | EP.007

🔊 Welcome back to my TubesOfYou and to ep.007 of Sayo Says!

If you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


Today’s another special episode!! It’s our first episode with Auntie Sade- one of my many personas. She’ll be making more regular appearances on the show if you show her lots of love in her debut episode.


In this episode we talk about:

🤯 When I found out that names could have meanings

🔠 Where my love of words came from as a Spoken Word Artist

🌍 Immigrants vs Expat

🧑🏿‍🏫 The importance of good teachers

☯️ How culture informs your work, personality and sense of humour


In this episode, I talk about the origin story of how my fascination with and love of words / word formation began by me asking my parents “ what does my name mean?”. As a spoken word artist most known for my satirical poetic art style, ‘ Kpoetry’, I have a special love and respect for words that most people don’t. If you follow me on Instagram ( @simplysayo) or TikTok (@simply_sayo), you will have more context. I talk about how that single question made me existential at 8 years old and began to shape me into the person I am today and the way that I engage with words in my work and day to day life. We also touch on the importance and impact of education and good teachers; with lots of random tangents and spontaneous singing sprinkled throughout the episode.


🍿This is a must watch if you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface. Thank you for watching.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.



📲 FOLLOW ✨SAYO SAYS✨ ON SOCIALS

Insta: https://bit.ly/sayosaysig

TikTok: https://bit.ly/sayosaystt


📲 FOLLOW ME ON MY SOCIALS:

Instagram: https://bit.ly/simplysayoig

TikTok: https://bit.ly/simplysayott

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3 months ago
31 minutes 53 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: “Boo all femininity coaches”| Public floggings| Social media & Black women ft Kelechi | ep.006

🔊 Welcome back to ep.006 of Sayo Says! And if you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here. 


Today’s episode is very special!! It’s our first guest episode, and it’s with none other than Kelechi Okafor ( @kelechnakof ). Kelechi is a Nigerian-British, multi-disciplinarian with unrivalled wit and intelligence. She is an actress, public speaker, writer and author, pole dance enthusiast, social commentator- to name but a few of the hats that she wears.


In this episode we talk about:

📲 Navigating online criticism and floggings

⚧️ Internalised misogyny 

🙋🏾‍♀️Womanism and feminism

🚺 Femininity coaches 

📖 Kelechi’s book, ‘ Awakened’, and being an author


In this episode, we sit down with Kelechi and talk about what it’s like to be an out-spoken Black woman forging a career and navigating visibility online and the growth that is gained from a good online flogging when you’re wrong. In this episode, we also colourfully discuss the importance of reading Black authors, academics and experts and what it means for literacy that interest in English Language and Literature are declining in Universities. We speak about womanism, feminism, internalised misogyny, and Black-British women; addressing our own journeys and we both voice our suspicions and distrust of the rise of femininity coaches and fascism. We discuss Kelechi’s new fiction book, ‘ Awakened’, and her motivations and influences for writing it. This episode also has a special story time segment / format that I hope you will enjoy as much as myself and Kelechi did.


🍿This is a must watch if you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface; then you’re going to love this show!


Thank you for watching.



👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.


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Insta: https://bit.ly/sayosaysig

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Instagram: https://bit.ly/simplysayoig

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3 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 48 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: “Black women shouldn’t be humble" | “HUMILITY FI DEAD” | “Humility isn’t virtuous” ep.005

🔊 Welcome back to ep.005 of Sayo Says! And if you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes!


I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


In this episode,


📝 In this episode we talk about:



🍿This episode is a must watch if you’re young woman trying to navigate dating and romance; and want to listen to unfiltered, unapologetic conversations about the importance of rejecting shame surrounding sex as a woman and why you shouldn’t internalise it.


If you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface, then you’re going to love this show!



Thank you for watching.


Lots of love,

Sayo x


🔊 Welcome back to ep.005 of Sayo Says! And if you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo,and I’m so happy to have you here.


In this episode, we’re talking about humility and the challenge how it is used socially at times.

We also talk about why I don’t believe that Black women should be humble and reject humility! We talk about the ways its social use & dictionary definition differ, and the impact of that on how people perceive humility; humility culture in the U.K.; gender & humility, and why I’m not humble and decided that I can never be humbled!!!!


In this episode we talk about:

😌 Humility fi dead !!

🤔What does it mean to be humble?

💁🏾‍♂️ Why men love to humble women

📲 Social media and humility

👸🏿 Black women and humility

🇬🇧 Humility culture in the UK


🍿This episode is a must watch if you want to be more confident and don’t realise that being humble is holding you back. In this episode, I talk about why humility culture makes me uncomfortable and why I reject it and never internalise humility. Ofc, this is mostly conjecture and all topics are more nuanced than a 40 minute episode will cover, so have the discernment to understand that I know there is more than can be said. To be humble is “ to have a lowered sense of self importance”, and i just don’t understand how that is a good thing.


If you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface, then you’re going to love this show!


💬 Let me know in the comments: have you ever questioned how humility is used socially?

In what ways do you see humility to be good and what ways do you think it can be bad?

Have you noticed the disparity in how people try to humble Black women?

Are there any memories you have of people trying to humble you and you realise it was to undermine your confidence or achievements?


Thank you for watching.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.


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Insta: https://bit.ly/sayosaysig

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3 months ago
33 minutes 16 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: "Regretful mothers, regretful wives" | "Your pleasure as a woman doesn't matter" | ep.004

🔊 Welcome back to ep.004 of Sayo Says! And if you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes!


I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


In this episode, we’re talking about sex, baby! I get honest about some of my dating and relationship experiences and how I navigated my sexual curiosity. As a young African woman, trying to navigate the world or romance and dating when culture makes a taboo of women’s sexual desire and expression. Sex is often spoken about as something that is done to women, not with women. Rejecting the shame that is projected onto you as a woman is so freeing! Do not be silenced, sis.


📝 In this episode we talk about:

💕Dating as a young Black woman

⚧️ Sex and the women’s pleasure

🤔 Sexual curiosity

🫣 Shame culture and the conspiracy of silence around sex for women

🧑‍🧑‍🧒‍🧒 Regretful mothers and wives


🍿This episode is a must watch if you’re young woman trying to navigate dating and romance; and want to listen to unfiltered, unapologetic conversations about the importance of rejecting shame surrounding sex as a woman and why you shouldn’t internalise it.


If you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface, then you’re going to love this show!


💬 Let me know in the comments: were you encouraged to talk about sex with your parents?

Did you struggle navigating dating as a young woman?

Is talking about sex and exploring your sexuality something that makes you uncomfortable?

Would you say that you have a health relationship with your body?


Thank you for watching.


Lots of love,

Sayo x


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3 months ago
41 minutes 2 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: "Therapy, spiritual acne, Ms. Rachel & does everything happen for a reason?" | ep.003

🔊 Welcome back to ep.3 of Sayo Says! And if you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo,and I’m so happy to have you here.


In this episode we talk about:

🗂️👩🏿‍⚕️Therapy and forgiveness

🔮 Over-spiritualising and pathologizing

🤔 Does everything really happen for a reason?

👩🏻‍🏫 👶🏾👦🏼Ms. Rachel and parasocial relationships


🍿This episode is a must watch if you’re thinking about starting therapy, and want to listen to unfiltered, and unapologetic conversations about life and different perspectives.


If you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface, then you’re going to love this show!


💬 Let me know in the comments: Have you considered starting thearpy?

Does your parent over-spiritualise things in your life? Is Ms. Rachel the problem or has pathologising gone too far?


In this episode, we’re talking about therapy and my experience with it so far. We are also questioning if ‘ everything happens for a reason’ and why I don’t agree with the statement. This week’s episode strikes a good balance between fun and light playful, but also touches on some deeper topics that will hopefully leave you with lots to think about.


Thank you for watching.


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3 months ago
44 minutes 41 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: "I don’t want to be a mother, I want to be a father" | Anti-intellectualism | ep.002

🔊 Welcome back to ep.2 of Sayo Says! And if you’re joining for the first time, don’t forget to go back and watch ep.1!

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


In this episode we talk about:

👵🏾 Backhanded compliments from older women

🧠 How echo chambers feed into anti-intellectualism

🧐 Intellectual dishonesty, challenging people’s beliefs and your own

👨🏾‍🍼 Twitter and why so many men think they want children


🍿This episode is a must watch if you’re nosey, love to laugh, and want to listen to unfiltered, and unapologetic conversations about life.


If you love satire and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface, then you’re going to love this show!


💬 Let me know in the comments: Do you make an effort to break out of your echo chamber?

What has surprised you most about dating and communicating what you want?


In this episode, the aim is to get you to take a moment to be introspective and step out of your comfort zone to challenge your prior beliefs; as well as to get you to fall even deeper in love with your host so she can get to 10k followers soon!


Thank you for watching.


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4 months ago
24 minutes 47 seconds

Sayo Says
SAYO SAYS: “I made my African parents apologise” | “ I sucked at setting boundaries” | ep.001

🔊 Welcome to the first episode of Sayo Says!

I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo,and I’m so happy to have you here.


In this episode we talk about:

🏡 Moving back home

🚫 Setting boundaries and being a strict babe

👫🏾 Getting kicked out by a guy

🧑‍🧑‍🧒 Why African parents need to apologise to their children more


🍿This episode is a must watch if you’re nosey, love to laugh, and want to listen to unfiltered, and unapologetic conversations about life.

If you love satire and a good story time, then you’re going to love this show!


💬 Let me know in the comments: have you struggled to set boundaries before? If so, why and has that changed?

Do your parents struggle to apologise to you?


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4 months ago
36 minutes 49 seconds

Sayo Says

I’m a spoken word artist; gatekeeper of kpoetry; satirist and favourite child. Welcome to my new show, Sayo Says.


I’m your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo, and I’m so happy to have you here.


👍🏾 Make sure to like, comment, subscribe & share if this episode resonates with you, and if you enjoyed it.


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