Ever feel like you’re the adult in every conversation with your parent?
You try to connect, but somehow you end up apologizing for having feelings at all.In this episode we'll talk about how cycle starts, why it feels impossible to “get through” to them, and how to step out of the trap with clarity and calm boundaries.
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You faked your friendships? So what.
You learned how to survive by reading the room, by translating yourself, and pretending to fit in.
But now you're tired of pretending. You’d rather be alone than explain your every thought or force another fake laugh.
If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.
We’ll explore why connection can feel like work and how to stop doing all the heavy lifting just to feel alone anyway.
#fakefriendships #vulnerability #lateidentifiedautistic
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We all want to be understood but for some of us, visibility has never felt safe.
When your honesty has been met with rejection or ridicule, staying hidden feels like your only option.
In this week’s episode of the Patterns of Possibility Podcast, I talk about the fear of being seen, where it comes from, and how to move toward connection at your own pace.
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #Fear #Vulnerability
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Speaking with narcissists is an exercise in patience and emotional intelligence.
But really, they just have one playbook. (And it's lame.)
Once you learn their pattern and have the right tools, it's yours to disrupt.
Watch the video: Why you keep trusting the wrong people.
https://youtu.be/EA2LXcLJYJ8
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #Intuition #Narcissists
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To live your best most authentic life, any idea of what you should be has to go!
If you’re struggling with people-pleasing, guilt after saying no, or constantly questioning what’s “wrong” with you for wanting something different, this episode is for you.
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #Shame #Guilt
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99% of Autistic people learn the hard way...
Some questions aren’t really questions.
You answer them honestly, only to realize that the person wasn’t looking for data at all.
They wanted reassurance, connection, or compliance.
And now you’re left feeling awkward, tricked, or even ashamed for “getting it wrong.”
It’s frustrating.
If you’re struggling with hidden meanings in conversation this episode is for you.
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #HealthyBoundaries #AuthenticRelationships
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You’ve done the work. You’ve healed, unmasked, and started seeing your old patterns clearly.
But you keep running into versions of your past self.
It’s tempting to want to “help” them but if you pour everything that you have into them, you’ll have nothing for yourself.
Let’s talk about how not to fall into the trap of becoming the caretaker.
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #HealthyBoundaries #AuthenticRelationships
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Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!
Two-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.
You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
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In families, friend groups, even workplaces, people hide conflict and pain “under the rug.”
Everything looks fine, until you notice it. And when you stumble over the lump, suddenly you’re the problem for pointing it out.
It’s exhausting.
If you’re struggling with walking on eggshells, being called “too sensitive,” or carrying the weight of secrets you didn’t create, this episode is for you.
Listen to learn how to protect your peace in these spaces.
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #HealthyBoundaries #AuthenticRelationships
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There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
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Most people are playing a game you never agreed to. The rules keep changing, the players cheat, and somehow you’re the one who looks wrong for not keeping up.
It’s exhausting.
If you’re struggling with constant misunderstandings, pretending to fit in, or the loneliness of walking away, this episode is for you.
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #HealthyBoundaries #AuthenticRelationships
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You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
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Growth is uncomfortable, but it’s how autistic adults discover their true selves. Coach Lee Hopkins explains how boundaries accelerate growth, why choosing to be alone is different from loneliness, and three questions that help you build authentic relationships without masking.
#LateDiagnosedAutistic #HealthyBoundaries #AuthenticRelationships
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You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
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You speak to share or receive useful information.
So when someone asks, “How was your weekend?” your brain looks for purpose.
If there’s no shared understanding, the exchange feels like noise.
When you know your purpose in a conversation, you feel less drained and more confident.
If you’ve ever shut down mid-chat or wondered why casual talk feels like wasted energy, this episode is for you.
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You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
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#smalltalk #latediagnosedautistic #relationships
This week’s podcast is for anyone who keeps second-guessing whether they misread the situation or whether they’re being manipulated.
If you’ve ever had your words twisted, been left out of the loop, or felt guilty for saying no, this episode is for you.
We’ll talk about three clear signs it’s manipulation and not just a misunderstanding, how narcissistic behavior shows up in everyday interactions, and what you can do to protect your boundaries without losing yourself.
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You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
There’ll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don’t sweat it if you can’t make it live.
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#Manipulation #Misunderstanding #Boundaries #Gaslighting
This week’s podcast is for anyone who walks away from conversations feeling tense and drained. If one text, one tone of voice, or one last-minute change can throw you off for hours, this episode is for you. We’ll talk about five simple ways to protect your energy without becoming a different person.
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It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.
You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
There’ll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don’t sweat it if you can’t make it live.
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#autisticadult #unmasking #latediagnosedautistic #friends
This week’s podcast explores when getting invited to a social gathering sends you into a spiral of self-doubt and uncertainty. If you overthink what to bring, worry about being judged, and feel like every social moment is a test you didn’t study for, this episode is for you.
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Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!
It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.
You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
There’ll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don’t sweat it if you can’t make it live.
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#autisticadult #unmasking #latediagnosedautistic #friends
In this episode, I talk about how we label people "friends" but never set expectations on how we want a "friend" to show up for us. We'll look at some common types of friends and how I categorize my relationships to keep me from expecting too much and being disappointed.
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Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!
It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.
You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
There’ll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don’t sweat it if you can’t make it live.
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#autisticadult #unmasking #latediagnosedautistic #friends
In this episode, I talk about the heartbreak of being blamed for the very conversations that could bring you closer, how desperation for connection can push people further away and most importantly, what you can do about it.
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Group coaching is finally here.
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Grab your spot at the Social Connections Summit!
It's a free, 2-day virtual event happening September 24 and 25.
You’ll hear from late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals who’ve lived your experience and from leaders and allies who are ready to learn with care, not guilt.
There are short talks, real strategies, and honest stories that meet you where you are.
There’ll be giveaways, special bonuses for those who invite others, and full access to replays—so don’t sweat it if you can’t make it live.
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#autisticadult #unmasking #trust #latediagnosedautistic #rejection
In this episode, we talk about why words can be misleading, especially for those of us wired to give people the benefit of the doubt.
If you’re tired of feeling drained by people who sound good but don’t show up, this is for you.
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#autisticadult #unmasking #trust
In the latest episode we talk about how others take advantage of our kindness, what keeps us in these cycles, and how to begin choosing yourself without guilt. If you're stuck between compassion and depletion, this one’s for you.
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#autisticadult #unmasking #overgiving
In this episode we talk about how to know if someone does want to connect even if they’re not saying it directly. This episode helps you read real-time signals so you can stop chasing, overthinking, or assuming it’s all in your head.
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Group coaching is finally here.
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#autisticadult #unmasking #selfworth
Self-gaslighting happens when you downplay your own feelings to keep the peace.
In this episode of The Patterns of Possibility Podcast, we explore how it shows up in your relationships, work, and self-talk.
You’ll learn three practical ways to start being more honest with yourself.Want meaningful relationships? Click here.
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