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This episode briefly summarizes who owns land in New Zealand. Swipe up to see the video version in Spotify.
Land laws:
Te Ture Whenua Maori Act 1993
Transfer of Land Act 1952
Land Act 1948
Kia ora and welcome to "Grief Centre with Indigenuity on Mondays." I use the word grief but I mean many other things. Like anger, sadness, loss, trauma, being stuck, frightened. The hole. Disassociation - disconnecting from yourself mometarily is not 'sexy' these days where everything is about vulnberability and connection. However...it's a pragmatic tool that has helped me to be able to overcome overwhelm, loss and messy situations to buy my own houses for my kids.𝘛𝘰𝘥𝘢𝘺, 𝘸𝘦 𝘦𝘮𝘱𝘩𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘻𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘨𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘧 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦. 𝘞𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘯𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘨𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘧, 𝘣𝘦 𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘪𝘵, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘯 𝘔𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴. 𝘉𝘺 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭, 𝘸𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘳 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘢 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘣𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦. 𝘛𝘰 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘮𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥.
Nearly 25 years ago I was introduced to mindfulness, compassion and hope as a practise. Then I have seen that with daily practise, the profound change.
Aonga Ake e te whaanau. Today is Monday, we make space for our grief, anger, resentment. You know, the kind of experiences that have been holding us back on our journey. Today I discuss the origins of why I started Grief Centre on Mondays. It's probably not what you think. It was actually about how I managed to keep myself calm amongst other people's bull kaka, greed and behaviour. In particular how whaanau behaved around land, whenua, trusts and money. Paru, sad, bad behaviour.
I discuss how being stuck looked in my experience and the approach that has given some peace for my whaanau.
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Every property I've ever bought, the finance journey was filled with 9 x NO, and 1 x Yes right at the end. This is normal. Practise Hope so that you don't give up. It's a skill and a virtue. Today we delve into the concept of cultivating hope within yourself. Let's explore the practices, tools, and perspectives that allow us to nurture and foster hope. In terms of homeownership and whenua, you need hope. Lots of it, because often the process feels like it is always a 'NO'. Will you consider retraining yourself to see NO as - Not Yet. 🟡 Hope is a practise 🌼 You can rewire your self to feel hopeful 🟡 To feel hopeful, try thinking of yourself when you were little. Visualise give you, what you needed to feel hopeful and joyful. + Try acting with compassion to yourself; kind to the version of you that needs to hear warm words of encouragement. Visualise and physicalise kindness to you. Tune in to the weekly podcast, like a midweek cup of tea with ourselves.
Our Tūpuna (ancestors) carry their own mamae (grief), and sometimes we inherit a portion of it. Today, we explore the mamae we've inherited and how it impacts our lives. By acknowledging and understanding this inheritance, we can embark on a journey of healing and liberation.
𝗔𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗮 𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗲 𝘁𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝗮𝗻𝗮𝘂. "On Wednesdays, We Practise Hope," where we cultivate and nurture the flicker of hope within you until it blazes into an unstoppable flame. In this episode, we touch on the power of consistent practice and resilience because 𝗛𝗢𝗣𝗘 doesn't always come naturally at first. Most of the last few years has been believing in something that did not exist in my day to day...happiness. But just practising the feeling, that there is something around the corner, eventually it arrives. Just like muscles that grow with training.
Kia ora. Welcome back to "Grief Centre with Indigenuity on Mondays." Today, I invite you to reflect on how long you've been feeling stuck. Stagnation can hinder our growth and healing process. Together, we'll explore the roots of this stagnation and discover ways to move forward with intention and resilience.
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On Fridays, we make space for creativity. You don't always have to be doing crafts - sometimes just about play or experiencing freedom. Taking back control or the feeling of control over your life. Even if it is just a few minutes or an hour of your week. And from that feeling of freedom and play, that feeling is actually wealth. If we learn what it feels like, it starts to become more and more present in our life - after that the money is easy.
On Wednesdays, we practise hope. We take the small flame of hope, we grow it until it's abundant. We do this because Hope is a behaviour, a practise. It doesn't always come naturally. So by having a practise where every Wednesday we think and associate ourselves to hopeful thoughts. Eventually it comes present in our lives.
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Today I've recorded my own reflections on where my grief, resentments and control issues rise up in my life. It's been wearing me out a bit lately. Particularly in trying to translate my annoyances about relationship money, and instead telling the authentic truth.
Listen in to some ideas to give you a midweek boost of hope. Two options to support your journey.
Our weekly programme will include grief, hope, create sessions in our Reset Your Money Thermostat programme.
www.linkpop.com/inez top of the list is the link to the Grief Centre to leave your feedback if you’d like to work with us one day.
Embracing imperfection is part of your Reset journey.
In essence, I want you to listen and include your body in this journey. Your body can often feel a way, but we override it by overthinking. Overthinking can take away some of the true communications our body is trying to tell us. "I'm stressed, I'm thirsty, I feel unsafe, I feel unwell, I have nothing left to give".
Feeling good as a physical experience as well as a mental and emotional one. A warm drink is about taking time; about warming up your puku - the engine for your mind and body; taking care of yourself through simple daily practise.
You can join the journey at www.linkpop.com/inez
You can find access to our services, workshops and programmes at www.linkpop.com/inez
These next set of videos and podcasts are about the behaviours and disciplines that I embrace, to have a healthy Money Thermostat.
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I've been doing the mahi since 2016. I've noticed patterns. I've seen the patterns in myself.
Most overspending, or avoiding paying bills, or getting in to debt appears to follow, a need to soothe oneself.
Mamae, loss, grief, anger, guilt, anxiety.
Not everything is, but before moving forward, let's double check.
Tikanga of holding space in quiet and sometimes quiet:
This episode is very important. For us to do well together as coach and coachee, we need to be sure that we are aligned in our tikanga.
In the Reset your Money Thermostat programme you will experience:
This programme is built on You being the place where you will be asked to pull your energy in to. Take your energy inward. My priority is creating the space to reset your thermostat.