In Genesis 1, the Spirit of God hovered over the waters — alive with creative power, ready to bring beauty out of chaos. Later, the Spirit filled Bezalel, not to preach or lead, but to craft with skill and artistry. This episode explores how that same Spirit now dwells in us — reintegrating what feels fractured, calling forth creativity, and reminding us that your life is a canvas He is still painting.
Painter and teacher Caylah Cole shares how creativity became her language of faith—from live painting during worship at The Grove Church in Chandler, Arizona to helping kids encounter God through color and story. We talk about the Artistree art community, letting the Holy Spirit lead, and how beauty can hold both light and brokenness.
Connect with Caylah: @caylahcoleartist | caylahartist.com
I used to think staying useful was the safest way to belong. Maybe you’ve felt that too—always one project away from collapse, one “yes” away from burnout. But here’s the truth: God is our refuge, not our performance. This week, I’m inviting you into a messy, unpolished conversation about saying no, choosing peace, and letting God be protector.
At 38, I’ve decided I’m already 40 in my head—and honestly, I’m okay with it. In this episode, I share why I’m learning to embrace being a little “naïve” again. Not naïve as in clueless, but naïve as in soft, pure, and willing to believe the best—even after being hurt.
Because suspicion isn’t a fruit of the Spirit, but gentleness is. And Scripture calls us to be “wise as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16). For me, that looks like trusting the Holy Spirit for discernment while choosing softness as strength.
If love really “bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7), then maybe being naïve—in the best sense—isn’t weakness at all. Maybe it’s wisdom.
Wherever you are right now, there is room for you here. This short Soul Care Breath Prayer is an invitation to step into the quiet inner room with God — the space where only love is allowed to speak. Return to it anytime you need to remember: you are known, chosen, and held.
In this episode of I Can’t, I’m Healing, I sit down with Candace, director of the Springboard Home for Girls in Tucson (part of Teen Challenge)—a pastor, licensed social worker, and mom who has walked through real struggles and now pours her story back into hope for young women.
We talk about:
What safe place mindfulness is and how it retrains our hearts and bodies to recognize safety
The hard but freeing truth that kids don’t need us to be their professionals—they need us to be their parents
Why acceptance is more powerful than “tolerance” when it comes to bridging generations
How to keep hope alive in heavy seasons without walking alone
Candace shares deeply from her own story as a mom and leader, and near the end she guides us through a short Safe Place mindfulness practice you can follow along with wherever you are.
This isn’t just another conversation about self-care—it’s an invitation to experience what true safety feels like, with honesty, grace, and hope.
Pull up a chair — I’m in a coffee shop today, and this one’s just a little check-in.
No pressure, no pep talk, just a few gentle reminders and space to breathe.
We’ll talk about tiny steps, the grace that’s bigger than our mess, and why couch time isn’t a failure.
Whether you’re a tired mama, a focused dreamer, or somewhere in between, this is for you.
Ever accidentally dressed yourself in bitterness and sarcasm? Same.
In this episode, we’re revisiting Colossians 3:12 and exploring what it really means to clothe ourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience—without turning it into a performance.
I’ll share a small but grounding practice I’ve been trying in the mornings, plus a few honest reflections from my own spiritual closet.
Because some days? The only thing I’m wearing is grace.
And that’s enough.
✨ Gentle soul care
💭 Real faith in real clothes
🧺 And if patience feels tight, remember: grace has an elastic waistband.
—
📲 More at icantimhealing.com
🧡 Rate + share if it made you smile (or cry in a good way)
aka… Why Am I Still 17 Inside?
Ever feel like your outside life doesn’t match your inner one?
Like you’re a grown adult with bills and babies… but somehow still carrying the emotions of your 17-year-old self?
In this episode, we talk about the fractures that form when we learn to mask — and how pride, sensitivity, and self-protection keep us from wholeness.
I share how these fractures show up in my own life, and what it looks like to let God gently put the pieces back together. Not through perfection or performance — but through integration, honesty, and grace.
You’ll hear:
• The two types of fractures we carry
• Why hiding your flaws is still a form of self-rejection
• How to invite God into the parts you’ve rejected
• What healing has looked like for me (and maybe for you too)
This isn’t a rant or a self-help talk — it’s a breath of truth for anyone who’s tired of pretending.
Because healing isn’t about being fine.
It’s about being real — and letting God love you there.
If you’ve ever wondered why it seems like God speaks clearly to everyone else but not to you—this one’s for you. We’re going to sit gently in that ache together, exploring the hidden ways God holds all things… even when we feel disconnected.
From teenage prayers that were answered instantly to long seasons of silence, this is a raw reflection on grief, doubt, intimacy, and what it means to be in Christ.
And maybe—just maybe—you’ll leave with a new way to listen.
You are already held.
Even now.
This is my first-ever guest episode (!), and I couldn’t be more grateful to share this tender conversation with my friend Cara Havens — therapist, mother, and one of the most down-to-earth, loving people I know.
Together we talk about healing in relationship — how therapy creates a safe space to return to yourself, how old coping strategies often stop working when we become parents, and how faith and body wisdom intertwine when we let God meet us where we are.
We explore somatic healing, spiritual hurt, self-compassion, and permission to slow down and tune in — even in the messy, ordinary middle of life.
Wherever you’re listening from today, let this conversation be a gentle reminder: you don’t have to rush to heal.
If you’d like to connect with Cara, you can reach her at Cara@mederi.group.
A breath-led return to presence, glow, and divine design.
This isn’t a track about looking beautiful.
It’s about becoming soft again—beneath the armor, behind the effort, before the glow.
This loop is an emotional exhale for the ones who’ve braced their way through life.
The ones who know what it’s like to be called “strong” but feel tight, tired, and far from themselves.
Let this breath-led script unwind what tension has been protecting.
Let your nervous system remember what it feels like to rest without guilt.
And if you want to carry the loopable version with you,
you can find it in the Softening Tracks bundle—linked below.
—
🎧 TRACK INTENT
This track was created for:
• Gentle nervous system regulation
• Releasing facial/jaw tension and emotional bracing
• Restoring a sense of internal dignity and divine design
• Emotional reset in moments of shame, shutdown, or self-pressure
Includes 528 Hz frequency—known as the “love frequency”—to support cellular and emotional repair.
This is spiritual, emotional, and physiological softening.
Let it breathe you back to your glow.
—
A soft, loopable track for re-inhabiting your body, releasing tension, and returning to a safe internal space—where glow arises not from performance, but from presence.
This track is designed for:
• Passive nervous system reconditioning
• Subconscious emotional rewiring
• Gentle use during skincare, rest, prayer walks, or recovery from overwhelm
• Supporting healing from dissociation, hypervigilance, or shutdown
You won’t hear the word “beauty.”
But you will hear the words your body’s been longing for—
soft invitations to return to yourself.
Let it play while you move gently through your day or drift toward sleep.
Let it work beneath resistance. Let it remind you: your glow isn’t gone—it’s just been waiting for your return.
🎧 Features soft ambient backing + subconscious support
This one is for the end of long days, frayed edges, and feelings you didn’t have time to feel.
The Soft Return: A Night Note is the first of the Softening Tracks—a gentle spoken word audio to help your body return to safety, softness, and rest. It’s not about fixing anything. It’s about finally letting go.
You can listen while lying in bed, closing your eyes, or simply needing to be reminded that you’re already allowed to rest—even if the to-do list isn’t finished. Let this track play as you fall asleep, unwind, or simply come back to yourself.
💤 Designed for nighttime listening
🌿 Loopable version available here: Softening Tracks
🕊️ Features soft ambient music and soft subconscious support for restoration.
You don’t have to brace anymore.
You can rest now.
And grace will meet you there.
A gentle note before you begin.
This isn’t a typical episode—it’s a quiet introduction to the season.
Softening Tracks is a small collection of spoken word recordings made to help you return to your body, your breath, and the presence of God—without pressure. These aren’t motivational or instructional. They’re meant to be felt more than understood.
Each track invites you to release, receive, and rest.
To let go of the grip.
To glow again—not because you hustled, but because you softened.
Here’s what you’ll find in this 3-part series:
The Soft Return: A Night Note – for the end of long days or moments of disconnection
The Glow Beneath – for reclaiming your presence without disappearing
The Beauty of Softening – for those who’ve spent years bracing
Listen as you fall asleep, during skincare, while resting, or wherever your body needs safety.
💫 Loopable version available in the Softening Tracks
When you’re ready… scroll to Episode 1.
Let the softening begin.
You’ve walked through something hard. You’ve healed—not perfectly, but enough to look back and see God’s hand in it.
Now there’s a quiet invitation to speak. To tell the truth. To testify.
But instead of peace, you’re feeling fear. Not because you’re still wounded—but because sharing what’s been healed still feels vulnerable.
This episode is a gentle follow-up to “Healing in Public vs. Healing in Private.” We’re talking about what it means to feel ready, how to know when it’s time to speak, and why God never rushes us through sacred stories.
It’s not pressure. It’s an invitation.
✨ For the ones standing at the door with shaky hands
✨ For the ones who feel the words rising but aren’t sure how to say them
✨ For the ones who are healing—even in the silence
Wherever you are right now, there’s room for you here. This breath prayer is a gentle invitation to return —not by fixing or striving, but by simply breathing.
Inhale: You are here.
Exhale: I am held.
Soul Care Breath + Prayer – Bonus Episode
In the beginning, God breathed into dust—
and we became living souls.
That first breath was a gift.
Not something to earn.
Not something to perform.
SoulCare Breath + Prayer is a new rhythm of gentle, scattered episodes—
a few minutes of stillness for the ones holding their breath emotionally or spiritually.
They won’t follow a schedule.
They’ll just show up when needed.
The first breath prayer—Come Back Gently—arrives Monday.
You’ll know it’s time when your shoulders soften just reading the title.
Come breathe with me.
Have you been holding your breath again?
Not just in stress—but in waiting, in creating, in trying to stay in control?
This soft episode is for the ones who forget to breathe until their shoulders ache.
We talk about singing, labor, survival mode, and what it means to trust the air again.
To soften. To let go.
To remember that God breathed life into us—and still does.
If you’ve ever clenched your jaw without knowing, or held your breath as a habit of fear…
you’re not broken. You’re learning to breathe like you’re safe.
You’ve been trying to be more patient.
More joyful.
More gentle.
But what if the Fruit of the Spirit wasn’t something you perform…
What if it was something you receive?
In this episode, we talk about what it means to abide instead of strive, how shame can twist our view of growth, and why even in your fruitless-feeling seasons—you are still held. This is a gentle, grounded reminder for anyone who’s tired of trying to earn their healing.