Modern fatherhood looks a lot different — and The Dumb Dads are showing us why that’s a good thing.In this Fatherhood Unscripted episode, Alec sits down with Evan and Kevin, the creators of The Dumb Dads, to talk about:👨👧👦 Stay-at-home dad life and breaking stereotypes😂 Finding humor in parenting chaos💬 Why talking about your struggles makes you a better parent❤️ Teaching kids confidence without arrogance⚖️ Balancing identity, creativity, and familyWhether you’re a dad trying to figure it out or just need a laugh, this one’s for you.Watch till the end for their best advice for any dad—new or seasoned—who’s trying to do his best.📺 Subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, faith, and real talk with Alec and DJ.Follow Fatherhood Unscripted: @fatherhoodunscripted👇 Connect with The Dumb Dads🎧 Podcast: https://linktr.ee/TheDumbDads📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedumbdads/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDumbDads🎭 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thedumbdads🌐 Website: https://www.thedumbdads.com
In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec sits down with men’s coach Jason Schnitzer to talk about one of the toughest struggles dads face: losing our cool at home.
We dive deep into emotional regulation, why dads often snap under pressure, and how to stay calm even when life feels chaotic. Jason breaks down the nervous system’s role in fatherhood, the generational patterns we pass down, and practical tools for being present with your wife and kids.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
Why dads succeed everywhere but struggle at home
How to regulate emotions and build capacity under stress
Why bottling up feelings backfires with kids and marriage
Practical steps to stay calm in chaos (and stop yelling)
How to break generational cycles and model strength for your kids
Whether you’re a dad in the thick of parenting struggles or just want to show up better for your family, this conversation is for you.
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We’ve officially hit 100 episodes of Fatherhood Unscripted! 🎉
What started at “DJ’s Table” has grown into one of the top dad podcasts for men, faith, and fatherhood. In this milestone episode, Alec and DJ reflect on what it means to be fathers, friends, and men of faith who are chasing legacy.
✅ What you’ll learn in this episode:
Why taking risks as a dad can change your life
The importance of faith in fatherhood and legacy-building
How community, values, and brotherhood strengthen men
Favorite moments and guests from the past 100 episodes
What’s next for Fatherhood Unscripted and our journey
👊 If you’re a dad looking for encouragement, growth, and a real conversation about the challenges and joys of fatherhood—this is for you.
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The Weight of Fatherhood dives deep with Kevin Clevenger, better known as Iron Sanctuary, in one of the most powerful and raw conversations we’ve had on Fatherhood Unscripted. Kevin opens up about his journey from addiction to redemption, how becoming a dad changed everything, and the constant battle between providing for your family and being present with them. This episode explores: The mental weight fathers carry in silence The struggle to balance success, family, and purpose The power of transparency in men’s mental health How fitness, faith, and fatherhood intersect in Kevin’s life Why vulnerability might be a dad’s greatest strength🎙️ Guest: Kevin “Iron Sanctuary” Clevenger📍 Follow Kevin: TikTok / Instagram: @ironsanctuaryCoaching: ironsanctuaryfit.com Apparel: ironsanctuaryshop.com
In this powerful episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec sits down with Curtis J. Morley (Counterfeit Emotions Podcast) to dive into faith, peace, and the struggles dads face in today’s world.
We talk about:
How tragedy sparked revival and renewed faith across communities
The difference between surrender and resignation—and why true peace can’t be counterfeited
The impact of church hurt, shame, and how to guide kids through tough seasons
Conversations dads need to have with their children about faith, fear, and even tough topics like pornography
Finding healing through Christ and how to pass that peace on to our families
This episode is raw, real, and filled with encouragement for dads and men of faith.
👥 Connect with Curtis J. Morley
Website: counterfeitemotions.com
Podcast: Counterfeit Emotions (Apple, Spotify, Amazon)
Pornography Recovery Program: counterfeitemotions.com/recovery
📌 Don’t forget—next week is our 100th episode with DJ back in the studio!
In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ sit down to share some big updates with the community. 🎙️
DJ opens up about entering a busy season with his family—three kids in sports, weekends packed with games, and the reality of balancing fatherhood with creative projects. After much thought (and prayer), DJ is stepping back for a few weeks to focus on his family.
But don’t worry—the podcast isn’t going anywhere. Alec has exciting guests lined up, including Curtis Morley, and momentum is only growing as we approach our 100th episode. 🚀
We also talk about:
The reality of busy seasons as dads 👨👧👦
Why rest and reprioritizing matter
How we’re keeping the podcast strong with new guests and conversations
Funny behind-the-scenes moments you won’t want to miss
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Marine → LAPD → Quest Nutrition → Legendary Foods. Bruce Cardenas breaks down side hustles, sampling, customer obsession, listening, culture, and why you can’t out-market a bad product. Chapters below. Join our dad community—click the link below.🔗 BruceIG: @brucee_cardenasSite: brucecardenas.comBook (working title): Lead With ValueIf this helped, hit 👍 and share it with one entrepreneur who needs the nudge.
Today on Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ sit down again with Shawn Finnegan to kick off our month of entrepreneurship for dads. We talk about the recent tragedy that’s weighed on many families, the importance of showing up for our kids even when life and business get heavy, and how to pursue your entrepreneurial dreams without sacrificing your family.
Shawn shares:
• What he wishes he’d done differently as a young dad starting his business
• The Tony Robbins firewalk story he experienced with his daughter
• How to juggle “glass balls” (family, health, faith) while building a business
• Why including your kids in your work builds their confidence and self-belief
If you’re a father thinking about starting a business—or you’re in the grind right now—this conversation will give you perspective, practical advice, and hope.
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Connect with Shawn Finnegan: Search “Finnegan Shawn” on social (he’s not the fitness model 😉).
In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ dive deep into one of the biggest struggles parents face today: technology overload and screen addiction in kids.We talk about what happens when you take away screens (yep—withdrawals and meltdowns are real), how ADHD and dopamine hits make it even tougher, and why creating tech-free zones is crucial for your family.We also share our personal stories—Alec’s son and Fortnite withdrawals, DJ’s kids navigating routine shifts, and how our own habits as dads set the tone for our families.Plus—we introduce our new partnership with Bark, a tool that helps parents monitor online activity, protect kids from bullying, explicit content, and online predators—without “spying.” Think of it as a digital seatbelt for your kids. 🚦👉 Use code “unscripted” for 15% off Bark for life: [link here]If you’re a dad (or mom) trying to figure out this tech-driven world, this conversation is for you.🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a comment on how you handle screen time at home.
In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ sit down with Curtis Morley, founder of Counterfeit Emotions, to expose the lies behind counterfeit emotions like “nice,” “lust,” and “shame.”
Curtis explains why kindness is radically different than niceness, how dads can sit with emotions instead of stuffing them down, and why sobriety without recovery is a trap. He also shares practical steps for dads to guide their kids through emotional health, pornography exposure, and breaking free from shame.
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This is it—the finale of our Armor of God series.
In this episode, Alec unpacks the Sword of the Spirit from Ephesians 6:17—the only offensive weapon in the armor God gives us. You can’t fight lies with silence. You need the Word of God.
📖 Ephesians 6:17
“…take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.”
We’ll talk about:
Why you can’t outthink the enemy’s lies—you have to fight them
How Jesus used Scripture as His weapon in the wilderness
How dads can model fighting with truth for their families
Pick one verse that speaks against a lie you’ve been believing. Write it down. Memorize it. Speak it out loud when the lie comes.
That’s how you swing the sword.
If this series encouraged you, make sure to subscribe—so you don’t miss the new season of Father Like the Father on its own channel and podcast.
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Remember summer in the 90s? 🚲 We’d leave the house in the morning, ride bikes, explore, get dirty, and the only rule was: be home when the streetlights came on.
That’s what people today are calling a Feral Child Summer — and it’s trending. Parents are starting to ask: should we let our kids roam free like we did, or is the world too different now?
In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ dive into:
What “Feral Child Summer” really means
Why boredom actually builds grit and creativity
The balance between freedom and safety for kids today
Real stories from their own feral summers (from sewer drains to LAN parties)
How dads can bring back a modern hybrid version of freedom for kids
👉 Question for you: Would you let your kids have a Feral Summer today? Drop your answer in the comments!
Your greatest battles don’t always happen around you—they happen inside your head.
In this episode of our Armor Up series, Alec unpacks the Helmet of Salvation from Ephesians 6:17 and why protecting your mind is one of the most critical parts of leading as a father.
📖 Ephesians 6:17
“Take the helmet of salvation…”
This episode is for dads who:
Struggle with negative thoughts or guilt
Feel like past mistakes disqualify them
Want to lead their family with confidence, not shame
This week, every time a negative or condemning thought hits, stop and say out loud:
“That’s not who I am—I’m saved, and I’m His.”
Write down 2–3 Scriptures on salvation (Romans 8:1, John 10:28, 2 Corinthians 5:17) and keep them visible as reminders.
If this encouraged you, make sure to subscribe and hit the bell so you don’t miss next week’s episode—where we’ll close out the series with the Sword of the Spirit.
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Today we’re diving into the parenting trend that’s everywhere right now: FAFO Parenting — Find Out and Figure Out.
Instead of rescuing our kids from every mistake, FAFO is about letting them experience natural consequences so they grow stronger, more resilient, and more independent.
In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ talk about:
What FAFO Parenting really is (and what it’s NOT)
The balance between freedom and safety for kids
Real stories from their own families (like touching a hot iron or sibling wrestling matches)
Why following through on consequences matters more than threats
How to avoid becoming a helicopter parent while still protecting your kids
If you’ve ever wondered how much freedom is too much or how to help your kids prepare for real life, this conversation is for you.
👉 Question for you: What’s a FAFO moment your kid has had that taught them a lesson? Drop it in the comments!
When life throws fear, lies, and shame your way, how do you keep standing? In this episode of our Armor of God series, we’re looking at Ephesians 6:16—the Shield of Faith—and how it’s not just for you, but for protecting your family.
We’ll talk about how faith extinguishes the flaming arrows of the enemy, how to stand together as men, and why your shield matters more than you think.
This week’s challenge: When you feel the arrows coming, stop and declare, “This is not the end of my story. God is with me, and I will stand.”
📖 Verse: Ephesians 6:16
👊 Series: Armor of God for Dads
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It’s back-to-school season — which means school supplies, morning chaos, and a whole new language your kids will be speaking. 🎒
In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ break down:
The wild (and expensive) reality of back-to-school prep
Gen Alpha slang your kids will be using — and the 90s equivalents we grew up with
Morning routines that save your sanity
How to ease your kids’ anxiety as they head back to school
The “dad survival guide” for germs, homework, and snack theft (yes, Fanum Tax is real)
Whether you’re a seasoned parent or sending your kids to school for the first time, this episode will make you laugh, relate, and maybe learn a little slang along the way.
When your footing’s off, your family feels it.In Part 4 of our Armor Up series, Alec unpacks what it means to have your “feet fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace” from Ephesians 6:15—and why peace is one of the most powerful ways a dad can lead.📖 Ephesians 6:15“…and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.”This episode is for you if:You feel constantly on edgeYou’re leading from anxiety instead of calmYou need a reset to lead your family well🧠 Weekly Challenge:Pray every morning this week: “God, help me walk in Your peace today, no matter what I face.”Then look for one intentional moment to bring calm into your home—pause before reacting, choose patience, or speak peace into a tense moment.🔔 Subscribe CTA:If this message encouraged you, make sure to subscribe and click the bell so you never miss a Father Like the Father episode. We drop new encouragement for dads every week.
Whether you’re brand new or you've been with us since the dining room table days… welcome to Fatherhood Unscripted. This episode is a raw, hilarious, and heartfelt look into how this podcast started, why we almost quit, and what we’re building now.
We’re two best friends, dads, and men of faith who started this podcast as a form of therapy—and it’s grown into a global community of fathers who are breaking generational curses, growing in purpose, and showing up with love.
🎧 You’ll hear stories, behind-the-scenes moments, future plans (like our new entrepreneur series), and how YOU can be part of it all.
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So many dads are leading from shame instead of strength.
In this powerful episode, Alec walks through the breastplate of righteousness in Ephesians 6 and how it protects one of the most vulnerable parts of fatherhood—your heart.
📖 Ephesians 6:14“With the breastplate of righteousness in place…”This episode is for the dad who: Feels disqualified by past mistakes Keeps trying to prove he’s enough Needs to hear that he’s already covered
🧠 Weekly Challenge: Ask yourself: “Am I leading from shame or righteousness? ”Write down this verse and say it daily this week:👉 “In Him, I am the righteousness of God.” (2 Cor. 5:21)
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In this honest and heartfelt episode, DJ shares a powerful story about the moments we often miss as dads—and the quiet regret that sneaks in when we’re not present. From birthday reflections to a final silly game of Twister, this conversation is a wake-up call for every father.Fatherhood isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present. This episode will challenge you, encourage you, and remind you why your time with your kids is sacred.🎧 Whether you’re a new dad or raising teens, this one will hit home.🔔 Subscribe for weekly content that helps men become the dads they’re called to be.——👥 Join our community of faith-filled dads: https://www.facebook.com/groups/282732511309028/📱 Follow us on IG & TikTok: @fatherhoodunscripted