Today we’re diving into the parenting trend that’s everywhere right now: FAFO Parenting — Find Out and Figure Out.

Instead of rescuing our kids from every mistake, FAFO is about letting them experience natural consequences so they grow stronger, more resilient, and more independent.

In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ talk about:

• What FAFO Parenting really is (and what it’s NOT)

• The balance between freedom and safety for kids

• Real stories from their own families (like touching a hot iron or sibling wrestling matches)

• Why following through on consequences matters more than threats

• How to avoid becoming a helicopter parent while still protecting your kids

If you’ve ever wondered how much freedom is too much or how to help your kids prepare for real life, this conversation is for you.

👉 Question for you: What’s a FAFO moment your kid has had that taught them a lesson? Drop it in the comments!