Thanks for being patient with us! This episode is a long awaited listener submission episode. What you can expect to hear:
Updates: Senior shares that he did his first ropes bondage suspension session with Bird!
Daddy Dom for those who needed a Daddy figure for playtime.
Website mentioned is ABFheaven.com
(as for the delay, Bird has a jaw injury and it's taken a toll on her mentally. We will be recording again soon)
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The drink this week is Dr. Pepper & Coconut RumMusic: Forever Dreamer - MagiksoloMixed and edited by: Bird HerselfHosted by: Bird, Senior, Britt, & ChaosArtwork: Senior
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Part of this episode was a suggestion from our listener, Alex, and covers knife play and wax play with some low temp candles and what doing it as safely as possible entails, all while Britt actually gets to try it on-air! Maybe she's leaning into the "ish" a little more! Knife play often goes hand in hand with wax removal, and is a great stand alone too for some sensation play. There's even a bonus update of Senior getting to do some suspensions in his ropes class, and we get a gift that will probably keep giving for a long time to come. Thanks Scrappy! Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Overcast Espresso Stout - Oakshire Brewing Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird, Senior, & Britt
Artwork: Senior Contact us: drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com Website: https://drinksandkinks.space FetLife: DrinksKinksPod Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
This episode covers learning a little bit of learning about the new vanilla-ish co-host, Britt! She shares her BDSM test results and we learn what makes her put the "ish" in vanilla-ish! You'll also hear the weekly dating updates, and a heavy focus on the new dynamic that Bird and Senior find themselves in! Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Iced Coffee with Cookie Dough Whiskey! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird, Senior, & Britt
Album Art: Senior Contact us: drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com Website: https://drinksandkinks.space FetLife: DrinksKinksPod Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
Drinks & Kinks returns with a new lineup for Season 3! Bird and Senior welcome in new co-host, Britt, and our very own Chaos to recap the wild weekend at KinkFest 2024 in Portland, Oregon!
Britt brings a very vanilla newb element to the show, as a long-time listener and close friend. She's silently been a behind-the-scenes helper since the beginning and now will be helping bring up questions on air that the new-to-this folks may have!
In this episode you'll get:
The drink this week: Rocket Popsicle by Untitled Art! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird, Senior, & Britt
Album Art: Senior
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Oh hi! Did you miss us? We're back from our mental health vacation, and Senior is at full sass.
This episode covers some edge play, where we talk about breath play and inadvertently add in a little lesson on medical play too!
As we celebrate a year of being a podcast, we look at our Spotify unwrapped, celebrate the people who made us their #1 listened to podcast!
In this episode you'll learn about:
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Gin and Cran-Pineapple!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
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FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
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This episode covers the broad topic of vetting and how to do. Bird and Senior cover some great questions you can ask while vetting someone. They may have taken a little "mental health summer vacation" for the last few weeks, but are back at it with some bratty shenanigans.
In this episode you'll hear:
Some resources referenced in this episode and links we promised: Kynk101.com, michellefegatofi.org, kinkycuriosity.com, theduchy.com, submissiveguide.com, kinkweekly.com, beautifullybound.com
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The drink this week is Little Beast Brewing Czech Style Dark Lager!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
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Our favorite brat, Vex, joins us for another awesome couple of hours to talk about pronouns and different types of sexualities! It's been a while since Bird gave y'all an update on her dating life, so today she gets to fill you in on the newest developments! And Senior's topic he's been prepping for: neo-pronouns!
In this episode you'll hear Vex talk about her experience as a trans woman, a whole lot of neo-pronouns, the difference between pronouns and neo-pronouns, how to handle mis-steps when those around you or close to you would like to identify as a new set of pronouns, demisexuality, and the wide variety of sexualities. We talk a little polyamory, and Senior does some polydaydreaming.
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The drink this week is a Gin Bloody Mary!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
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FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
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If you've ever been curious what Goddess had in her suitcases (from Episode 2, Season 2), we're here to tell you all about it! Join us, with returning guest Goddess and special guest Vex as we get into more toys than we could have ever expected!
As a DISCLAIMER: you will hear a partial scene between Goddess and Vex as they demonstrate some of the toys (and Vex shows off how great of a brat she can be)! They have played together many times, and have been in a dynamic, so everything you hear is consensual!
This includes a few hits from a paddle, a whip, a shock collar, a taser, and a dragontail, with genuine reactions, begging, bratting, saying "no please don't", and noises from these objects so be prepared that if these are triggering for you, this episode does contain those things sprinkled throughout! Again, all of this is done consensually, and within the bounds of their dynamic. They have discussed boundaries, safe words, and are doing this all willingly and both are having fun.
In this episode you'll also hear about:
Sloan Sodas
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The drink this week is SLOAN SODA!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
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FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
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This week we dive into the world of spanking, spankers, spankees, and spankos. Last week we had a pretty epic recording session planned, however Bird lost her voice so we'll have to save that episode for the future! Senior passed his final exam for the ropes bondage class, and Bird is now working towards becoming a certified sex educator coach.
Some highlights from the episode:
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is: Spoils of War from Grains of Wrath
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
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FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
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Senior brings us the topic of dungeons this week! We get into our weekly update and talk about the Intro to Rope Bondage class final! And we dive into first-timer experiences with home dungeons on a smaller scale vs. public party dungeons, what to bring, what to wear arriving and what to wear to feel comfortable in the dungeon area, what you might see, dungeon etiquette and monitors, sleep divorce, hygiene and pheromones, how to find a dungeon, and BDSM furniture such as St. Andrew's crosses, box stocks, Berkley Horses and more!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Tattoo Girl Cabernet Sauvignon!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
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FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
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This week we get curious about what "BDSM" stands for and all it means! Senior and Bird talk about their first official BDSM scene together, and talk a little bit about the relationship road that hasn't always been easy. We also cover what some triggers for safe wording might be during a scene, how kink can be similar to EMDR therapy, some fun facts and stats about kink and de-stigmatizing kink over the last 10 years.
We have some tender moments where we talk about some of Senior's mental health journey and how it relates to kink, BDSM and being sadistic, as well as some of Bird's trauma and how kink and BDSM can help heal some wounds for both tops and bottoms. Senior has a great suggestion that we can try out products and talk about our experiences with them!
Hang on for the ride, we derail a few times just havin' a good time!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Adroit Theory Brewing's Now I Am Death, Destroyer of Worlds IPA!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
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FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
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What does a BDSM scene actually look like? This week, we got the honor of having our first official guest on the show, and Senior joins in to recount his view of things as well! This episode is focused on revisiting Bird's first real scene as she goes over everything with Goddess, The Sadist who topped her, and how they navigated initial negotiations, adjusting for the setting, what tools and toys were going to be used, what went right or wrong in the scene, and what aftercare looked like. Bird also opens up about the not-so-great introduction she had into the world of BDSM with a fake dom, some of the red flags she looked past and how you can avoid some of the same mistakes she made. Even though she thought she'd vetted this person, there still was a lot of unanswered questions and things that didn't add up. How do you navigate after someone has traumatized you? Bird chose to try again, with someone much safer, and do some immersive, therapeutic, BDSM!
Cautiva leather handcuffs mentioned: https://www.shopcautiva.com/ Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly! The drink this week is Apothic Dark! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird & Senior Contact us: drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/ FetLife: DrinksKinksPod Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
Now with 100% more Senior! Drinks & Kinks returns with a whole episode recapping our wild weekend at KinkFest 2023 in Portland, Oregon! Season 2 kicks off with a change in the lineup and a whole lot of amazing things we saw and learned about.
We cover what classes we took all weekend, and take a quick look into Bird's first official scene with a Domme that we affectionately call "The Sadist"! In this episode you'll hear us talk about:
You can now look forward to new episodes every Wednesday!
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The drink this week is a lot of Water!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com
Part 3 of 3 in the Kink of the Week series: Voyeurism. We also add in the Cuckold/Cuckquean kink, and include Stag/Vixen as well!
Updates for the week include Bird's second date with "Hunter" which included making out like teenagers in the back of a minivan, and Grant's update on CuteBoy, and mending a friendship with a former throuple he was a part of.
Voyeurism can also tie into cucking and queaning, or even stagging/vixening, and Bird reveals yet another fun fact about herself, and we learn about the difference between those things. Grant talks about a guy he was sending homemade porn with a f*cking machine to, and Bird has a friend who loves his wife so much he watches her while she hooks up with strangers.
What does aftercare look like if you bring in someone for a cuck/stag or quean/vix scene? Don't forget to negotiate beforehand! Plus we talk about some super interesting videos that Grant sent to Bird!
You can look forward to some upcoming episodes where we talk about toys, and different types of sexualities!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Huckleberry/Blueberry Lemonade!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
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This week Grant and Bird do part 2 the Kink of the Week series: Exhibitionism. Grant heads up this conversation because he identifies as an exhibitionist!
Grant talks a little bit about his homework he did for his list of aftercare things he loves, and Bird gives an update on "Hunter"!
We share a little bit about what forms exhibitionism might take (however it's not limited to these things). Grant introduces Bird to the world of Twitter porn. And Bird shares and embarrassing story!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Blueberry Seltzer & Blood Orange Pomegranate Seltzer!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com
This week Grant and Bird kick off the Kink of the Week series for the next few weeks with part one in a set of three: Porn; Exhibitionism; Voyeurism. These all tie in together and now you get to learn what they've been learning and diving into and how these are related to each other!
Grant did his homework this week, and we get to hear about his BDSMtest.org results! Bird also shares a little bit more of her results as well.
Weekly update includes a new potential partner for Bird! Ah, the NRE is strong with this one!
All kinds of different porn is explored, be that written form, or maybe even just the traditional audio/visual. We cover a lot of the pro's and con's of the porn industry and how it may affect people, both good and bad. And we share of the more wild things we've come across! Grant also shares his high school trip to Pompeii and the early brothels in the area.
We wrap up with our first listener email, and share some really great questions we got asked. If you'd like to submit a story, or some questions for us to answer on the show, visit our website https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/ and you can use the form to submit to us (with consent of course)!
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The drink this week is a Blueberry Muffin Sour Ale & Crangerine Cider!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
Dating apps are one of the most common ways people in this day and age meet other potential mates. Some are better than others, but mostly it's a tough place to find a match (even if you're monogamous)! We cover a handful of very popular dating apps we currently use, including the ones we got banned from! But juggling apps is genuinely not easy, so if you're struggling don't worry you're not alone!
Bird shares a fun fact the genuinely takes Grant by surprise.
Dating app etiquette (or more like some great suggestions from Bird as to what is appealing in a dating profile, and what is a "hard left"). Starting with what photos to use/not use, what kinds of bio's are cringey and which ones sound appetizing, and what conversation killers to avoid!
We cover the best top 10 dating apps for BDSM and Kink people, and get into Fetlife.com (where we take some time to update and polish Grant's profile)! Grant's homework is to do the BDSMtest.org and see how he ranks for things that he's into, we highly recommend you take the test too and see what you're into as well.
What better way to tie consent and kinky website/dating apps together, than Bird's top 5 Rules for Sending Photos of Your Junk. Consent is key, baby!
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The drink this week is an X Rated Pornstar!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com
